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The MENtal Muscle-Up Podcast: The Cure For Mental Masturbation

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Welcome to the Mental Muscle-Up Podcast, the no-BS show that is the cure for Male Mental Masturbation.


If you're a podcast junkie, self-improvement buff, and fitness fanatic like me, then this podcast is for you.


To quote Derek Sivers, “If more information was the answer, then we’d all be billionaires with perfect abs.”

By focusing on quality over quantity when it comes to the content calories we consume from podcasts like Mind Pump, Modern Wisdom, Wits and Weights, The Tim Ferriss Show, and Huberman Lab, we will use gym principles like Progressive Overload, and Specificity to


Raise the Bar in Our Relationships

Muscle-Up Our Mindset and Mental Health

Power Up Our Sense of Purpose, and

Build Bodies That Personify Peak Performance


Every episode of the Mental Muscle-Up Podcast inspires you to cure Male Mental Masturbation - which is defined as a term for overthinking or engaging in intellectual pursuits without practical application - as we go from passive consumption to immediate implementation with what we call the PodWod - your Podcast Workout of the Day.


Just like a training program in the gym, each PodWod gives a specific number of sets and reps in the form of questions and actions as we work on achieving the best podcast pump possible.


Since life is the ultimate workout, it’s time to start training for it. So hit subscribe, and stay tuned as we take the best of what works inside the gym and apply it outside the gym to Muscle-Up every area of our lives.


Welcome to the Mental Muscle-Up Podcast.

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Episodes

4 Warning Signs That A Man Is On Track for An Emotional Breakdown

July 11, 2024 10:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

🤔 EP012 - Would you want to know if you were headed down the road toward a major breakdown because of anxiety, stress, or depression before it’s too late? FACT - Like a physical disease, a mental disease isn’t something that just happens overnight. Rarely do we just have a breakdown out of nowhere as opposed to it being something that, if we simply paid attention to the warning signs, we would not only be able to predict but more importantly prevent. 🎙️ In today’s PodWod, we’re gonna be st...

The Disturbing Dad Bod - Who’s to Blame and What Are We Gonna Do About It?

July 10, 2024 10:00 - 19 minutes - 13.4 MB

🤬 WTFU 003 - Do men not give a shit about their physical health and fitness or is there something more to it than that? FACT - Most men are fat and out of shape. But is it as simple as saying we don’t care or lack self-discipline and willpower? While there is certainly an argument to be made for those factors, I would take a HARD stance on the fact that the Health & Fitness Industry is where the majority of the fault is to be placed. 🎙️ In today's edition of WTFU Wednesdays, we’re turning ...

What Does It Mean to Be A Man’s Man?

July 09, 2024 10:00 - 42 minutes - 29 MB

🤔 EP011 - What kind of a man are you? While a seemingly rhetorical question, this is one that will ultimately determine the quality of your relationships, and therefore the quality of your life. FACT - Masculinity has never been so ambiguous as it is today, which means it’s getting harder and harder for men themselves to define what it means to ‘be a man’. Terms like ‘be the man’ or ‘man up’ are tossed around all the time when nobody seems to have taken the time to clearly define what doing...

4 Mistakes Nobody In the Health & Fitness Industry Is Talking About

July 04, 2024 10:00 - 37 minutes - 25.9 MB

🤔 EP010 - Do you value your PHYSICAL Health & Fitness? Ask most men this question and they’ll answer in the affirmative. Most if not all will even tell you why they value it. But if actions speak louder than words, and our collective actions can be expressed through some pretty depressing stats in terms of obesity, life expectancy, and the leading causes of death being preventable, do we as men appreciate the very real-world and immediate impacts of either prioritizing or neglecting our Ph...

WTFU Wednesdays: Why “Follow Your Passion” Is Horrible Advice

July 03, 2024 10:00 - 15 minutes - 10.7 MB

🤔 WTFU 002 - Is following your passion really the best advice for people who want to live their dream life? 🗣️ “What determines your success isn’t, “What do you want to enjoy?” The relevant question is, “What pain do you want to sustain?” The path to happiness is full of shit-heaps and shame." - Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck FACT - The ‘follow your passion’ gurus out there, while mostly well-meaning - are full of shit. Passion isn’t something you find, it’s something you ...

Thinking About Starting Your Own Business? Think Again!

July 02, 2024 10:00 - 43 minutes - 29.7 MB

🤔 EP009 - Is there a not-so-sunny side of being your own boss aka an entrepreneur that few successful entrepreneurs (and especially wantrepreneurs) spend any real amount of time talking about? Is it really all sunshine and rainbows when you finally ‘find your purpose’ and pursue your passion’ or is there a buffet of shit sandwiches that you best develop an affinity for? 🗣️ “Who you are is defined by what you’re willing to struggle for. “What PAIN do you want in your life? What are you willi...

Why Are Men So Emotionally F*cked Up?

June 27, 2024 10:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

🤔 EP008 - Are we completely clueless when it comes to happiness and suffering? Has what we’ve been taught about how to achieve happiness and reduce suffering led us to shitting the bed with both of those things? 🗣️ “We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high.” -  Mark Manson FACT - Happiness and suffering are two sides of the same coin, and you cannot have one without the other. But if you don’t know what brings genuine happiness or how to interpret genuine suff...

Wake-Up Wednesdays: What Should You Do If Your Relationship Is Having Issues?

June 26, 2024 10:00 - 16 minutes - 11.5 MB

🤔 Who is to blame for the challenges you have in your relationship? 🗣️ “I learned the hard way that if the people in your relationships are selfish and doing hurtful things, it’s likely that you are too, you just don’t realize it.- Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck FACT - No healthy relationship is without its challenges. But who is to blame for those challenges? Does it ever really boil down to your wife being a bitch or you being an insensitive prick, or is it a little more...

WTFU Wednesdays: What Should You Do If Your Relationship Is Having Issues?

June 26, 2024 10:00 - 16 minutes - 11.5 MB

🤔 WTFU 001 - Who is to blame for the challenges you have in your relationship? 🗣️ “I learned the hard way that if the people in your relationships are selfish and doing hurtful things, it’s likely that you are too, you just don’t realize it.- Mark Mason, The Subtle Art of Not Giving A Fuck FACT - No healthy relationship is without its challenges. But who is to blame for those challenges? Does it ever really boil down to your wife being a bitch or you being an insensitive prick, or is it a ...

The Pandemic of Social Media and Its Effect on Real-Life Relationships

June 25, 2024 11:00 - 36 minutes - 24.8 MB

🤔 EP007 - Has social media brought us closer together or driven us further apart? 🗣️ “We are more connected than ever, yet loneliness is at an all-time high.” -  Mark Manson FACT - Both the gym and social media are filled with all different kinds of people. What matters most is what YOU do when you get there. Your actions, both on social media and at the gym, are an expression of who you are and what you value most. 🎙️ In today’s PodWod,  we're gonna dive deep into whether or not social m...

Top 5 Training Principles to Help You ‘Man Up’ - How to Manage Mental Masturbation Bootcamp: Finale

June 18, 2024 11:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

🤬 EP006 - Why do most men have such a hard time getting their shit together? Why does it seem that regardless of the number of podcasts, men's groups, and countless other amazing resources available to us as a sex, we are falling further and further behind? 🗣️ “As to methods, there may be a million and then some, but principles are few. The man who grasps principles can successfully select his own methods. The man who tries methods, ignoring principles, is sure to have trouble.” - Harringt...

3 Words That Will Help You Man Up For Realz: How to Master Mental Masturbation Bootcamp - Part IV

June 13, 2024 17:00 - 31 minutes - 21.7 MB

🤔 EP005 - Why do most men end up living lives of quiet desperation? 🎙️ “Don’t talk, just act. Don’t say, just show. Don’t promise, just prove.” - Unknown 🎧 What keeps up from doing the shit we know we need to do to improve our lives? How many times have you said to yourself, 'This time it's going to be different. This time I'm actually going to make it work.'? Whether it's improving the quality of your relationship with your partner, starting a new business venture, getting to the gym a...

The 3 Big Lifts for Gaining Mastery Over Mental Masturbation: How to Manage Mental Masturbation Bootcamp: Part III

June 10, 2024 18:00 - 32 minutes - 22.5 MB

🤔 EP004 - How can you avoid the #1 regret of the dying, "I wish I'd had lived a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."? 🎙️ “You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems.” - James Clear 🎧 Out of all the regrets I have in my life, this is the one that seems to resurface over and over again as I entertain my demons, and let the fear of what others may think of me keep me from sharing my true authentic self with the world. But is this an...

What Is Mental Masturbation Costing You? How to Manage Mental Masturbation Bootcamp: Part II

June 06, 2024 13:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MB

🤔 EP003 - What are the very real-world costs of Mental Masturbation? - How to Manage Mental Masturbation Bootcamp: Part II 🎙️ “It is equally important to measure the atrocious cost of inaction. Inaction is the greatest risk of all.” - Tim Ferriss 🎧 Mental Masturbation is more than just a catchy term. I truly believe that it is one of the root causes of the pandemic that is male suffering. When we think about the things we regret in our lives, it's typically what we did NOT do - aka the INA...

How Guilty ARE You of Mental Masturbation? How to Manage Mental Masturbation Bootcamp Part I

June 04, 2024 15:00 - 24 minutes - 17.2 MB

🤔 EP002 - Are you even aware of how guilty you are when it comes to Mental Masturbation? 🎙️ “The first step in solving any problem is recognizing there is one.” - Jeff Daniels playing Will McAvoy in the Newsroom 🎧 Whether we want to admit it or not, we’re all guilty of Mental Masturbation to one extent or another. The first step in getting over any addiction - and trust me, Mental Masturbation IS an addiction - is admitting that you have one. In today’s PodWod you’ll be answering 5 quest...

How Do You MMU? How to Muscle-Up Every Area of Your Life

May 31, 2024 19:00 - 18 minutes - 12.7 MB

EP001 - "You do not rise to the level of your goals. You fall to the level of your systems." - James Clear, Atomic Habits 🤔 Did you know that June is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month? ⚠️ FACT: Most men live lives of quiet desperation not because they don't have the potential to be better, but rather because the system they have for tapping into that potential is shit or non-existent. 😔 And when you can't tap into your potential, guess what happens to your mental health? I can tell you ...

Welcome to the Mental Muscle-Up Podcast: How to Muscle-Up Every Area of Your Life!

May 30, 2024 23:00 - 1 minute - 1.09 MB

What exactly is Mental Masturbation?  It’s listening to podcasts passively versus immediately implementing what you learn It’s being part of a men’s group where you talk about your problems versus what you’ve attempted to do to solve them It’s writing in your men's or gratitude journal about your thoughts and feelings so you can manage the stress of being a man versus writing out the action steps necessary to deal with your very real-world problems Long story short, Male Mental Masturbat...

FINAL EPISODE EVER - The End of Inspired By Impact

March 11, 2024 00:00 - 22 minutes - 15.8 MB

EP119 - This will be the last episode of Inspired By Impact ever! Why? There are three reasons that I will summarize with three quotes, all of which I will dive into detail about in today's episode. Quote #1 - "Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority it’s time to pause and reflect.” - Mark Twain Long Story Short: I'm tired of being on the side of the majority and it's about fucking time to switch things up. Quote #2 (two-parter) - “Would you consume your own content? If no...

Top 5 Depression DOs and DON'Ts - Are You Making Depressed People Feel Even Worse?

February 02, 2024 17:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MB

EP118 - If you suffer from depression, what do you wish people would stop doing that you don't have the heart to tell them but wish somebody would? For those of us who have a very intimate and long-term relationship with depression, it can be hard to communicate with others about what's going on for you, what you need, and what pisses you off. I've been in an almost constant state of depression for about the past month now, and while I know my loved ones only want to help, there are certai...

What Do You Do When You Hit Rock Bottom and You Feel Like There's No Way Out?

January 15, 2024 19:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MB

What do you do when you hit rock bottom? How do you get yourself to do the shit you know you need to do but have no fucking idea how to get yourself to do it? What can you do to begin digging yourself out of your self-made pit to gain the clarity and confidence you need to get your shot together and finally start taking steps in the right direction? Yeah...today is going to be a deep dive into the world of PURPOSE and how suffering with depression can keep us from knowing and fulfilling ou...

Do You Struggle With Self-Confidence? Here's What to Do About It

January 08, 2024 19:00 - 14 minutes - 9.8 MB

"Remember...it's not the mountains ahead of you to climb that wear you out. It's the pebble in your shoe." What is the ONE PERSISTENT PROBLEM you've been facing for months or perhaps years that you can't get past no matter how much you try? For me, it's breaking through on a BUSINESS level - being afraid to take my products, services, and myself to market. What is it for you?  Specifically, which area of the PREP Work - Purpose, Relationships, Emotional, or Physical - have you been strug...

23 Regrets From 2023 and 23 Steps I Am Taking In 2024

January 02, 2024 10:00 - 52 minutes - 35.8 MB

EP117 - The number one regret of the dying is, "I wish I had lived a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me." I can't even quantify how much time I waste worrying about what others think of me, what other people think I should do, or basing what I should do on what other people are doing, all of which are the perfect road map to regretting the life I live. All I can do is reflect on some of my regrets and develop small, specific, and simple steps to leverage the lessons wi...

How to Find and Fulfill Your Purpose In 2024

January 01, 2024 19:00 - 16 minutes - 11.4 MB

How are we going to make sure that 2024 is one of the best years of our lives? I obviously can't answer that for you but for me, I know it's going to boil down to one thing above all - fulfillment of purpose. But fulfilling your purpose means you first need to get clear on what your purpose is. In other words, what is the VISION you have for yourself and the effect you want to have on the lives of the people you love the most and/or the world as a whole? That's what I'm going to dive into...

MMU Mondays - Achieving Sustainable Joy, Overcoming Perfectionism, and Cultvating Clarity When You Feel Frustrated and Stuck

December 25, 2023 10:00 - 21 minutes - 14.9 MB

Welcome to another edition of MMU Mondays! Here's what we be training today: MMU #1 (1:59) - What can you do to elevate your state of being for sustainable joy? MMU #2 (10:16) - How to overcome being a "perfectionist" when being such is either causing you to procrastinate, causing you to take way more time getting shit done than you should, or both MMU #3 (14:28) - What's the fastest way to get over the roadblocks that are keeping you from achieving your goals? (HINT: Think WHO not WHAT ...

The FINALE! Day 24 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - The Biggest Challenge Facing Men Today

December 24, 2023 10:00 - 10 minutes - 7.56 MB

What is the single hardest thing a man can do in his life? Today is going to reveal the answer to that question, and while that question may yield some subjective answers, I know that the answer herein has been the biggest challenge in my life, no question. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My Brother Blake, who along with George and Susie, is shedding some much-needed light on topics most are too afraid to speak about and share. You can hear more from Blake on IG  His Podcast Inspired By Impact EP110 (...

Day 23 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - The Price We Pay For Happiness

December 23, 2023 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.52 MB

Would you want to know if you were full of shit? "Fine" has become a knee-jerk response for a lot of us when asked how we're doing. Much the same way, most people would say that they're happy. But are they really? Today, we're going to trigger some folks by having them take a hard look in the mirror and see if they're wearing a mask they label as happy when, in fact, they are anything but. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO A man who is leading the charge when it comes to bringing to light the real-life ch...

Day 22 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - This Is the REAL Reason (Some) Men Can't Talk

December 22, 2023 10:00 - 10 minutes - 7.13 MB

What if a man's inability to say what he's feeling isn't a matter of choice but a matter of psychology? How many men have been falsely accused of not 'opening up' by their partners? I really hope that anyone who has ever accused a man of doing that listens to this episode because it will sprinkle some much-needed compassion on a man's inability to express his emotions. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO One of the most amazing women I have ever had the pleasure of getting to know, Susie Bennett, who you can...

Day 21 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - A Key to Productivity Most People Ignore

December 21, 2023 10:00 - 10 minutes - 7.32 MB

Why do most of us quit doing things we say we want to do and know we should do? Is it a lack of willpower, discipline, or desire? I don't think so. I know that's not the case because one other simple yet powerful tip has helped me stick with habits you once upon a time couldn't pay me to do. That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 21 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO Another one of my Aussie Brothers DJ who is taking personal transformation to a whole new level by helpin...

Day 20 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - What To Do When Life Punches You In the Face

December 20, 2023 10:00 - 7 minutes - 5.07 MB

How do you keep going when life keeps knocking you down? You can't just stay down forever, and we can only structure so much in our lives before someone or something throws a wrench in our plans.  So what do you do when shit just doesn't go as planned? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 20 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My Aussie Sista Kate who popped her IBI cherry alongside her husband Jai on EP108 of IBI. You can connect with Kate on  IG | Her Website Inspir...

Day 19 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - What To Do When You Hit A Wall And Want To Quit

December 19, 2023 10:00 - 8 minutes - 6.14 MB

What do you do when you hit a wall and want to quit?  Pushing through it won't work. Giving up isn't an option. So then what strategy that works wonders inside the gym can we take and use outside the gym? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 19 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My Aussie Brother Jai who has one of the most amazing life stories you will ever hear. You can connect with Jai on  IG | His Website Inspired By Impact EP108 (Apple | Spotify)  📖 JOIN THE CH...

MMU Mondays - The Game w/ Alex Hermozi: Why I Don't Follow My Feelings (EP642)

December 18, 2023 23:00 - 15 minutes - 10.9 MB

How can you start to get more out of the podcasts you're listening to? Today's episode marks yet another milestone on the Inspired By Impact journey as my target of passing the MMU Mic to my Brothers has been hit. Just like in the gym, when you want to up your game start training alongside people who are upping theirs. Today, with the help of my Brothers Allan and Philip, we are running episode number 642 of The Game with Alex Hermozi  - Why I Don't Follow My Feelings - through the MMU ...

Day 18 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - What If the Work You're Putting In Isn't Working?

December 18, 2023 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.62 MB

For all the men out there who think you can just put your head down and work through your problems, you'll want to listen to this one. What if taking 5 minutes a day to do one simple thing was all it took to get your shit together and improve the quality of every area of your life? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 18 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My Hypno-Mindset and Performance Coach (who also happens to be an amazing fucking guy!) Paul Salter IG  Inspired ...

Day 17 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - How Do You Practice Being A Better Man?

December 17, 2023 10:00 - 7 minutes - 5.38 MB

What's one of the hardest things about becoming a better man? Practicing the shit that helps us become better men! That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 17 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO The Physique Engineer himself, making his second appearance in the Challenge, Mr. Philip Pape, who you can check out on IG | Podcast (Apple | Spotify) | Website  Inspired By Impact EP107 (Apple | Spotify)  📖 JOIN THE CHALLENGE ON IG! You don't have to struggle alone, my Brother. ...

Day 16 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - Why Most Men Go Around In Circles

December 16, 2023 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.54 MB

How are you about asking for help, my Brother? That was a rhetorical question. You suck at it. But what's the real benefit that you may be overlooking when it comes to asking for help? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 16 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO A fellow Canuck Brother Mr. Robert 'BobbyT' Tynsdale who you can connect with on IG  Inspired By Impact EP106 (Apple | Spotify)  📖 JOIN THE CHALLENGE ON IG! You don't have to struggle alone, my Brother. Nor do ...

Day 15 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - The Main Thing That Makes Men Idiots

December 15, 2023 10:00 - 8 minutes - 6.13 MB

How are you about asking for help, my Brother? That was a rhetorical question. You suck at it. But what's the real benefit that you may be overlooking when it comes to asking for help? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 15 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO A Brother who has become my #1 motivational angel in my ear, Mr. Allan who you can connect with on IG  Inspired By Impact EP106 (Apple | Spotify)  📖 JOIN THE CHALLENGE ON IG! You don't have to struggle alone, m...

Day 14 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - Where Did You Give Up On Life?

December 14, 2023 10:00 - 8 minutes - 5.89 MB

Settling down is one of the worst things a man can do. I'm not talking about getting married. I'm talking about settling for the status quo because you've forgotten that once upon a time you had a little something called ambition. So how do you get it back? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 14 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO The co-host of the STR8.Love podcast, and my oldest friend DP, who you connect with on IG | Podcast (Apple | Spotify)  Inspired By Impact ...

Philip, DP, and James - When Is Our Job As Men Done?

December 14, 2023 10:00 - 1 hour - 59.7 MB

EP116 - As a man, when do you stop growing? Is there ever a point where your marriage or relationship, your skills as a father, and your job as a provider are 'done' or 'good enough'? If you're truly into self-development, is this an infinite game or does there come a point where you can say, 'You know what? I'm good!'? I had a couple of different conversations around this with three of my closest Brothers, and as per usual, I got some pretty interesting takes on whether or not it's okay t...

Day 13 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - How Do You Control Your Mental Health?

December 13, 2023 10:00 - 11 minutes - 7.71 MB

If you suffer from depression, anxiety, or stress, is there ONE THING you can shift in your life that will completely change the game when it comes to your mental health? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 13 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO The Physique Engineer himself, Mr. Philip Pape, who you can check out IG | Podcast (Apple | Spotify) | Website  Inspired By Impact EP106 (Apple | Spotify)  📖 JOIN THE CHALLENGE ON IG! You don't have to struggle alone, my Bro...

Day 12 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - Turn Your Bad Days Into Better Bad Days

December 12, 2023 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.25 MB

If what you do on your bad days is more important than what you do on your good days, how do you start having better bad days? That's exactly what we be tackling in Day 12 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge! 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO The Undisputed Miles Mac Collegiate Musical Chairs Champion - and one of my oldest and closest Brothers - James Jaworsky, who you can hear much more from on EP106 of Inspired By Impact (Apple | Spotify).  📖 JOIN THE CHALLENGE ON IG! You don't have to struggle alone, my ...

The Brotherhood - How to Avoid Going In Circles and Get Shit Done In 2024

December 12, 2023 10:00 - 22 minutes - 15.6 MB

115 - How do you remain laser-focused on achieving what's most important to you so that come New Year's Eve 2024, you're not looking back on the last year (starting in only a few weeks) and see that all those grand plans you had were only that - plans!? Today is a MASSIVE day for me because one of MY main goals for the year is coming to fruition inside this episode. I have always wanted to share the MMU Mic with my nearest and dearest Brothers so that you can hear the magic I am surrounded...

Day 11 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - Porn Vs Purpose

December 11, 2023 10:00 - 11 minutes - 7.69 MB

Porn, social media, alcohol...how do you sedate to escape reality? More importantly, is your sedation element of choice the sign of something more serious? Hearing another man talk about being 'comfortably numb' and what that looks like in practice was an eye-opening moment for me, and I'm hoping after listening to today's episode, it will be eye-opening for you as well. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO One of the most loving, compassionate, expressive, and supportive Brothers I have ever had, Mr. Dennis ...

MMU Mondays - The Most Important Question Any Entrepreneur Will Ever Ask Himself

December 11, 2023 10:00 - 13 minutes - 9.41 MB

What do you do when the vision you have for yourself and your business goes against the norm and you're not sure if the world is ready for or even wants what you have to offer? That's what we're tackling in today's edition of MMU Mondays. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO Chris Williamson and Dr. Jordan Peterson on episode #712 of Modern Wisdom (Spotify | Apple)  📖 RESOURCE - The MMU (aka the Mental Muscle-Up) Questions Click Here to get the full MMU Blueprint that you'll find inside the Brotherhood Boot...

Day 10 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - Excuses vs Results: You Can't Have Both

December 10, 2023 10:00 - 10 minutes - 7.23 MB

What excuses are you making a part of your identity that - you may not want to hear this - are bullshit excuses? Mine? 'I'm depressed' is one of the big ones, until I realized that while it may be a serious mental health condition that requires professional support, for me at times it's the ultimate 'out' when it comes to keeping commitments to myself and others. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO The one-of-a-kind Josie Warren, who you can connect with on her Website, and hear much more from on EP085 of In...

Day 9 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - I Love You, MAN!

December 09, 2023 10:00 - 12 minutes - 8.76 MB

Is your wife or girlfriend your BEST friend? If so, you could be in trouble. As much as I love Jennilee, it took us breaking up to realize that I need men in my life to help carry the weight and pressures of being a man. Putting everything on Jennilee - my business ideas, my fitness ideas, my life challenges, EVERYTHING - was not fair. So what did I do about it, more importantly, if YOUR wife or girlfriend is your be-all-end-all (or you have a Brother who fits that description), you'll wan...

Carl Berryman - Why Passively Consuming Content Is Getting You Nowhere

December 08, 2023 17:00 - 1 hour - 50.4 MB

EP114 - What's the point of listening to a podcast if you're not going to take action? Don't get me wrong...sometimes I just want to relax and listen to one of my favorite podcasts but for me - and I'm willing to bet you as well if you're listening to this - I listen to podcasts because I want to grow, expand, and get better! For years I let the dramatic dopamine hits of listening to amazing ideas flood my world and leave no time/room for action as I consumed more and more content. But t...

Day 8 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - How to Eliminate Stress In Your Relationship

December 08, 2023 10:00 - 6 minutes - 4.48 MB

Are you like me and most other men in that you're a fixer?  You know...your wife, partner, or Brother comes to you with a problem, and even before the words are out of their mouth, you're already thinking of (or worse yet, telling them) the solution? What if there was something so simple and so obvious that would make your life WAY easier while ensuring the other person doesn't end up shitting all over you for offering your help? That's what we'll tackle in today's Challenge. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT...

Day 7 - It's Not Me, It's YOU!

December 07, 2023 10:00 - 11 minutes - 8.17 MB

How many times have you been in a difficult conversation with your partner only to be totally surprised (and perhaps pissed off by) the way that they react? Are they the problem or are you? Rather than play the blame game, wouldn't it make more sense to see how you can not only handle the situation better the next time around but maybe...just maybe...prevent the house from burning down in the first place? 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My dear friend and Brother Jeff Zacharski for inspiring today's chal...

Day 6 - How Well Do You Know Your Partner REALLY?

December 06, 2023 10:00 - 9 minutes - 6.26 MB

How would you know if your partner feels loved and supported as opposed to neglected and unimportant? Go ahead and assume your partner feels loved but I'm pretty sure that assumption was made by almost all of the 70% of men who's wives initiated the divorce. Whether in your romantic relationship or with your Brothers, you'll rarely go wrong when you become aware of the little things you can do that will have the biggest impact. 👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My amazing new doctor friend Dr. Anne for ins...

The Brotherhood - Why You Need to Stop Listening to the Gurus and Connect With the Guy Next Door

December 05, 2023 10:00 - 56 minutes - 38.8 MB

EP113 - What happens when you connect men who are in the business of becoming better men? Shit. Gets. Done!  As you'll hear right away, there is a massive difference between knowing the path and walking the path, and these three men who I am blessed and honored to call my Brothers are not just walking the path but paving it for any man ready to follow in their footsteps. This episode is proof of the fact that, as ma man DP put it so perfectly, 'Good people are hard to find but they shouldn...

Day 5 of the 24 Before 2024 Challenge - What Kind of A Man Are You?

December 05, 2023 10:00 - 8 minutes - 5.7 MB

How do your relationships affect your mental health? Or is it the fact that your mental health affects your relationships that you need to be concerned with?  While I can't tell you what the answer is for you, I can tell you that you'd be dangerously foolish to think that it's not a two-way street.  👊🏾 SHOUT-OUT TO My poetic Brotha Max Stossel for inspiring today's challenge. You can connect with Max on  IG, hit up his Website, or hear more from him on the Inspired By Impact Podcast (Appl...