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back from the borderline

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You can perform emotional alchemy and I will show you how.



The idea of alchemy is to reduce something with fire – burning it down so that something new can rise from the ashes. You can do this with your personality, too. You’ve always had the power; you just didn’t know that. Now you do.


 

Highly sensitive, emotional, and intuitive children are often impacted most severely by dysfunctional family dynamics, childhood emotional neglect, sexual abuse, grooming, generational trauma, and inherited toxic shame. As adults, these same children often find themselves with a disorder or dysfunction label, as mainstream psychiatry tries to convince them that the root of their suffering is due to a disordered personality or chemical imbalance.



Our current medical model of mental health is quick to pathologize. Psychiatrists and therapists operating within this model often ask, “What’s wrong with you?” but rarely, “What *happened* to you?” Personalities are not cancerous tumors; psychological suffering cannot be accurately understood or treated through the lens of a purely medical model. We have to go deeper. And that's exactly what we do here on Back from the Borderline.



A path toward healing exists, even though I know it can feel impossible when you’re looking up from rock bottom.



Through working with and integrating the concepts we explore in each episode together, you’ll learn to:



✧ Better regulate, name and process your emotions

✧ Understand and reduce chronic feelings of emptiness

✧ Confront and uproot your toxic shame

✧ Put an end to recurring patterns of self-sabotage

✧ Connect with your Higher Self

✧ Break the cycle of generational family trauma

✧ Set healthier boundaries with yourself and others

✧ Recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships

✧ Heal from a chronic need to please and seek validation from others



Tune in and prepare yourself to be standing in the ashes of the person you used to be. New episodes drop every Tuesday.


 

As for me? I'm Mollie Adler. A disillusioned millennial, podcaster, writer, creative, existential thinker, obsessive researcher (huge nerd), and fellow f*cked up human desperately trying to find meaning in a society and culture that seems to be devoid of it. To read my Substack articles, access my Amazon book recommendation list, submit a voicemail, or contact me for collaborations, visit https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline



Anyone – even you – can come Back From the Borderline. 𓆩ᥫ᭡𓆪 


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Episodes

How to move to the next phase of your recovery journey and stop using sex as as self-harm

May 04, 2022 20:11 - 36 minutes - 66.9 MB

Hi my lovelies! I'm popping in mid-week with an extra special treat. You can now officially send me voicemails to hear your questions answered on episodes of the podcast. On this mini bonus episode, I'll be playing my first voicemail question from listener Kelly, who asked me about how to move to the next phase of her recovery journey.The final part of the episode is a sneak peek of this week's premium episode where I dive into ALL THINGS sex as self-harm. ❤️Are you ready to take your recov...

no strings attached: the impact casual sex can have on our mental health

May 04, 2022 20:11 - 36 minutes - 66.9 MB

On this mini bonus episode, I'll be playing my first voicemail question from listener Kelly, who asked me about how to move to the next phase of her recovery journey. The final part of the episode is a sneak peek of this week's premium episode where I dive into ALL THINGS sex as self-harm. FULL ACCESS // CLICK HERE to unlock full future + past episodes and hundreds of hours of bonus content (including voice notes from me) as a Premium Submarine on Patreon.   CONNECT WITH ME // CLICK HERE ...

understanding hyper-sexuality: how a history of trauma leads to sex as self-harm

May 04, 2022 18:51 - 1 hour - 84.1 MB

I did extensive research on how many of us struggling with complex trauma tend to use sex and intimacy as an unhealthy coping mechanism and how this can actually be a form of self-abandonment and re-traumatization. Questions answered and concepts explored in this episode: Compulsive sexual behavior & hyper-sexuality, The connection between personality disorders and compulsive sexual activity Sexual masochism / Sex as Self-Harm (and its many forms) The dangers of sex work when we've not ...

Exploring Hyper-sexuality: Is your trauma history causing you to use sex as self-harm?

May 04, 2022 18:51 - 1 hour - 84.1 MB

I did extensive research on how many of us struggling with complex trauma tend to use sex and intimacy as an unhealthy coping mechanism and how this can actually be a form of self-abandonment and re-traumatization. Questions answered and concepts explored in this episode: Compulsive sexual behavior & hyper-sexuality, The connection between personality disorders and compulsive sexual activity Sexual masochism / Sex as Self-Harm (and its many forms) The dangers of sex work when we've not ...

Deep Dive on Sex as Self-Harm and "Survival Sex" in Trauma Recovery

May 04, 2022 18:51 - 1 hour - 84.1 MB

I did extensive research on how many of us struggling with complex trauma tend to use sex and intimacy as an unhealthy coping mechanism and how this can actually be a form of self-abandonment and re-traumatization. ​​💡 Questions answered in this episode: Compulsive sexual behavior & hyper-sexuality, The connection between personality disorders and compulsive sexual activity Sexual masochism / Sex as Self-Harm (and its many forms) The traumatic roots of BPD The dangers of sex work when ...

Reclaiming Your Sexuality After Being Sexualized with Dr. Alexandra Solomon

May 02, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 79.6 MB

On this episode of the podcast, I sat down with licensed clinical psychologist, professor, speaker, author and retreat leader Dr. Alexandra Solomon to discuss how we can rediscover what a connection to the erotic looks like for ourselves and how to become more deeply grounded in pleasure - with or without a partner. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF YOU HAVE EVER: ■ Felt so disconnected from your erotic nature that you’ve wondered if maybe you were asexual? ■ Spent much of your life feeling lik...

From Objectification to Empowerment: A Guide to Reclaiming Your Sexual Agency

May 02, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 79.6 MB

On this episode of the podcast, I sat down with licensed clinical psychologist, professor, speaker, author and retreat leader Dr. Alexandra Solomon to discuss how we can rediscover what a connection to the erotic looks like for ourselves and how to become more deeply grounded in pleasure - with or without a partner. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF YOU HAVE EVER: ■ Felt so disconnected from your erotic nature that you’ve wondered if maybe you were asexual? ■ Spent much of your life feeling lik...

reclaiming your sexual agency after chronic objectification with dr. alexandra solomon

May 02, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 79.6 MB

On this episode of the podcast, I sat down with licensed clinical psychologist, professor, speaker, author and retreat leader Dr. Alexandra Solomon to discuss how we can rediscover what a connection to the erotic looks like for ourselves and how to become more deeply grounded in pleasure - with or without a partner. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF YOU HAVE EVER: ■ Felt so disconnected from your erotic nature that you’ve wondered if maybe you were asexual? ■ Spent much of your life feeling lik...

How to reclaim your sexuality after feeling like a sexual object (ft. Dr. Alexandra Solomon)

May 02, 2022 10:00 - 42 minutes - 79.6 MB

On this episode of the podcast, I sat down with licensed clinical psychologist, professor, speaker, author and retreat leader Dr. Alexandra Solomon to discuss how we can rediscover what a connection to the erotic looks like for ourselves and how to become more deeply grounded in pleasure - with or without a partner. THIS EPISODE IS FOR YOU IF YOU HAVE EVER: ■ Felt so disconnected from your erotic nature that you’ve wondered if maybe you were asexual? ■ Spent much of your life feeling lik...

*Announcement* (listen to the end to unlock bonus content ❤️)

April 28, 2022 00:24 - 14 minutes - 28.2 MB

I have some very big news that I want to share with super-fans of the podcast. Make sure to listen to the very end to hear about and unlock 3 exclusive bonus episodes. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information. Join the BFTB inner circle and unlock my premium content at https://plus.acast.com/s/back-from-the-borderline.

Witches & Borderline Bitches

April 24, 2022 22:40 - 1 hour - 49.1 MB

This episode will discuss psychiatry's problematic sexist and misogynistic history. According to Dr. Jessica Taylor (author of the new book "Sexy But Psycho"), "as of today, being female is widely reported as correlating with almost every mental disorder in the DSM-V. Women are more likely to be diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and somatic disorders. There are also more likely to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, general anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias, suicidal...

witches and borderline bitches: exploring the rampant sexism in psychiatry

April 24, 2022 22:40 - 1 hour - 49.1 MB

This episode will discuss psychiatry's problematic sexist and misogynistic history. According to Dr. Jessica Taylor (author of "Sexy But Psycho"), "as of today, being female is widely reported as correlating with almost every mental disorder in the DSM-V. Women are more likely to be diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and somatic disorders. They are also more likely to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, general anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias, suicidal ideation and ...

Why more women are diagnosed with BPD than men: sexism in psychiatry

April 24, 2022 22:40 - 1 hour - 49.1 MB

This episode will discuss psychiatry's problematic sexist and misogynistic history. According to Dr. Jessica Taylor (author of "Sexy But Psycho"), "as of today, being female is widely reported as correlating with almost every mental disorder in the DSM-V. Women are more likely to be diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and somatic disorders. They are also more likely to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, general anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias, suicidal ideation and...

Why does it feel like everyone with a formal BPD diagnosis is female?

April 24, 2022 22:40 - 1 hour - 49.1 MB

This episode will discuss psychiatry's problematic sexist and misogynistic history. According to Dr. Jessica Taylor (author of "Sexy But Psycho"), "as of today, being female is widely reported as correlating with almost every mental disorder in the DSM-V. Women are more likely to be diagnosed with depression, anxiety, and somatic disorders. They are also more likely to be diagnosed with borderline personality disorder, general anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias, suicidal ideation and ...

overcoming existential dread, death anxiety, and religious trauma

April 19, 2022 14:05 - 44 minutes - 35.3 MB

In this episode, we explore the topic of existential dread, death anxiety, spirituality, and religious trauma, and offer strategies for coping with these challenging experiences. You'll join my dog Cody and me for a walk as we discuss insights on how to find meaning and purpose in life despite the inevitability of death, and how spirituality can provide a source of comfort and solace in times of crisis. We also delve into the topic of religious trauma, discussing how to navigate the pain and...

Coping with Obsessive Thoughts of Death and Dying

April 19, 2022 14:05 - 44 minutes - 35.3 MB

I can’t promise that this episode will cure you of your fears or obsessions with death, but I *can* promise you that your perspective on it will shift – even just a little – after listening. And that, my friend, is progress.   In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a little ASMR chat as we walk through the woods. As we stroll together, we’ll discuss how the concept of death drives many of our unconscious and self-sabotaging behaviors (as well as those of the people around us....

Coping with obsessive thoughts of death and dying

April 19, 2022 14:05 - 44 minutes - 35.3 MB

I can’t promise that this episode will cure you of your fears or obsessions with death, but I *can* promise you that your perspective on it will shift – even just a little – after listening. And that, my friend, is progress. In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a little chat as we walk through the woods. As we stroll together, we’ll discuss how the concept of death drives many of our unconscious and self-sabotaging behaviors (as well as those of the people around us.) I'll als...

Navigating Existential Dread: Coping with Death Anxiety, Spirituality, and Religious Trauma

April 19, 2022 14:05 - 44 minutes - 35.3 MB

In this episode, we explore the topic of existential dread, death anxiety, spirituality, and religious trauma, and offer strategies for coping with these challenging experiences. You'll join my dog Cody and me for a walk as we discuss insights on how to find meaning and purpose in life despite the inevitability of death, and how spirituality can provide a source of comfort and solace in times of crisis. We also delve into the topic of religious trauma, discussing how to navigate the pain and...

The connection between BPD and existential dread and anxiety (the fear of "foreverness")

April 19, 2022 14:05 - 44 minutes - 35.3 MB

I can’t promise that this episode will cure you of your fears or obsessions with death, but I *can* promise you that your perspective on it will shift – even just a little – after listening. And that, my friend, is progress. In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a little chat as we walk through the woods. As we stroll together, we’ll discuss how the concept of death drives many of our unconscious and self-sabotaging behaviors (as well as those of the people around us.) I'll als...

The Art of Loving Yourself: A Deep Dive into Radical Self-Compassion

April 14, 2022 01:19 - 36 minutes - 29.1 MB

In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a walk in the witchy woods while I break in my new Dr. Marten boots. Spoiler alert: wearing those boots was a terrible choice. On our walk, I’ll explain why a book about self-compassion made me incredibly furious this week. After that, I’ll tell you why my spirit mother archetype is a mixture of RuPaul and Grandmother Willow from the 1995 Pocahontas movie.   Recommended resources: ■ Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Your...

POV: We’re walking my dog together while I vent angrily (ft. self-compassion)

April 14, 2022 01:19 - 36 minutes - 29.1 MB

In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a walk in the witchy woods while I break in my new Dr. Marten boots. (Spoiler alert: wearing those boots was a terrible choice.)   On our walk, I’ll explain why a book about self-compassion made me incredibly furious this week. After that, I’ll tell you why my spirit mother archetype is a mixture of RuPaul and Grandmother Willow from the 1995 Pocahontas movie.   Want to check out the book that inspired this episode? Click here to buy Se...

Soothing your BPD symptoms with radical self-compassion skills

April 14, 2022 01:19 - 36 minutes - 29.1 MB

In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a walk in the witchy woods while I break in my new Dr. Marten boots. Spoiler alert: wearing those boots was a terrible choice. On our walk, I’ll explain why a book about self-compassion made me incredibly furious this week. After that, I’ll tell you why my spirit mother archetype is a mixture of RuPaul and Grandmother Willow from the 1995 Pocahontas movie.   Recommended resources: ■ Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Your...

radical self-compassion: learning to love yourself (and finding your "touch tree")

April 14, 2022 01:19 - 36 minutes - 29.1 MB

In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a walk in the witchy woods while I break in my new Dr. Marten boots. On our walk, I’ll explain why a book about self-compassion made me incredibly furious this week. After that, I’ll tell you why my spirit mother archetype is a mixture of RuPaul and Grandmother Willow from the 1995 Pocahontas movie.   Recommended resources: ■ Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to Yourself by Kristen Neff ■ The Life Coach School Podcast with...

Can radical self-compassion help you finally stop hating the person in the mirror?

April 14, 2022 01:19 - 36 minutes - 29.1 MB

In this episode, you’ll join my dog Cody and me for a walk in the witchy woods while I break in my new Dr. Marten boots. Spoiler alert: wearing those boots was a terrible choice. On our walk, I’ll explain why a book about self-compassion made me incredibly furious this week. After that, I’ll tell you why my spirit mother archetype is a mixture of RuPaul and Grandmother Willow from the 1995 Pocahontas movie.   📝Recommended resources: ■ Self-Compassion: The Proven Power of Being Kind to You...

The Hormonal Rollercoaster: Navigating PMS, PMDD, and Birth Control for Better Mental Health

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

Do you experience intense mood swings, anxiety, or depression around your period? Are you curious about the impact of hormonal birth control on your mental health? In this episode, we dive into the complex world of PMS, PMDD, and hormonal birth control, exploring their effects on emotion regulation and mental health. We'll also discuss the different phases of the menstrual cycle and how practicing menstrual cycle awareness can help you manage your emotions and improve your well-being. A fe...

finding natural relief from PMS and PMDD with menstrual cycle awareness

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

Do you experience intense mood swings, anxiety, or depression around your period? Are you curious about the impact of hormonal birth control on your mental health? In this episode, we dive into the complex world of PMS, PMDD, and hormonal birth control, exploring their effects on emotion regulation and mental health. We'll also discuss the different phases of the menstrual cycle and how practicing menstrual cycle awareness can help you manage your emotions and improve your well-being. A few ...

Stuff Mom Never Told You About Your Period (Menstrual Cycle Awareness)

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

If the days leading up to your period have left you feeling like you were going to either die or murder someone you love, this episode is for you. Been there. I salute you. I. Feel. You. In today's episode, we'll discuss how we can begin to understand and work with our menstrual cycle's cyclical and spiritual nature for improved physical and emotional well-being.   A few months ago, I discovered the practice of "Menstrual Cycle Awareness" (MCA) through the work of RedSchool founders Alexan...

Is PMS or PMDD making your BPD symptoms even worse?

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

If the days leading up to your period have left you feeling like you were going to either die or murder someone you love, this episode is for you. Been there. I salute you. I. Feel. You. In today's episode, we'll discuss how we can begin to understand and work with our menstrual cycle's cyclical and spiritual nature for improved physical and emotional well-being. A few months ago, I discovered the practice of "Menstrual Cycle Awareness" (MCA) through the work of RedSchool founders Alexandra ...

Everything your mom never told you about your period (little-known PMS hacks)

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

If the days leading up to your period have left you feeling like you were going to either die or murder someone you love, this episode is for you. Been there. I salute you. I. Feel. You. In today's episode, we'll discuss how we can begin to understand and work with our menstrual cycle's cyclical and spiritual nature for improved physical and emotional well-being. A few months ago, I discovered the practice of "Menstrual Cycle Awareness" (MCA) through the work of RedSchool founders Alexandra ...

Struggling with PMS or PMDD? Listen to this. (Everything your mom never told you about your period)

April 04, 2022 00:53 - 2 hours - 97.2 MB

If the days leading up to your period have left you feeling like you were going to either die or murder someone you love, this episode is for you. Been there. I salute you. I. Feel. You. In today's episode, we'll discuss how we can begin to understand and work with our menstrual cycle's cyclical and spiritual nature for improved physical and emotional well-being. A few months ago, I discovered the practice of "Menstrual Cycle Awareness" (MCA) through the work of RedSchool founders Alexandra ...

Creating Beauty from Chaos: How to Channel Emotional Intensity into Artistic Expression

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is a 27-year-old Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness.   In this episode, we discuss Alessia's battle...

Channeling your emotional intensity into creative art that heals

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is a 27-year-old Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness.   In this episode, we discuss Alessia's battle...

Channeling your emotional intensity into art that heals (ft. Alessia Camoirano Bruges)

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is a 27-year-old Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness.   In this episode, we discuss Alessia's battle...

channeling your emotional intensity into artistic expression

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is an Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness. In this episode, we discuss Alessia's battle with her eati...

Channeling Emotional Intensity into Art That Heals (ft. Alessia Camoirano Bruges)

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is a 27-year-old Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness.   In this episode of the podcast, we discuss A...

channelling your emotional intensity into artistic expression

March 28, 2022 10:00 - 57 minutes - 45.8 MB

Alessia Camoirano Bruges is an Italian-Colombian artist based in London. Her unique “fluid art” is inspired by its ever-changing nature – just like humans and our emotions. She combines her passion for color psychology, color therapy, fluidity, and her emotional intensity into her artwork. She sees each piece as a cathartic experience in which she can connect to her inner child and relaxed into fully embodied presence & mindfulness. In this episode, we discuss Alessia's battle with her eati...

When your body isn't your own: what abusive relationships can teach you about love

March 20, 2022 23:54 - 1 hour - 81.8 MB

Reflecting on the Euphoria character "Cassie," Evan Rachel Wood's new documentary "Phoenix Rising" (about her alleged struggle with domestic violence, grooming, and sexual assault at the hands of singer Marilyn Manson), and recent events with Kim Kardashian and Kanye West inspired me to sit down and reflect on my own chaotic experiences with grooming, domestic violence and sexual assault throughout my teens and twenties. I realized that the thread that connected all of the chaos was an under...

What Abusive Relationships Taught Me About Love

March 20, 2022 23:54 - 1 hour - 81.8 MB

Reflecting on the Euphoria character "Cassie," Evan Rachel Wood's new documentary "Phoenix Rising" (about her struggle with domestic violence, grooming, and sexual assault at the hands of singer Marilyn Manson), and recent events with Kim Kardashian and Kanye West inspired me to sit down and reflect on my own chaotic experiences with grooming, domestic violence and sexual assault throughout my teens and twenties.   I realized that the thread that connected all of the chaos was an underlyin...

when your body isn't your own: what abusive relationships and grooming taught me about love

March 20, 2022 23:54 - 1 hour - 81.8 MB

Reflecting on the Euphoria character "Cassie," Evan Rachel Wood's new documentary "Phoenix Rising" (about her alleged struggle with domestic violence, grooming, and sexual assault at the hands of singer Marilyn Manson), and recent events with Kim Kardashian and Kanye West inspired me to sit down and reflect on my own chaotic experiences with grooming, domestic violence and sexual assault throughout my teens and twenties. I realized that the thread that connected all of the chaos was an under...

stuff i've learned the hard way so you don't have to (my most powerful recovery lessons)

March 14, 2022 01:15 - 1 hour - 64.4 MB

My realest and most powerful episode yet. We'll sit down together while I share the most important lessons I’ve learned in my recovery journey so far. Recovering from complex trauma and traits of borderline personality disorder is incredibly painful, but I want to share that there is hope. By the end of this episode, you'll understand why. I wish I'd had a friend who could have told me these things a lot earlier in my life. It is my hope that by sharing this with the world, it will find the ...

Things I've learned the hard way so you don't have to (my most powerful recovery lessons)

March 14, 2022 01:15 - 1 hour - 64.4 MB

My realest and most powerful episode yet. We'll sit down together while I share the most important lessons I’ve learned in my recovery journey so far. Recovering from complex trauma and traits of borderline personality disorder is incredibly painful, but I want to share that there is hope. By the end of this episode, you'll understand why. I wish I'd had a friend who could have told me these things a lot earlier in my life. It is my hope that by sharing this with the world, it will find the ...

The Most Powerful Recovery Lessons I’ve Learned So Far

March 14, 2022 01:15 - 1 hour - 64.4 MB

On this episode, we’ll sit down together and discuss the most important lessons I’ve learned in my recovery journey since starting the podcast eight months ago.   Below are all the topics I dive into:   ■ Friendships ■ Relationships ■ Spirituality ■ Social media ■ Setting boundaries ■ Becoming a better listener ■ How we can reconnect with our bodies ■ Being more authentically ourselves (releasing obsession with appearances) ■ Reflections on the tarot card The Tower (reading of th...

Heart-Coherent Relationships (ft. The Holistic Psychologist Dr. Nicole LaPera)

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Even before she came online as The Holistic Psychologist and amassed almost 5 million followers on Instagram in just over three years, Dr. Nicole Lapera was a “human fascinated with other humans.” While working with her clients as a clinical psychologist, she began to see the limitations within the traditional mental health system. A system that she noticed tended to label symptoms as disorders. Her extensive research into trauma, epigenetics and the importance of conscious awareness contrad...

why you keep repeating the same dysfunctional relationship patterns (ft. the holistic psychologist)

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Even before she came online as The Holistic Psychologist and amassed almost 5 million followers on Instagram in just over three years, Dr. Nicole Lapera was a “human fascinated with other humans.” While working with her clients as a clinical psychologist, she began to see the limitations within the traditional mental health system. A system that she noticed tended to label symptoms as disorders. Her extensive research into trauma, epigenetics and the importance of conscious awareness contrad...

The hidden impact childhood trauma has on adult relationships (ft. Dr. Nicole LaPera)

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Even before she came online as The Holistic Psychologist and amassed almost 5 million followers on Instagram in just over three years, Dr. Nicole Lapera was a “human fascinated with other humans.” While working with her clients as a clinical psychologist, she began to see the limitations within the traditional mental health system. A system that she noticed tended to label symptoms as disorders. Her extensive research into trauma, epigenetics and the importance of conscious awareness contr...

37. Heart-Coherent Relationships (ft. The Holistic Psychologist Dr. Nicole LaPera)

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Even before she came online as The Holistic Psychologist and amassed almost 5 million followers on Instagram in just over three years, Dr. Nicole Lapera was a “human fascinated with other humans.” While working with her clients as a clinical psychologist, she began to see the limitations within the traditional mental health system. A system that she noticed tended to label symptoms as disorders. Her extensive research into trauma, epigenetics and the importance of conscious awareness contrad...

37. The Holistic Psychologist Dr. Nicole LePera on Cultivating Heart-Based Authentically Connected Relationships

March 07, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Even before she came online as The Holistic Psychologist and amassed almost 5 million followers on Instagram in just over three years, Dr. Nicole Lapera was a “human fascinated with other humans.” While working with her clients as a clinical psychologist, she began to see the limitations within the traditional mental health system. A system that she noticed tended to label symptoms as disorders. Her extensive research into trauma, epigenetics and the importance of conscious awareness contrad...

using the power of self-inquiry and your window of tolerance in trauma recovery

February 28, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 82.1 MB

This episode is all about the incredible power of self-inquiry and how to practice it to combat the chronic feelings of emptiness and identity issues so common in those who identify with BPD (EUPD) and symptoms of complex post traumatic stress disorder (cPTSD). It is a terrifying feeling to not know who you are - this episode will help you take the first steps in overcoming this struggle.   Below is a summary of topics covered in this episode:   ■ How to uncover your “blind spots” (ways ...

Know Thy Damn Self (The Power of Self-Inquiry)

February 28, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 82.1 MB

This episode is all about the magic of self-inquiry and how to practice it to combat the chronic feelings of emptiness and identity issues so common in those who struggle complex trauma. Self-inquiry (also often spelled self-enquiry) is the action of SELF observation by an individual.   **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep it ad-free, visit www.backfromtheborderline.com **   Below is a summary of topics covered in this episode:  ...

How to use the power of self-inquiry to finally find out who the f*ck you are

February 28, 2022 11:00 - 1 hour - 82.1 MB

This episode is all about the incredible power of self-inquiry and how to practice it to combat the chronic feelings of emptiness and identity issues so common in those who identify with BPD (EUPD) and symptoms of complex post traumatic stress disorder (cPTSD). It is a terrifying feeling to not know who you are - this episode will help you take the first steps in overcoming this struggle.   Below is a summary of topics covered in this episode:   ■ How to uncover your “blind spots” (ways ...

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