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You can perform emotional alchemy and I will show you how.



The idea of alchemy is to reduce something with fire – burning it down so that something new can rise from the ashes. You can do this with your personality, too. You’ve always had the power; you just didn’t know that. Now you do.


 

Highly sensitive, emotional, and intuitive children are often impacted most severely by dysfunctional family dynamics, childhood emotional neglect, sexual abuse, grooming, generational trauma, and inherited toxic shame. As adults, these same children often find themselves with a disorder or dysfunction label, as mainstream psychiatry tries to convince them that the root of their suffering is due to a disordered personality or chemical imbalance.



Our current medical model of mental health is quick to pathologize. Psychiatrists and therapists operating within this model often ask, “What’s wrong with you?” but rarely, “What *happened* to you?” Personalities are not cancerous tumors; psychological suffering cannot be accurately understood or treated through the lens of a purely medical model. We have to go deeper. And that's exactly what we do here on Back from the Borderline.



A path toward healing exists, even though I know it can feel impossible when you’re looking up from rock bottom.



Through working with and integrating the concepts we explore in each episode together, you’ll learn to:



✧ Better regulate, name and process your emotions

✧ Understand and reduce chronic feelings of emptiness

✧ Confront and uproot your toxic shame

✧ Put an end to recurring patterns of self-sabotage

✧ Connect with your Higher Self

✧ Break the cycle of generational family trauma

✧ Set healthier boundaries with yourself and others

✧ Recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships

✧ Heal from a chronic need to please and seek validation from others



Tune in and prepare yourself to be standing in the ashes of the person you used to be. New episodes drop every Tuesday.


 

As for me? I'm Mollie Adler. A disillusioned millennial, podcaster, writer, creative, existential thinker, obsessive researcher (huge nerd), and fellow f*cked up human desperately trying to find meaning in a society and culture that seems to be devoid of it. To read my Substack articles, access my Amazon book recommendation list, submit a voicemail, or contact me for collaborations, visit https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline



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The Mental Health Crisis Behind the Dark Humor of Gen Z (ft. Adam Sweet)

December 13, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

Gen Z is considered to be “the most depressed generation:. 91% of Gen Z reported experiencing psychological symptoms due to stress. According to a study by Western Governors University in 2019, only 45% of Gen Z believe their mental health is good, 11% lower than the millennial generation. The Pew Research Center found that 70% of teens believe that depression and anxiety are significant problems amongst their peers. In today’s podcast episode, I sit down with Adam Sweet to discuss his viral...

23. The Mental Health Crisis Behind the Dark Humor of Gen Z (ft. Adam Sweet)

December 13, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

Gen Z is considered to be “the most depressed generation:. 91% of Gen Z reported experiencing psychological symptoms due to stress. According to a study by Western Governors University in 2019, only 45% of Gen Z believe their mental health is good, 11% lower than the millennial generation. The Pew Research Center found that 70% of teens believe that depression and anxiety are significant problems amongst their peers. In today’s podcast episode, I sit down with Adam Sweet to discuss his viral...

What is causing the Gen Z Mental Health Crisis? (Interview with Youtuber Mister Sweet)

December 13, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

Gen Z is considered to be “the most depressed generation:. 91% of Gen Z reported experiencing psychological symptoms due to stress. According to a study by Western Governors University in 2019, only 45% of Gen Z believe their mental health is good, 11% lower than the millennial generation. The Pew Research Center found that 70% of teens believe that depression and anxiety are significant problems amongst their peers. In today’s podcast episode, I sit down with Adam Sweet to discuss his viral...

The devastating mental health crisis affecting Gen-Z and millennials

December 13, 2021 02:00 - 1 hour - 131 MB

Gen Z is considered to be “the most depressed generation:. 91% of Gen Z reported experiencing psychological symptoms due to stress. According to a study by Western Governors University in 2019, only 45% of Gen Z believe their mental health is good, 11% lower than the millennial generation. The Pew Research Center found that 70% of teens believe that depression and anxiety are significant problems amongst their peers. In today’s podcast episode, I sit down with Adam Sweet to discuss his viral...

Calling Bullsh*t on BPD Stigma with Dr. Courtney Tracey

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey (AKA The Truth Doctor) proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million followers under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-st...

22. Calling Bullsh*t on BPD Stigma (ft. @thetruthdoctor Dr. Courtney Tracey)

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey (also known as @thetruthdoctor on IG) proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million followers under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body wo...

Calling bullshit on BPD stigma with Dr. Courtney Tracey

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is...

Calling Bullsh*t on BPD Stigma (ft. Dr. Courtney Tracey)

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is...

Calling bullsh*t on BPD stigma (ft. Dr. Courtney Tracey)

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is...

Calling Bullsh*t on BPD Stigma (ft. @thetruthdoctor Dr. Courtney Tracey)

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey (also known as @thetruthdoctor on IG) proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million followers under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body wo...

Calling bullsh*t on BPD stigma with a licensed clinical social worker

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is...

Calling bullsh*t on BPD stigma with Dr. Courtney Tracey

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Who says people with BPD can’t do great things? Dr. Courtney Tracey proves them all wrong and she’s here to prove that you can, too. Professionals that are open about their own battles with BPD are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is...

calling bullsh*t on mental health stigma with dr. courtney tracey

December 05, 2021 22:47 - 1 hour - 67.1 MB

Professionals that are open about their own battles with mental health issues are rare. As a licensed clinical social worker and doctor of clinical psychology, Courtney has over 12 years of education and an audience of 2 million under her belt. Courtney is passionate about learning and teaching with others how the mind and body work, while de-stigmatizing mental health. This is a story of resilience, hard work, and what human beings can accomplish when they ignore what society says we cannot...

21. Loving Someone with Living With Complex Trauma (ft. My Boyfriend Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

If you have BPD or CPTSD (or are a loved one of someone who does) and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex post traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. Romantic relationships present a unique set of challenges for people with complex trauma (and their partners). One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is: “Why BPD relationships nev...

Loving someone with BPD (ft. my boyfriend Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 158 MB

People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. Romantic relationships present a unique set of challenges for people with BPD and their partners. One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is: “Why BPD relationships never work.” It can certainly feel that way, but I’m here to tell you: this doesn’t have to be your reality! If you have BPD (EUPD) or are a loved one of someone who does and you’re...

Loving Someone with Living With Complex Trauma (ft. My Boyfriend Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

If you have BPD or CPTSD (or are a loved one of someone who does) and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex post traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. Romantic relationships present a unique set of challenges for people with complex trauma (and their partners). One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is: “Why BPD relationships nev...

Loving someone with BPD traits (ft. my partner Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

If you have BPD (EUPD) or are a loved one of someone who identifies with the symptoms and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex trauma (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is, “Why BPD relationships never work.” It can certainly feel that way, but I’m here to tell you: this doesn’t have to be your reality. In this e...

Loving someone with BPD traits (ft. my boyfriend Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

If you have BPD (EUPD) or are a loved one of someone who identifies with the symptoms and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex trauma (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is, “Why BPD relationships never work.” It can certainly feel that way, but I’m here to tell you: this doesn’t have to be your reality. In this e...

The Clingy One: Delusional Jealousy, Drama Addiction, and Control Issues in Relationships

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

Join my partner Zaz and me as we discuss the challenges of loving someone who identifies with traits and symptoms of mental health disorders such as BPD, EUPD, cPTSD, ADHD, and ASD. In this episode, we explore the concept of addiction to drama and chronic boredom and how it can lead to self-sabotaging behaviors that negatively impact relationships. We offer tips on approaching the conversation with your partner and whether disclosing your diagnosis is necessary. Additionally, we delve into...

jealousy, drama addiction, and control issues in relationships (ft. zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 154 MB

Join my partner Zaz and me as we discuss the challenges of loving someone who struggles with emotion dysregulation during the recovery from childhood trauma. In this episode, we explore the concept of addiction to drama and chronic boredom and how it can lead to self-sabotaging behaviors that negatively impact relationships. We offer tips on approaching the conversation with your partner and whether disclosing your diagnosis is necessary. Additionally, we delve into the topic of being the "c...

21. Loving Someone with BPD & CPTSD (ft. Mollie's Partner Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 158 MB

If you have BPD or CPTSD (or are a loved one of someone who does) and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex post traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. Romantic relationships present a unique set of challenges for people with complex trauma (and their partners). One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is: “Why BPD relationships nev...

21. Loving Someone with BPD & CPTSD (ft. My Boyfriend Zaz)

December 01, 2021 00:03 - 1 hour - 158 MB

If you have BPD or CPTSD (or are a loved one of someone who does) and you’re losing hope, this episode is for you. People with borderline personality disorder (BPD) and complex post traumatic stress disorder (CPTSD) often have tumultuous relationships, both romantic and platonic. Romantic relationships present a unique set of challenges for people with complex trauma (and their partners). One of the first results that appears when you Google “BPD relationships” is: “Why BPD relationships nev...

The only way to free yourself from your childhood wounds (the hero's journey)

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 183 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery and why I believe I no longer meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder (BPD / EUPD). To truly understand the core of the development of “mental health problems,” we have to understand high-level psych...

How I finally stopped reenacting my childhood in adulthood through "the hero's journey" (and how you can, too)

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 78.9 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery and why I believe I no longer meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder (and the various other mental diagnoses I’ve been given by multiple mental health professionals in the last 5-7 years.) To trul...

20. "The Hero's Journey" (How I Finally Stopped Reenacting My Childhood)

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 183 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery and why I believe I no longer meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder (BPD) and cPTSD. To truly understand the core of the development of “mental health problems,” we have to understand high-level ...

Using the Hero's Journey to Free Yourself from Your Childhood Wounds

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 183 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery and why I believe I no longer meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder (BPD / EUPD). To truly understand the core of the development of “mental health problems,” we have to understand high-level psych...

using the "hero's journey" to break free from your childhood wounds

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 183 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery. To truly understand the core of the development of “mental health problems,” we have to understand high-level psychological and spiritual concepts that are not often brought up when we seek mental health treatmen...

"The Hero's Journey" (How I Finally Stopped Reenacting My Childhood)

November 20, 2021 17:40 - 1 hour - 183 MB

This episode is dedicated to anyone who has felt like the problem child their entire life. It’s for those who grew up hating themselves and wondering why they felt so empty and undeserving of love. I’m sharing the more profound concepts that have led to REAL progress in my recovery and why I believe I no longer meet the criteria for borderline personality disorder (BPD) and cPTSD. To truly understand the core of the development of “mental health problems,” we have to understand high-level ...

The Hidden Trauma of Emotionally Immature Parenting (ft. Clinical Psychologist Stephanie Carinia)

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

On this episode, you’ll hear my interview with Stephanie Carinia, a trauma and personality specialist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). Follow & support the podcast (& join the Discord recovery community): click here   Full list of topics covered on this episode below:   ■ A therapist view of working with...

the devastating impact of emotionally immature parenting with dr. stephanie carinia

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

Welcome to this episode where I had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Stephanie Carinia, a renowned trauma and personality specialist and clinical psychologist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is skilled in various therapies, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of what is known as Borderline Persona...

Revealing signs you grew up with emotionally immature parents (advice from a clinical psychologist)

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

On this episode, you’ll hear my interview with Stephanie Carinia, a trauma and personality specialist and clinical psychologist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). 💡 Questions answered and topics discussed in this episode: ■ Challenges therapists face when working with clients with borderline personality disord...

Revealing signs you grew up with emotionally immature parents

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

On this episode, you’ll hear my interview with Stephanie Carinia, a trauma and personality specialist and clinical psychologist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). Questions answered and topics discussed in this episode: ■ Challenges therapists face when working with clients with borderline personality disorder...

19. The Hidden Trauma of Emotionally Immature Parenting (ft. Clinical Psychologist Stephanie Carinia)

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

On this episode, you’ll hear my interview with Stephanie Carinia, a trauma and personality specialist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). Follow & support the podcast (& join the Discord recovery community): click here   Full list of topics covered on this episode below:   ■ A therapist view of working with...

Understanding the Impact of Emotionally Immature Parenting in the Development of BPD

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

Welcome to this episode where I had the pleasure of interviewing Dr. Stephanie Carinia, a renowned trauma and personality specialist and clinical psychologist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is skilled in various therapies, including Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT), and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT). In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Borderline Personality Disorder (B...

The Hidden Trauma of Emotionally Immature Parenting with Clinical Psychologist Stephanie Carinia

November 15, 2021 12:55 - 1 hour - 64.1 MB

On this episode, you’ll hear my interview with Stephanie Carinia, a trauma and personality specialist based in Amsterdam, the Netherlands. Stephanie is trained in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Mentalization-Based Therapy (MBT) and Schema-Focused Therapy (SFT).   We cover a lot of ground on this episode, including:   ■ A therapist view of working with patients with borderline personality disorder (BPD / EUPD) ■ BPD rage and how i...

Breaking the Stigma: Jared Gelman's Journey Through 'Quiet BPD', ADHD and Self-Harm

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

Welcome to this episode where I interview Jared Gelman, a songwriter and BPD recovery warrior who shares his journey of dealing with identity issues, self-harm, and addictive behaviors. Growing up in a family that labeled him as "too much" had a profound impact on Jared, shaping the person he is today. In this conversation, Jared shares his experience with "quiet BPD" and opens up about topics like dichotomous thinking, paranoia, emotional regulation, and relationships. We discuss the stigm...

18. Growing Up Queer Struggling with Sexuality, ADHD, Shifting Self-Image & Self-Harm (ft. Jared Gelman)

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

On this episode of the podcast, you'll hear my interview with songwriter, pop chameleon, and all around hilarious human being, Jared Gelman. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep it ad-free, visit www.backfromtheborderline.com ** Content warning: self-harm / suicide Below are some concepts discussed in this episode: ■ Navigating growing up queer and BPD ■ Jared's experience with self harm and other self destructive behaviors and...

18. Growing Up Queer with BPD & ADHD: Struggles with Shifting Self-Image & Self-Harm (ft. Jared Gelman)

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 65.7 MB

On this episode of the podcast, you'll hear my interview with songwriter, pop chameleon, and all around hilarious human being, Jared Gelman. Follow & support the podcast (& join the Discord recovery community): click here Content warning: self-harm / suicide Below are some concepts discussed in this episode: ■ Navigating growing up queer and BPD ■ Jared's experience with self harm and other self destructive behaviors and the damage of labeling these "attention seeking" ■ BPD stigma ...

A little bit of grace (ft. Jared Gelman) | Navigating growing up queer with BPD, ADHD, shifting self-image and self-harm | E18

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 65.7 MB

On this episode of the podcast, you'll hear my interview with songwriter, pop chameleon, and all around hilarious human being, Jared Gelman. I just know you'll love him and learn so much from his experience with borderline personality disorder. content warning: self-harm / suicide click here to access an international list of suicide crisis lines Below are some concepts discussed in this episode: ■ Navigating growing up queer and BPD ■ Jared's experience with self harm and other self ...

Growing Up Queer Struggling with Sexuality, ADHD, Shifting Self-Image & Self-Harm (ft. Jared Gelman)

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

On this episode of the podcast, you'll hear my interview with songwriter, pop chameleon, and all around hilarious human being, Jared Gelman. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep it ad-free, visit www.backfromtheborderline.com ** Content warning: self-harm / suicide Below are some concepts discussed in this episode: ■ Navigating growing up queer and BPD ■ Jared's experience with self harm and other self destructive behaviors and...

Quiet BPD, self-harm, and toxic family dynamics

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

 In this episode, I interview songwriter and BPD recovery warrior Jared Gelman. During our conversation, he opened up about his struggles with identity, self-harm, and addictive and compulsive behaviors and how his experience growing up in a family that often labeled him as “too much” shaped him into the person he is today. This episode will resonate with you if you identify with the “Quiet BPD” subtype.   ​​💡 Questions answered and topics discussed in this episode:   ■ Is BPD an “attent...

Quiet BPD, self-harm, and toxic family dynamics (ft. Jared Gelman)

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

 In this episode, I interview songwriter and BPD recovery warrior Jared Gelman. During our conversation, he opened up about his struggles with identity, self-harm, and addictive and compulsive behaviors and how his experience growing up in a family that often labeled him as “too much” shaped him into the person he is today. This episode will resonate with you if you identify with the “Quiet BPD” subtype.   ​​💡 Questions answered and topics discussed in this episode:   ■ Is BPD an “attent...

when symptoms of "quiet bpd" rule your life: jared's story

November 08, 2021 22:41 - 1 hour - 139 MB

Welcome to this episode where I interview Jared Gelman, a songwriter and BPD recovery warrior who shares his journey of dealing with identity issues, self-harm, and addictive behaviors. Growing up in a family that labeled him as "too much" had a profound impact on Jared, shaping the person he is today. In this conversation, Jared shares his experience with "quiet BPD" and opens up about topics like dichotomous thinking, paranoia, emotional regulation, and relationships. We discuss the stigma...

when love turns toxic: bpd and the favorite person or "FP" phenomenon

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 130 MB

One of the most discussed topics in the BPD community is that of the favorite person or “FP” relationship. I’ve heard it described incredibly accurately as “two people dancing an unconscious dance.” Unresolved trauma can tend to cause someone who identifies with symptoms of borderline personality disorder (EUPD) to rotate between idealizing and devaluing the people in our lives. Our “favorite person” can become the center of our world. Wrapping our entire identity and emotional stability on ...

BPD & the "Favorite Person" (FP) relationship - when love turns toxic

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 130 MB

One of the most discussed topics in the BPD community is that of the favorite person or “FP” relationship. I’ve heard it described incredibly accurately as “two people dancing an unconscious dance.” Unresolved trauma can tend to cause someone who identifies with symptoms of borderline personality disorder (EUPD) to rotate between idealizing and devaluing the people in our lives. Our “favorite person” can become the center of our world. Wrapping our entire identity and emotional stability on ...

BPD & the "Favorite Person" or "FP" Relationship (When love turns toxic)

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 130 MB

One of the most discussed topics in the BPD community is that of the favorite person or “FP” relationship. I’ve heard it described incredibly accurately as “two people dancing an unconscious dance.” Unresolved trauma can tend to cause someone who identifies with symptoms of borderline personality disorder (EUPD) to rotate between idealizing and devaluing the people in our lives. Our “favorite person” can become the center of our world. Wrapping our entire identity and emotional stability on ...

I'm Tired of My Emotional Stability Being Tied to My Current Love Interest (The "FP" Relationship)

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 130 MB

I was determined to make the most epic, in-depth, spot-on and healing "FP" episode in all of BPD & CPTSD content land, and you know what? I think I damn well did it. Enjoy, friends. :) **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep it ad-free, visit www.backfromtheborderline.com ** Below are the topics covered on this episode: ■ social media posts that stopped me in my tracks this week ■ how our struggle with hearing “no” and rejection kee...

17. BPD & The Complicated 'Favorite Person' (FP) Relationship

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 74.6 MB

I was determined to make the most epic, in-depth, spot-on and healing FP episode in all of borderline content land, and you know what? I think I damn well did it. Enjoy. Follow & support the podcast (& join the Discord recovery community): click here Below are the topics covered on this episode: 0:00 | Intro (a meditation on feeling welcome) 03:34 | what’s coming next for the podcast? (big announcement!)  06:30 | why I chose to work with koji and patreon and what that means for you as ...

The BPD "favorite person" or FP relationship (disowned parts, original pain and abandonment wounds) | E17

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 74.6 MB

I was determined to make the most epic, in-depth, spot on and healing FP episode in all of borderline content land, and you know what? I think I damn well did it. :) connect with me and support the podcast: instagram / koji / patreon below are the topics covered on this episode: 0:00 | Intro (a meditation on feeling welcome) 03:34 | what’s coming next for the podcast? (big announcement!)   06:30 | why I chose to work with koji and patreon and what that means for you as a listener 11:...

17. I'm Tired of My Emotional Stability Being Tied to My Current Love Interest (The "FP" Relationship)

November 03, 2021 18:53 - 1 hour - 130 MB

I was determined to make the most epic, in-depth, spot-on and healing "FP" episode in all of BPD & CPTSD content land, and you know what? I think I damn well did it. Enjoy, friends. :) **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep it ad-free, visit www.backfromtheborderline.com ** Below are the topics covered on this episode: ■ social media posts that stopped me in my tracks this week ■ how our struggle with hearing “no” and rejection kee...

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