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You can perform emotional alchemy and I will show you how.



The idea of alchemy is to reduce something with fire – burning it down so that something new can rise from the ashes. You can do this with your personality, too. You’ve always had the power; you just didn’t know that. Now you do.


 

Highly sensitive, emotional, and intuitive children are often impacted most severely by dysfunctional family dynamics, childhood emotional neglect, sexual abuse, grooming, generational trauma, and inherited toxic shame. As adults, these same children often find themselves with a disorder or dysfunction label, as mainstream psychiatry tries to convince them that the root of their suffering is due to a disordered personality or chemical imbalance.



Our current medical model of mental health is quick to pathologize. Psychiatrists and therapists operating within this model often ask, “What’s wrong with you?” but rarely, “What *happened* to you?” Personalities are not cancerous tumors; psychological suffering cannot be accurately understood or treated through the lens of a purely medical model. We have to go deeper. And that's exactly what we do here on Back from the Borderline.



A path toward healing exists, even though I know it can feel impossible when you’re looking up from rock bottom.



Through working with and integrating the concepts we explore in each episode together, you’ll learn to:



✧ Better regulate, name and process your emotions

✧ Understand and reduce chronic feelings of emptiness

✧ Confront and uproot your toxic shame

✧ Put an end to recurring patterns of self-sabotage

✧ Connect with your Higher Self

✧ Break the cycle of generational family trauma

✧ Set healthier boundaries with yourself and others

✧ Recognize the difference between healthy and unhealthy relationships

✧ Heal from a chronic need to please and seek validation from others



Tune in and prepare yourself to be standing in the ashes of the person you used to be. New episodes drop every Tuesday.


 

As for me? I'm Mollie Adler. A disillusioned millennial, podcaster, writer, creative, existential thinker, obsessive researcher (huge nerd), and fellow f*cked up human desperately trying to find meaning in a society and culture that seems to be devoid of it. To read my Substack articles, access my Amazon book recommendation list, submit a voicemail, or contact me for collaborations, visit https://linktr.ee/backfromtheborderline



Anyone – even you – can come Back From the Borderline. 𓆩ᥫ᭡𓆪 


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Episodes

Living With BPD & Gender Dysphoria as a Queer Person of Color (ft. Kabir Khurana)

August 26, 2021 23:32 - 52 minutes - 86.6 MB

In this episode, I'm joined by Kabir Khurana: a 21-year-old British-Indian philosophy student from London who lives with BPD. Kabir identifies as a nonbinary person. Non-binary is used to describe people who feel their gender cannot be defined within the margins of gender binary. Instead, they understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a man or woman. A 2011 study found that patients with BPD were approximately twice as likely to report having a sexual rel...

Gender identity, sexuality, abusive parents with no boundaries, and favorite person “FP” relationships (ft. Kabir Khurana) | E09

August 26, 2021 23:32 - 52 minutes - 42.4 MB

CW: Child sexual abuse, rape, physical abuse, self-harm In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by Kabir Khurana: a 21-year-old British-Indian philosophy student from London who lives with BPD. Kabir identifies as a nonbinary person. Non-binary is used to describe people who feel their gender cannot be defined within the margins of gender binary. Instead, they understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a man or woman. A 2011 study found ...

9. Living With BPD & Gender Dysphoria as a Queer Person of Color (ft. Kabir Khurana)

August 26, 2021 23:32 - 52 minutes - 86.6 MB

In this episode, I'm joined by Kabir Khurana: a 21-year-old British-Indian philosophy student from London who lives with BPD. Kabir identifies as a nonbinary person. Non-binary is used to describe people who feel their gender cannot be defined within the margins of gender binary. Instead, they understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a man or woman. A 2011 study found that patients with BPD were approximately twice as likely to report having a sexual rel...

Can narcissistic and abusive parenting cause the development of BPD?

August 26, 2021 23:32 - 52 minutes - 86.6 MB

Can emotional and physical abuse at the hands of "narcissistic" parents who lack any sense of boundaries trigger the development of BPD traits? In this episode, I'm joined by my guest Kabir Khurana, a 21-year-old British-Indian philosophy student. This episode is perfect for anyone who is very early in their BPD recovery journey and is attempting to unravel the harmful impact of toxic family dynamics in early childhood. Questions answered and topics explored in this episode: ■ Gender ident...

"The Sad Girl Era" (ft. Kabir Khurana) | E09

August 26, 2021 23:32 - 52 minutes - 42.4 MB

CW: Child sexual abuse, rape, physical abuse, self-harm In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by Kabir Khurana: a 21-year-old British-Indian philosophy student from London who lives with BPD. Kabir identifies as a nonbinary person. Non-binary is used to describe people who feel their gender cannot be defined within the margins of gender binary. Instead, they understand their gender in a way that goes beyond simply identifying as either a man or woman. A 2011 study found ...

Did the Character Darth Vader (Anakin Skywalker) Display BPD Traits?

August 13, 2021 17:48 - 31 minutes - 59.1 MB

Psychiatrists Eric Bui and Rachel Rodgers argued that Anakin Skywalker use a useful example for explaining Borderline Personality disorder to medical students, hoping their findings would raise awareness of the disorder, especially among teens. In today’s episode, we reflect on Darth Vader as a character. Throughout my research, I developed a keen empathy for this lost soul. The themes of becoming stuck in vicious cycles oof mental illness, addictions, post-traumatic stress and abusive relat...

Darth Vader: Did he display traits of borderline personality disorder?

August 13, 2021 17:48 - 31 minutes - 59.1 MB

In today’s episode, we reflect on Darth Vader as a character and how his storyline and portrays classic BPD traits. Psychiatrists Eric Bui and Rachel Rodgers argued that the Star Wars character Anakin Skywalker is a useful example for explaining borderline personality disorder to medical students, hoping their findings would raise awareness of the disorder.  💡 Questions answered in this episode: ■ Why some psychiatrists consider Darth Vader a useful example for explaining BPD ■ A breakdow...

8. Did the Character Darth Vader (Anakin Skywalker) Display BPD Traits?

August 13, 2021 17:48 - 31 minutes - 59.1 MB

Psychiatrists Eric Bui and Rachel Rodgers argued that Anakin Skywalker use a useful example for explaining Borderline Personality disorder to medical students, hoping their findings would raise awareness of the disorder, especially among teens. In today’s episode, we reflect on Darth Vader as a character. Throughout my research, I developed a keen empathy for this lost soul. The themes of becoming stuck in vicious cycles oof mental illness, addictions, post-traumatic stress and abusive relat...

Did Darth Vader (Anakin Skywalker) have borderline personality disorder? | Exploring BPD & EUPD in Star Wars | E08

August 13, 2021 17:48 - 31 minutes - 25.4 MB

Psychiatrists Eric Bui and Rachel Rodgers argued that Anakin Skywalker use a useful example for explaining Borderline Personality disorder to medical students, hoping their findings would raise awareness of the disorder, especially among teens.  In today’s episode, we reflect on Darth Vader as a character. Throughout my research, I developed a keen empathy for this lost soul. The themes of becoming stuck in vicious cycles oof mental illness, addictions, post-traumatic stress and abusive rel...

Did Darth Vader have BPD? | "The Psychological Side of The Force" | E08

August 13, 2021 17:48 - 31 minutes - 25.4 MB

Psychiatrists Eric Bui and Rachel Rodgers argued that Anakin Skywalker use a useful example for explaining Borderline Personality disorder to medical students, hoping their findings would raise awareness of the disorder, especially among teens.  In today’s episode, we reflect on Darth Vader as a character. Throughout my research, I developed a keen empathy for this lost soul. The themes of becoming stuck in vicious cycles oof mental illness, addictions, post-traumatic stress and abusive rel...

Navigating jobs, abandonment issues, codependency, and early childhood abuse with BPD / EUPD (ft. Kim Poster) | E07

August 13, 2021 02:59 - 47 minutes - 37.8 MB

CW: Skin picking, unhealthy relationships, r*ape, childhood s*xual abuse In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by my dear friend, Kim Poster. Kim is a first generation Filipino American living in Portland, Oregon living with BPD. Kim and I connected through YouTube, where she live streams herself playing The Sims while she talks vulnerably about her struggles with BPD. Her channel is a safe space full of support and incredible tips and strategies she's learned in therapy ...

7. "It's Me. I'm the Toxic Borderline Ex." (ft. Kim)

August 13, 2021 02:59 - 46 minutes - 81.2 MB

In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by my friend Kim, a first generation Filipino American living with BPD. Kim and I connected through YouTube, where she live streams herself playing The Sims while she talks vulnerably about her struggles with BPD (EUPD). Her channel is a safe space full of support and incredible tips and strategies she's learned in therapy throughout her recovery journey. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the po...

How it feels to realize that you're the stereotypical "toxic borderline ex-girlfriend"

August 13, 2021 02:59 - 46 minutes - 81.2 MB

It’s easy to slap all people who identify with borderline personality disorder with labels like “toxic” and “abusive.” One of the most frequently searched questions in Google is, “can people with BPD love?” In this episode, I sit down with my friend Kim, as we discuss the harmful impact of these stigmatized (and false) blanket statements about people living with borderline personality disorder and how she has been able to maintain a stable and healthy relationship while navigating her BPD (E...

"It's Not the World, It's Me: The Toxic Borderline Ex" (ft. Kim Poster) | E07

August 13, 2021 02:59 - 47 minutes - 37.8 MB

CW: Skin picking, unhealthy relationships, r*ape, childhood s*xual abuse In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by my dear friend, Kim Poster. Kim is a first generation Filipino American living in Portland, Oregon living with BPD. Kim and I connected through YouTube, where she live streams herself playing The Sims while she talks vulnerably about her struggles with BPD. Her channel is a safe space full of support and incredible tips and strategies she's learned in therap...

"It's Me. I'm the Toxic Borderline Ex." (ft. Kim)

August 13, 2021 02:59 - 46 minutes - 81.2 MB

In this episode of Back from the Borderline, I'm joined by my friend Kim, a first generation Filipino American living with BPD. Kim and I connected through YouTube, where she live streams herself playing The Sims while she talks vulnerably about her struggles with BPD (EUPD). Her channel is a safe space full of support and incredible tips and strategies she's learned in therapy throughout her recovery journey. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the po...

Are BPD traits keeping you stuck in the circle jerk of sadness?

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 76.6 MB

Navigating intimacy and relationships can be incredibly painful for someone with BPD (EUPD) traits. In this episode of the podcast, I sat down with artist, writer Courtney Cook to discuss all things sex, self-sabotage, toxic relationships and drama addition. This episode will speak to you and fill you with hope if you’ve struggled to find a grounded connection to your own sexuality and find yourself “bored” in calm or safe relationships as you navigate recovery from borderline personality di...

06: "L'appel du vide and a circle jerk of sadness" (ft. Courtney Cook) | Interview Part 2

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 36 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  This is part 2 of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal essays. Below is a brea...

Leaving The "Circle Jerk of Sadness" for the Middle Path (ft. Courtney Cook)

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 76.6 MB

This is part two of my interview Courtney Cook. If you haven't already, go back and listen to episode 5 to get the full context of the interview. Earlier this year, artist, writer and mental health advocate Courtney Cook released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and ...

6. Leaving The "Circle Jerk of Sadness" for the Middle Path (ft. Courtney Cook)

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 76.6 MB

This is part two of my interview Courtney Cook. If you haven't already, go back and listen to episode 5 to get the full context of the interview. Earlier this year, artist, writer and mental health advocate Courtney Cook released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and ...

Understanding “sex as self-harm”, toxic relationships, intrusive thoughts and dissociation in borderline personality disorder (ft. Courtney Cook) | E06

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 36 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  This is part 2 of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal essays. Connect with mo...

"L'appel du vide and a circle jerk of sadness" (ft. Courtney Cook) | Interview Part 2 | E06

August 09, 2021 10:36 - 44 minutes - 36 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  This is part 2 of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal essays. Below is a brea...

Experiencing Psychiatric Hospitalization as an HSP with BPD (ft. Courtney Cook)

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 84.7 MB

This is part one of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal essays. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep...

"I Should've been on Lexapro straight out of the womb" (ft. Courtney Cook) | Interview Part 1 | E05

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 40 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  In this episode, you'll hear part one of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal e...

Recovering from BPD after psychiatric hospitalization: stigma, shame, and self-hatred

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 84.7 MB

What is it like to spent time at an inpatient treatment facility for borderline personality disorder? In this episode, I sit down with author and artist Courtney Cook to discuss her BPD recovery journey so far after spending her teen years as a "frequent flier of the psychiatric hospitals of the Chicago area.” If you consider yourself a highly sensitive and creative person who always has felt like their intense emotions were “too much,” Courtney’s story will inspire you and fill you with hop...

How it feels to grow up as a highly sensitive creative with borderline personality disorder (ft. Courtney Cook) | E05

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 40 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  In this episode, you'll hear part one of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal e...

05: "Should've been on Lexapro straight out of the womb" (ft. Courtney Cook) | Interview Part 1

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 40 MB

CW: Suicide, self-harm, mental illness, skin picking, unhealthy relationships  In this episode, you'll hear part one of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal e...

5. Experiencing Psychiatric Hospitalization as an HSP with BPD (ft. Courtney Cook)

August 09, 2021 01:28 - 49 minutes - 84.7 MB

This is part one of my interview with artist, writer and mental health advocate, Courtney Cook. This year, she released her debut graphic memoir, “The Way She Feels: My Life on the Borderline in Pictures and Pieces." The book provides a candid and brave look at her life and struggles with BPD, depression, anxiety and OCD through a combination of her colorful and unique artwork and personal essays. **To connect with me directly, join the community on Instagram and support the podcast to keep...

Sex as Self-Harm: How BPD & Complex Trauma Affect Intimacy

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and complex trauma (CPTSD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses. There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental problems with sex. In this episode, Moll...

BPD, Sex and Intimacy | The Slutty, Erotophilic, Butt of the Joke | E04

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 49 minutes - 39.4 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (also known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder or EUPD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses.  There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental probl...

if your use of sex as self-harm sabotaging your relationships?

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Many individuals with symptoms of mental health disorders engage in self-harming behaviors, including physical self-mutilation and a lesser-known behavior called "sex as self-harm." In this episode, we dive deep into the link between mental health and intimacy, exploring why people engage in self-harming behaviors and how they impact relationships. We discuss sexual impulsivity, promiscuity, and childhood sexual abuse, as well as the importance of self-love in recovery. We also examine the r...

4. Sex as Self-Harm: How BPD & Complex Trauma Affect Intimacy

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) and complex trauma (CPTSD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses. There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental problems with sex. In this episode, Moll...

How does borderline personality disorder (BPD / EUPD) affect intimacy & relationships? | E04

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 49 minutes - 39.4 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (also known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder or EUPD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses.  There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental probl...

is your use of sex as self-harm is sabotaging your relationships?

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Many individuals with symptoms of mental health disorders engage in self-harming behaviors, including physical self-mutilation and a lesser-known behavior called "sex as self-harm." In this episode, we dive deep into the link between mental health and intimacy, exploring why people engage in self-harming behaviors and how they impact relationships. We discuss sexual impulsivity, promiscuity, and childhood sexual abuse, as well as the importance of self-love in recovery. We also examine the r...

Is your use of sex as self-harm the reason your relationships never work?

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Many people who identify with symptoms or traits of BPD engage in self-harming behaviors. What’s most often discussed is a tendency to *physically* self-mutilate by means of cutting/burning, etc., but what is not discussed as often (but should be) is what I call “sex as self-harm.” In this episode, I’ll describe how intimacy and sex can be used as a method of self-harm, how this has negatively impacted my life and relationships, and how I’ve begun to heal from the years of pain I endured due...

Is Your Use of Sex as Self-Harm the Reason Your Relationships Never Work?

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 48 minutes - 92.6 MB

Many individuals with symptoms of mental health disorders engage in self-harming behaviors, including physical self-mutilation and a lesser-known behavior called "sex as self-harm." In this episode, we dive deep into the link between mental health and intimacy, exploring why people engage in self-harming behaviors and how they impact relationships. We discuss sexual impulsivity, promiscuity, and childhood sexual abuse, as well as the importance of self-love in recovery. We also examine the r...

04: BPD, Sex and Intimacy | The Slutty, Erotophilic, Butt of the Joke

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 49 minutes - 39.4 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (also known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder or EUPD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses.  There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental probl...

4. Sex as Self-Harm: How BPD Affects Intimacy

August 02, 2021 18:53 - 49 minutes - 39.4 MB

Borderline Personality Disorder (also known as Emotionally Unstable Personality Disorder or EUPD) can have a significant impact on how we experience sexuality and intimacy. This information should come as no surprise since BPD symptoms can affect our emotional state, relationships, and our ability to control our impulses. There is very little research out there on BPD and its effects on sexuality, but more and more work suggests that those with BPD can experience multiple fundamental problem...

BPD Splitting (Part 3) | "You are never gonna lose you" | EP 03

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad.    Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas.    This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep dive on Sp...

BPD Splitting (Part 3) | "You are never gonna lose you" | E03

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad.    Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas.    This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep dive on Sp...

3. Splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder (PART 3)

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MB

This part three in a deep-dive on splitting. If you haven't already, go back to episodes 1 and 2 and check those out first! To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and...

Black and white thinking: understanding the pain of BPD splitting (part 3)

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 42 minutes - 77.8 MB

This episode is PART THREE of my three-part series on splitting. To have the best experience, go back and listen to episodes one and two first. ❤️ If you identify with symptoms of borderline personality disorder (also known as BPD or EUPD), it’s likely you’ve heard of “splitting.” Splitting is a defense mechanism that causes a person to view something or someone in ‘black and white’ terms (i.e., “all good” or “all bad.) If you identify with BPD, it’s likely you’re not conscious of when you’...

Splitting in borderline personality disorder (pt. 3/3) | "you are never gonna lose you" | E03

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad.    Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas.    Visit the website: https://www.backfromtheborderline.com/ Connect with mollie and s...

03: BPD Splitting (Part 3) | "You are never gonna lose you"

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 43 minutes - 34.6 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad.    Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas.    This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep dive on Sp...

Trauma Splitting in BPD & CPTSD (PART 3)

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 42 minutes - 77.8 MB

This part three in a deep-dive on splitting. If you haven't already, go back to episodes 1 and 2 and check those out first! To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD (EUPD) and CPTSD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder and complex trauma to view life, ourselves, and ...

3. Trauma Splitting in BPD & CPTSD (PART 3)

July 27, 2021 00:56 - 42 minutes - 77.8 MB

This part three in a deep-dive on splitting. If you haven't already, go back to episodes 1 and 2 and check those out first! To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD (EUPD) and CPTSD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with borderline personality disorder and complex trauma to view life, ourselves, and ...

Black and white thinking: understanding the pain of BPD splitting (part 2)

July 20, 2021 02:32 - 41 minutes - 75.3 MB

**Note: This episode is PART 2 of my three-part series on splitting. To have the best experience, go back and listen to episode one first.** If you identify with symptoms of borderline personality disorder (also known as BPD or EUPD), it’s likely you’ve heard of “splitting.” Splitting is a defense mechanism that causes a person to view something or someone in ‘black and white’ terms (i.e., “all good” or “all bad.) If you identify with BPD, it’s likely you’re not conscious of when you’re spl...

2. Splitting in Borderline Personality Disorder (PART 2)

July 20, 2021 02:32 - 41 minutes - 32.9 MB

This episode is part two of a three-part deep-dive on Splitting. If you haven't already, go back to episode 1 and listen to that part first. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gr...

02: BPD Splitting (Part 2) | The Good and Bad Breast

July 20, 2021 02:32 - 41 minutes - 32.9 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas. This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep-dive on Splitting. ...

BPD Splitting (Part 2) | The Good and Bad Breast | E02

July 20, 2021 02:32 - 41 minutes - 32.9 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas. This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep-dive on Splitting. ...

BPD Splitting (Part 2) | The Good and Bad Breast | EP 02

July 20, 2021 02:32 - 41 minutes - 32.9 MB

To split something means to divide it. “Splitting” is often considered a hallmark of BPD / EUPD. It is characterized by the propensity to completely idealize or devalue other people, places, ideas, or objects. To see them as all good or all bad. Splitting causes those of us with Borderline Personality Disorder to view life, ourselves, and others in extremes. Black and white thinking, no gray areas. This episode of Back from the Borderline is part two of a three-part deep-dive on Splitting. ...

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