Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast
991 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 days ago - ★★★★★ - 133 ratingsEvoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host [email protected]
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Jamie Goodman & Dr. Brad Reedy talk about Parental Guilt - Ep 314
May 13, 2020 15:30 - 1 hour - 116 MBJamie Goodman, of Pilcrow Advisors, joins Dr. Brad Reedy to discuss Parental Guilt. They discuss how guilt is not a valid measure of right and wrong and how we pass on to our children a susceptibility to peer pressure when we model guilt or use it to change behavior in our children.
12 Myths on Being Human and Keys to Enlightenment - Ep 313
May 12, 2020 15:30 - 1 hour - 119 MBFrom his recent book, The Audacity to Be You: Learning to Love Your Horrible, Rotten Self, Dr. Reedy talks about 12 myths of being human and being a parent, including the myth the guilt is related to morality. He also talks about the keys to enlightenment, including "learning to lose" and "knowing your mental illness."
Questions & Answers May 5, 2020 - Ep 312
May 07, 2020 02:56 - 55 minutes - 105 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from viewers. He talks about criteria for coming home. He discusses the sensibility shift parents make as they get into recovery from codependency.
The Personal Side of our Host, Dr. Brad Reedy - Ep 311
May 06, 2020 16:16 - 50 minutes - 92.9 MBThis podcast features Dr. Brad Reedy. Two guests, Emma Reedy and Beth Miller, interview Dr. Reedy, asking personal questions and questions about his evolution as a therapist.
An Interview of Dr. Brad Reedy - Ep 311
May 06, 2020 16:16 - 50 minutes - 92.9 MBThis podcast features Dr. Brad Reedy. Two guests, Emma Reedy and Beth Miller, interview Dr. Reedy, asking personal questions and questions about his evolution as a therapist.
Interview with Sam Kelly: Parenting Skills for Younger Children - Ep 310
April 30, 2020 15:57 - 34 minutes - 63.4 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Sam Kelly, art therapist, author, and parent educator. Sam talks about her approach with younger children and how holding space for their feelings is the key to nurturing connection and developing their sense of self. She talks about her book, Young and Divorced. She also shares how her work relates to her family of origin and how it is ideal that parents can listen children's anger and hurt, especially when it is directed at the parent.
Interview with Sam Kelly: Parenting Skills for Younger Children - Ep. 310
April 30, 2020 15:57 - 34 minutes - 63.4 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Sam Kelly, art therapist, author, and parent educator. Sam talks about her approach with younger children and how holding space for their feelings is the key to nurturing connection and developing their sense of self. She talks about her book, Young and Divorced. She also shares how her work relates to her family of origin and how it is ideal that parents can listen children's anger and hurt, especially when it is directed at the parent.
Challenging Notions of What it Means to Be a Good Parent - Ep 309
April 22, 2020 15:57 - 1 hour - 118 MBDr. Reedy talks about the notion of being a good parent. The shift is from being right and good to being a Self. He suggests that the task of parenting is to raise a healthy Self and that this requires rare capacity.
Open Forum Q&A April 16, 2020 - Ep 308
April 20, 2020 16:16 - 1 hour - 110 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from parents and talks about how family members can best support their loved one in treatment.
Anxiety, Stress, and Our Family In Close Quarters - Ep 307
April 14, 2020 16:01 - 59 minutes - 110 MBDr. Reedy talks about dealing with stress, anxiety and fear during the pandemic. He talks about how we need to find someone who can sit with us in our pain and grief so we can learn to move through our feelings. Dr. Reedy shares several quotes and ideas from Dr. Harriet Lerners book, The Dance of Fear.
Anxiety, Stress, and Our Family In Close Quarters - Ep 306
April 14, 2020 16:01 - 59 minutes - 110 MBAnxiety, Stress, and Our Family In Close Quarters - Ep 306 by Dr. Brad Reedy
How Therapy Can Help and How to Get the Most Out of It - Ep 306
April 08, 2020 16:30 - 1 hour - 121 MBDr. Reedy talks about the attributes of an adequate therapist. He shares the secret to knowing that you have an adequate therapist is that when you share being upset with them, they apologize rather than making it about you. He also talks about the parallels between an adequate therapist and an adequate parent.
An Interview with Krissy Pozatek - Ep 305
April 03, 2020 16:00 - 42 minutes - 77 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Author and Parent Coach Krissy Pozatek. Krissy talks about her roots in wilderness therapy and how it informs her parent coaching. She talks about allowing children to feel and empowering parents. She shares the core principles of her work and talks about her new online Parallel Process Intensive program.
Q&A with Exec Director Rick Heizer and Brad Reedy Ep - 304
April 02, 2020 14:58 - 1 hour - 113 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Evoke's Executive Director and Partner Rick Heizer to talk about Evoke Therapy Programs' response and policies related to COVID 19. They address both health-safety policies and questions related to the clinical work at Evoke during the pandemic.
An Interview with Dr. J.D. Gill - Ep 303
March 31, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 110 MBDr. Reedy welcomes author, professor, and his personal therapist, Dr. J.D. Gill. Dr. Gill talks about how to find and recognize a good therapist. She talks about how we create healthy attachment. She also takes questions from attendees on to cope with the unique challenges during the COVID-19 Pandemic. She talks about how we cope with the increase in fear that many are experiencing.
Mindfulness and Existential Anxiety During the Pandemic - Ep 302
March 26, 2020 16:00 - 58 minutes - 108 MBThis episode begins with a meditation by one of Evoke's Field Guides, Dakota Huffman. Dr. Reedy talks about our collective grief and how we cope with the existential anxiety and grief many are feeling. He reads comments and statements of hope shared by attendees and talks about how we find comfort in our connections.
Mindfulness, Anxiety, and Social Isolation During the COVID 19 Pandemic - Ep 301
March 25, 2020 16:00 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy invites a guest lead a meditation to begin. He talks about mindfulness and gratitude in the face of our anxiety, pain, and grief. He talks about non-judgment and how it affects us. He talks about what to look for in a therapist and a key to knowing whether you have an adequate therapist.
Open Forum - Support and Connection During COVID 19 Ep - 300
March 20, 2020 14:57 - 1 hour - 112 MBDr. Reedy hosts an open discussion during the COVID 19 pandemic. Participants offer support, insight and love to each other. Dr. Reedy leads a meditation and offers so insight into coping with the anxiety that many are feeling.
How To Talk To Your Children When The World Feels Unsafe Ep - 299
March 19, 2020 16:00 - 49 minutes - 90.9 MBDr. Reedy talks about how to listen and help children feel safe during precarious times. He offers some dos and don't to make sure parental anxiety is not leaking onto our children. The talks about how in times like these, what we were doing for self care before may not be enough. We may have to do things differently and find new resources and practices to maintain our serenity.
Social Distancing and Self-Care Ep - 298
March 18, 2020 15:11 - 50 minutes - 92 MBDr. Reedy hosts a broadcast during the coronavirus pandemic. He talks about the spiritual challenges of this time of social distancing, He offers some practical suggestions for coping. He announces that Evoke will hold live broadcasts for the public all week to help people through this difficult time.
Finding You, Finding Family, and Finding Connection - Ep 297
March 15, 2020 17:42 - 1 hour - 110 MBDr. Reedy talks about the work we do at Evoke Therapy Programs intensives. He talks about how understanding and exploring pour past can lead us to greater insight about the dilemmas we face today. He talks about inner-child work and how that can help us remember what it was like as a child which leads use to understanding our children better.
Introduction to the Shadow based on the book "Meeting the Shadow" by Zweig and Abrams Ep - 296
March 10, 2020 22:08 - 53 minutes - 98.2 MBDr. Reedy discusses Carl Jung's idea of the shadow. He talks about how incorporating the split-off parts of ourselves creates balance, integration, healing, and harmony with others. He talks about the power that comes into our lives as we come to know ourselves and how that helps us to understand our loved ones who may be struggling. He talked about how we find the shadow by looking to our dreams, art, humor, and our intense reactions to others.
An Interview with Jenna Pacelli - Ep 295
March 04, 2020 16:29 - 35 minutes - 65.4 MBBrad interviews Jenna Pacelli, therapist at Evoke Entrada. Jenna talks about her approach to treating trauma using Somatic Experiencing. She talks about what led her to wilderness therapy. She articulates the intersect of mindfulness and neuroscience and how she incorporates Eastern and Western perspectives into her work.
"The Audacity to Be You" book release - Ep 294
February 25, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 128 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about his new book, "The Audacity to Be You," what it means to be a Self and love an Other. He talks about learning to love yourself and how therapy can help.
Q&A for Siblings, Family and Friends of Evoke 2-18-20 - Ep 293
February 20, 2020 00:07 - 1 hour - 115 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from family, and friends of Evoke. He talks about how to be support your loved one while they are at Evoke. He talks about power-struggle and the nature of Intensive Workshops. He talks about how to sit with our more vulnerable and insecure parts of ourselves.
Book Review of "The Dance Of Connection" by Harriet Lerner Ph.D. - Ep 292
February 12, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 133 MBDr. Reedy give a fave review to Harriet Lerner's Dance of Connection. He summarizes many key points and tools and touts the book as a wonderful invitation to be your "highest self" and be kind to yourself along the way. He talks about how connection starts with Self work and boundaries.
An Interview with Chelsie Newkirk - Ep 291
February 11, 2020 17:00 - 22 minutes - 41.1 MBDr. Reedy interviews Chelsie Newkirk, Primary Therapist at Evoke Entrada. Chelsie talks about what brought her to wilderness therapy and how the wilderness calms the nervous system and assists her in her work with clients. She talks about brain-spotting and the somatic work she does with clients.
An Interview with Birgit Show - Ep 289
February 10, 2020 16:20 - 32 minutes - 58.9 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Birgit Show, Primary Therapist at Evoke Cascades. Birgit talks about her upbringing in Germany and her journey to find wilderness therapy and Evoke. She talks about her approach to therapy and the influences that impact her work with her clients.
13 Things NOT to Say to Your Children - Ep 290
February 08, 2020 17:00 - 59 minutes - 109 MBDr. Reedy talks about 13 things not to say to your children and the psychology behind the ideas, including things like "I would do anything for you" and "You're too sensitive."
An Interview With Lauren Roberts - Ep 288
February 03, 2020 22:00 - 42 minutes - 78.7 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Lauren Roberts, Assistant Clinical Director and Primary Therapist at Evoke Cascades. Lauren talks her approach to therapy and supervision. She talks about being a mother and the lessons that has taught her about working with families. She talks about her passions and some of her most memorable moments and lessons in wilderness therapy.
Q&A for Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke January 30, 2020 - Ep 287
January 31, 2020 17:00 - 47 minutes - 87.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about random topics and takes live questions on mental health related issues in parenting. He talks about the effects of leaning into resistance instead of trying to control others. He shares a case study. The talks about the difference between identifying ways we impact our children and the guilt and blame that is so prevalent.
An Interview with Lindsey Bosse - Ep 285
January 24, 2020 17:00 - 30 minutes - 55 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks with Lindsey Bosse, Field Director at Evoke Cascades. Lindsey shares her unique perspective from her various positions at Evoke. She talks about staff training and the monumental contribution field staff contribute to the clients' progress. She talks about her interest in how nutrition impacts mental health and her passions outside of work.
An Interview with Ken Gilbert - Ep 286
January 24, 2020 17:00 - 36 minutes - 67.5 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Ken Gilbert, primary therapist at Evoke Cascades. Ken talks about his journey from Evoke client, to Evoke therapist and everything in between. He shares his story of addiction and Brad and Ken talk about Ken's first session in the program as a client. Ken talks addiction, recovery, and surfing in the Deschutes river.
Book Review of "Breaking Up With Sugar" by Molly Carmel - Ep 284
January 24, 2020 17:00 - 34 minutes - 62.3 MBDr. Reedy talks about the new book "Breaking Up With Sugar." He talks about how Molly Carmel uses her own story to break down the stigma and shame associated with disordered eating. He talks about how Carmel draws clear parallels between sugar addiction and other addictions, including the addictive thinking present in both. The author explains how this is not a diet book and how our relationship with sugar and food deserves our attention. The book offers insight, hope, and practical tools to ...
Interview with Molly Carmel, Author of "Breaking Up with Sugar" - Ep 284
January 21, 2020 16:00 - 50 minutes - 92.1 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Molly Carmel, author of "Breaking Up with Sugar" and founder of The Beacon Programs in New York City. Molly talks about her new book and the journey to telling her story with raw honesty and courage. She talks about her decision to share her bypass surgery in a field where that is frowned upon. Molly talks about how sugar can hijack your thinking and the parallels between addiction to alcohol and drugs and the addiction to sugar. She talks about following the "middle way" a...
Interview with Molly Carmel, Author of "Breaking Up with Sugar"
January 21, 2020 16:00 - 50 minutes - 92.1 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Molly Carmel, author of "Breaking Up with Sugar" and founder of The Beacon Programs in New York City. Molly talks about her new book and the journey to telling her story with raw honesty and courage. She talks about her decision to share her bypass surgery in a field where that is frowned upon. Molly talks about how sugar can hijack your thinking and the parallels between addiction to alcohol and drugs and the addiction to sugar. She talks about following the "middle way" a...
Interview with Molly Carmel, Author of "Breaking Up with Sugar" - Ep 278
January 21, 2020 16:00 - 50 minutes - 92.1 MBDr. Reedy welcomes Molly Carmel, author of "Breaking Up with Sugar" and founder of The Beacon Programs in New York City. Molly talks about her new book and the journey to telling her story with raw honesty and courage. She talks about her decision to share her bypass surgery in a field where that is frowned upon. Molly talks about how sugar can hijack your thinking and the parallels between addiction to alcohol and drugs and the addiction to sugar. She talks about following the "middle way" a...
An Interview With Trina Grater - Ep 277
January 20, 2020 17:00 - 27 minutes - 50.4 MBContinuing our series with our therapists, Brad interviews Evoke at Entrada Assistant Clinical Director, Tina Grater. Tina talks about bringing heart to her work. She talks about "seeing" her clients reveal themselves and what it means to honor their defenses. She talks about motherhood and her connection to nature.
An Interview With Trina Grater
January 20, 2020 17:00 - 27 minutes - 50.4 MBContinuing our series with our therapists, Brad interviews Evoke at Entrada Assistant Clinical Director, Tina Grater. Tina talks about bringing heart to her work. She talks about "seeing" her clients reveal themselves and what it means to honor their defenses. She talks about motherhood and her connection to nature.
Seeing Your Child based on an NYT article & book by Daniel Siegel M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson Ph.D.
January 17, 2020 17:00 - 47 minutes - 87.6 MBDr. Reedy talks attachment and seeing your child. He talks about the barriers to seeing and hearing your child. And he talks about how the development of the parents' sense of Self is the key to the ability to provide the child with what they need.
Seeing Your Child based on an NYT article by Daniel Siegel M.D. & Tina Payne Bryson Ph.D. - Ep 276
January 17, 2020 17:00 - 47 minutes - 87.6 MBDr. Reedy talks attachment and seeing your child. He talks about the barriers to seeing and hearing your child. And he talks about how the development of the parents' sense of Self is the key to the ability to provide the child with what they need.
An Interview with Dr. Matt Hoag, Co-Founder of Evoke Therapy Programs - Ep 275
January 16, 2020 17:00 - 43 minutes - 79.5 MBIn this interview with Dr. Matt Hoag, learn how he uses wilderness and the community in his work with young people and their families. Matt Hoag is a pioneer in the field of wilderness therapy and the foremost authority on research within wilderness therapy. Listen to him talk about his early days and the evolution of the field.
An Interview with Dr. Matt Hoag, Co-Founder of Evoke Therapy Programs
January 16, 2020 17:00 - 43 minutes - 79.5 MBIn this interview with Dr. Matt Hoag, learn how he uses wilderness and the community in his work with young people and their families. Matt Hoag is a pioneer in the field of wilderness therapy and the foremost authority on research within wilderness therapy. Listen to him talk about his early days and the evolution of the field.
Co-parenting and Parental Alienation - Ep 274
January 15, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 125 MBDr. Reedy talks about the challenges, pitfalls, and hope in co-parenting. He also talks about parental alienation and the do's and don'ts when dealing with and grieving the effects of parental alienation.
Co-parenting and Parental Alienation
January 15, 2020 17:00 - 1 hour - 125 MBDr. Reedy talks about the challenges, pitfalls, and hope in co-parenting. He also talks about parental alienation and the do's and don'ts when dealing with and grieving the effects of parental alienation.
Open Forum: Random Topics and Q&A
January 10, 2020 17:01 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy begins by discussing topics from Evoke's recent clinical training meeting. He talks about what it means to show up differently in the world and with those we love. He talks about how we decide whether to set boundaries or to compromise. He discusses the reason for "wilderness" in wilderness therapy.
Open Forum: Random Topics and Q&A - Ep 273
January 10, 2020 17:01 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy begins by discussing topics from Evoke's recent clinical training meeting. He talks about what it means to show up differently in the world and with those we love. He talks about how we decide whether to set boundaries or to compromise. He discusses the reason for "wilderness" in wilderness therapy.
An Interview with Brand Bonsall
January 08, 2020 17:00 - 28 minutes - 51.6 MBBrand Bonsall, primary therapist at Evoke Therapy Programs, talks about what led him to wilderness therapy and his approach to working with clients and families.
An Interview with Brand Bonsall - Ep 272
January 08, 2020 17:00 - 28 minutes - 51.6 MBBrand Bonsall, primary therapist at Evoke Therapy Programs, talks about what led him to wilderness therapy and his approach to working with clients and families.
Home Therapy and Parent Support
January 07, 2020 17:26 - 48 minutes - 88.1 MBDr. Reedy talks about the work that parents do with a home therapist while their child is away in therapy and how that impacts their children. He talks about the need for self-care and support so children don't feel the pressure to take care of the parent at the sacrifice of their authentic self.