Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast
998 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago - ★★★★★ - 133 ratingsEvoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host [email protected]
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Episodes
Review of "Refuge Recovery" by Noah Levine - Ep 216
December 27, 2018 17:30 - 35 minutes - 64.5 MBDr. Reedy reviews Refuge Recovery by Noah Levine. He praises it as a simple and straightforward approach appealing to those who may want a non-theistic approach to recovery. He also talks about how it doesn't tend to provoke defensiveness as some other models, due to it's avoidance of dogmatic principles. He talks about it as both an alternative and a compliment to other approaches to treating addiction. He discusses mindfulness and other Buddhist inspired elements of the approach.
Identity - Ep 215
December 14, 2018 18:00 - 43 minutes - 80.4 MBDr. Reedy discusses adolescent and young adult developmental tasks and the implications for parents helping children negotiate these stages.
Identity
December 14, 2018 18:00 - 43 minutes - 80.4 MBDr. Reedy discusses adolescent and young adult developmental tasks and the implications for parents helping children negotiate these stages.
Identity - Ep 215
December 14, 2018 18:00 - 43 minutes - 80.4 MBDr. Reedy discusses adolescent and young adult developmental tasks and the implications for parents helping children negotiate these stages.
Frustration Tolerance and Gratification Delay
December 11, 2018 03:03 - 45 minutes - 83.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about Delay of Gratification and Low Frustration Tolerance and the developmental science behind it. He talks about how these traits related to other issues. He teaches parents how to support healthy development in these areas. He explains that Wilderness Therapy, specifically nomadic primitive living wilderness therapy, is an effective way at fostering growth in these areas.
Frustration Tolerance and Gratification Delay - Ep 214
December 11, 2018 03:03 - 45 minutes - 83.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about Delay of Gratification and Low Frustration Tolerance and the developmental science behind it. He talks about how these traits related to other issues. He teaches parents how to support healthy development in these areas. He explains that Wilderness Therapy, specifically nomadic primitive living wilderness therapy, is an effective way at fostering growth in these areas.
Frustration Tolerance and Gratification Delay - Ep 214
December 11, 2018 03:03 - 45 minutes - 83.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about Delay of Gratification and Low Frustration Tolerance and the developmental science behind it. He talks about how these traits related to other issues. He teaches parents how to support healthy development in these areas. He explains that Wilderness Therapy, specifically nomadic primitive living wilderness therapy, is an effective way at fostering growth in these areas.
“How to Raise an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Gottman. Book Review
December 04, 2018 03:15 - 52 minutes - 95.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses the work of John Gottman, Ph.d. and his concept of emotional coaching (in contrast to dismissive, dissaproving, or laissez-faire parenting). Gottman explains how learning to hear and validate children leads to resiliency and the reduction of mental health issues. Parents who focus on behaviors rather than emotions, tend to overvalue cooperation. Parents who see a child's "negative" emotions as an opportunity for intimacy are better suited to provide healthy guidance. He ex...
Review of “How to Raise an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Gottman - Ep 213
December 04, 2018 03:15 - 52 minutes - 95.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses the work of John Gottman, Ph.d. and his concept of emotional coaching (in contrast to dismissive, dissaproving, or laissez-faire parenting). Gottman explains how learning to hear and validate children leads to resiliency and the reduction of mental health issues. Parents who focus on behaviors rather than emotions, tend to overvalue cooperation. Parents who see a child's "negative" emotions as an opportunity for intimacy are better suited to provide healthy guidance. He ex...
Review of “How to Raise an Emotionally Intelligent Child” by John Gottman - Ep 213
December 04, 2018 03:15 - 52 minutes - 95.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses the work of John Gottman, Ph.d. and his concept of emotional coaching (in contrast to dismissive, dissaproving, or laissez-faire parenting). Gottman explains how learning to hear and validate children leads to resiliency and the reduction of mental health issues. Parents who focus on behaviors rather than emotions, tend to overvalue cooperation. Parents who see a child's "negative" emotions as an opportunity for intimacy are better suited to provide healthy guidance. He ex...
Internet, Gaming, and Computer Addiction - Ep 212
November 30, 2018 17:18 - 46 minutes - 85.9 MBDr. Reedy discusses the vulnerabilities and underlying issues that may lead to electronic addictions. He discuses and compares substance abuse disorders with process addiction. He talks about parenting a child struggling with self-sabatoging and self-medicating behaviors.
Internet, Gaming, and Computer Addiction
November 30, 2018 17:18 - 46 minutes - 85.9 MBDr. Reedy discusses the vulnerabilities and underlying issues that may lead to electronic addictions. He discuses and compares substance abuse disorders with process addiction. He talks about parenting a child struggling with self-sabatoging and self-medicating behaviors.
Internet, Gaming, and Computer Addiction - Ep 212
November 30, 2018 17:18 - 46 minutes - 85.9 MBDr. Reedy discusses the vulnerabilities and underlying issues that may lead to electronic addictions. He discuses and compares substance abuse disorders with process addiction. He talks about parenting a child struggling with self-sabatoging and self-medicating behaviors.
Winter & Holidays in Wilderness Therapy - Ep 211
November 28, 2018 15:43 - 33 minutes - 61.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses some of the concepts underlying wilderness therapy and how those dynamics are intensified in the winter and during the holiday season. He talks about how we support and celebrate holidays and how wilderness in the winter creates mindfulness and a greater appreciation for family.
Winter & Holidays in Wilderness Therapy - Ep 211
November 28, 2018 15:43 - 33 minutes - 61.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses some of the concepts underlying wilderness therapy and how those dynamics are intensified in the winter and during the holiday season. He talks about how we support and celebrate holidays and how wilderness in the winter creates mindfulness and a greater appreciation for family.
Winter & Holidays in Wilderness Therapy
November 28, 2018 15:43 - 33 minutes - 61.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses some of the concepts underlying wilderness therapy and how those dynamics are intensified in the winter and during the holiday season. He talks about how we support and celebrate holidays and how wilderness in the winter creates mindfulness and a greater appreciation for family.
What Your Children Don't Want You To Know (or they can't say) - Ep 210
November 13, 2018 16:59 - 42 minutes - 77.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about important aspects of parent-child dynamic that help to improve boundaries, self-efficacy, and resiliency. Parental self-care and appropriate praise are also discussed.
What Your Children Don't Want You To Know (or they can't say)
November 13, 2018 16:59 - 42 minutes - 77.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about important aspects of parent-child dynamic that help to improve boundaries, self-efficacy, and resiliency. Parental self-care and appropriate praise are also discussed.
When Is It Time For Guidance? - Ep 209
November 03, 2018 21:06 - 49 minutes - 68.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses the need for listening before talking or teaching. He describes how the brain's higher level functioning, when feeling threatened or stressed, is hijacked and the individual is unable to take-in information or reason. He talks about the need for parents and others to listen to children to quiet the flight or fight responses, before launching into lectures or lessons, so that those lessons may sink-in.
When Is It Time For Guidance?
November 03, 2018 21:06 - 49 minutes - 68.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses the need for listening before talking or teaching. He describes how the brain's higher level functioning, when feeling threatened or stressed, is hijacked and the individual is unable to take-in information or reason. He talks about the need for parents and others to listen to children to quiet the flight or fight responses, before launching into lectures or lessons, so that those lessons may sink-in.
Q & A for Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke - Ep 208
October 28, 2018 20:25 - 38 minutes - 70.4 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from family and friends of Evoke Therapy Program clients: How can you support someone who is in treatment? What does a typical day in wilderness therapy look like? What happens after wilderness therapy? What if a sibling doesn't want to talk or write letters to our child while they are in treatment?
Q & A For Siblings, Family, And Friends Of Evoke10 - 25 - 18 Mp3
October 28, 2018 20:25 - 38 minutes - 70.4 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from family and friends of Evoke Therapy Program clients: How can you support someone who is in treatment? What does a typical day in wilderness therapy look like? What happens after wilderness therapy? What if a sibling doesn't want to talk or write letters to our child while they are in treatment?
Getting it Right vs Getting it Real
October 20, 2018 00:47 - 26 minutes - 49.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses the difference between being real and being right. He discusses how our contexts impact us. He discusses how therapy can help us to repair our wounds and how the authentic self is fostered through connection.
Getting it Right vs Getting it Real - Ep 207
October 20, 2018 00:47 - 26 minutes - 49.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses the difference between being real and being right. He discusses how our contexts impact us. He discusses how therapy can help us to repair our wounds and how the authentic self is fostered through connection.
Self In Parenting - Ep 206
October 13, 2018 00:51 - 40 minutes - 74.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses finding yourself in parenting. He explains how selfless parenting is a trap and how the first ingredient in a healthy parent is a healthy sense of self. He talks about how to combine the idea of supporting your child while taking care of yourself directly rather than indirectly.
Self In Parenting
October 13, 2018 00:51 - 40 minutes - 74.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses finding yourself in parenting. He explains how selfless parenting is a trap and how the first ingredient in a healthy parent is a healthy sense of self. He talks about how to combine the idea of supporting your child while taking care of yourself directly rather than indirectly.
Healthy Boundaries based on "The Dance of Anger" by Harriet Lerner
September 27, 2018 18:17 - 59 minutes - 109 MBDr. Reedy reviews The Dance of Anger and what it can teach us about boundaries. He talks about how boundaries are hard work and how we use threats, nagging, lecturing, and all other sorts of behaviors in parenting instead of setting boundaries. He also talks about how setting healthy boundaries is akin to developing and modeling a healthy sense of self and helps to foster that development in our children.
Healthy Boundaries based on "The Dance of Anger" by Harriet Lerner - Ep 205
September 27, 2018 18:17 - 59 minutes - 109 MBDr. Reedy reviews The Dance of Anger and what it can teach us about boundaries. He talks about how boundaries are hard work and how we use threats, nagging, lecturing, and all other sorts of behaviors in parenting instead of setting boundaries. He also talks about how setting healthy boundaries is akin to developing and modeling a healthy sense of self and helps to foster that development in our children.
Control vs, Influence
September 14, 2018 19:19 - 50 minutes - 91.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses how strictness and control are not the same thing. He discusses emotional coercion and how it is harmful in parenting. He talks about how most permissive parents use emotional coercion in lieu of boundaries.
Control vs, Influence - Ep 204
September 14, 2018 19:19 - 50 minutes - 91.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses how strictness and control are not the same thing. He discusses emotional coercion and how it is harmful in parenting. He talks about how most permissive parents use emotional coercion in lieu of boundaries.
Raising Resilient Children – Interview with Summit County Health Department
September 13, 2018 17:58 - 25 minutes - 35.6 MBDr. Reedy is a guest with Derek Siddoway on Summit County Health Department's podcast in preparation for his talk on Raising Resilient Children, Monday September 17, 2018, from 6-8 p.m. at the Blair Education Center in Park City, Utah. Go to https://summitcountyhealth.org to learn more or to subscribe to their podcast.
Raising Resilient Children – Interview with Summit County Health Department - Ep 203
September 13, 2018 17:58 - 25 minutes - 35.6 MBDr. Reedy is a guest with Derek Siddoway on Summit County Health Department's podcast in preparation for his talk on Raising Resilient Children, Monday September 17, 2018, from 6-8 p.m. at the Blair Education Center in Park City, Utah. Go to https://summitcountyhealth.org to learn more or to subscribe to their podcast.
Guilt, Blame, and Accountability
September 07, 2018 14:37 - 1 hour - 122 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about the intersect between parental guilt and accountability. He describes how guilt can rob us of our ability to hold boundaries and practice self-care. He makes a case for the value of parents doing their own work without the negative effects of blame. He describes the "idiot" parent intervention.
Guilt, Blame, and Accountability - Ep 202
September 07, 2018 14:37 - 1 hour - 122 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about the intersect between parental guilt and accountability. He describes how guilt can rob us of our ability to hold boundaries and practice self-care. He makes a case for the value of parents doing their own work without the negative effects of blame. He describes the "idiot" parent intervention.
Q&A For Siblings, Family, And Friends Of Evoke Therapy Programs - Ep 201
August 31, 2018 02:08 - 41 minutes - 76.5 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from family and friends about how to support your family member at Evoke Therapy Programs. He addresses relapse and how a parent can be confident a child is telling the truth while in treatment. He also talks about what makes wilderness therapy differ from other forms of therapy.
Q&A For Siblings, Family, And Friends Of Evoke Therapy Programs
August 31, 2018 02:08 - 41 minutes - 76.5 MBDr. Reedy takes questions from family and friends about how to support your family member at Evoke Therapy Programs. He addresses relapse and how a parent can be confident a child is telling the truth while in treatment. He also talks about what makes wilderness therapy differ from other forms of therapy.
Attachment Theory: What it looks like and why it's important.
August 24, 2018 21:20 - 39 minutes - 72.4 MBDr. Reedy talks about why attachment is so important and what a healthy attachment does for a child's brain and development. He also talks, practically, about what healthy attachment looks like and what gets in the way of creating it.
Attachment Theory: What it looks like and why it's important - Ep 200
August 24, 2018 21:20 - 39 minutes - 72.4 MBDr. Reedy talks about why attachment is so important and what a healthy attachment does for a child's brain and development. He also talks, practically, about what healthy attachment looks like and what gets in the way of creating it.
Reading and Writing Letters and Principles of Communication - Ep 199
August 22, 2018 18:49 - 58 minutes - 108 MBDr. Reedy discusses the letter writing process at Evoke and what we can learn about communication and relationships. He discusses how we, as parents, ask children to remove their defenses when it is often we that contributed to the need for the defense in the first place.
Reading and Writing Letters and Principles of Communication
August 22, 2018 18:49 - 58 minutes - 108 MBDr. Reedy discusses the letter writing process at Evoke and what we can learn about communication and relationships. He discusses how we, as parents, ask children to remove their defenses when it is often we that contributed to the need for the defense in the first place.
Interview With Evoke Therapy Alumni Mother And Daughter - Ep 198
August 21, 2018 19:43 - 47 minutes - 87.2 MBDr. Reedy interviews Joye and Morgan, a mother and daughter who went through Evoke's Wilderness Therapy Program. Joye and Morgan share their journey of hope and healing in the hopes that others won't feel so alone.
Interview With Evoke Therapy Alumni Mother And Daughter
August 21, 2018 19:43 - 47 minutes - 87.2 MBDr. Reedy interviews Joye and Morgan, a mother and daughter who went through Evoke's Wilderness Therapy Program. Joye and Morgan share their journey of hope and healing in the hopes that others won't feel so alone.
Letting Go Of Outcomes
August 17, 2018 21:00 - 49 minutes - 90.5 MBDr. Reedy discusses what it means to "let go of outcomes" and how this practice can lead to exactly what we want. He talks about what gets in the way of letting go, including pain, hurt, fear, and our instinct to control. This discussion and Q&A portion of the podcast focuses, in part, on co-dependency and how to heal from it.
Letting Go Of Outcomes - Ep 197
August 17, 2018 21:00 - 49 minutes - 90.5 MBDr. Reedy discusses what it means to "let go of outcomes" and how this practice can lead to exactly what we want. He talks about what gets in the way of letting go, including pain, hurt, fear, and our instinct to control. This discussion and Q&A portion of the podcast focuses, in part, on co-dependency and how to heal from it.
Coming Out - Ep 196
August 15, 2018 19:00 - 34 minutes - 62.8 MBDr. Reedy talks about coming out for LGBTQ+ children. He talks about it from the perspective of the child (using thoughts from Ash Beckhams TED Talk) and how best to receive and celebrate your child. He offers do's and don'ts for parents whose children come out.
Coming Out
August 15, 2018 19:00 - 34 minutes - 62.8 MBDr. Reedy talks about coming out for LGBTQ+ children. He talks about it from the perspective of the child (using thoughts from Ash Beckhams TED Talk) and how best to receive and celebrate your child. He offers do's and don'ts for parents whose children come out.
Contexts and All Kinds of Therapy
August 11, 2018 16:24 - 51 minutes - 93.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses the value in our lives of living in different contexts. A difference context allows you to see your own context and provides perspective for understanding the implicit, unwritten, and unspoken messages of your family of origin and your day to day life. A safe therapeutic context can help repair shame and the feeling that you are not okay. A safe context is the starting place for healing and addressing symptoms that started as coping mechanisms.
Contexts and All Kinds of Therapy - Ep 195
August 11, 2018 16:24 - 51 minutes - 93.8 MBDr. Reedy discusses the value in our lives of living in different contexts. A difference context allows you to see your own context and provides perspective for understanding the implicit, unwritten, and unspoken messages of your family of origin and your day to day life. A safe therapeutic context can help repair shame and the feeling that you are not okay. A safe context is the starting place for healing and addressing symptoms that started as coping mechanisms.
Q&A for Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke - Ep 194
June 16, 2018 13:34 - 28 minutes - 51.8 MBDr. Reedy talks with families from Evoke Therapy Programs about aftercare and how to support Evoke clients.
Q&A for Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke
June 16, 2018 13:34 - 28 minutes - 51.8 MBDr. Reedy talks with families from Evoke Therapy Programs about aftercare and how to support Evoke clients.