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Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast

991 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 days ago - ★★★★★ - 133 ratings

Evoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host [email protected]

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Episodes

Family Of Origin 2019 - Ep 246

August 06, 2019 17:15 - 1 hour - 130 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy discusses the impact of our family of origin (the family we grew up in) on our current day challenges and difficulties. He also talks about how the pathway out of our children’s struggles runs through looking at the ways we, as parents, hurt them and came up short. He talks about “emotional proximity” and how this is passed on in families. He talks about the need to balance our ability to hold our children psychologically (containing) and having a secure self with clear boundar...

Family Of Origin 2019

August 06, 2019 17:15 - 1 hour - 130 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy discusses the impact of our family of origin (the family we grew up in) on our current day challenges and difficulties. He also talks about how the pathway out of our children’s struggles runs through looking at the ways we, as parents, hurt them and came up short. He talks about “emotional proximity” and how this is passed on in families. He talks about the need to balance our ability to hold our children psychologically (containing) and having a secure self with clear boundar...

The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller 2019 - Ep 245

July 26, 2019 17:00 - 45 minutes - 82.9 MB

This book is a must read. Dr. Reedy reviews what he calls "the most important book on the subject of child development and parenting." He talks about the dynamic where a child is able to perceive what a parent needs and then gives it to the parent at the cost of the real self. He explains how many of our challenges are related to our childhood wounds and how it is only by discovering those early wounds that we are able to move past many of the pitfalls in our lives today.

The Drama of the Gifted Child by Alice Miller 2019

July 26, 2019 17:00 - 45 minutes - 82.9 MB

This book is a must read. Dr. Reedy reviews what he calls "the most important book on the subject of child development and parenting." He talks about the dynamic where a child is able to perceive what a parent needs and then gives it to the parent at the cost of the real self. He explains how many of our challenges are related to our childhood wounds and how it is only by discovering those early wounds that we are able to move past many of the pitfalls in our lives today.

Healthy Detchment 2019

July 24, 2019 17:00 - 53 minutes - 98.1 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about codependency and healthy detachment. He offers a definition of healthy detachment and describes the art of boundaries. He suggest healthy detachment is synonymous with healthy connection, attachment, and intimacy.

Healthy Detachment 2019

July 24, 2019 17:00 - 53 minutes - 98.1 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about codependency and healthy detachment. He offers a definition of healthy detachment and describes the art of boundaries. He suggest healthy detachment is synonymous with healthy connection, attachment, and intimacy.

Healthy Detachment 2019 - Ep 244

July 24, 2019 17:00 - 53 minutes - 98.1 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about codependency and healthy detachment. He offers a definition of healthy detachment and describes the art of boundaries. He suggest healthy detachment is synonymous with healthy connection, attachment, and intimacy.

Healthy Detachment - Ep 244

July 24, 2019 17:00 - 53 minutes - 98.1 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about codependency and healthy detachment. He offers a definition of healthy detachment and describes the art of boundaries. He suggest healthy detachment is synonymous with healthy connection, attachment, and intimacy.

Social Graces Racial Cultural Identity

July 23, 2019 20:55 - 52 minutes - 96.5 MB

Evoke Therapy therapist, Judith Sadora, introduces the concepts of social graces and how it incorporates racial and cultural Identity in working with adolescents of color. She discusses the importance of normalizing and creating space to talk about concepts related to racial and cultural identity. This podcast also discusses a few strategies that adopted parents can incorporate when discussing race with their adopted children from different racial and cultural backgrounds.

Social Graces Racial Cultural Identity - Ep 243

July 23, 2019 20:55 - 52 minutes - 96.5 MB

Evoke Therapy therapist, Judith Sadora, introduces the concepts of social graces and how it incorporates racial and cultural Identity in working with adolescents of color. She discusses the importance of normalizing and creating space to talk about concepts related to racial and cultural identity. This podcast also discusses a few strategies that adopted parents can incorporate when discussing race with their adopted children from different racial and cultural backgrounds.

Fears And Insecurities 2019 - Ep 242

July 19, 2019 14:19 - 44 minutes - 82.2 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about facing our fears & insecurities and how doing so reduces the power they have over our life. He talks about how doing so helps our children, our spouses, and our friends to feel safer. He talks about how sometimes we have to do things while we are still afraid and how therapy can help with that.

Fears And Insecurities 2019

July 19, 2019 14:19 - 44 minutes - 82.2 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about facing our fears & insecurities and how doing so reduces the power they have over our life. He talks about how doing so helps our children, our spouses, and our friends to feel safer. He talks about how sometimes we have to do things while we are still afraid and how therapy can help with that.

Fears And Insecurities 2019 - Ep 242

July 19, 2019 14:19 - 44 minutes - 82.2 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about facing our fears & insecurities and how doing so reduces the power they have over our life. He talks about how doing so helps our children, our spouses, and our friends to feel safer. He talks about how sometimes we have to do things while we are still afraid and how therapy can help with that.

How Much Time Does My Child Need To Be In Treatment? 2019

June 25, 2019 16:00 - 49 minutes - 90.8 MB

Brad talks about how decisions for length of stay are made and the kinds of things to consider. He challenges parents to avoid the mistake of thinking that treatment is a fix, but rather to approach it like it is the start of a life-long process. He talks about why so many clients go on to some residential programming after Evoke.

How Much Time Does My Child Need To Be In Treatment? 2019 - Ep 241

June 25, 2019 16:00 - 49 minutes - 90.8 MB

Brad talks about how decisions for length of stay are made and the kinds of things to consider. He challenges parents to avoid the mistake of thinking that treatment is a fix, but rather to approach it like it is the start of a life-long process. He talks about why so many clients go on to some residential programming after Evoke.

How Much Time Does My Child Need To Be In Treatment? 2019 - Ep 241

June 25, 2019 16:00 - 49 minutes - 90.8 MB

Brad talks about how decisions for length of stay are made and the kinds of things to consider. He challenges parents to avoid the mistake of thinking that treatment is a fix, but rather to approach it like it is the start of a life-long process. He talks about why so many clients go on to some residential programming after Evoke.

Adjusting To Out Of Home Placement 2019 - Ep 240

June 14, 2019 16:10 - 50 minutes - 92 MB

This broadcast is for parents new to the experience of wilderness therapy or residential treatment. Dr. Reedy discusses the benefits of experiential therapy. He talks about the adjustments families and siblings go through and where to look for support. He also discusses the benefits and ideas behind parental work in the therapeutic process.

Adjusting To Out Of Home Placement 2019 - Ep 240

June 14, 2019 16:10 - 50 minutes - 92 MB

This broadcast is for parents new to the experience of wilderness therapy or residential treatment. Dr. Reedy discusses the benefits of experiential therapy. He talks about the adjustments families and siblings go through and where to look for support. He also discusses the benefits and ideas behind parental work in the therapeutic process.

Adjusting To Out Of Home Placement 2019

June 14, 2019 16:10 - 50 minutes - 92 MB

This broadcast is for parents new to the experience of wilderness therapy or residential treatment. Dr. Reedy discusses the benefits of experiential therapy. He talks about the adjustments families and siblings go through and where to look for support. He also discusses the benefits and ideas behind parental work in the therapeutic process.

Vulnerability 2019

June 08, 2019 16:47 - 57 minutes - 105 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about vulnerability, shame, and how we can focus on what is beneath the symptom to facilitate healing. He talks about how it can be difficult for all of us to lean into our work because we grew up in a culture of right & wrong, good & bad, blame, shame, and guilt.

Vulnerability 2019 - Ep 239

June 08, 2019 16:47 - 57 minutes - 105 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about vulnerability, shame, and how we can focus on what is beneath the symptom to facilitate healing. He talks about how it can be difficult for all of us to lean into our work because we grew up in a culture of right & wrong, good & bad, blame, shame, and guilt.

Vulnerability 2019 - Ep 239

June 08, 2019 16:47 - 57 minutes - 105 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about vulnerability, shame, and how we can focus on what is beneath the symptom to facilitate healing. He talks about how it can be difficult for all of us to lean into our work because we grew up in a culture of right & wrong, good & bad, blame, shame, and guilt.

Evoke Therapy Programs Life Cycle 2019 - Ep 238

May 20, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 135 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses the stages of change for children and parents as they move through the therapy process at Evoke. He talks about regression, relapse, and how to let go of outcomes when it comes to your children's thoughts and feelings,

Evoke Therapy Programs Life Cycle 2019 - Ep 238

May 20, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 135 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses the stages of change for children and parents as they move through the therapy process at Evoke. He talks about regression, relapse, and how to let go of outcomes when it comes to your children's thoughts and feelings,

Evoke Therapy Programs Life Cycle 2019

May 20, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 135 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses the stages of change for children and parents as they move through the therapy process at Evoke. He talks about regression, relapse, and how to let go of outcomes when it comes to your children's thoughts and feelings,

Introducing Evoke to Family & Friends 2019

May 11, 2019 17:00 - 49 minutes - 90.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director and Co-Founder of Evoke Therapy Programs, explains Evoke's wilderness therapy for those who have a family member or friend at Evoke. He talks about how you can support your loved ones as they navigate the difficult path toward healing from mental health and addiction issues.

Introducing Evoke to Family & Friends 2019 - Ep 237

May 11, 2019 17:00 - 49 minutes - 90.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director and Co-Founder of Evoke Therapy Programs, explains Evoke's wilderness therapy for those who have a family member or friend at Evoke. He talks about how you can support your loved ones as they navigate the difficult path toward healing from mental health and addiction issues.

Introducing Evoke to Family & Friends 2019 - Ep 237

May 11, 2019 17:00 - 49 minutes - 90.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director and Co-Founder of Evoke Therapy Programs, explains Evoke's wilderness therapy for those who have a family member or friend at Evoke. He talks about how you can support your loved ones as they navigate the difficult path toward healing from mental health and addiction issues.

Communication Skills and Principles 2019 - Ep 236

May 07, 2019 14:44 - 1 hour - 120 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how communication skills can be used to gain clarity and transform a relationship from enmeshment and reactivity to clarity and connection. He talks about the fundamental tools of communication and listening and the ideas that they rest on.

Communication Skills and Principles 2019 - Ep 236

May 07, 2019 14:44 - 1 hour - 120 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how communication skills can be used to gain clarity and transform a relationship from enmeshment and reactivity to clarity and connection. He talks about the fundamental tools of communication and listening and the ideas that they rest on.

Communication Skills and Principles 2019

May 07, 2019 14:44 - 1 hour - 120 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how communication skills can be used to gain clarity and transform a relationship from enmeshment and reactivity to clarity and connection. He talks about the fundamental tools of communication and listening and the ideas that they rest on.

Four Agreements Book Review 2019 - Ep 235

April 26, 2019 22:54 - 1 hour - 119 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy discusses "The Four Agreements," by Don Miguel Ruiz. He highlights how closely this book aligns with what we know about child development, attachment, and parenting. He talks about guilt and shame. He talks about learning to un-learn many of the things our parents taught us and their parents taught them. Brad recommends this book to parents and children alike as a spiritual guide to our psychological development.

Four Agreements Book Review 2019 - Ep 235

April 26, 2019 22:54 - 1 hour - 119 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy discusses "The Four Agreements," by Don Miguel Ruiz. He highlights how closely this book aligns with what we know about child development, attachment, and parenting. He talks about guilt and shame. He talks about learning to un-learn many of the things our parents taught us and their parents taught them. Brad recommends this book to parents and children alike as a spiritual guide to our psychological development.

Four Agreements Book Review 2019

April 26, 2019 22:54 - 1 hour - 119 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy discusses "The Four Agreements," by Don Miguel Ruiz. He highlights how closely this book aligns with what we know about child development, attachment, and parenting. He talks about guilt and shame. He talks about learning to un-learn many of the things our parents taught us and their parents taught them. Brad recommends this book to parents and children alike as a spiritual guide to our psychological development.

Fathers And Sons 2019 - Ep 234

April 24, 2019 18:00 - 59 minutes - 110 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about how fathers play an important role in the lives of their sons. He talks about being a mentor and learning to listen as keys to raising resilient and resourceful sons.

Fathers And Sons 2019

April 24, 2019 18:00 - 59 minutes - 110 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about how fathers play an important role in the lives of their sons. He talks about being a mentor and learning to listen as keys to raising resilient and resourceful sons.

Fathers And Sons 2019 - Ep 234

April 24, 2019 18:00 - 59 minutes - 110 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about how fathers play an important role in the lives of their sons. He talks about being a mentor and learning to listen as keys to raising resilient and resourceful sons.

Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke Q&A - Ep 233

April 18, 2019 16:00 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MB

Dr. Reedy takes questions from siblings, family, and friends of Evoke Therapy Programs participants. He talks about how to support a loved one in treatment. He talks about honoring siblings struggle to reconnect to their sibling in treatment.

Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke Q&A - Ep 233

April 18, 2019 16:00 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MB

Dr. Reedy takes questions from siblings, family, and friends of Evoke Therapy Programs participants. He talks about how to support a loved one in treatment. He talks about honoring siblings struggle to reconnect to their sibling in treatment.

Siblings, Family, and Friends of Evoke Q&A April 17, 2019

April 18, 2019 16:00 - 43 minutes - 39.4 MB

Dr. Reedy takes questions from siblings, family, and friends of Evoke Therapy Programs participants. He talks about how to support a loved one in treatment. He talks about honoring siblings struggle to reconnect to their sibling in treatment.

Letter Writing and Phone Calls: How Communication with Your Child Shapes the Relationship

April 12, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 127 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how we communicate with our children reveals qualities of our relationship with them. He provides guidance for writing letters to your child and connecting those to the underlying ideas of intimacy, connection, and differentiation.

Letter Writing and Phone Calls: How Communication with Your Child Shapes the Relationship - Ep 232

April 12, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 127 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how we communicate with our children reveals qualities of our relationship with them. He provides guidance for writing letters to your child and connecting those to the underlying ideas of intimacy, connection, and differentiation.

Letter Writing and Phone Calls: How Communication with Your Child Shapes the Relationship - Ep 232

April 12, 2019 16:00 - 1 hour - 127 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy talks about how we communicate with our children reveals qualities of our relationship with them. He provides guidance for writing letters to your child and connecting those to the underlying ideas of intimacy, connection, and differentiation.

Inner-Child - Ep 231

April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.

Inner-Child

April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.

Inner-Child - Ep 231

April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MB

Dr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.

Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019 - Ep 230

March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.

Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019 - Ep 230

March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.

Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019

March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MB

Dr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.

The Myth Of Being Right 2019 - Ep 229

March 22, 2019 18:00 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MB

Dr. Reedy talks about how being right is the opposite of being a Self. He talks about how children and parents can get stuck in the battle over who is right and who is wrong. He talks about how trying to be good and right is the enemy of personal growth.

Books

Fathers and Sons
5 Episodes
The Dance of Anger
4 Episodes