Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast
998 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago - ★★★★★ - 133 ratingsEvoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host [email protected]
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Episodes
Inner-Child - Ep 231
April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.
Inner-Child - Ep 231
April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.
Inner-Child
April 04, 2019 15:07 - 47 minutes - 86.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy, Clinical Director of Evoke Therapy Programs, discusses the concept of our inner-child: the lost parts of ourselves, the authentic or real self. He talks about how it is lost through messages of shame and how to regain and integrate those parts of ourselves. Brad talks about doing you own work and shares some stories about his own inner-child work.
Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019 - Ep 230
March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.
Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019 - Ep 230
March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.
Getting the Support You Deserve and Need 2019
March 29, 2019 17:00 - 46 minutes - 85.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses self-care and creating a life where people respect and honor you and your boundaries.
The Myth Of Being Right 2019
March 22, 2019 18:00 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about how being right is the opposite of being a Self. He talks about how children and parents can get stuck in the battle over who is right and who is wrong. He talks about how trying to be good and right is the enemy of personal growth.
The Myth Of Being Right 2019 - Ep 229
March 22, 2019 18:00 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about how being right is the opposite of being a Self. He talks about how children and parents can get stuck in the battle over who is right and who is wrong. He talks about how trying to be good and right is the enemy of personal growth.
The Myth Of Being Right 2019 - Ep 229
March 22, 2019 18:00 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy talks about how being right is the opposite of being a Self. He talks about how children and parents can get stuck in the battle over who is right and who is wrong. He talks about how trying to be good and right is the enemy of personal growth.
Entitlement 2019 - Ep 280
March 13, 2019 19:11 - 54 minutes - 99.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about entitlement in children and offers a unique perspective. He explains how terms like "spoiled," "selfish," and even "entitled" are used by adults to shame children so that the adult doesn't have to own and deal with boundary setting. He explains barriers to setting boundaries and encourages parents to do their own work to improve in this area. He also talks about how parents are shamed through labels like "helicopter-parent," "enmeshed," or even "codependent."
Entitlement 2019 - Ep 280
March 13, 2019 19:11 - 54 minutes - 99.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about entitlement in children and offers a unique perspective. He explains how terms like "spoiled," "selfish," and even "entitled" are used by adults to shame children so that the adult doesn't have to own and deal with boundary setting. He explains barriers to setting boundaries and encourages parents to do their own work to improve in this area. He also talks about how parents are shamed through labels like "helicopter-parent," "enmeshed," or even "codependent."
Entitlement 2019
March 13, 2019 19:11 - 54 minutes - 99.1 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about entitlement in children and offers a unique perspective. He explains how terms like "spoiled," "selfish," and even "entitled" are used by adults to shame children so that the adult doesn't have to own and deal with boundary setting. He explains barriers to setting boundaries and encourages parents to do their own work to improve in this area. He also talks about how parents are shamed through labels like "helicopter-parent," "enmeshed," or even "codependent."
Trust, Permission, Forgiveness, and Forgetting 2019
February 22, 2019 17:00 - 1 hour - 113 MBDr. Reedy discusses the dynamics of trust and forgiveness as it relates to parenting a struggling child. He talks about how trust is something we own and decide to give away on our own time schedule. He talks about how healing and forgiving are at the discretion of the hurt part, not the one doing the hurting. He empowers parents to own their feelings a not be responsible for how others interpret them.
Trust, Permission, Forgiveness, and Forgetting 2019 - Ep 228
February 22, 2019 17:00 - 1 hour - 113 MBDr. Reedy discusses the dynamics of trust and forgiveness as it relates to parenting a struggling child. He talks about how trust is something we own and decide to give away on our own time schedule. He talks about how healing and forgiving are at the discretion of the hurt part, not the one doing the hurting. He empowers parents to own their feelings a not be responsible for how others interpret them.
Trust, Permission, Forgiveness, and Forgetting 2019 - Ep 228
February 22, 2019 17:00 - 1 hour - 113 MBDr. Reedy discusses the dynamics of trust and forgiveness as it relates to parenting a struggling child. He talks about how trust is something we own and decide to give away on our own time schedule. He talks about how healing and forgiving are at the discretion of the hurt part, not the one doing the hurting. He empowers parents to own their feelings a not be responsible for how others interpret them.
Resistance (in Therapy) - Ep 227
February 21, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 127 MBDr. Reedy talks to parents about various types of resistance in therapy and how best to engage their children without making it worse.
Resistance (in Therapy) - Ep 227
February 21, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 127 MBDr. Reedy talks to parents about various types of resistance in therapy and how best to engage their children without making it worse.
Resistance (in Therapy)
February 21, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 127 MBDr. Reedy talks to parents about various types of resistance in therapy and how best to engage their children without making it worse.
8 Tools For Transforming Relationships 2019 - Ep 226
February 14, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 120 MBDr. Reedy talks about the 8 Tools he has seen made the biggest impact on the children and families he has worked with for the last 23 years: I statements, listening, clarifying intent, avoiding imperatives and polarizing language, developing a practice of compassion, and taking time-outs. He shares stories and examples of each of the tools as well as how they help foster differentiation in relationships.
8 Tools For Transforming Relationships 2019 - Ep 226
February 14, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 120 MBDr. Reedy talks about the 8 Tools he has seen made the biggest impact on the children and families he has worked with for the last 23 years: I statements, listening, clarifying intent, avoiding imperatives and polarizing language, developing a practice of compassion, and taking time-outs. He shares stories and examples of each of the tools as well as how they help foster differentiation in relationships.
8 Tools For Transforming Relationships 2019
February 14, 2019 17:30 - 1 hour - 120 MBDr. Reedy talks about the 8 Tools he has seen made the biggest impact on the children and families he has worked with for the last 23 years: I statements, listening, clarifying intent, avoiding imperatives and polarizing language, developing a practice of compassion, and taking time-outs. He shares stories and examples of each of the tools as well as how they help foster differentiation in relationships.
The Identified Patient 2019 - Ep 225
February 07, 2019 17:00 - 52 minutes - 95.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses the shift from the identified patient model to treating the family system. He talks about seeing beneath the symptoms to the underlying wound that is being expressed. He also invites parents of struggling children to model vulnerability and openness in the therapeutic process.
The Identified Patient 2019
February 07, 2019 17:00 - 52 minutes - 95.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses the shift from the identified patient model to treating the family system. He talks about seeing beneath the symptoms to the underlying wound that is being expressed. He also invites parents of struggling children to model vulnerability and openness in the therapeutic process.
The Identified Patient 2019 - Ep 225
February 07, 2019 17:00 - 52 minutes - 95.7 MBDr. Reedy discusses the shift from the identified patient model to treating the family system. He talks about seeing beneath the symptoms to the underlying wound that is being expressed. He also invites parents of struggling children to model vulnerability and openness in the therapeutic process.
Q&A for Parents, Siblings, Extended Family & Friends - Ep 224
February 05, 2019 19:26 - 1 hour - 122 MBDr. Reedy answers questions from siblings, friends, and extended family members of Evoke participants about wilderness therapy, siblings, and mental health. Some of the topics included here are how to support a loved-one while in treatment, how to deal with a sibling at home resistant to family therapy, and how to deal with guilt for sending a child to treatment.
Q&A for Parents, Siblings, Extended Family & Friends - Ep 224
February 05, 2019 19:26 - 1 hour - 122 MBDr. Reedy answers questions from siblings, friends, and extended family members of Evoke participants about wilderness therapy, siblings, and mental health. Some of the topics included here are how to support a loved-one while in treatment, how to deal with a sibling at home resistant to family therapy, and how to deal with guilt for sending a child to treatment.
Q&A for Parents, Siblings, Extended Family & Friends
February 05, 2019 19:26 - 1 hour - 122 MBDr. Reedy answers questions from siblings, friends, and extended family members of Evoke participants about wilderness therapy, siblings, and mental health. Some of the topics included here are how to support a loved-one while in treatment, how to deal with a sibling at home resistant to family therapy, and how to deal with guilt for sending a child to treatment.
Review of "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck" By Mark Monson - Ep 223
January 29, 2019 18:00 - 41 minutes - 76.1 MBDr. Reedy discusses the hot new book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Monson. He talks about how the book offers an accessible entry to some Buddhist concepts like radical acceptances, the inevitability of suffering, detachment, and the beginners mind. He also talks about some of the book's limitations and short comings, specifically the lack of insight on how to effectively deal with resistance.
Review of "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck" By Mark Monson - Ep 223
January 29, 2019 18:00 - 41 minutes - 76.1 MBDr. Reedy discusses the hot new book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Monson. He talks about how the book offers an accessible entry to some Buddhist concepts like radical acceptances, the inevitability of suffering, detachment, and the beginners mind. He also talks about some of the book's limitations and short comings, specifically the lack of insight on how to effectively deal with resistance.
Book Review- The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck By Mark Monson
January 29, 2019 18:00 - 41 minutes - 76.1 MBDr. Reedy discusses the hot new book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Monson. He talks about how the book offers an accessible entry to some Buddhist concepts like radical acceptances, the inevitability of suffering, detachment, and the beginners mind. He also talks about some of the book's limitations and short comings, specifically the lack of insight on how to effectively deal with resistance.
Co - Parenting 2019
January 26, 2019 16:45 - 42 minutes - 78 MBDr. Reedy talks about the challenges that occur when co-parents don't support each other. He discusses strategies and tools for creating cohesion. At the center of the idea is that if one becomes focused on the other parent, it can increase division and polarizations.
Co - Parenting 2019 - Ep 222
January 26, 2019 16:45 - 42 minutes - 78 MBDr. Reedy talks about the challenges that occur when co-parents don't support each other. He discusses strategies and tools for creating cohesion. At the center of the idea is that if one becomes focused on the other parent, it can increase division and polarizations.
Co - Parenting 2019 - Ep 222
January 26, 2019 16:45 - 42 minutes - 78 MBDr. Reedy talks about the challenges that occur when co-parents don't support each other. He discusses strategies and tools for creating cohesion. At the center of the idea is that if one becomes focused on the other parent, it can increase division and polarizations.
Al-anon, Coda, & Other Anonymous Meetings - Ep 221
January 23, 2019 18:00 - 44 minutes - 81.3 MBDr. Reedy talks about who can benefit from attending 12-Step support groups. The benefits of attending, sharing, working the steps and having a sponsor are reviewed. Dr. Reedy suggests that the 12-Steps could benefit everyone regardless of their specific circumstances.
Al-anon, Coda, & Other Anonymous Meetings
January 23, 2019 18:00 - 44 minutes - 81.3 MBDr. Reedy talks about who can benefit from attending 12-Step support groups. The benefits of attending, sharing, working the steps and having a sponsor are reviewed. Dr. Reedy suggests that the 12-Steps could benefit everyone regardless of their specific circumstances.
Al-anon, Coda, & Other Anonymous Meetings - Ep 221
January 23, 2019 18:00 - 44 minutes - 81.3 MBDr. Reedy talks about who can benefit from attending 12-Step support groups. The benefits of attending, sharing, working the steps and having a sponsor are reviewed. Dr. Reedy suggests that the 12-Steps could benefit everyone regardless of their specific circumstances.
Couple's Work (2019) - Ep 220
January 17, 2019 17:24 - 55 minutes - 102 MBDr. Reedy explains that when the identified patient is removed from the family in treatment the parents often redirect the energy towards the marital relationships. He explores qualities of a healthy marriage beginning with the development of healthy self development in each of the partners. He debunks some common ideas in our culture surrounding love and marriage.
Couple's Work (2019) - Ep 220
January 17, 2019 17:24 - 55 minutes - 102 MBDr. Reedy explains that when the identified patient is removed from the family in treatment the parents often redirect the energy towards the marital relationships. He explores qualities of a healthy marriage beginning with the development of healthy self development in each of the partners. He debunks some common ideas in our culture surrounding love and marriage.
Couple's Work (2019)
January 17, 2019 17:24 - 55 minutes - 102 MBDr. Reedy explains that when the identified patient is removed from the family in treatment the parents often redirect the energy towards the marital relationships. He explores qualities of a healthy marriage beginning with the development of healthy self development in each of the partners. He debunks some common ideas in our culture surrounding love and marriage.
Risk Taking Behavior
January 11, 2019 17:00 - 36 minutes - 67.4 MBDr. Reedy talks about risk taking behavior, the adolescent brain, and how development informs us about our children’s risky behavior. He uses it to explain addiction and other seemingly irrational choices.
Risk Taking Behavior - Ep 219
January 11, 2019 17:00 - 36 minutes - 67.4 MBDr. Reedy talks about risk taking behavior, the adolescent brain, and how development informs us about our children’s risky behavior. He uses it to explain addiction and other seemingly irrational choices.
Risk Taking Behavior - Ep 219
January 11, 2019 17:00 - 36 minutes - 67.4 MBDr. Reedy talks about risk taking behavior, the adolescent brain, and how development informs us about our children’s risky behavior. He uses it to explain addiction and other seemingly irrational choices.
Family Conflict
January 09, 2019 17:22 - 46 minutes - 85.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about dynamics underlying family conflict. He warns that conflict is not simply a measure of a child's struggle and that it may signal a need for a parental shift. He discusses concepts and tools that help in navigating conflict.
Family Conflict - Ep 218
January 09, 2019 17:22 - 46 minutes - 85.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about dynamics underlying family conflict. He warns that conflict is not simply a measure of a child's struggle and that it may signal a need for a parental shift. He discusses concepts and tools that help in navigating conflict.
Family Conflict - Ep 218
January 09, 2019 17:22 - 46 minutes - 85.7 MBDr. Reedy talks about dynamics underlying family conflict. He warns that conflict is not simply a measure of a child's struggle and that it may signal a need for a parental shift. He discusses concepts and tools that help in navigating conflict.
Insight, Experience & The Authentic Self - Ep 217
January 03, 2019 18:55 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy discusses the role that insight and experience play in the development of a healthy self in the therapeutic process.
Insight, Experience & The Authentic Self
January 03, 2019 18:55 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy discusses the role that insight and experience play in the development of a healthy self in the therapeutic process.
Insight, Experience & The Authentic Self - Ep 217
January 03, 2019 18:55 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy discusses the role that insight and experience play in the development of a healthy self in the therapeutic process.
Review of "Refuge Recovery" by Noah Levine - Ep 216
December 27, 2018 17:30 - 35 minutes - 64.5 MBDr. Reedy reviews Refuge Recovery by Noah Levine. He praises it as a simple and straightforward approach appealing to those who may want a non-theistic approach to recovery. He also talks about how it doesn't tend to provoke defensiveness as some other models, due to it's avoidance of dogmatic principles. He talks about it as both an alternative and a compliment to other approaches to treating addiction. He discusses mindfulness and other Buddhist inspired elements of the approach.
Refuge Recovery by Noah Levine
December 27, 2018 17:30 - 35 minutes - 64.5 MBDr. Reedy reviews Refuge Recovery by Noah Levine. He praises it as a simple and straightforward approach appealing to those who may want a non-theistic approach to recovery. He also talks about how it doesn't tend to provoke defensiveness as some other models, due to it's avoidance of dogmatic principles. He talks about it as both an alternative and a compliment to other approaches to treating addiction. He discusses mindfulness and other Buddhist inspired elements of the approach.