Finding You: An Evoke Therapy Podcast
998 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago - ★★★★★ - 133 ratingsEvoke Therapy Programs is an experientially based therapeutic program serving adolescents, young adults, parents, couples, and families. Email the host [email protected]
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Episodes
Preparing for Transition: Regression and Relapse - Ep 193
June 07, 2018 18:30 - 44 minutes - 81.9 MBDr. Reedy discusses regression and what to expect during transitions. He talks about how parents can focus on their own relapse and avoid addictive thinking. He explores various ways parents can utilize resources to prepare for the inevitable struggles that occur during and after transitions.
Preparing for Transition: Regression and Relapse
June 07, 2018 18:30 - 44 minutes - 81.9 MBDr. Reedy discusses regression and what to expect during transitions. He talks about how parents can focus on their own relapse and avoid addictive thinking. He explores various ways parents can utilize resources to prepare for the inevitable struggles that occur during and after transitions.
The I - Feel Statement And Effective Communication
May 31, 2018 15:57 - 1 hour - 118 MBDr. Reedy reviews Evoke Therapy Programs' communication model, including the I-feel statement and reflective listening. He also delves into the principles the underly communication theory and how people often express feelings to try to change behaviors in others. He explains that the reason we share may be more important than why we share our feelings.
The I - Feel Statement And Effective Communication - Ep 192
May 31, 2018 15:57 - 1 hour - 118 MBDr. Reedy reviews Evoke Therapy Programs' communication model, including the I-feel statement and reflective listening. He also delves into the principles the underly communication theory and how people often express feelings to try to change behaviors in others. He explains that the reason we share may be more important than why we share our feelings.
Cause And Effect Thinking Error in Parenting
May 29, 2018 18:05 - 53 minutes - 98.4 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about how simple cause and effect thinking in parenting relates to objectification and shame in children. He explains how differentiation and the development of a self in a parent is the foundation for healthy attachment.
Cause And Effect Thinking Error in Parenting - Ep 191
May 29, 2018 18:05 - 53 minutes - 98.4 MBDr. Brad Reedy talks about how simple cause and effect thinking in parenting relates to objectification and shame in children. He explains how differentiation and the development of a self in a parent is the foundation for healthy attachment.
Introduction To Evoke Therapy - Ep 190
May 24, 2018 16:03 - 55 minutes - 102 MBDr. Reedy welcomes new families to Evoke Therapy Programs wilderness therapy experience and explains the theory behind wilderness therapy. He talks about the goals and objectives of wilderness therapy and how experiential therapy bypasses resistance and creates change.
Introduction To Evoke Therapy
May 24, 2018 16:03 - 55 minutes - 102 MBDr. Reedy welcomes new families to Evoke Therapy Programs wilderness therapy experience and explains the theory behind wilderness therapy. He talks about the goals and objectives of wilderness therapy and how experiential therapy bypasses resistance and creates change.
Getting The Support You Need And Deserve - Ep 189
May 17, 2018 17:11 - 50 minutes - 93.3 MBDr. Reedy discusses practicing self-care and setting boundaries with unsupportive friends and family. He talks about empowering parents to assert their needs in relationships with children and others. He explains how creating a supportive network begins with courageous and bold steps towards developing an authentic self.
Mindfulness, Psychotherapy, and Nutrition in the Field - Ep 188
May 10, 2018 17:20 - 55 minutes - 101 MBDr. Reedy discusses mindfulness practices used in Evoke's wilderness therapy. He talks about how we could broaden our idea of mindfulness beyond breathing, silent, meditation. He talks about the relationship between mindfulness and healthy attachment. He briefly comments on nutrition in the wilderness.
Mindfulness, Psychotherapy, and Nutrition in the Field
May 10, 2018 17:20 - 55 minutes - 101 MBDr. Reedy discusses mindfulness practices used in Evoke's wilderness therapy. He talks about how we could broaden our idea of mindfulness beyond breathing, silent, meditation. He talks about the relationship between mindfulness and healthy attachment. He briefly comments on nutrition in the wilderness.
Q&A For Siblings, Family, And Friends April 30, 2018
May 01, 2018 16:15 - 37 minutes - 69.5 MBDr. Reedy addresses siblings questions about Evoke Therapy Programs and how to respond to a sibling at home who doesn't want to talk about their brother or sister. He also talks about how siblings and family can support their loved one in treatment by learning about the ideas and concepts taught at Evoke. He also explains why there is less communication in the early phases of treatment with family members at home.
Q&A For Siblings, Family, And Friends - Ep 187
May 01, 2018 16:15 - 37 minutes - 69.5 MBDr. Reedy addresses siblings questions about Evoke Therapy Programs and how to respond to a sibling at home who doesn't want to talk about their brother or sister. He also talks about how siblings and family can support their loved one in treatment by learning about the ideas and concepts taught at Evoke. He also explains why there is less communication in the early phases of treatment with family members at home.
Choice Theory
April 26, 2018 14:15 - 46 minutes - 85.9 MBDr. Reedy explores the work of William Glasser--specifically Choice Theory and Reality Therapy. He talks about the drives beneath children's mental health and addiction issues and how understanding these may create greater compassion and understanding.
Choice Theory - Ep 186
April 26, 2018 14:15 - 46 minutes - 85.9 MBDr. Reedy explores the work of William Glasser--specifically Choice Theory and Reality Therapy. He talks about the drives beneath children's mental health and addiction issues and how understanding these may create greater compassion and understanding.
Grit, Resilience, & The Efficacy Of Primitive - Living, Nomadic Wilderness Therapy - Ep 281
April 20, 2018 14:22 - 40 minutes - 75 MBDr. Reedy explores the concepts of grit, resilience, and growth mindset. With these ideas as a foundation, he explains how the nomadic model of wilderness therapy produces the most effective outcomes. He shares Evoke's outcomes compared to the other wilderness therapy outcomes.
Grit, Resilience, And The Efficacy Of Primitive - Living, Nomadic Wilderness Therapy
April 20, 2018 14:22 - 40 minutes - 75 MBDr. Reedy explores the concepts of grit, resilience, and growth mindset. With these ideas as a foundation, he explains how the nomadic model of wilderness therapy produces the most effective outcomes. He shares Evoke's outcomes compared to the other wilderness therapy outcomes.
Grit, Resilience, & The Efficacy Of Primitive - Living, Nomadic Wilderness Therapy - Ep 281
April 20, 2018 14:22 - 40 minutes - 75 MBDr. Reedy explores the concepts of grit, resilience, and growth mindset. With these ideas as a foundation, he explains how the nomadic model of wilderness therapy produces the most effective outcomes. He shares Evoke's outcomes compared to the other wilderness therapy outcomes.
A Daily Practice & "The Language Of Letting Go"
April 18, 2018 16:40 - 46 minutes - 85 MBDr. Reedy explains the value of a mindfulness practice. Several readings from Melody Beattie's daily reader, "The Language of Letting Go" are offered and discussed. Topics discussed include letting go, self-care, pain, letting things happen, freedom, and honoring your roots.
A Daily Practice & "The Language Of Letting Go" - Ep 185
April 18, 2018 16:40 - 46 minutes - 85 MBDr. Reedy explains the value of a mindfulness practice. Several readings from Melody Beattie's daily reader, "The Language of Letting Go" are offered and discussed. Topics discussed include letting go, self-care, pain, letting things happen, freedom, and honoring your roots.
The Hero's Journey
April 13, 2018 15:10 - 43 minutes - 80.1 MBDr. Reedy provides an overview of Joseph Campbell's concept of "The Hero's Journey" and he explains how each of us can use it to navigate life's challenges. Parents with struggling children are called to embark on a heroic journey and overcome fears to find "the life that is waiting for them."
The Hero's Journey - Ep 184
April 13, 2018 15:10 - 43 minutes - 80.1 MBDr. Reedy provides an overview of Joseph Campbell's concept of "The Hero's Journey" and he explains how each of us can use it to navigate life's challenges. Parents with struggling children are called to embark on a heroic journey and overcome fears to find "the life that is waiting for them."
How To Motivate Your Child
April 05, 2018 16:44 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy discusses the do's and don'ts of behavioral reinforcement with children. He discusses the difference between control and strictness and how children can flourish with varying levels of structure, but suffer when there is emotional coercion and shame. He also talks about how, developmentally, children learn from the outside-in and parents tempted to lecture or debate are avoiding the difficult work of boundaries.
How To Motivate Your Child - Ep 183
April 05, 2018 16:44 - 1 hour - 111 MBDr. Reedy discusses the do's and don'ts of behavioral reinforcement with children. He discusses the difference between control and strictness and how children can flourish with varying levels of structure, but suffer when there is emotional coercion and shame. He also talks about how, developmentally, children learn from the outside-in and parents tempted to lecture or debate are avoiding the difficult work of boundaries.
Review of "Brave Parenting" by Krissy Pozatek - Ep 182
April 03, 2018 17:08 - 44 minutes - 81.9 MBDr. Reedy reviews the book by Krissy Pozatek, Brave Parenting: A Buddhist Inspired Guide to Raising Resilient Children. He discusses the value of listening and being present with your child's feelings and how children develop resiliency through dealing with challenges.
Book Review: Brave Parenting
April 03, 2018 17:08 - 44 minutes - 81.9 MBDr. Reedy reviews the book by Krissy Pozatek, Brave Parenting: A Buddhist Inspired Guide to Raising Resilient Children. He discusses the value of listening and being present with your child's feelings and how children develop resiliency through dealing with challenges.
Immersion - Principles, Jargon And Culture Of WIlderness Therapy
March 30, 2018 20:02 - 40 minutes - 74.1 MBDr. Reedy explains the value of immersion into the culture of wilderness therapy and how the use of metaphor, ritual, and distance help to create a powerful, experiential intervention. He shares some of the jargon from wilderness therapy and how this creates a sense of belonging for participants.
Immersion - Principles, Jargon And Culture Of Wilderness Therapy - Ep 181
March 30, 2018 20:02 - 40 minutes - 74.1 MBDr. Reedy explains the value of immersion into the culture of wilderness therapy and how the use of metaphor, ritual, and distance help to create a powerful, experiential intervention. He shares some of the jargon from wilderness therapy and how this creates a sense of belonging for participants.
Adoption and Attachment
March 29, 2018 14:52 - 41 minutes - 76.7 MBDr. Brad Reedy discusses the effects of adoption on attachment. He summarizes the book by Sherrie Eldridge, "Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew." Parents with and without adopted children learn about how the quality of attachment affects resilience. Parents are shown how to support children in grieving.
Adoption and Attachment - Ep 180
March 29, 2018 14:52 - 41 minutes - 76.7 MBDr. Brad Reedy discusses the effects of adoption on attachment. He summarizes the book by Sherrie Eldridge, "Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew." Parents with and without adopted children learn about how the quality of attachment affects resilience. Parents are shown how to support children in grieving.
Avoiding Power Struggles
March 16, 2018 19:27 - 52 minutes - 96.9 MBDr. Reedy talks about how to avoid to power struggles with your children. He explains how to "lose" and avoid the trap of trying to be "good" or "right".
Avoiding Power Struggles - Ep 179
March 16, 2018 19:27 - 52 minutes - 96.9 MBDr. Reedy talks about how to avoid to power struggles with your children. He explains how to "lose" and avoid the trap of trying to be "good" or "right".
Another Broadcast On Boundaries
March 13, 2018 16:41 - 1 hour - 116 MBDr. Reedy discusses how boundaries and synonymous with self-care, how the principle role of boundaries is not to teach others a lesson, and how parents need to give up "being right"--and learn how to lose.
Another Broadcast On Boundaries - Ep 178
March 13, 2018 16:41 - 1 hour - 116 MBDr. Reedy discusses how boundaries and synonymous with self-care, how the principle role of boundaries is not to teach others a lesson, and how parents need to give up "being right"--and learn how to lose.
Trauma, Defenses, and Diagnoses - Ep 177
February 08, 2018 03:20 - 52 minutes - 96.5 MBDr. Reedy talks about the how pain and wounded-ness lie beneath our symptoms and diagnoses. He talks about how to see the pain beneath the symptom and how this frame offers healing. He also talks about how therapy changes the base and leads to transformation. Lastly, he calls on parents to do their own work, heal their own trauma, and how their primary goal is to support the development of a child's sense of self.
Trauma, Defenses, and Diagnoses
February 08, 2018 03:20 - 52 minutes - 96.5 MBDr. Reedy talks about the how pain and wounded-ness lie beneath our symptoms and diagnoses. He talks about how to see the pain beneath the symptom and how this frame offers healing. He also talks about how therapy changes the base and leads to transformation. Lastly, he calls on parents to do their own work, heal their own trauma, and how their primary goal is to support the development of a child's sense of self.
Questions and Answers For Siblings, Extended Family, and Friends - Ep 176
February 06, 2018 16:56 - 1 hour - 117 MBIn this open forum for family and friends, Dr. Reedy talks about shame and the effects on our children. He talks about the recent suicide of a teen in Newport Beach and the notes he left that give us a clue as to the effects in our culture with it's emphasis on performance and compliance. Dr. Reedy also talks to siblings left behind, when a child is placed at Evoke, and how best to support them.
Questions and Answers For Sibilings, Extended Family, and Friends
February 06, 2018 16:56 - 1 hour - 117 MBIn this open forum for family and friends, Dr. Reedy talks about shame and the effects on our children. He talks about the recent suicide of a teen in Newport Beach and the notes he left that give us a clue as to the effects in our culture with it's emphasis on performance and compliance. Dr. Reedy also talks to siblings left behind, when a child is placed at Evoke, and how best to support them.
Review Of "The Price Of Privilege" By Madeline Levine, Ph.D. - Ep 279
February 02, 2018 17:29 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy reviews and teaches from the book, "The Price of Privilege" by Madeline Levine. Dr. Levine invites parents to make a shift from emphasizing performance to supporting the development of the "self" in children. The culture of affluence and its impact on parenting are discussed. Dr. Levine writes, “We have to be acutely attuned to our own psychological issues and our own happiness, or lack of it. We have to be willing to take an unflinching look at our parenting skills.”
Review Of "The Price Of Privilege" By Madeline Levine, Ph.D.
February 02, 2018 17:29 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy reviews and teaches from the book, "The Price of Privilege" by Madeline Levine. Dr. Levine invites parents to make a shift from emphasizing performance to supporting the development of the "self" in children. The culture of affluence and its impact on parenting are discussed. Dr. Levine writes, “We have to be acutely attuned to our own psychological issues and our own happiness, or lack of it. We have to be willing to take an unflinching look at our parenting skills.”
Review Of "The Price Of Privilege" By Madeline Levine, Ph.D. - Ep 279
February 02, 2018 17:29 - 50 minutes - 92.6 MBDr. Reedy reviews and teaches from the book, "The Price of Privilege" by Madeline Levine. Dr. Levine invites parents to make a shift from emphasizing performance to supporting the development of the "self" in children. The culture of affluence and its impact on parenting are discussed. Dr. Levine writes, “We have to be acutely attuned to our own psychological issues and our own happiness, or lack of it. We have to be willing to take an unflinching look at our parenting skills.”
Why Your Child SHOULD Be Your Friend
January 30, 2018 18:04 - 55 minutes - 101 MBDr. Reedy talks about the similarities between friendship and the ideal ways to treat a child. Healthy boundaries are similar for both. Reedy also talks about how best to lead and mentor children.
Why Your Child SHOULD Be Your Friend - Ep 175
January 30, 2018 18:04 - 55 minutes - 101 MBDr. Reedy talks about the similarities between friendship and the ideal ways to treat a child. Healthy boundaries are similar for both. Reedy also talks about how best to lead and mentor children.
What To Look For In A Therapist - Ep 174
January 26, 2018 15:21 - 52 minutes - 95.5 MBDr. Reedy talks about what traits, processes and skills make for a good therapist in conjunction with or following Evoke Therapy Programs. Flexibility and meeting the client where they are at are two of the many qualities he suggests to look for. Principally, look for a therapist who looks for you.
What To Look For In A Therapist
January 26, 2018 15:21 - 52 minutes - 95.5 MBDr. Reedy talks about what traits, processes and skills make for a good therapist in conjunction with or following Evoke Therapy Programs. Flexibility and meeting the client where they are at are two of the many qualities he suggests to look for. Principally, look for a therapist who looks for you.
Treatment Differences in Substance Abuse vs Addiction - Ep 173
January 19, 2018 15:31 - 1 hour - 115 MBWhat is the difference between substance abuse and more severe forms of addiction? How does the treatment approach differ when treating someone using or abusing substances compared to someone who is addicted? What is the family's role in treatment of addiction? Dr. Reedy answers these and explains that the root of addiction is in the thinking rather than the consumption of alcohol or drugs.
Treatment Differences in Substance Abuse vs Addiction
January 19, 2018 15:31 - 1 hour - 115 MBWhat is the difference between substance abuse and more severe forms of addiction? How does the treatment approach differ when treating someone using or abusing substances compared to someone who is addicted? What is the family's role in treatment of addiction? Dr. Reedy answers these and explains that the root of addiction is in the thinking rather than the consumption of alcohol or drugs.
The Anatomy Of Peace - Ep 172
January 17, 2018 16:55 - 53 minutes - 98.3 MBDr. Reedy reviews The Anatomy of Peace, written by the Arbinger Institute. This book talks about regarding others, our children, with a new sensibility. The authors suggest that when we hold them in a place of love and empathy, children are more likely to feel moved to accept invitations for changing their lives.
The Anatomy Of Peace
January 17, 2018 16:55 - 53 minutes - 98.3 MBDr. Reedy reviews The Anatomy of Peace, written by the Arbinger Institute. This book talks about regarding others, our children, with a new sensibility. The authors suggest that when we hold them in a place of love and empathy, children are more likely to feel moved to accept invitations for changing their lives.
Behavioral Vs Relational Approaches To Therapy
January 09, 2018 17:52 - 55 minutes - 101 MBDr. Reedy discusses behavioral vs. relational approaches to therapy and how concepts can be extrapolated to apply to parenting. He also talks about the evolution of wilderness therapy over the last 22 years.