Latest Divorcelaw Podcast Episodes
Nesting in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - February 22, 2024 00:05 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNesting in Child Custody - Episode 279 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Nesting is a parenting arrangement where the children remain in the home and the parents rotate in and out. This is an uncommon arrangement and is rarely used by the Court. However, it can be necessary for financial...
180. When Your Affair Partner Has an Agenda for You
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - February 15, 2024 06:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIs your affair partner invested in helping you leave your committed relationship? In today’s episode, I explain the importance of understanding the extent to which your focus is on your affair partner’s desires and how to be aware if the decisions you’re making are for yourself. Even if yo...
What Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common
Divorce University Online - February 14, 2024 00:39 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common - Episode 278 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many of the behaviors we experience with our toddlers are reflected in similar behaviors from narcissists. And while we expect bad behavior from our toddler, it’s not so cute once a person reache...
179. How Long Should You Wait for Your Affair Partner to Leave Their Marriage?
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - February 08, 2024 06:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsToday, I look at the question of how long you should wait for your affair partner to leave their marriage. Maybe you don’t want to set a timeline for your partner and prefer to wait indefinitely for them to leave. Regardless of your situation, I guide you in making the decision that is right for...
Why Narcissists Win In Court
Divorce University Online - February 07, 2024 17:09 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhy Narcissists Win In Court - Episode 277 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Court can be a scary process when we are afraid that our ex will be able to charm and manipulate to get their way. And the Court does have limited time and resources to try and figure out what is going on in you...
178. When You Have an Agenda for Your Affair Partner
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - February 01, 2024 06:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsToday, I’m talking to those of you who have an agenda for your affair partner. Even though you mean well, the truth is that you can only manage your own business. It’s important to let your affair partner figure things out for themselves, and today, I’ll explain why. Understanding what you...
Have I Screwed Up My Case
Divorce University Online - January 30, 2024 23:42 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHave I Screwed Up My Case - Episode 276 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We are all human. And when you’re going through a divorce or child custody case, you are a human under immense amount of stress. Unfortunately, we sometimes make mistakes that us feel like we’ve screwed up the enti...
177. What It’s Like to Work with Me
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - January 25, 2024 06:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsWhether you've been a dedicated listener for a while or have just recently tuned in to the podcast, you might be curious about what it's like to work together. In this episode, I share what it's like to receive my coaching and how it can benefit you, regardless of the type of infidelity situatio...
The Calm Before the Child Custody Storm
Divorce University Online - January 24, 2024 02:29 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Calm Before the Child Custody Storm - Episode 275 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, we often see cyclical patterns of behavior and emotions. So, when things are really calm or quiet, we are sometimes waiting for the other shoe to drop, so ...
176. Fear
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - January 18, 2024 06:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThe feeling of fear is one of the things that can make infidelity situations seem so hard to deal with. There are a LOT of things that might seem scary within your infidelity situation. Will life as you know it come to an end if you choose to pursue a relationship that began as an affair? Will y...
Breaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - January 17, 2024 01:07 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBreaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody - Episode 274 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We usually think of toxic patterns in the context of romantic relationships. When a relationship ends and there are children involved, we often see the toxic patterns of behavior continue through the...
175. The Right Tools for the Job
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - January 11, 2024 06:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsAre you ready to make some changes but don't know where to start? This week, I share some helpful tools to help you create change and resolve your infidelity situation. You might need to do things you’ve never done before, and that’s okay. I explain how the sooner you find a way to address...
Weathering the Seasons of Child Custody
Divorce University Online - January 10, 2024 00:12 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWeathering the Seasons of Child Custody - Episode 273 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are struggling in our child custody and co-parenting situation, it often feels like the struggle will go on forever. But the only thing in life that is constant is change. And, like everything...
Breaking Up With Narcissism
Divorce University Online - January 04, 2024 17:16 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBreaking Up With Narcissism - Episode 272 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are in a relationship with a Narcissist, we actually become addicted to this type of toxic relationship. Our body goes through chemical changes that are similar to addicts. In this episode, I’ll talk abou...
174. Believing in Your Capacity to Change
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - January 04, 2024 06:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsWith a new year beginning, there's a feeling of change in the air for some. And maybe that change has to do with your infidelity situation. In this episode, I explore how to take charge of change in your infidelity situation, the reasons we sometimes avoid change, and why our mindset is the numb...
173. The Easy Hard Paradox
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - December 28, 2023 06:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsI believe that “difficulty” is not an absolute truth or fact but rather a matter of our thinking. In this episode, I discuss the many ways we can think differently about difficult situations. I revisit my concept of the “think, feel, act” cycle and explore how you can reshift your thinking aroun...
172: Missing Your Affair Partner
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - December 21, 2023 06:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsOften, people dealing with an affair ending come up against disenfranchised grief and finding forced validity in their experience. In today’s episode, I discuss how to deal with missing your affair partner in a way that supports your feelings and reasons, regardless of your support system or sit...
Does Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work?
Divorce University Online - December 20, 2023 05:32 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDoes Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work? - Episode 271 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. “Grey Rock” is a common technique for handling a narcissist. This technique has a lot of useful points such as disengaging, minimizing contact, and not reacting. However, the Court wants you to co...
Presenting Evidence in Child Custody Court
Divorce University Online - December 14, 2023 22:58 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsPresenting Evidence in Child Custody Court - Episode 270 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the most effective ways to present your evidence in Court is by telling the “story” of your case. Most people mistake this for lots of details and background but as they say, less is more. Y...
171. The Extreme Highs and Lows of Infidelity
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - December 14, 2023 06:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsOften, our infidelity situations come with extreme highs and lows. In this episode, I talk about that emotional rollercoaster and how the extreme ups and downs can feel like a really big deal. I discuss different situations where these ups and downs can occur and how handling this rollercoaster ...
170. Planning to Break up with Someone After the Holidays
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - December 07, 2023 06:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsHolidays or not, there’s never a perfect time to break up with someone. You may have been planning to break up with your partner, but then Thanksgiving rolled around, now Christmas, and then it's New Year's…I get it, and it's okay to choose to wait. But how will you go through with your choice w...
3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court
Divorce University Online - December 05, 2023 21:29 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court - Episode 269 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost everyone is nervous when speaking in Court, even attorneys. Whether you’re representing yourself or you have an attorney, it’s important to take steps to help you feel comfortable in the cour...
169. Integrating Your Affair Partner Into Your Family
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - November 30, 2023 06:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThe holidays are fast approaching, and you might be in the midst of figuring out your family’s plans. More importantly, you may be figuring out how to integrate your former affair partner, now partner, into your family’s holiday plans. In this episode, I explore how to prepare for the dif...
What Is Your Biggest Failure?
Divorce University Online - November 28, 2023 22:58 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Is Your Biggest Failure? - Episode 268 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Failures in life happen to everyone and they can teach us some of our greatest life lessons. If you feel like you failed in your relationship, in your co-parenting, or even in your parenting, this episode is fo...
168. The Gifts of Your Infidelity Situation
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - November 23, 2023 06:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIn this episode, I share a lengthy list of questions that you can answer to help find the gifts within your infidelity situation. It would be silly to act like you’re not getting something positive out of it, so why not acknowledge what that something is? Answer these questions honestly, ...
Narcissists Never Change
Divorce University Online - November 22, 2023 00:05 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNarcissists Never Change – Episode 267 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we deal with high-conflict personalities, we frequently think that if we choose the right words or the right logic to deal with them that it will change their behavior. Or, we hope that as they mature and learn...
167. Starting Over After a Breakup
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - November 16, 2023 06:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsBreakups are an amazing opportunity to start over. You can be feeling sad, hurt, and angry, while also stepping into a new chapter of your life. In this episode, I discuss how you can grow forward while still processing a breakup from the past. I talk about reframing the story of your brea...
Reducing Conflict With A Narcissist
Divorce University Online - November 15, 2023 01:05 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsReducing Conflict With A Narcissist – Episode 266 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Reducing conflict is difficult to do with a co-parent but it becomes even more difficult when you are dealing with someone who has a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. In this episode, I’m going...
166. The Hell of Being Broken up With
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - November 09, 2023 06:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIf someone you love breaks up with you, it may hurt like hell. If a relationship that you hoped would continue comes to an end, you may be hurt, devastated, and possibly very pissed off. And that’s totally fair and totally reasonable. Sometimes the only possible response to being broke...
Why Did You Choose A Narcissist?
Divorce University Online - November 08, 2023 23:27 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhy Did You Choose A Narcissist? – Episode 265 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding why you chose a narcissistic partner is the key to not repeating the mistake! We are often looking to the other person to validate us, to shore up our insecurities or to make us feel better abo...
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