Latest Divorcelaw Podcast Episodes
165. Ultimatums
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - November 02, 2023 05:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIt’s reasonable to have hopes, wishes, and desires in any relationship. However, trying to coerce, cajole, or threaten your partner into getting what you want is never the solution. Whether you feel pulled to issue your infidelity partner an ultimatum, or find yourself on the receiving end of on...
When Your Narcissistic Ex Lies In Court
Divorce University Online - November 01, 2023 15:23 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen Your Narcissistic Ex Lies In Court – Episode 264 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Lies from the ex is without a doubt the most common complaint we hear from clients during the court process. Why does this happen and is there anything you can do about it? The solutions are often cou...
164. Cheating On Your Affair Partner
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - October 26, 2023 05:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsAre you worried about cheating on your affair partner? Is that even possible? This is a real dilemma that my clients bring up, so if you can relate, you are definitely not alone. What counts as cheating in this scenario can vary from person to person. However, there are three super common ...
Understanding Discovery – Interrogatories, Subpoenas, Documents
Divorce University Online - October 24, 2023 09:30 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsUnderstanding Discovery – Interrogatories, Subpoenas, Documents – Episode 263 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Discovery is one of the most complex issues to understand in any divorce or child custody case. What is it? How do you respond to it? I’ll help shed some light on this topic so...
163. Approaches to a Breakup: Breadcrumbs vs Bombshells
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - October 19, 2023 05:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsBreaking up with partners is something most people lack experience in. Whether your breakup is the result of infidelity, you’re breaking up with an affair partner, or you’ve just decided that you no longer want to be in a relationship, this episode is for you. Dr. Marie Murphy is discussin...
An Attorney for the Child in Custody Cases
Divorce University Online - October 18, 2023 00:33 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAn Attorney for the Child in Custody Cases – Episode 262 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In child custody cases, the child will sometimes be assigned their own attorney. The attorney is called different things in different states but your biggest questions have less to do with the name...
162. Becoming More Decisive
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - October 12, 2023 05:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsYour time and energy are limited, and when you don’t make decisions quickly and effectively, you’re wasting both. Infidelity situations are often fraught with difficult decisions, and people have real trouble deciding what they want. Sometimes people think there’s value in taking time to think t...
Defending Yourself Against Your Co-Parent
Divorce University Online - October 10, 2023 22:11 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDefending Yourself Against Your Co-Parent – Episode 261 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you live in defense mode and constantly wonder what you’re co-parent is trying to pull next? Or maybe you have constant stress and anxiety from dealing with them. Or you get that knot in the pit ...
161. How Do I Know if I’m Being Reckless?
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - October 05, 2023 05:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThe problem with dismissing your desires because of potentially reckless outcomes is not going to help you decide what you really want. If you are faced with wanting to make a decision about your infidelity and you’re worried that it may lead to a reckless outcome, this episode is for you. ...
4 Tips for Negotiating With A Narcissist
Divorce University Online - October 03, 2023 17:36 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings4 Tips for Negotiating With A Narcissist – Episode 260 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Negotiating with your ex is always tough but all the more when you are dealing with a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. There are always extra rules of “dos” and “don’ts” in these high con...
160. Cheating On Your Fiancé
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - September 28, 2023 05:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsWhy does cheating on your fiancé present a particularly complex situation? Of course, not everybody puts marriage and monogamy together, but if you’re formally planning to marry someone and you’re engaging in some sexual or romantic behavior that your fiancé wouldn’t be happy to find out about, ...
Child Custody Trials
Divorce University Online - September 26, 2023 19:25 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChild Custody Trials – Episode 259 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Having a court trial on any aspect of your case is stressful but child custody tends to produce lots of anxiety because it impacts your children. This episode is going to give you a big picture view of what to expect fr...
159. You Can’t Eat the Whole Elephant at Once
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - September 21, 2023 05:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsWhen you can break down your infidelity situation into individual worries, questions, hopes, decisions, and actions, you can start deciding what you want to do one piece at a time. However, when you’re in an agitated state, breaking your experience down becomes incredibly challenging. Disc...
3 Ways to Get More Parenting Time
Divorce University Online - September 20, 2023 01:17 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Ways to Get More Parenting Time – Episode 258 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you want to get more parenting time with your kids, you have to start by understanding what the Court wants from you. If you aren’t doing your part, you most likely won’t succeed in getting more time. In...
158. Forgiving Yourself & Forgiving Others
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - September 14, 2023 05:00 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThis week’s episode is all about learning how to forgive yourself when you fall short of your own expectations, and forgiving others when things don’t work out the way you’d hoped or expected. Forgiveness in this form is powerful, especially when negotiating an infidelity situation. However, the...
Your Co-Parenting Campaign Strategy
Divorce University Online - September 13, 2023 04:54 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYour Co-Parenting Campaign Strategy – Episode 257 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. So often we are looking for the one trick or shortcut that will solve our problem. But if life was as easy as one trick or one shortcut, everyone would have success in every aspect of their lives. Each ar...
157. You Might Be an Asshole
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - September 07, 2023 05:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIf you’re in the midst of an infidelity situation, there are plenty of opportunities for you to think of yourself as an asshole. Humans tend to be terrified of the idea that other people won’t like them, but they’re particularly terrified that the people they love might think they’re a total ass...
When You Resent Your Co-Parent
Divorce University Online - September 06, 2023 04:56 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen You Resent Your Co-Parent – Episode 256 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you feel like you are doing everything to try and help your co-parent in order to make things better for your child? If so, I’m guessing your co-parent isn’t exactly grateful for your help. These types of s...
156. Nurturing a Long-Term Affair (Part 2)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - August 31, 2023 05:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThis week, Marie is going in-depth on the things for which you and your affair partner need to take collective responsibility, and the things your affair partner has to take sole responsibility for themselves. Discover the areas where you and your affair partner need to be on the same page...
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is Exhausting
Divorce University Online - August 30, 2023 09:30 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCo-Parenting with a Narcissist is Exhausting – Episode 255 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Is your narcissistic co-parent controlling your life? Do you feel constantly exhausted and emotionally drained? Many parents feel this way when they are dealing with a narcissistic co-parent. It ...
155. Nurturing a Long-Term Affair (Part 1)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - August 24, 2023 05:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIn any relationship, affair or otherwise, there are things you and your partner can deal with together, and there are some things that you or your partner can only address as individuals. Today, you need to consider that the best thing you can do for yourself and your affair relationship is to b...
9 Rules of the Child Custody Game
Divorce University Online - August 23, 2023 03:13 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings9 Rules of the Child Custody Game – Episode 254 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Could you win a game if you didn’t know the rules? Probably not unless it was sheer luck. Yet, people frequently head into child custody court without being educated on how the process works. And while cust...
154. Being Your Own Steward
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - August 17, 2023 05:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIt’s common for people to believe that they themselves don’t have the ultimate power to make decisions. Maybe they don’t think they have permission to choose, they shouldn’t want what they want, or they need to consider others before deciding. If this sounds familiar, it’s time to start being yo...
You Can’t Afford to Screw It Up
Divorce University Online - August 16, 2023 01:06 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYou Can’t Afford to Screw It Up – Episode 253 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When is the best time to have a map? Before you enter the woods. And yet, I am contacted by people every day that have gotten a outcome in Court that they are unhappy with and now want to know how to fix it. ...
153. Your Questions Answered (Part 5)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - August 10, 2023 05:00 - 56 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsHow can you remain friends after an intimate affair? Why do people cheat in the first place? How might the presence of children factor into your decision-making about leaving your relationship for your affair partner? Are you worried about the financial damage of leaving your marriage for your a...
Is Your Co-Parenting Causing Stress For Your Child?
Divorce University Online - August 09, 2023 01:18 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIs Your Co-Parenting Causing Stress For Your Child? – Episode 252 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many times parents unintentionally put their children in the middle in their co-parenting relationship. It’s easy to consider things from your own viewpoint and make parenting decisions th...
152. Seeing Your Ex-Affair Partner in Social Settings
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - August 03, 2023 05:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsDr. Marie Murphy is doing something new this week. She is explicitly calling someone out for their perspective on an infidelity-related topic in an otherwise generally entertaining newspaper column. In this case, it was an opinion about what to do if you see your ex-affair partner out in a socia...
5 Secrets to Influence Your Judge
Divorce University Online - August 01, 2023 09:30 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings5 Secrets to Influence Your Judge – Episode 251 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Influencing your Judge is one of the most important skills you can learn for your court case. In order to have the strongest influence possible you have to understand how your Judge views the case, what inf...
151. Your Questions Answered (Part 4)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - July 27, 2023 05:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsCan you keep a long-term affair going alongside your marriage? What has to happen for this situation to work out? Do cheaters always get found out? What do you do when you decide you don’t want to cheat anymore, but you can’t seem to stop? These are just some of the questions addressed in today’...
The Struggle is Real in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - July 25, 2023 19:43 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Struggle is Real in Child Custody – Episode 250 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you are struggle with child custody and co-parenting issues, it can be exhausting. When your children are young and living at home, parenting them is central to your life. So, when this core piece ...
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