Latest Divorcelaw Podcast Episodes
Trust the Process
Divorce University Online - July 03, 2024 23:54 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTrust the Process – Episode 297 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Trusting the process can be very difficult, especially when you have a negative outcome in your first interaction with the Court. Many times, our own emotional patterns work against us in trusting the process. There are re...
Expectations vs Reality in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - June 27, 2024 20:15 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsExpectations vs Reality in Child Custody – Episode 296 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are dealing with child custody issues, we have expectations of our children, our co-parent and most of all the Court. But when our expectations don’t match reality, we end up feeling all kind...
Finding a Narcissist’s Kryptonite
Divorce University Online - June 18, 2024 22:50 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsFinding a Narcissist’s Kryptonite – Episode 295 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Dealing with a narcissist is all about regaining the emotional power. There are ways that you can do this, even if it feels impossible. In this episode, I’ll give you my top three tips to accomplish this an...
What You Say vs What You Do
Divorce University Online - June 11, 2024 16:38 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat You Say vs What You Do – Episode 294 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Are you consistent? Consistency creates credibility with the Court. Often, we recognize inconsistency in our ex, the Courts, or other professionals but it’s easy to miss your own inconsistent behavior. When the C...
191. Are You Just Having a Midlife Crisis?
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - June 06, 2024 05:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThere is a common belief that marriage should last a lifetime. So when somebody decides that they are dissatisfied with life as they know it, and engage in an infidelity situation as a result, it is commonly labeled as a midlife crisis. But what if waking up one morning and deciding you are diss...
The Power of Doing Nothing
Divorce University Online - June 04, 2024 16:42 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Power of Doing Nothing – Episode 293 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Have you ever heard the analogy of how turning the nose on an airplane, even as little as one degree, before takeoff can land the plan in a completely different destination hundreds of miles away? Well, the same i...
Early Decisions Are the Most Impactful
Divorce University Online - May 30, 2024 16:13 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsEarly Decisions Are the Most Impactful – Episode 292 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Have you ever heard the analogy of how turning the nose on an airplane, even as little as one degree, before takeoff can land the plan in a completely different destination hundreds of miles away? Well...
190. The Magic Button
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - May 23, 2024 05:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsThe Magic Button that I’m diving deeper into this week is the one you wish you could push to answer all your questions about your infidelity situation. The one that, when you push it, your infidelity situation magically resolves in a way that you are delighted with, without you having to do much...
Your Life is a Story
Divorce University Online - May 23, 2024 01:34 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYour Life is a Story – Episode 291 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We don’t realize on a daily basis that we are writing the words, paragraphs, pages, and chapters of our life story. The struggles and trials become so consuming that we lose sight of the big picture. What lessons are yo...
When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming
Divorce University Online - May 14, 2024 16:53 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen Child Custody Feels Overwhelming – Episode 290 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The issues in child custody are not great in number, but great in detail. Many small decisions are needed to resolve the overall problems. It’s like being pecked to death by chickens! So, what do you ne...
189. Scandal, Disgrace, and Redemption
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - May 09, 2024 05:00 - 56 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsPeople often freak out when infidelity occurs, even if it has pretty much zero impact on their lives. It gets treated as a big scandal that the "perpetrator" needs to redeem themselves from. Whether or not you buy into the idea that scandal, disgrace, and redemption are real things, other people...
Creating Child Custody Magnets
Divorce University Online - May 08, 2024 04:33 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCreating Child Custody Magnets – Episode 289 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the challenges separating parents face is creating two worlds for their children. Many times, parents feel it’s best to leave the children in the family home and not force them to transition between hom...
188. When Your Affair Partner Leaves You for the Wrong Reasons
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - April 25, 2024 05:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsHave you ever found yourself in an affair situation with someone who is monogamously committed to someone else? For a while, your partner is pretty sure they want to leave that relationship and pursue a non-affair relationship with you. They share their intentions to leave their partner for week...
It Won’t Always Be This Way
Divorce University Online - April 23, 2024 23:12 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIt Won’t Always Be This Way – Episode 288 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We tend to feel like our day-to-day life is static and that whatever we are going through will last forever. However, life is contact change. So, if you’re in a rough season or trial, the good news is that it won...
Exchanging the Children
Divorce University Online - April 18, 2024 03:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsExchanging the Children – Episode 287 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Even though exchanges of children generally happen one to three times per week depending on your parenting schedule, we rarely seem to talk about how to have them go smoothly. These exchanges are obviously stressful ...
187. It's Okay to Change Your Mind
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - April 11, 2024 05:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsHow often do you make a decision that you think you’re happy with, then doubt yourself and fear it was the wrong one because you feel so many mixed emotions about it? When you make a major decision in your life, about your infidelity situation or otherwise, you are most likely going to have mixe...
The Nature of the Narcissist
Divorce University Online - April 10, 2024 02:38 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Nature of the Narcissist – Episode 286 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding the nature of the narcissist is one of the keys to managing them effectively. Narcissists do not see the world the same way a non-narcissist sees the world. Our values and morals don’t typically ma...
3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case
Divorce University Online - April 05, 2024 20:45 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case – Episode 285 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Giving testimony on the witness stand is one of the most stressful parts of a divorce or child custody case. But there are strategies you can use to help you stay calm and make a good impress...
186. Why I Do the Work I Do (Part 2)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - March 28, 2024 05:00 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsJoin me for part two of "Why I Do the Work I Do" as I share the turning point that led me to become a relationship coach specializing in non-judgmental assistance to people engaging in infidelity, and exactly what it took for me to get here. I’m picking up where I left off last week and sharing ...
Change of Circumstances in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 27, 2024 04:14 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChange of Circumstances in Child Custody – Episode 284 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. How do you know if your child custody situation has a material or substantial change of circumstances? What are Judges looking for? In this episode, I’ll share some stories on past cases and talk abo...
185. Why I Do the Work I Do (Part 1)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - March 21, 2024 05:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsAs you may be aware, “non-judgmental infidelity coach” is not a common job description that exists out there in the world, at least not to my knowledge. This thing I do and the angle I take is pretty unique, and I am dedicated to offering non-judgmental guidance to people actively engaging in an...
185: Why I Do the Work I Do (Part 1)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - March 21, 2024 05:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsAs you may be aware, “non-judgmental infidelity coach” is not a common job description that exists out there in the world, at least not to my knowledge. This thing I do and the angle I take is pretty unique, and I am dedicated to offering non-judgmental guidance to people actively engaging in an...
Do Judges Understand Narcissism?
Divorce University Online - March 20, 2024 00:16 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDo Judges Understand Narcissism? – Episode 283 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you are dealing with a narcissistic or high conflict ex, it can be frustrating to try and get the Court to understand that your ex is a narcissist. If we could just get the Judge to understand what we’r...
184. The Point of Resolving Your Infidelity Situation (Part 2)
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - March 14, 2024 05:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsAt some point, the drawbacks of your infidelity situation can start to outweigh the benefits, and if this happens for you, you may want to start thinking about taking a conscious, deliberate approach to resolving your infidelity situation in a way you feel good about. Yes it might feel hard at f...
False Allegations In Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 13, 2024 03:58 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsFalse Allegations In Child Custody – Episode 282 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many parents deal with false allegations from the other parent. This can come in many forms. Sometimes, it comes through the child, sometimes we are dealing with it in our communication with the other pare...
183. When Your Affair is Over, You May be Bored
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - March 07, 2024 06:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIf you experience boredom after you’ve stopped engaging in infidelity, you may not know what to do with yourself, and you are NOT alone. Post-infidelity boredom is a thing, but fortunately for you, I have some recommendations to help you deal with it. In this episode, I share why you might fin...
Overthinking In Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 05, 2024 17:22 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOverthinking In Child Custody - Episode 281 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you are an overthinker like me, then you probably analyze everything your co-parent does or says. And you’re always trying to figure out their agenda. Overthinking would seem to give you a logical advantage ...
182. Why Considering Non-Monogamy Might Not be Helpful
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - February 29, 2024 06:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsIn this week’s episode, I talk about why exploring non-monogamy COULD be a way to resolve your infidelity situation… and when why exploring non-monogamy may NOT going to be an effective way to resolve your infidelity situation. As non-monogamy becomes a more and more legitimate way to configure ...
Narcissists vs. Empaths
Divorce University Online - February 28, 2024 23:41 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNarcissists vs. Empaths - Episode 280 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. It is very common for a person that is an empath to end up in a relationship with someone with narcissistic qualities. The two people have often experienced similar childhood traumas but the effects of the trauma man...
181. How to Tell Someone You've Cheated on Them
Your Secret Is Safe With Me - February 22, 2024 06:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 63 ratingsBefore initiating the conversation with your partner about your affair, there are some things you need to be clear on. In today’s episode, I discuss how to tell your partner about your affair and provide tips on how to approach this conversation in two different kinds of circumstances. Whe...
Related Divorcelaw Topics
- Divorce 3
- Childcustody 2
- Childsupport 2
- Divorcelawyer 2
- Familylaw 2
- Custody 2
- Divorceattorney 2