Getting Intimate
89 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 months ago - ★★★★★ - 3 ratingsIt’s your Sex, Intimacy and Relationship, Coach Azaria Menezes. I'm also known as "The Pussy Fairy" and my greatest passion is to bring you small doses of ways to bring more pleasure into your body, relationships, and sex life.
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The secret key to anal sex
October 10, 2023 04:39 - 17 minutes - 15.8 MBListen, I know its been a minute but this episode was TOO good to leave in my drafts from a few months ago. Have you wanted to know the secrets of mindblowing anal sex, surrender and what it means to call in more connectedness during penetration? Tune into this 15 min riff on everything NOT practical you need to know to create the most delicious anal sex of your life.
Feeling disconnected from your sensuality?
April 08, 2023 17:51 - 17 minutes - 16.3 MBListen, we all need a good reminder every once in a while; myself included. This is for you if you want to reconnect to your sensuality, your feel good place or just feel re-inspired about how easy it can be to build intimacy with your self or your lover. If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift at https://www.azariamenezes.com/your-pussy-is-a...
Kinky birthday party? Yes please
March 02, 2023 17:00 - 37 minutes - 34.3 MBDon't listen to this if you don't want to know what could happen at a kinky birthday party! Meg and I sit down for a slightly chaotic and engaging chat about a juicy event I hosted for Meg's kinky birthday. Meg shared their favourite and sexiest moments from the party, what it was like to be spanked, teased and worshipped and you may or may not find out what big role honey plays into all of this. If you have ever been curious what could be possible at this type of event, tune in. We discus...
The wild ride: medication and libido
February 15, 2023 20:39 - 47 minutes - 43.8 MBIf you have ever noticed the subtle or not so subtle changes that come with taking anti depressants or ADHD medication and your libido this episode is for you. I share my experience of my plummeting libido on some of these medications and how things are affecting me today. You'll also get to hear some incredible experiences of folks who shared how medication affected their libido in positive or negative ways. This is a great podcast to learn a little more about the intricacy and layers that ...
Something triggered me during sex..
December 09, 2022 04:28 - 40 minutes - 37.2 MBI was triggered hard during sex, and I wanted to share (after processing) how I navigate a trauma response showing up in my own personal sex life. I've done tons of work on my sexuality - and there are always new ways my body integrates things on deeper levels. Some things I share out of this experience are: understanding what my body needs and how it helps me process triggers or big emotions during sex, shame and guilt associated with sex and feelings during sex, the fear of getting trigger...
Lessons from taking space
November 22, 2022 05:17 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MBAn update on the Italy trip, why I didn't really miss anyone at home and what it means to take space away from the hustle and bustle. In this episode I share about my struggle of slowing down, what it means to learn enjoying time with myself and the way I honor my identity outside of being a mother and a wife. I also share all the ways you can practice taking space in your relationship, what it means to seek sacred and inspiring experiences in your life and how you can support your relatio...
From dislike to love - Ry and I's relationship
October 21, 2022 06:13 - 46 minutes - 42.7 MBDrop into this episode where I share the beginnings on how Ry and I met. When I tell you I spent the majority of the first year of our relationship crying you might not believe me. I share about how we went from disliking each other to having a hot secret office romance all the way to what I wore on our first time together and how the tools we used at the beginning of our relationship still support us to feel amazing today. If you told me I would go from primarily being in relationships with...
So; your libidos aren't matching up?
October 11, 2022 05:43 - 40 minutes - 37.5 MBHave you ever wondered WHAT you can do about different levels of desire? How to actually navigate those times when you're feeling low/high desire and your partner is feeling the opposite? In this episode you'll learn How to communicate effectively about this, what to do to navigate the challenging lows, what some of the things are that actually contribute to low desire. Theres also an art to understanding your desire, you'll leave this episode understanding how you can find out what turns y...
What does amazing aftercare look like?
September 30, 2022 05:41 - 27 minutes - 25.1 MBFor all of you baddies who want to create amazing aftercare for yourselves or the lover/s in your life. If youre wondering if you even need to know about aftercare or need it in your life, the answer is always YES. In this episode I dive into what the whole point of aftercare is, how we can make it fun and how it can really benefit us with in any relationships. This includes dating, long term relationships, non -monogamous relationships and monogamous relationships. If you want to know t...
5 Tips for the hottest midnight sex
September 22, 2022 02:17 - 28 minutes - 26.4 MBIn this episode I'll share with you not only 5 core tips on how to increase the pleasure factor during your midnight sex adventures. I also share my most recent experience, how to navigate not being in the mood for it and ways you can tap into your intuition and discern between routine and desire. Midnight sex is underrated and I know that after this episode, you'll be calling some of this midnight delight into your life. xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online co...
The 1 thing that will suck the fun out of your sex life
September 14, 2022 17:39 - 25 minutes - 23 MBIf you drop this one thing, I can almost guarantee you'll have more fun in your sex life. There is a place and a time for it though.. In this episode I drop some gems on how you can make your sex life + the rest of your life a little easier by taking inventory of this 1 thing. We all need these simple reminders, but often times we don't think too deeply about them. So of course as the Pussy Fairy, Im here to remind you, myself and everyone who tunes into this podcast to ditch this one thin...
Ancestral work, motherhood + sexual healing with Mina Aidoo
August 31, 2022 23:05 - 45 minutes - 41.8 MBAfter a week off I'm back and with a real special conversation around ancestral healing with Mina Aidoo. Tune into this conversation that sparked so many aha moment's and brings the real honest truth about how sometimes we need to go deeper in our healing through ancestral healing, the sexual healing journey as a whole and of course motherhood. Come and catch the vibe with us! " Hi I'm Mina, I am a Healer, Embodiment Coach, Artist, poet & trained professional dancer / choreographer. My...
Bad Bitch Affirmations: Empowered AF
August 17, 2022 05:29 - 9 minutes - 8.61 MBStart your day feeling like the confident bad bitch you are. Need a little pick me up and feeling low on confidence? Need to remember your power and who the fuck you are? These Affirmations will get you back in your groove baby. 8 minutes of high-dose empowerment coming your way. This is all you need to spark that fire back up! xo The Pussy Fairy Incase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in...
New Update: Intimacy Made Easy couples course
August 11, 2022 03:48 - 27 minutes - 25.2 MBIncase you haven't heard; I created an online course for couples and shared about it on Instagram live. If you are desiring to spice up you sex life, intimacy and have FUN! Tune in to get all the info and click the link to check out the course. This online couples experience will change the way you do intimacy and each other! https://www.azariamenezes.com/intimacy-made-easy xo The Pussy Fairy Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juic...
THE ultimate anticipation tool, edging!
August 02, 2022 03:28 - 36 minutes - 33.2 MBDo you like edging? Edging alone vs. partnered, what are the best things about it and what are the things that aren't that great? I sit down with my friend Anna + my partner Ry to talk about our experiences edging and offer 4 hot tips on how YOU can make your edging experience soo much more fun! We also get into airplane sex and thoughts on edging with toys vs. fingers. Whether you have tried edging before and consider yourself a pro or if you have no idea what I'm on about you're in for a...
Fantasies, why I love them and why you should too
July 27, 2022 06:42 - 18 minutes - 17.4 MBThe stories around fantasy's can be varied, but in this episode I share why I love them so much and why they can be such a powerful way of connecting in your relationships. What do they show us? How can we make them fee more expansive? Do we have to live them out? How can we use them to our advantage? Drop into this episode and leave feeling inspired - its a quickie that will definitely have you curious about your next sexual brain adventure!
Parent Tell interview: The roller coaster that is sex after baby
July 20, 2022 04:30 - 53 minutes - 48.9 MBIf you've ever wanted to hear stories about my sex life after having a baby here you have it! I was invited on the Parent Tell podcast and I'm pretty sure my most awkward post-baby sex story lives on that podcast and now I'm letting you hear it. Kaila and I talk about all the ups and down's that come with the changes of kids + small babies in particular. Parent Tell shared: "Azaria highlights the importance of honouring your body's wants and needs, whatever they may be, while getting cr...
"How do I talk about my desires with my partner?"
July 12, 2022 05:10 - 23 minutes - 21.7 MBThis is one of the biggest questions I get - "How do I talk to my partner about my desires" and also "How do I convey a feeling that I want". In this episode I'll share with you a really simple way to look at this, something that will really change the way you approach the conversations you have around desires and fantasy's. I go over things like: What happens when we share our desires and our partners don't get the hint. How to even talk about your deepest fantasy and wants, what gets in t...
Learn the art of surrender and receiving in the bedroom
June 28, 2022 19:41 - 22 minutes - 20.2 MBIf you've ever been curious how to tap into deep surrender in the bedroom, this practical episode will give you the tips! I share: What happens in the mind-body connection when it comes to surrender? Whats the damm thing that stops us from surrendering? The one big thing you need to know about surrender and receiving, and the one pre-curser to surrender. I share some juicy journal questions and share my easy go2 personal favs to drop into my body during/before lovemaking you don't wanna mis...
We didn't have sex for almost 4 weeks.... tips for you too!
June 21, 2022 01:46 - 26 minutes - 24.4 MBOMG, the sex coach isn't having sex wtf? What our most recent dry spell looked like and how you can get out of yours. This episode was as long awaited as the sex we weren't having! I go over : What happens when you have a dry spell and what causes them? How can you have bad ass intimacy with out sex? The sex or nothing phenomenon I see so often among couples and how to transition from no sex - sex. Ya'll know I like to get personal, so I shared my recent experience and the things we did be...
How I feel about my Ex's partner!
June 14, 2022 04:46 - 17 minutes - 15.8 MBThis episode might surprise you a little! I spent the weekend celebrating pride with my hubby, my ex and her partner and I felt really called to get up-close and personal with you all about how I feel. We have a choice in how we show up in the relationships in our life. Sometimes just sometimes, things don't go the way we planned. In this episode I share what happened when I said yes to staying close with the family of my ex , my ex and how I feel about her partner! Can it work? Is ever...
What's that thing blocking your pleasure and intimacy?
May 31, 2022 03:13 - 31 minutes - 28.4 MBIf you want to know what that thing is thats often blocking you from greater pleasure + intimacy, or what that thing is that totally stops you from doing the things you KNOW would be the game changer in your sex life... tune in. We all have this in one area of our lives or more. When it comes to sex and relationships; I see this one come up ALOT. In this episode I share what that thing is and all the practical ways you can overcome this. If you want to learn how to understand what happens i...
Boundaries, self trust and self love with Veronica Puryear
May 23, 2022 22:13 - 41 minutes - 37.8 MBLet's unpack all the ways you can use boundaries, self love and self trust for your relationships with yourself and others. Veronica a Somatic Sex, Intimacy, and Relationship Guide sits down with the Pussy Fairy to chat about all the ways we can celebrate all of our parts so we can show up feeling more grounded in our self trust. If you have ever wondered what it could look like to deepen your intimacy with self trust, what it could look like to create a more loving relationship wth setting...
Why do couples fight? An instagram live quickie!
May 17, 2022 04:01 - 24 minutes - 22.9 MBWhat's the real reason couples get into arguments? Why do these arguments even start? How is it that one small thing can turn into a silly debate? What is the thing that triggers an argument in couples? This instagram live was too good not to share on the podcast! This has been a common theme amongst my couples clients in the last two weeks. These 22 minutes will give you sooooo much insight on what sounds the alarm bells off in your body and what you can do about it! Grab your cup of coffee...
A past client shares all the tea about the work we did
May 10, 2022 05:32 - 35 minutes - 32.9 MBWe want the real tea from real people. I caught up with Sky, a previous client of mine and she shared all the HOT details of her dating life, how our work together has changed and shifted how she feels about herself and her open relationship. What it means to see the results and how the tools from our coaching supported in all of these intimate and juicy hookups. Sky shares the way she opened up to her incredible worthiness and vulnerability and how she infused all the pussy magic into her...
So you want more orgasms? Listen to this episode
May 03, 2022 20:10 - 36 minutes - 33.4 MBYou want more orgasms? This episode will give you everything you need to know! Allow The Pussy Fairy to blow your mind, because I'm about to tell you the opposite about everything you may have learned orgasms to be. I dropped all the goodies in this one, and you might be surprised at how much is possible for you after listening to this episode alone. You are ready to take your orgasms a step deeper or maybe even experience your orgasm for the first time? I would not miss out on this episode...
Healing heartbreak with Lucy Price
April 26, 2022 05:36 - 31 minutes - 28.8 MBDo you want all the deets on how to move through heartbreak? Well, this week you're in luck because Lucy Price - The heartbreak expert, is in the house. We dive deep into what it looks like to tend to your heart during a break-up, how to navigate finding empowerment in the healing stages, how to deal with heartbreak grief, and how to navigate the loss of not only a lover but maybe some family, friends and even the life you thought you would create together. We dive into questions like: ...
Menstrual Magic and Blood Rituals with Laura Carmody
April 19, 2022 05:15 - 35 minutes - 28.7 MBHave you ever wondered what rituals you could do with your menstrual blood? Maybe you've been curious as to what sacred menstruation means or even how to create your own blood magic ritual. In this episode, we dove deep into menstrual magic with my special guest Laura Carmody, who is a menstrual health and empowerment educator. Whether you're a newbie and looking to learn a super accessible and gentle way to connect to your cycle or a seasoned ritual lover and you're wondering what things t...
The practice that showed me the shame and judgment my pussy held
April 12, 2022 19:28 - 29 minutes - 27.3 MBI share how one powerful practice showed me all the judgment and shame I had around my pussy. I thought I loved the way she looked, but what I didn't know is what she felt. I honestly assumed this would be the most amazing spiritual practice ever until I was met with a shit ton of BIG emotions. This practice was one of my first lessons in self-love and the start of building a relationship with my pussy that felt sensual and vibrant. I had to get through all the feelings of judgment, and d...
From monogamy to non-monogamy with Carla Crivaro
April 05, 2022 00:13 - 47 minutes - 34.2 MBHave you ever wondered what it would be like to consciously transition from monogamy to non-monogamy? In this episode Carla Crivaro a sex, love, and relationship coach, spills it all. We talked about the hard conversations that had to happen, the incredible growth that came from them, and the infinite possibility's that non-monogamy brought into her relationship. Of course, no details were left out and Carla even shares what it was like to explore dating, navigating family life with kids a...
5 journaling prompts for thriving sexuality
March 30, 2022 22:23 - 5 minutes - 5 MB5 journaling prompts for your sexual thriving. Who doesn’t love a little potent quickie? xo The Pussy Fairy If you want to create deeper intimacy NOW, go grab the 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for a juicy gift or come find me on Instagram @azaria.menezes and say Hi. I'd love to hear your questions so I can answer them on future episodes!
Fertility Cycles and Hidden Ovulation with Elsa Marie
March 22, 2022 04:05 - 37 minutes - 28.3 MBThis is an episode I was soooo curious to explore because I have never heard about hidden ovulation. In this episode, I dive into it with Elsa and she shares how astrology plays into fertility and the possibilities of hidden ovulation. If you're anything like me you're always looking to expand your mind to new ideas and concepts, especially if you're into astrology or into conscious conception this might just be a really fascinating episode for you. Elsa shares how your chart could play a ...
Want more pleasure? Think about these things
March 15, 2022 05:41 - 29 minutes - 26.3 MBEyyy, This week we are dropping into all the richness of what pleasure has to offer us. IF you're craving more pleasure in your life or you just wish your partner could give you more pleasure in the bedroom; tune in. I share some really practical and simple ways to get in touch with your own well of pleasure and also give you some really great questions to ask yourself when you feel like your pleasure cup is empty AF. We all need a good reminder of the simpler things when it comes to our sex...
A full guided practice for you and your lover - Inspired by my 14 Days to hotter intimacy ebook
March 08, 2022 06:11 - 11 minutes - 9.59 MBOkay, I am soooo excited about the launch of my new 14 days to hotter intimacy E-book, that I am sharing a connecting practice from the ebook with you here. BUT you know I love you, so I am dropping a FULL guided audio practice for you to tune into. I share all the juicy info about my new eBook and then you'll drop straight into your practice. All you need to do is carve a little time out of your day ( 10 min) and hit play at the guided practice part. This practice is one of my favorite...
2 things that contributed to having the best sex ever last weekend
March 01, 2022 04:04 - 20 minutes - 18.6 MBYall, you know this podcast is gonna be good because this week, ya girl had the best sex ever! I'm talking like out of this world, into a different dimension, multiorgasmic, blackout sex. Now you might be wondering HOW, and I always like to rewind the process and think on: What actually was it that made the sex this good? I can tell you one thing, it wasn't the technique. In this episode I go over: What type of best kept ( and obvious )secret we need to be harnessing more, what it means ...
Role play; how do you really get into it?
February 22, 2022 01:00 - 30 minutes - 28.2 MBLet's talk about my favorite thing ever: Roleplay! If you are one of those people who think role play is super awkward or maybe you just really want to be inspired and bring a little role play spice into your life... this episode is for you. This isn't just your 101 roleplay episode, I talk about how to actually get super embodied in role play and make it feel really fun and incredible to try. I share how role play can spark that element of surprise in your relationship, how you can shift th...
How I deal with my low libido when my anxiety hits hard
February 08, 2022 06:39 - 26 minutes - 24.3 MBOMG yall, when that anxiety hits my libido and desire to be intimate go straight out the window. I mean obviously, I wouldn't expect a different response! The body is prioritizing and just trying to get by during survival mode. In this episode, I share why we shouldn't run from connecting with our partners when we feel anxious even though it's the first thing to go. How can cultivating intimacy that feels good for us support us when we feel dysregulated? What are some things that actually...
Would you take your Pussy on a date?
January 24, 2022 06:26 - 4 minutes - 4.13 MBEveryone loves date nights, guess what? So does Pussy! This episode is going to be a little different than all the usual ones. It's time to take a little action and take your Pussy on a date. We know that it can feel really hard to connect with our bodies through all the rush and hurry of the days. I'm going to make it super easy and juicy for you to plan your own version of a date with Pussy. Just click this link Take your Pussy on a date fillable PDF and it will take you right to t...
Workshop : How to love your breasts
January 17, 2022 06:28 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBThis was a recording of a juicy workshop I did for all the honey's in my "Getting Intimate" Facebook group. Pull up a chair and pull up your boobs because this workshop is dedicated to THEM. Do you want to cultivate more self-love? Feel more confident? Connect to your source of power? In this workshop, I go over things like : Why is it so hard to love our breasts? How can loving our breasts contribute to better sex? What happens when we aren't connected to our breasts? How are breast and ...
"Okay, how do I tell my partner exactly how I like it in bed?" How to ask for what you want
January 10, 2022 06:45 - 32 minutes - 29 MBThis is for my Pussy owners who are never quite sure how to explain how or what they like in the bedroom. Have you ever struggled with the pressure of how to say exactly what you like or maybe even just abandoned ship and pretended to like something when you damn well know you didn't but you already tried to explain how a few too many times? I hear you, this is something that we have all been through at some point and you're certainly not alone. In this episode, I drop all the tips on how t...
An Intimate reflection on new years rituals and our sex life in 2021
January 03, 2022 06:50 - 32 minutes - 28.6 MBDamm okay well I guess we are welcoming 2022! I wanted to do an episode that was a little more intimate than I usually do aka. I have a very special guest where we talk about our sex life and intimacy in 2021. I also share some things around new years rituals and if you listen all the way to the end you'll receive a special gift with a link below to start your news year ritual. In this episode we go over questions like: How have we found this year as individuals in our relationship, what ...
Feeling triggered or activated? Let's regulate together
December 20, 2021 07:59 - 14 minutes - 13.6 MBFeeling triggered, activated, or feeling like your nervous system is taking you for a ride can be overwhelming. I know personally how scary it can feel to be in this state of activation. The more tools we have to support our nervous systems to find back to balance the better. Tune into this guided support to invite some calm back into your nervous system. Let's regulate together. You're not alone. Remember: if you feel like you can't self regulate always, always reach out to your ...
"I want deeply connecting sex" 3 non-sexual things to cultivate this
December 13, 2021 04:53 - 26 minutes - 24.1 MBThis is the one I hear the most " I wish I could just feel more deeply connected during sex" because FUCK yes we all want to feel this. I mean sex is good but have you ever had deeply connected, present, totally in your body + pleasure sex? That shit is next level baby. The three things I share with you today have actually very little to do with sex and are non-sexual ways to go deeper in your sex life. We go over things like: What happens when we don't feel connected, what are the thin...
The one thing people are forgetting about their sexuality
December 06, 2021 07:59 - 21 minutes - 19.3 MBOOOO Okay, so this one is a juicy one. I share the one thing that people easily forget about their sexuality. Have you ever found yourself in the post-honeymoon phase of your relationship, wondering where the hell your sex life went? Or wondering why your connection to your own sexuality is feeling like a distant memory of the past? In this episode, I go over why everything we have learned about our sexuality has contributed to this and how we can shift our experience of sexuality. I a...
5 ways you can increase your wetness factor in the bedroom
November 29, 2021 03:45 - 16 minutes - 15 MBOkay, soo this is a juicy little quicky I took from the Getting Intimate Facebook group because it was too good not to share on here. Have you ever wanted to know what supports your personal wetness factor in the bedroom? Do you ever wonder if there's any way you can increase it? Of course, a woman's wetness factor is going to vary depending on what's happening in her life. Ex. : Breastfeeding, different stages in her cycle, menopause, stress factors etc. but there are ways you can supp...
The one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality
November 22, 2021 03:24 - 25 minutes - 23.2 MBHave you ever felt like you wanted to maintain that connection to your sexuality + aliveness? You know you see these women just oozing in their sexuality and you're like " Shit, I want that". Well, guess what, I have the damm secret for you. In this episode, we go over the one thing you can do to feel alive and connected with your sexuality always. We go over things like: The reason you're disconnected from your sexuality in the first place, How to actually reconnect with our sexuality i...
"I feel awkward initiating sex with my partner" How to feel more at ease initiating sex
November 15, 2021 04:07 - 27 minutes - 25 MBOooo Okay I know there are some people out there that this might benefit. If you've ever felt like initiating is awkward, you resist it because maybe you fear getting rejected or you just don't even think about initiating because you don't think about sex this is for you. In this episode, we go over topics like What's the deal with initiating anyways? The expectations we place on our partners when we don't, what the common fears around initiating are, how to make rejection feel less awkwa...
Are you sitting in the passenger seat of your sexuality?
November 08, 2021 05:18 - 20 minutes - 18.4 MBHave you ever wondered how you can shift your perception of sex? Ask yourself this: Are you sitting in the driver's seat or the passenger seat of your sexuality? In this quick little episode, I go over what that looks like and how you can shift it. Sometimes we just need those good little reminders in life to get in the driver's seat. Pussy fairy is spilling all the juice, come sip. xo The Pussy Fairy Come find me in the Getting intimate Facebook group! Subscribe to my email list for...
A quick 10min practice to start your morning feeling juicy and grounded
November 01, 2021 05:44 - 11 minutes - 9.46 MBTrick or Treat - Always treat. Happy Halloween, I have a treat for you. Pussy owners! A Juicy morning practice to start your day. This one is best done before you start your morning, still in bed, your eyes barely open and you're still snuggly in your sheets. You can do this practice every morning or just on those days where you just want to start your day feeling grounded,sensual, and juicy. All you need is this 10 min audio, some alone time, and yourself for a happy morning. Enjoy. T...
Want to have great sex? Do these things
October 25, 2021 05:54 - 26 minutes - 24.6 MBYalll, I know you want to have great sex because; same. In this episode, I drop my favourite ways to shift mediocre sex into great sex. Now we know that sex isn't mindblowing all the time, but we can definitely shift into having great sex A LOT of the time. There are a million ways to have great sex, trust me I discover more and more every day but I'm sharing my favourite ones from today ;) Want to know what makes great sex? How to shift from showing up with blah energy to YES energy? Wh...