Latest Same-sex attraction Podcast Episodes
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Case Studies And Spicy Questions (LIVE)
Husband Material - June 26, 2023 15:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsCan masturbation ever be neutral or healthy? In this episode, I'll explore complex moral questions about masturbation. Together with a live audience, we'll analyze 10 situations you may have never considered before: A toddler touches his penis to feel pleasure A young boy learns to masturbate ...
Making Sense Of Masturbation: Science, Scripture, And My Story (LIVE)
Husband Material - June 19, 2023 15:00 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is masturbation? How does it affect the brain? What does the Bible (not) say about it? What will happen to me if I don't masturbate? In this episode, I'll share insights from neuroscience, the New Testament, and my own story of masturbation. I've been researching this topic for the past 1...
Porn And Third Culture Kids (with John Kilmer)
Husband Material - June 12, 2023 15:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsGrowing up between worlds, third culture kids face unique challenges in developing their identity and sense of belonging. Can these experiences create a higher risk of struggling with pornography? John Kilmer reveals the impact of moving during crucial developmental stages, and how unprocessed g...
Porn, Autism, and ADHD: Embracing Neurodiversity (with Candice Christiansen)
Husband Material - June 05, 2023 15:00 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do neurodifferences like ADHD and autism relate to unwanted sexual behavior? How can embracing neurodiversity help us heal and outgrow porn? Candice Christiansen offers powerful perspectives and practical advice. This interview is delightful! For neurodivergent individuals (and same or mixe...
How To Confront Parents With Compassion
Husband Material - May 29, 2023 15:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever thought about confronting a parent, but you're not sure how? In this episode, you'll learn the right questions to ask yourself when considering why and how to confront your parent(s) with compassion. Three important questions to ask: What happened (to them and to me)? How do ...
Healing With My Parents (with Yvonne Boa and Sandy Boa)
Husband Material - May 22, 2023 15:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, my parents share the good and the bad of how they raised me, and how we are healing. It's a story of vulnerability, repentance, and redemption. "All families have difficulties. If you bury them, you grow apart. If you get them on the table and solve them, then you can heal fro...
Adult Children Of Sex Addicts (with Dr. Ken Adams)
Husband Material - May 15, 2023 15:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat happens when you grow up in a family affected by sexual addiction? In this episode, Dr. Ken Adams reveals the burdens carried by adult children of sex addicts. This conversation is especially helpful for those of us who inherited sexual shame from our parents. You'll learn why and how to ...
Three Keys To Becoming Husband Material
Husband Material - May 08, 2023 15:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat does it mean to become husband material? In this episode, you'll learn the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-leadership. Stay until the end for special appearances by 12 Husband Material Men! New opportunities: HMA is reopening in July. Join the waitlist at joinhma....
Introduction To Outgrowing Porn (wth Dr. Robert Masters)
Husband Material - May 01, 2023 15:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat does it mean to outgrow porn? Dr. Robert Masters unpacks this concept (which he created) with stunning depth and clarity. Robert Augustus Masters is a psychotherapist, group leader, and relationship expert with a doctorate in psychology. His intuitive, uniquely integral work, developed ov...
Emotional Abuse (with Dr. Jake Porter)
Husband Material - April 24, 2023 15:00 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is emotional abuse? Dr. Jake Porter explains how to identify emotional abuse, heal from it, and stop emotionally abusing others. Dr. Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventur...
Directing Sexual Energy In Singleness
Husband Material - April 17, 2023 15:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat do I do with my sexual energy—especially if I'm single? In this episode, you'll learn the two types of sexual energy, why singleness can feel like a curse, and God’s good design for sexuality in singleness. You'll also hear real life examples of Christian men directing their sexual energy i...
How To Use The Body To Outgrow Porn (with Andrew Bauman)
Husband Material - April 10, 2023 15:00 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn why healing must happen in your body. Andrew Bauman reveals why talk therapy is not enough, what "the body keeps the score" actually means, how to use the body to outgrow porn and real-life examples of embodied healing. This interview is awesome! Andrew Bauman is t...
Role Playing Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Husband Material - April 03, 2023 15:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this extended episode, you'll hear 8 dramatized examples of mistakes men make while relating to women they have sexually betrayed and traumatized. You'll learn how to offer validation, own your impact, build your confidence, and be proactive. This session from The Porn Free Man Conference wil...
How Do You Define Pornography?
Husband Material - March 27, 2023 15:00 - 8 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn 2 ways to define pornography, 6 pornographic styles of relating, and what it means to be sexually healthy and mature. Resources mentioned by Andrew Bauman: A Pornographic Style of Relating (article) What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (article) The Psychology of Por...
Healing From Spiritual Abuse (with Chris Inman)
Husband Material - March 20, 2023 15:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn what spiritual abuse is and how to heal from it. Chris Inman tells his story of being spiritual abused as a boy and how it has affected him into adulthood. Chris Inman is the creator and facilitator of Porn Free Masculinity, an online intensive recovery program for...
Bullying And Same-Sex Attraction (with Jordan Castille)
Husband Material - March 13, 2023 15:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can bullying contribute to same-sex attraction? Jordan Castille tells his story of being bullied, how that impacted his sexual development, and how Jesus brought him healing and freedom from gay porn. Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Sex Addiction Specialist, and Ce...
Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Husband Material - March 06, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, Dr. Peter Malinoski guides Drew Boa through the process of unburdening sexual arousal using the internal family systems model (IFS). This type of healing experience can bring tremendous freedom from porn and unwanted sexual behavior. Disclaimer: This is what we call a demo, whi...
Guided IFS Experiential Exercise (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Husband Material - February 27, 2023 16:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll be guided through an exercise using the internal family systems model (IFS). Dr. Peter Malinoski demonstrates how to connect with your "parts"—including parts that might be attached to porn and unwanted sexual behavior. Clinical psychologist Dr. Peter Malinoski is presid...
Experience Healing Through IFS (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)
Husband Material - February 20, 2023 16:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn why healing experiences are essential for outgrowing porn. Dr. Peter Malinoski explains how the internal family systems model (IFS) can help us heal by meeting the five attachment needs we all have. Clinical psychologist Dr. Peter Malinoski is president of Souls a...
How Much Does She Need To Know About The Porn? (LIVE)
Husband Material - February 13, 2023 16:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever wondered how much your crush, girlfriend, fiancée, or wife needs to know about your relationship with porn? In this episode, you'll learn the appropriate level of detail to share when you're single, dating, engaged, or married. This episode is challenging and necessary. ✅ Free doc...
How Porn Affects Children (with Benji Nolot)
Husband Material - February 06, 2023 16:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIf you were exposed to porn at a young age, this episode is for you. Award-winning filmmaker Benji Nolot explains why children are not voluntary consumers of porn, and why self-compassion is essential for healing. You'll get a powerful glimpse into the humanity and vulnerability of men and women...
How Porn Fuels Sex Trafficking (with Benji Nolot)
Husband Material - January 30, 2023 16:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn four ways pornography fuels sex trafficking...and what we can do about it. Award-winning filmmaker Benji Nolot reveals what goes on behind the scenes of pornography. Benji Nolot is committed to the abolition of modern-day slavery by campaigning to shift cultural m...
Sexual Fluidity And Sexual Plasticity
Husband Material - January 23, 2023 16:00 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll learn two concepts that can give you less shame and more hope on your journey of outgrowing porn. Resources mentioned in this episode: Sexual Fluidity in Males and Females by Lisa Diamond The Porn Free Man 2023 Conference (now available) Come to our free online work...
What Types Of Change Are Possible? (with Rich Wyler)
Husband Material - January 16, 2023 16:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, Rich Wyler answers tough questions with curiosity, compassion, and courage. You'll learn what it looks like to work through internal conflict around sexual arousal and personal beliefs. You'll also learn why unconditional love and acceptance is our starting point. Rich Wyler is...
Habits That Heal (with Shawn Bonneteau)
Husband Material - January 09, 2023 16:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat habits are most helpful for healing and outgrowing porn? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau presents a beautiful menu of ideas to transform habits without pressure, perfectionism, or "shoulding" all over yourself in 2023. Shawn Bonneteau is a Christian pornography recovery coach and podcast ...
Becoming Porn Free In 2023
Husband Material - January 02, 2023 16:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, I'll recommend 3 resources to help you outgrow porn in 2023. Stay til the end to hear a big announcement about HMA (the doors are closing). As promised, here are my top 5 episodes of Husband Material: How To Outgrow Porn Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire How To Interpret ...
How Do I Deal With My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Husband Material - December 26, 2022 16:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can I help my partner heal? When she is "throwing rocks" at me, what can I do? In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci shares 10 rules for healthy interaction with your grieving partner: 10 Rules: 1. No Explaining 2. No Surprises 3. Validation, Not Defensiveness 4. Don’t Wilt (Be Confide...
How Do I Help My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)
Husband Material - December 26, 2022 16:00 - 54 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can I help my partner heal? When she is "throwing rocks" at me, what can I do? In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci shares 10 rules for healthy interaction with your grieving partner: 10 Rules: 1. No Explaining 2. No Surprises 3. Validation, Not Defensiveness 4. Don’t Wilt (Be Confide...
Emotional Fitness (with Sathiya Sam)
Husband Material - December 19, 2022 16:00 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat's the difference between emotional health and emotional fitness? Why does it matter? In this episode, Sathiya Sam explains what emotional fitness looks like and how you can leverage the added stress of the holiday season to become stronger. Sathiya Sam is an entrepreneur with a passion to ...
How To Be A Great Lover (with Dr. Keith Gregoire)
Husband Material - December 12, 2022 15:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat does it take to unlock a woman's sexual pleasure? Dr. Keith Gregoire explains how sex actually works, why we need to redefine sex, and how men can become better lovers. Keith Gregoire is a pediatrician who is passionate about building great marriages and equipping couples to parent well. H...
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