Latest Same-sex attraction Podcast Episodes
How To Help Your Partner Heal (with Carol Sheets)
Husband Material - December 25, 2023 16:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can I help my partner heal from the impact of my porn and sex addiction? Psychotherapist and author Carol Sheets reveals what sexually betrayed partners need most, and how you can "help her heal" when you create safety, practice empathy, offer validation, and take ownership without going int...
Blessing vs. Cursing Yourself & The Story Behind Your Porn (with Chris Bruno)
Husband Material - December 18, 2023 16:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you shift from self-condemnation to self-compassion? Chris Bruno reveals how to discover the story behind your struggle with porn. You'll learn what it looks like to rediscover your true "masterpiece-ness" even in the throes of a porn relapse. Our deepest healing lies in turning to the Go...
How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Husband Material - December 11, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat can sexual fantasies teach us? How should we analyze them? In this episode, Drew and Doug vulnerably share and analyze each other's sexual fantasies so you can understand what this work practically looks like and how to do it well. The best place to start is Husband Material Academy, which...
Introduction To Sexual Symbolism
Husband Material - December 04, 2023 15:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat desires are commonly symbolized by the penis, breasts, kissing, oral sex, nudity, diapers, and feet? Find out in this short and sweet introduction! Related episodes: Theology Of The Penis Unwanted Sexual Attraction Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies Wha...
Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson)
Husband Material - November 27, 2023 16:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is the Immanuel Approach? How can it help Christian men outgrow porn? Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson unpack this amazing way to change your brain and heal your heart through connecting with Jesus experientially. You'll also hear a refreshing reminder of how Jesus relates to you with uncond...
Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
Husband Material - November 20, 2023 15:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat if certain kinds of medication can make it easier to outgrow porn? Adam O'Neill unpacks the benefits and drawbacks of supplementing your sexual recovery with medication such as naltrexone. You'll get wisdom about what to expect and how to decide what's right for you. Adam also addresses com...
Can Psychiatric Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
Husband Material - November 20, 2023 15:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat if certain kinds of medication can make it easier to outgrow porn? Christian psychiatrist and author Adam O'Neill unpacks the benefits and drawbacks of supplementing your sexual recovery with medication such as naltrexone. You'll get wisdom about what to expect and how to decide what's righ...
What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery?
Husband Material - November 13, 2023 16:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow has porn impacted your approach to recovery? Learn 7 pornographic styles of recovery and what healthy recovery looks like instead. Pornographic recovery is: isolated escapist avoiding pain impatient passive/consuming cold and harsh. Healthy recovery is: relational embodied embraci...
Helping Men Feel Safe To Open Up And Heal From Trauma (with Dr. James Reeves)
Husband Material - November 06, 2023 16:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat helps men feel safe to open up and heal from trauma? Dr. James Reeves (the pirate pastor) tells the story of facing his childhood wounds, building a hospital church, and creating the Fearless Series—which is fantastic! The Fearless Series for Men is designed for Christian men to get the co...
How Porn Recovery Can Transform Your Church (with Sam Black)
Husband Material - October 30, 2023 15:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat if your church was a safe space to outgrow porn? Sam Black explains how porn recovery ministry leads to less work for pastors, more generous donors, more passionate volunteers, and a legacy of health for the next generation. Sam Black is the Director of Recovery Education at CovenantEyes....
How To Escape Creepy Conversations Before Sexting
Husband Material - October 23, 2023 15:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever felt uncomfortable or unsafe while chatting online? In this episode, I’ll share practical tips on how to escape creepy conversations… and 5 reasons why we sometimes don’t. At the end, you’ll hear real-life examples of how I have responded to unwanted sexual communication. Come to...
Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
Husband Material - October 16, 2023 15:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever been rejected? Roy Kim explains how rejection and internalized racism drove him to pornography. He also opens up about what it's like to struggle with with porn as a pastor—and as a male betrayed partner. Roy offers real hope through the power of compassion and community. Roy Kim,...
Porn And Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (with Andrew Loyd)
Husband Material - October 09, 2023 15:00 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsDo you know what it's like to struggle with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) in addition to porn? Andrew Loyd does; he has also experienced years of freedom. In this episode, Andrew unpacks how OCD and unwanted sexual behavior can be related. With curiosity and compassion, he also highlights ...
David’s Sexual Story
Husband Material - October 02, 2023 15:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWho was David—the boy, the king, the sex offender? In this episode, you’ll see David’s sexual story from a new angle. You'll also get a taste of church with Husband Material Men through the dramatic reading of Scripture, confession of sin, assurance of pardon, and Christ-centered preaching by Dr...
King David's Sexual Story (Sermon)
Husband Material - October 02, 2023 15:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWho was King David—the boy, the man, the sex offender? In this episode, you'll see an old story with new eyes. You'll also get a taste of worshipping with Husband Material Men through the dramatic reading of Scripture, confession of sin, assurance of pardon, and Christ-centered preaching by Drew...
David's Sexual Story (Sermon)
Husband Material - October 02, 2023 15:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWho was David—the boy, the king, the sex offender? In this episode, you’ll see David’s sexual story from a new angle. You'll also get a taste of church with Husband Material Men through the dramatic reading of Scripture, confession of sin, assurance of pardon, and Christ-centered preaching by Dr...
David’s Sexual Story (Sermon)
Husband Material - October 02, 2023 15:00 - 50 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWho was David—the boy, the king, the sex offender? In this episode, you’ll see David’s sexual story from a new angle. You'll also get a taste of church with Husband Material Men through the dramatic reading of Scripture, confession of sin, assurance of pardon, and Christ-centered preaching by Dr...
Reintegrative Therapy (with Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr.)
Husband Material - September 25, 2023 15:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is reintegrative therapy? Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr. explains his approach to treating trauma and how it can help men outgrow porn. Joseph also shares insights about sexual attraction, sexual development, euphoric recall, and the importance of being able to choose your own values and goals. D...
What To Do When You Feel The Urge To Watch Porn (with Dan Johnson)
Husband Material - September 18, 2023 15:00 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you handle the intense urge to watch porn? This was Dan Johnson's dilemma. Dan struggled with porn for over 20 years. After re-confessing to his wife, putting filters on all his devices, joining a community of other men, and seeing a certified sex addiction therapist, he was still not exp...
How To Heal Shame And Self-Contempt
Husband Material - September 11, 2023 10:00 - 16 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever struggled with shame or self-contempt? In this episode, you'll learn the simple formula for healing shame through vulnerability and connection. You'll also hear a vulnerable, shame-filled part of my story I've never shared publicly. What if shame is actually not a curse, but a clu...
Appropriate Touch Between Men (LIVE)
Husband Material - September 04, 2023 15:00 - 57 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsTouch is one of our most basic human needs. But many of us have been deprived. How can men outgrowing porn embrace healthy physical touch with each other—and prevent harm? Find out in this panel discussion with Certified Husband Material Coaches Drew Boa, Stephen Thomas, John Kilmer, and Mike Ch...
Healing Your Marriage After Gay Porn (with Tamara Lichfield)
Husband Material - August 28, 2023 15:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsThis episode answers unique questions for married men who have sexually acted out with gay porn or other men. You'll learn what partners go through upon discovery of gay porn, why transparency matters, and how we can pursue connection with other men while continuing to rebuild trust with our wiv...
The Inner Child Challenge Workshop (LIVE)
Husband Material - August 21, 2023 15:00 - 54 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this workshop led by Drew Boa, you'll learn how to connect with your inner child like never before. To complete the exercises, you will need: A piece of paper (digital documents will NOT work for this) 3 different crayons or colored pencils (if not, just use a pen) A posture of curiosity...
Why You Need A Recovery Action Plan (with Nick Stumbo & Trevor Winsor)
Husband Material - August 14, 2023 15:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you take action after relapse for growth and healing without using shame or punishment? After a porn relapse, what do appropriate consequences look like? Nick Stumbo and Trevor Winsor are members of the Executive Team at Pure Desire Ministries. Together, they host the popular Pure Desire...
From Rock Bottom To Recovery Coach (with George Morning)
Husband Material - August 07, 2023 15:00 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, you'll hear the inspiring story of George Morning ("Coach G"). We talk about the challenges faced by black men and men of color in outgrowing porn—and how societal pressures, misconceptions, and the normalization of addiction intensify these challenges. Coach G highlights the im...
How My Sexual Fetish Shifted Over Time
Husband Material - July 31, 2023 15:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIn this episode, I'll share 7 things that shifted my sexual fetish to become less intense, less frequent, less disruptive, and less arousing. NOTE: I believe trying to alter sexual attraction is both unethical and unhelpful. My fetish has not been removed or replaced, and that is not my goal. Ra...
A Story Of Healing Through Psychodrama (with Rick Carlson and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Husband Material - July 24, 2023 15:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat does psychodrama actually look like? In this episode, Rick Carlson tells the amazing story of his psychodrama process at the Husband Material Leaders Retreat. Register now for the upcoming Husband Material Retreat at husbandmaterial.com/retreat The early bird discount ends on August 1st....
Experience Healing Through Psychodrama (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Husband Material - July 17, 2023 15:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is psychodrama? How can it help men outgrow porn? In this episode, Dr. Doug Carpenter explains why this powerful type of therapy creates profound healing experiences and accelerates freedom from porn. Picture this: you're on stage. You're the protagonist in your own drama, undoing and red...
I'm Fine Syndrome (with Stephen Thomas)
Husband Material - July 10, 2023 15:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever pretended to be fine when you're really not? In this episode, Stephen Thomas explains "I'm Fine Syndrome"—what it is, why we struggle with it, and how to crush it. You'll learn the importance of honoring your wants and needs...and the power of being authentic. Admitting you're not ...
Secrets Of Sex And Marriage (with Dr. Michael Sytsma)
Husband Material - July 03, 2023 15:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratings"He said at 74, I am having the best sex of my life. At 74, my penis only occasionally shows up for the party. But I am still having the best sex of my life. I wish I had known in my thirties how to have this kind of sex." What is sex ultimately about? How can married couples enjoy sex more? Ho...
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