Latest Same-sex attraction Podcast Episodes
How I Stopped Getting Into My Husband's Recovery Work Instead Of Doing Mine (with Tera Brown)
Husband Material - July 08, 2024 15:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsTera Brown went from trying to fix her husband's sex addiction to finding herself, her emotions, her boundaries, and her sacred ground. In this episode, you'll learn what it looks like to heal from relational trauma and feel alive in your body. Tera Brown is a trauma-informed life coach traine...
Sitting In The Dirt Of Sexual Brokenness (with Jeremy Williamson)
Husband Material - July 01, 2024 15:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do I sit in the dirt with someone who is experiencing sexual brokenness? What if I don't know what to say? What if I find myself dysregulated or sexually aroused by the other person? Jeremy Williamson offers invaluable wisdom and counterintuitive clarity about how "be with" others in such a ...
How To Do Experiential Healing Work
Husband Material - June 24, 2024 15:00 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHave you ever been disappointed by traditional counseling or talk therapy? In this episode, you'll discover the power of a whole-brain approach to outgrowing porn. You'll learn the why, what, and how of experiential healing work. This episode is required viewing for my clients. Related episodes...
Restoration After Porn Relapse (with Rocky Pisor)
Husband Material - June 17, 2024 15:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you pursue restoration after a relapse, especially in marriage or ministry leadership? Rocky Pisor tells his own story of processing a porn relapse after 17 years of sobriety. You'll learn how to notice the warning signs of impending relapse, and how to respond to relapse with curiosity a...
It's Good To Be Aroused (with Sam Jolman)
Husband Material - June 10, 2024 13:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratings"There is nothing inherently wrong with an aroused man." What is arousal? Why is it good? Sam Jolman helps us reclaim the heart of masculine sexuality for the purpose of awe, play, and worshipping God. You'll learn how arousal always has a script, why evil hates arousal, and the difference betwe...
Freedom From Gay Porn (LIVE)
Husband Material - June 03, 2024 15:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhy do I struggle with gay porn? What does freedom look like? How can I stop using gay porn? In this episode, I answer these questions based on years of research and helping hundreds of men achieve lasting freedom from gay porn. Recommended resources (including paid links): Healing And Recover...
How Childhood Experiences Shape Sexual Development (with Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt)
Husband Material - May 27, 2024 15:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat's the point of processing childhood experiences? In this special episode recorded live at the Sexual Integrity Leadership Summit, Drew, Doug, Eddie, and Matt share insights and stories about how processing childhood experiences can help you outgrow porn. Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) a Certified Unw...
Why We Sexualize Emotions And How To Desexualize Them
Husband Material - May 20, 2024 15:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhy do we sexualize emotions, and how can we desexualize them? In this episode, I explain what it looks like to "right-size" sexual energy through processing emotions and releasing trauma. Free tools to process emotions: Feelings And Needs Wheel Feelings And Needs Inventory Ready to release ...
Overcoming Sexual Entitlement (with Noah Filipiak)
Husband Material - May 13, 2024 15:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat happens when you feel entitled to sex and treat your wife like a replacement for porn? In this episode, Noah Filipiak tells his story of overcoming sexual entitlement and objectification. Along the way, he unpacks the false promises of purity culture, what love really looks like, how God's ...
Hope And Healing For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)
Husband Material - May 06, 2024 15:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is the definition of sexless marriage? Why do couples experience this? Sexless marriage is often a symptom of deeper psychosomatic issues. Adam and Karissa teach practical tools to build a sexful marriage through vulnerability, intimacy, and safe touch. This episode can also help couples fo...
Hope For Sexless Marriage (with Adam and Karissa King)
Husband Material - May 06, 2024 15:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsSend us a Text Message. What is the definition of sexless marriage? Why do couples experience this? Sexless marriage is often a symptom of deeper psychosomatic issues. Adam and Karissa teach practical tools to build a sexful marriage through vulnerability, intimacy, and safe touch. This episode...
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Respond To A Story (Part 4)
Husband Material - April 29, 2024 15:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you respond to someone else's story with curiosity and compassion? In part 4 of this 4 part series, Marcus Spaur shares his story: "If I Only Could Have Been..." If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA,...
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: How To Write A Story (Part 3)
Husband Material - April 22, 2024 15:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow do you write a story about your trauma and sexual experiences? In part 3 of this 4-part series, Wendell Moss shares his story: "Sex & Sexuality" If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certifie...
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: Why We Do Story Work (Part 2)
Husband Material - April 15, 2024 15:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhy is story work absolutely essential for men outgrowing porn? In part 2 of this 4 part series, Chris Inman shares his story: "The Lonely Walk." If you love story work, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certified U...
Story Work For Men Outgrowing Porn: What Is Story Work? (Part 1)
Husband Material - April 08, 2024 15:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is story work? Where did it come from? What does it look like? In part 1 of this 4-part series, Drew shares his story: "The Day I Got Braces." If you love this series, you'd love Husband Material Groups. Apply to join a group at husbandmaterial.com/group Drew Boa (MA, PSAP) is a Certifie...
Porn and Inner Healing Prayer
Husband Material - April 01, 2024 15:00 - 21 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is inner healing prayer, and how can it help men outgrow porn? This episode is a preview of our new online course, "10 Ways To Heal Your Trauma: Resolving The Roots Of Porn And Sex Addiction." Get free access at healyourtrauma.com Resources for Inner Healing Prayer: Streams of Healing: F...
Porn and Polyvagal Theory (with John Kilmer)
Husband Material - March 25, 2024 15:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is Polyvagal Theory? How can it help men outgrow porn? John Kilmer skillfully describes the autonomic nervous system and how to (re)shape it in order to experience regulation without unwanted sexual behavior. John Kilmer is a Mental Health Life Coach, Occupational Therapist, and Certified...
What Is God Doing In My Trauma? (with Matt Wenger)
Husband Material - March 18, 2024 15:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWe need a theology of trauma. In this episode, Matt Wenger powerfully invites us to view our trauma through the lens of Jesus's life, death, and resurrection. This episode is a preview of our new online course at healyourtrauma.com Matt Wenger is the clinical director of Boulder Recovery, a 14-...
How To Create Connection In Any Conversation (LIVE)
Husband Material - March 11, 2024 15:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsDo you long for connection, but it feels impossible? In this episode, you'll learn extremely simple tools and techniques to create connection in any conversation—using your eyes, face, voice, and words. Helpful phrases: Tell me more… What’s it like for you... How does that affect you? That ...
Why Men Don't Talk About Their Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Husband Material - March 04, 2024 16:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsThere are over 40 reasons why men don't talk about their sexual abuse. Let's break the silence. In this episode hosted by Mike Chapman and Doug Carpenter, survivors of sexual abuse share vulnerable stories of harm and healing. Mike Chapman is a Certified Husband Material Coach and the leader o...
Full Disclosure: How To Tell Her About The Porn (with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill)
Husband Material - February 26, 2024 16:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is full disclosure? When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure experts Dan Drake and Janice Caudill walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a wa...
How To Tell Her About The Porn: Full Disclosure (with Dan Drake and Dr. Janice Caudill)
Husband Material - February 26, 2024 16:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is full disclosure? When, why, and how should I reveal sexual secrets to my wife? In this episode, disclosure experts Dan Drake and Janice Caudill walk us through the process of full therapeutic disclosure from beginning to end. You'll learn how to restore truth in your relationship in a wa...
Healthy Fantasy vs. Unhealthy Fantasy
Husband Material - February 19, 2024 16:00 - 15 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsYour imagination is not bad. Learn the 4 main types of fantasies, how to evaluate the healthiness of a fantasy, and what to do with your healthy/unhealthy fantasies! Related episodes: Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy Introduc...
A Grace-Based Approach To Sexual Recovery (with Jonathan Daugherty)
Husband Material - February 12, 2024 16:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is grace, and how does it apply to sexual recovery? Jonathan Daugherty inspiringly explains how grace is not "soft" but the most powerful force for transformation and freedom from porn. Pride, shame, and comparison all melt away under the core truth that you are worth the life of God's son,...
Singleness & Same-Sex Attraction (with Dr. Greg Coles)
Husband Material - February 05, 2024 16:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsIf you're single and you experience same-sex attraction, this episode is for you. Dr. Greg Coles offers insight, humor, delight, and hope that defies typical Christian categories of what a "good and beautiful life" can look like. Greg Coles is an author, speaker, and scholar at the Center for F...
Outgrowing Porn vs. Purity Culture
Husband Material - January 29, 2024 16:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat is the difference between outgrowing porn and purity culture? In this replay from The Porn Free Man Conference, you'll experience dramatic examples of what these two approaches look like, sound like, and feel like when you are... Reaching out to a friend after watching porn (failure vs. fe...
Outgrowing Porn Through Parts Work (with Dr. Gerry Crete)
Husband Material - January 22, 2024 16:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can parts work help us outgrow porn? Dr. Gerry Crete combines Christian faith, internal family systems, attachment theory, and EMDR into a powerful approach to outgrowing porn. Learn why we need to work with parts pre-emptively, how to "break the spell" when you're in a trance state, and pra...
What To Do When Your Wife Is Triggered (with Tammy Gustafson)
Husband Material - January 15, 2024 16:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsHow can a husband help his wife during a trigger? Tammy Gustafson reveals what triggers are, how they affect your wife's brain, and what she needs after a trigger tornado has passed. Discover how her triggers can become opportunities for healing! Tammy Gustafson is a trauma-informed Licensed Pr...
Healing Through Artwork and Storywork (with Philip Leach and John Kilmer)
Husband Material - January 08, 2024 16:00 - 59 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsWhat happens when you combine storywork, artwork, and Jesus? Witness powerful healing in this live demonstration of HMA Coaching! As Drew shares a story of difficulty, chalk artisan Philip Leach creates a visual representation while coach John Kilmer offers attunement. Then we invite Jesus into ...
12 Reasons To Stop Shaming Yourself
Husband Material - January 01, 2024 16:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 203 ratingsLearn 12 reasons why shaming yourself doesn't help, what's more powerful than shame, and what you can do instead of shaming yourself. Come to our free online workshop: HMA In A Day on Saturday, July 13! Sign up now at husbandmaterial.com/workshop Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: L...
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