Friendshipping!
296 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 169 ratingsHow do I quit feeling so jealous of successful friends? Can I befriend my ex? Should I ask my coworker why she unfollowed me on Twitter?
Every week Jenn & Trin answer your questions about friendship! We try to advise on the tricky stuff that's making you feel weird.
Write us your questions at [email protected], and visit FriendshippingPodcast.com for more info. Remember that we're not therapists or doctors, although we have spent plenty of time with them.
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Episodes
One Sink Fire is Funny
December 24, 2015 20:22 - 20 minutes - 13.9 MBThis week, we discuss tactics for doing a very awkward, difficult thing: confronting your friends when they embarrass you. "My friend gets way too drunk at parties" & "A friend keeps bringing up a private fact about me in groups" are the jump-off points.
When Your Friend is Hagrid
December 17, 2015 19:41 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MBWe've gotten this question a few different times: what do I do if my friend has a blindspot when it comes to how badly behaved her dog is?!
The Art of Apologizing
December 10, 2015 20:44 - 18 minutes - 13 MBYou done fucked up. We all have! Here's how to make the necessary apology, without asking for a reward in return.
The Holiday Episode: Be the Molly Weasley You Want to See in the World
November 25, 2015 19:07 - 23 minutes - 16.3 MBThe holidays can be fun and relaxing! And maybe also: not relaxing, expensive, cold, tedious, stressful, and full of family complications. Here's how to not be an asshole this time of year.
Thanks For Being Wrong
November 13, 2015 18:45 - 8 minutes - 6.02 MBImprovising what to do when your friends are just being incorrect dinguses.
Nicki Minaj's Instagram
November 05, 2015 19:37 - 18 minutes - 12.5 MBMy friend downplays her accomplishments constantly. She lacks confidence, and she has no idea how cool and smart she is. Aarghh!!
Put This In Your Moleskine Journal
October 29, 2015 18:07 - 20 minutes - 14 MBThe mean girls episode. Some friends will be bad influences on you -- they'll turn you into a version of yourself you don't really like. And then it's time for some tough love. (Side note: the end of this episode includes lots non-spoilerly Star Wars excitement.)
My Feet Hurt and I Don't Want To Go To the Zoo
October 22, 2015 16:25 - 21 minutes - 14.6 MBIt IS possible to travel in a group without wanting to kill everyone! Jenn & Trin improvise a few scenes: Jenn is an inflexible traveler tired enough to sleep on a bench, and Trin is her friend-dad.
Resting Sadness Face
October 15, 2015 15:52 - 16 minutes - 11 MB"When I plan an activity and don't invite the entire group, inevitably someone always feels left out or upset. How can I avoid hurting people's feelings?" And "One friend in my social circle is very quiet and sulky. Should I discourage her from coming out with us?"
Friendship with Boundaries
October 08, 2015 18:01 - 20 minutes - 14.3 MBWhat to do when someone considers you a friend and the feeling is juuust not mutual. All about tricky relationships, especially in a work or convention setting.
Apology Not Accepted
October 02, 2015 22:53 - 8 minutes - 5.62 MBA list of things you don't have to apologize for. A short episode because Trin has the sniffles.
Singin' The I-Feel-Left-Out Blues
September 24, 2015 16:21 - 17 minutes - 12.2 MBSome advice in advocating for yourself when you feel left out in your own group of friends!
Fellowshipping of the Ring
September 17, 2015 18:44 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MBThis week, Jenn and Trin analyze the friendships in Fellowship of the Ring and learn some lessons from Leggles and the gang.
Fellowshipping of the Ring
September 17, 2015 18:44 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MBThis week, Jenn and Trin analyze the friendships in Fellowship of the Ring and learn some lessons from Leggles and the gang. If you haven't seen Fellowship of the Ring, please be aware that there are spoilers for this 14 year old movie. Stick around after the closing credits for several minutes of weird, nerdy stuff we couldn't fit in the episode.
Being the Best Wingman
September 10, 2015 18:16 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MBWe're back from hiatus to tackle two relationship-y questions. "I've got a single friend who doesn't want to be single. I want to help!" vs. "I'm single and my friend keeps trying to hook me up." Mentioned in this episode: Damsels and Distress Panel at PAX 2015.
Being the Best Wingman
September 10, 2015 18:16 - 20 minutes - 14.1 MBWe're back from hiatus to tackle two relationship-y questions. "I've got a single friend who doesn't want to be single. I want to help!" vs. "I'm single and my friend keeps trying to hook me up." Mentioned in this episode: Damsels and Distress Panel at PAX 2015.
Jenn Gets A Tattoo
August 20, 2015 18:54 - 14 minutes - 10.3 MBThis week, Trin is invited along to witness Jenn's first tattoo! Listen as we grasp for metaphors to link friendship and getting a tattoo. Content warning for needles, cocaine, and Minions. This episode was recorded at Chicago's Deluxe tattoo and Joy Yee ToGo. Thanks to Tattoo Artist Troy for putting up with us, and for his friendship. Thanks also to special guest star Max Temkin for the friendship and the Thai smoothies. Also, the stories about cocaine are completely true.
PREVIEW: Jenn's Tattoo
August 14, 2015 18:18 - 28 seconds - 362 KBTrin tries to distract Jenn from the tattoo needle by asking her questions from friends on Twitter. Full episode posted next Thursday!
PREVIEW: Jenn's Tattoo
August 14, 2015 18:18 - 28 seconds - 363 KBTrin tries to distract Jenn from the tattoo needle by asking her questions from friends on Twitter. A twitter friend asks, "What's your favorite pizza topping?" Full episode posted next Thursday!
Jealousy, Perception, & a Friendship Workshop
August 13, 2015 16:49 - 19 minutes - 13.3 MBWe address the question, "How do I handle feeling jealous of other friendships?" Includes the first-ever Friendship Workshop to sharpen your skills! Sit your ass down, class is now in session.
Bearing the Burdens: A Bummer of an Episode
August 06, 2015 16:37 - 20 minutes - 14.2 MBIf you've got a negative friend who dumps on you all the time, this is the episode for you. We also tackle a difficult topic: "I'm friends with a woman who says she hates women!" Mentioned in this episode: - "I Was a Teenage Sexist" by Jenn Frank
Identifying Your Friends
July 30, 2015 13:55 - 17 minutes - 11.9 MBTwo tricky questions this week about finding your friends: - Is becoming a successful creator myself the only way to befriend like-minded individuals? - How can I navigate friendships with people I have crushes on?
The Peptalk
July 24, 2015 17:02 - 3 minutes - 2.41 MBA short impassioned rally to get you through your day.
The Peptalk
July 24, 2015 17:02 - 3 minutes - 2.42 MBA short impassioned rally to get you through your day.
Random Rapid-Fire Questions
July 16, 2015 19:08 - 18 minutes - 12.7 MBWe took the week off to answer questions about the podcast itself, Bioware videogames, Harry Potter, and Chris Pratt's jeans. Mentioned in this episode: - Jenn's angry blog post about Jurassic World
Mo' Money Mo' Problems
July 09, 2015 16:10 - 20 minutes - 14.1 MBMoney in friendships can be hella awkward. I've got a friend who owes me money! How do I get it back? And my friends eat at expensive restaurants all the damn time.
Broworkers
July 02, 2015 15:45 - 20 minutes - 14.3 MBHow to navigate friendships in the workplace, meet new friends, and then keep them after you've left your job. tw: vagina jokes, and mild body horror.
Friends with Babies
June 25, 2015 20:44 - 21 minutes - 15.1 MBHow do I tell my friend who's a new mom that she's working too hard at it? What if I don't want to babysit? How to be good to your friends who have kids.
Thanks, but no thanks
June 18, 2015 19:57 - 14 minutes - 10.3 MBHow to properly thank your friends for the nice things they do. Jenn & Trin share their controversial view on receiving thank you notes.
The Outsiders
June 11, 2015 18:34 - 22 minutes - 15.3 MBWhat to do if you feel like you're on the outside of your friend group, like Neville, and how to want to make friends with "better" people. Includes a lengthy Harry Potter discussion!
Advice on Giving Advice
June 04, 2015 21:57 - 15 minutes - 10.5 MBHow and when to give advice to your friends without being an asshole. For the first time in human history, Jenn & Trin disagree on how to handle this.
Advice on Giving Advice
June 04, 2015 21:57 - 15 minutes - 10.5 MBHow and when to give advice to your friends without being an asshole. For the first time in human history, Jenn & Trin disagree on how to handle this.
Unfollowing Friends
May 29, 2015 19:20 - 15 minutes - 10.9 MBWhat can I do when my friend butts into my Twitter conversations? Should I ask why my friend unfollowed me on Twitter? Let's talk Internet Friendships.
Rude
May 22, 2015 17:55 - 18 minutes - 13 MBMy friend always flakes on me, my friend can't put her phone down when we're together, and other concerns. Common courtesy can sometimes get lost in friendships.
Sexiled - Part II
May 14, 2015 16:39 - 12 minutes - 8.42 MBEvery time my friend dates someone new, I'm pushed aside and ignored. What now?
Sexiled - Part I
May 13, 2015 17:09 - 13 minutes - 9.45 MBMy friend is dating someone who is racist/sexist/terrible/annoying. When is it time to intervene? Part I of II.
Friendshipping with Benefits
May 08, 2015 19:11 - 13 minutes - 9.23 MBWhat if I have crushes on all my friends? Do I have to be friends with my ex? And other sexy questions.
Ghosts of Friendships Past
April 24, 2015 17:06 - 13 minutes - 9.54 MBSeeing old friends will make you feel weird and that's okay. Here's how to handle high school reunions, friendships that have faded, and other awkwardness.
Friendshipping: Clicking with Family
April 17, 2015 22:14 - 16 minutes - 11.3 MBAubrey & Angela of the Doubleclicks guest-host to answer sibling-related questions. What if my friends like my sister more? How can I do friendship at my grieving brother? How can I get closer with my siblings?
BFFs
April 10, 2015 16:18 - 12 minutes - 8.58 MBThe best friend episode! How can I be a best friend when I live far away? How can I advance a friendship to BFF-status? Wait, what the hell IS a best friend, anyway?
Am I a bad friend?
April 03, 2015 20:00 - 14 minutes - 9.79 MBToday Jenn and Trin decide if you're a bad friend. I mean, maybe you are a bad friend. That's certainly a possibility. Also Trin eats a smoothie with a spoon and you hear that quite a bit in the episode, sorry everyone. At least the smoothie was delicious.
Jenn & Trin: Origins
March 13, 2015 19:27 - 15 minutes - 10.8 MBWe rapid-fire-answer a bunch of questions, including, "is it okay to listen to this podcast if I'm a dude?" and "how did you two meet, anyway?"
Meeting Internet Friends
March 04, 2015 21:06 - 15 minutes - 10.9 MBMeeting an Internet friend for the first time will probably be awkward. Here are some tips for taking your friendship into offline mode.
I'm an Abbi and I need an Ilana.
February 25, 2015 21:03 - 11 minutes - 8.15 MBWhat if you feel like you've already met all of the women you could ever be friends with? What if all of your potential friends live far away?
Dare to Self-Care
February 20, 2015 21:17 - 17 minutes - 7.9 MBHow do you balance being a good friend and being good to yourself? Jenn and Trin discuss the value of self-care to personal relationships.
Competition
February 13, 2015 21:13 - 11 minutes - 5.49 MBHer success is not your failure, and there’s room at the top for all of us. So move over, fuckers.