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Divorce University Online

302 episodes - English - Latest episode: 11 days ago - ★★★★★ - 31 ratings

Tammy (Child Custody Coach) shares her experience and insights gained from her own divorce and subsequent step family. She also worked alongside her late husband, Attorney Thomas D. Ferreira, for over 15 years as a paralegal and mediator before beginning her child custody coaching practice in 2019. Thomas passed away on May 1, 2023 and Tammy continues to share the wisdom she gained from Thomas through the years as well as her own perspective. Tammy specializes in helping parents who are dealing with co-parents that have high-conflict personality traits such as narcissism, borderline personality disorder and bipolar.

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It’s All About Control!

August 20, 2019 09:00 - 40 minutes - 55.2 MB

It’s All About Control! In Episode 50 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss our human need for control, which is at the heart of conflict in many divorce cases. Many times the conflict shifts from trying to influence your spouse to trying to influence the Court. And the Court often becomes a “superparent” in these battles. So, how do you stop the struggle for control and minimize the Court’s management of your family life. Join us as we share our best strategies, especially if...

Vindication: The Heart of Post-Divorce Conflict

August 13, 2019 09:00 - 37 minutes - 52.1 MB

Vindication: The Heart of Post-Divorce Conflict. In Episode 49 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss our human need for vindication. We see it in almost every case and it’s natural. More importantly, it’s the driving force behind a vast majority of high-conflict Court battles. If vindication is what so many are seeking, why is it we rarely see the Court process satisfy this need? It all comes down to what the Court can’t control in this process. What is that? Listen now to fin...

No Fault Divorce…….Really?

August 06, 2019 09:00 - 41 minutes - 57.2 MB

No Fault Divorce…….Really? In Episode 48 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we look back on the evolution of “no fault divorce” and examine how the shift to no fault divorce changed the divorce process. What was the idea behind the “no fault” revolution? Did it accomplish what the Court’s were trying to accomplish. Do we really have “no fault” divorce? How did this influence the battleground we see in today’s divorce process? Join us to understand the history of no fault divorce and h...

Cover Your……..Monkey’s Butt!

July 30, 2019 09:00 - 33 minutes - 45.4 MB

Cover Your……..Monkey’s Butt! In Episode 47 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss three specific action that make you look like a “monkey’s butt” to the Court and to your ex. Why should you care? Because this can have a significant impact on your case. We also discuss what you can do to turn it around if you’ve made mistakes that leave the Court thinking you are the problem instead of your difficult ex! Listen now to find out! For more information please visit us a divorceunive...

Got Parental Alienation?

July 23, 2019 09:00 - 39 minutes - 53.7 MB

Got Parental Alienation? In Episode 46 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the devastation that is parental alienation. As much as we would love to think one parent would never do this to another, it happens. So what should you do? How do you handle this? And, more importantly, what shouldn’t you do? The Court often has difficulty dealing with this issue and that’s why your own actions and reactions become even more important if the other parent is trying to alienate you. Bu...

Why Won’t the Pain Stop?!

July 16, 2019 09:00 - 37 minutes - 51.8 MB

Why Won’t the Pain Stop?! In Episode 45 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the pain that is divorce. We always say that if a person has never been through a divorce, you can’t possibly explain the extreme emotional pain of it. We often try to (unknowingly) hold on to the relationship and since we are divorcing, the only way to do that is through negative contact, or pain. This results in conflict and sometimes people use the Court system to play out that conflict in an effo...

DON’T Behave the Way You Feel!

July 09, 2019 09:00 - 40 minutes - 55 MB

DON’T Behave the Way You Feel! In Episode 44 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss how important it is for you to behave differently than you feel. Let’s face it, we are often filled with grief and extreme emotion at a point where the Court is expecting “Adult Behavior” from us.  You can’t always control the way you feel but there are things you can do to help you control the way you behave. Although a divorce or breakup can feel like a tearing down process, it’s often a turni...

REVENGE: We All Want It!

July 02, 2019 09:00 - 36 minutes - 49.8 MB

REVENGE: We All Want It! In Episode 43 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the most common feeling we see in working with divorcing clients, the desire for revenge. While we aren’t always willing to admit this feeling, we definitely all have it on some level. We have the need for revenge because we all want vindication, whether it’s financial or emotional. So, what can you do? How do deal with those feelings in a way that helps you move forward in your own life and happiness...

The Five Stages of Divorce Grief Recovery

June 25, 2019 09:00 - 33 minutes - 45.8 MB

The Five Stages of Divorce Grief Recovery. In Episode 42 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we discuss the emotional process of moving through divorce which in effect, is a process of grieving. If you are familiar with the work of Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, you’ll recognize our discussion around the 5 stages. No matter what stage you’re at, you’ll recognize parts of yourself and current emotional processing. We’ll also share tips on how to move quickly through to the other side of grief, ...

Wisdom from on High – 5 Biblical Quotes to Live By After Divorce or Separation

June 18, 2019 09:00 - 37 minutes - 51.7 MB

Wisdom from on High – 5 Biblical Quotes to Live By After Divorce or Separation. In Episode 41 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we share our 5 favorite biblical verses that helped us personally during our divorces. Divorce is not easy regardless of which religious beliefs you hold. However, the Bible can provide us with some comfort and wisdom to help us understand how to deal with what is happening to our marriage and our family relationships and how to forge a path forward into the...

One Powerful Idea to Revolutionize Your Co-Parenting Relationship

June 11, 2019 09:00 - 39 minutes - 53.9 MB

One Powerful Idea to Revolutionize Your Co-Parenting Relationship. In Episode 40 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we analyze the difficulties of co-parenting. How do you deal with conflict? How do you get privacy from your ex and get them to leave you alone? Most parents are frustrated with their co-parent and the manipulation that is often used by one of the parties to cause the other parent as much grief as possible. How do you create a boundary that protects your sanity and allow...

Do You Know the ONE Resource That Will Turn the Tables on Your Divorce?

June 04, 2019 09:00 - 42 minutes - 58.6 MB

Do You Know the ONE Resource That Will Turn the Tables on Your Divorce? In Episode 39 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we help you assess what you actually want from your post-divorce life and how to get it. Most people utilize resources such as aggressive lawyers, financial experts and therapists to try to help them get to their post-divorce life. Often, these resources keep you stuck in the mire of divorce. So, what’s the one resource that can help move you forward? Listen now to ...

How can you combat post-divorce grief?

May 28, 2019 09:00 - 43 minutes - 59.6 MB

How can you combat post-divorce grief? In Episode 38 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we examine the different areas of our lives that grief can creep into following a divorce. In our experience working with clients, this is an area that everyone struggles with. We’ll also each share how this affected each of andus personally, professionally, and on the homefront during our divorces 13 years ago. More importantly, we’ll give you tools you can use to overcome this overwhelmingly pain...

How do you handle the religious training of children after divorce?

May 21, 2019 09:00 - 37 minutes - 51.6 MB

How do you handle the religious training of children after divorce? In Episode 37 of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we walk you through many of the struggles co-parents have around this issue. What if one of you isn’t religious or doesn’t attend church? What if you have different religions? How do you talk to the kids about attending separate churches post break-up? And what do you do for special church events? There are workable solutions as we’ve discovered in our 12 years of co-pa...

I Am Not a Victim

May 14, 2019 09:00 - 44 minutes - 60.4 MB

Welcome to Episode 36 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 36, I Am Not a Victim, we help you reframe the mindset that traps many of us during divorce. It’s common to feel that your spouse destroyed your family by having affairs, spending excessively, constantly criticizing or whatever other issues broke down your marriage. This puts us in a mindset of “I can’t because” and when we start saying those words, we become weak, full of self-doubt, and vulnerable to continuing atta...

Understanding Attorney Retainers, Fees, and Billing

May 07, 2019 09:00 - 42 minutes - 58 MB

Welcome to Episode 35 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 35, Understanding Attorney Retainers, Fees, and Billing, we try to remove the confusion around attorney fees. Many divorcing people have never had a prior need for legal services and don’t understand an attorney retainer or how it works. Furthermore, they don’t understand how billing and fees are charged to them and are often shocked when they receive the first bill from their attorney. In this episode we demystify th...

Divorce Court Process Flyover

April 30, 2019 09:00 - 48 minutes - 66.8 MB

Welcome to Episode 34 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 34, Divorce Court Process Flyover – Understanding the Basics, we talk about the legal process that everyone goes through during divorce. It’s important to have a basic understanding of the process so that you can make decisions regarding your case. Divorce is a lawsuit that involves pleadings, motions, discovery, and trial. For most people this part alone feels overwhelming. Confused yet? Listen now as we help you fin...

What Are Your Divorce Superpowers?

April 23, 2019 09:00 - 44 minutes - 60.5 MB

Welcome to Episode 33 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 33, What Are Your Divorce Superpowers?, we talk about  common feelings we all have during divorce such as anxiety, anger, fear, and depression. Then, we help you discover the divorce superpower lurking inside of you that will help you fight those enemies. Finding your inner Superman or Wonderwoman is easier than you think. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening! Epi...

The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow,

April 16, 2019 09:00 - 38 minutes - 52.4 MB

Welcome to Episode 32 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 32, The Number One Divorce Secret: It Will Be Better Tomorrow, we talk about the crisis of divorce that almost every single person experience including the strong illusion that your current misery will last forever. Fortunately, it won’t. Divorce is a transition to a new life. But how do you get to that new life? What steps can you take to get out of the misery and get excited about your future? Join us as we help you...

Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity

April 09, 2019 09:00 - 44 minutes - 61.8 MB

Welcome to Episode 31 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 31, Four Weapons That Demolish Post-Separation Negativity, we talk about the common cycle of negativity often see in newly separated people. Hurt, anger, and resentment are common emotions in divorce and unfortunately, many people stay stuck in those emotions for extended periods of time. Often our exes are the target of these negative feelings but staying stuck actually hurts you way more than it hurts them. But unle...

How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation

April 02, 2019 09:00 - 50 minutes - 69.2 MB

Welcome to Episode 30 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 30, How to Turn Around a Bad Child Custody Situation, we talk about what to do if you have a restraining order, are on supervised visitation, or just have less parenting time than you wanted. Thomas always says child custody is a marathon not a sprint and we’re going to help you run that marathon in a way that will help you get more parenting time. We’ll discuss how to build a closer relationship with your child with ...

The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships

March 26, 2019 09:00 - 39 minutes - 54.2 MB

Welcome to Episode 29 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 29, The Secret to Healthy Post-Divorce Relationships, we talk about what caused the misery in our previous relationship, how we can get ourselves emotionally healthy, and how not to get ourselves into the same situation all over again! If you’re anything like us, you definitely have no desire to repeat the past! Understanding dependence, independence, and interdependence and how they all work together to form a health...

Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce

March 19, 2019 09:00 - 45 minutes - 62.8 MB

Welcome to Episode 28 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 28, Five Resolutions to Transform You After Divorce, we talk about how maddening the divorce process is for most people. It is inherently negative and therefore, easily framed in negative ways by those of us going through it. Unfortunately, the Court process only perpetuates more negativity. But what if there was a way to turn the tables on that process and find your joy again? Divorce is an opportunity to find yourse...

Courts Can’t Change Your Ex

March 12, 2019 09:00 - 36 minutes - 49.6 MB

Welcome to Episode 27 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 27, Courts Can’t Change Your Ex, we talk about most peoples’ desire for the Court to know what’s going on in their situation. Courts are really good at managing big issues but not so good at managing the day-to-day aspects of relationships. So, what do you do? Join us as we talk about solutions to the day-to-day issues and steps you can take to help you manage aspects of your case and dealing with your ex even when th...

The Shot Heard Round The World

March 05, 2019 10:00 - 34 minutes - 47.7 MB

Welcome to Episode 26 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 26, The Shot Heard ‘Round the World, we talk about how an aggressive stance is a recipe for heartache and expense in any divorce case. A conflict of interest exists for an attorney in any divorce case because the more conflict there is, the more money they make. How well do you know your attorney and understand what motivates their decision making? Breaking up is difficult for almost everyone but the choices you make ...

Step-Parenting

February 26, 2019 10:00 - 41 minutes - 57.1 MB

Welcome to Episode 25 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 25, Step-Parenting, Family Life's Most Thankless Gig we talk about the difficulty of incorporating new mates into a divorced family. We share some of our own experiences and discuss common questions. How much authority should your new mate have with the kids? How do you get the kids and your ex-spouse on board with the new relationship? Join us as we share our own mistakes and help you avoid common pitfalls. For more ...

Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication

February 19, 2019 10:00 - 49 minutes - 67.6 MB

Welcome to Episode 24 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 24, Communication 201 - Examples of Effective Communication we dive into concrete examples of communication between coparents and explain how we would revise the communication and why we recommend the changes. These examples are designed to help you model your own communication and create more cooperative and peaceful communication with your coparent. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com....

Communication A Vital Co-Parenting Skill

February 12, 2019 10:00 - 36 minutes - 49.8 MB

Welcome to Episode 23 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 23 we discuss “Communication, A Vital Co-Parenting Skill”. Are you wearing the black or white hat in your custody case? In this episode, we discuss how to eliminate conflict, defensiveness, and how to let your ex “be the crazy one”. We’ll also dive into ways you can get the parenting schedule you really want! For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Care and Feeding of Attorneys

February 05, 2019 10:00 - 40 minutes - 55.4 MB

Welcome to Episode 22 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 22 we discuss “Care and Feeding of Attorneys” Of course, you want to get as much value as you can from you attorney by leveraging their knowledge and expertise, but how? Join us as we discuss shoeboxes, developing a plan, and taking charge of your case. We’ll also dive into ways you can help your attorney help you!  For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

How Much Does All Of This Really Cost?

January 29, 2019 10:00 - 41 minutes - 56.7 MB

Welcome to Episode 21 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 21 we discuss “How Much Does All of This Really Cost?” Obviously, divorce is a financial disaster for almost everyone and concerns about how much more cost will be involved in the divorce process itself, is a very common question. We’ll will discuss the different methods of moving through divorce including self-representation, mediation, and using attorneys. We’ll also dive into ways you can save money regardless of w...

Child Custody From The Child's Point of View

January 22, 2019 10:00 - 40 minutes - 55.8 MB

Welcome to Episode 20 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 20 we talk about child custody from the point of view of the child, and how these conflict and court battles can affect your child. We also go into detail about how you can shield your child from these conflicts and why it is important to do so. Listen in to understand more about how this process can affect your child and how to mitigate that.  For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank ...

I’m Restrained from seeing My Children, How Can I Get My Kids Back?

January 15, 2019 10:00 - 42 minutes - 57.9 MB

Welcome to Episode 19 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 19, I’m Restrained from seeing My Children, How Can I Get My Kids Back?, We talk about being in one of the most difficult situations a parent can be in, and that is not being able to see their children. We talk you through one of the most important factors of pulling the case back to your side, and that is staying calm. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Are Your Emotions Causing You to Lose Your Case?

January 08, 2019 10:00 - 41 minutes - 57.6 MB

  Welcome to Episode 18 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 18, Are Your Emotions Causing You to Lose Your Case? We talk about how your emotions can take control of your case and cost you time and money spent in the court room. We also talk about how it may affect a judges decision making on your case. Tune in to learn how to avoid mistakes when dealing with emotions. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Men Are Narcissist, Women Are Borderline

January 01, 2019 10:00 - 36 minutes - 49.5 MB

Welcome to Episode 17 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 17, Men Are Narcissist, Women Are Borderline. In this Episode we discuss the prevalence of personality disorders in divorce and how having a spouse with a personality disorder impacts the divorce process and outcomes. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Help, my spouse is having an affair. What should I do?

December 25, 2018 10:00 - 39 minutes - 54.6 MB

  Welcome to Episode 16 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 16, Help, My Spouse is Having an Affair!, What Should I Do? We talk about the best strategies to impose when you find out that your spouse is having an affair. It is vital to the outcome of this situation that you react in an appropriate manner for the sake of the children and the outcome of your marriage. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

THE TRICK TO BEING NICE WHEN YOU DON’T WANT TO.

December 18, 2018 10:00 - 34 minutes - 46.9 MB

Welcome to Episode 15 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 15, How to Be Nice When You Don’t Want To, we have discussed why being nice and staying civil is healthy for your case and your children. In this episode we discuss tactics on how to keep this premise, regardless of how your ex may act towards you. Keeping your head on straight is one of the most important factors in court appearances! For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for ...

Financial Issues Part 4 - Spousal Support

December 11, 2018 10:00 - 43 minutes - 60.3 MB

Welcome to Episode 14 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 14, Preparing Financial Issues Part Four - Why Calculating Spousal Support is Like Trying to Nail Jello to the Wall. Spousal Support (or Alimony) is by far the most difficult aspect to settle in almost every case. Spousal support is complicated and the Court has a lot of discretion. Spousal support in California is based on the factors in Family Code Section 4320. Join us on this deep dive as we simplify one of the mo...

Financial Issues Part 3

December 04, 2018 10:00 - 41 minutes - 57.5 MB

Welcome to Episode 13 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 13, Preparing Financial Issues Part Three – Getting and Enforcing Child Support, we talk about the underlying lawsuit, the necessity of a motion, and many other factors that go into how much is paid, and how to collect it from a spouse that may not be willing to pay. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Financial Issues Part 2

November 27, 2018 10:00 - 36 minutes - 49.5 MB

Welcome to Episode 12 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 12, Preparing Financial Issues Part Two – Support of Minor Children. In this episode we discuss the two main factors used to calculate guideline child support in California, what the purpose of child support is (i.e. what it covers) and how to deal with child support arrears. For more information please visit us a divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Thanksgiving - Family American Style

November 22, 2018 10:00 - 33 minutes - 45.7 MB

Welcome to a special Thanksgiving Episode of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this Episode, Thanksgiving - Family American Style, we discuss the difficulty of holidays for divorcing parties and how our Thanksgiving unfolds 12 years post-divorce. We discuss creating new traditions and let you in on who the guests will be in our home, which may surprise you! Happy Thanksgiving! For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Preparing Financial Issues Part One

November 20, 2018 10:00 - 30 minutes - 42.5 MB

Welcome to Episode 11 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 11, Preparing Financial Issues Part One – What Are the Issues? Finances are a very complex issue in divorce and is a very common point of conflict in divorcing couples. We help you understand all of what is considered part of the community finances and how to divide this between the two parties. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for listening!

Motions Part Two - How to Write a Declaration Supporting Your Motion

November 13, 2018 10:00 - 37 minutes - 51.6 MB

Welcome to Episode 10 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 10, Motions Part Two – How to Write a Declaration Supporting Your Motion. Motions part two dives into writing your declarations. There are very specific processes for submitting evidence, and often people are confused on what solid evidence is. We go in depth from beginning to end on what a solid declaration looks like.  For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!

Motions - How to Get Temporary Court Orders, Part One

November 06, 2018 10:00 - 34 minutes - 48.1 MB

Welcome to Episode 9 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 9, Motions Part One – How to Get Temporary Orders, many people are confused by the court process, and the paperwork can be overwhelming. In this episode we go into detail about getting temporary orders, from the paperwork, to the courtroom. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!

The Emotional Aspects of the Divorce versus the Lawsuit

October 30, 2018 09:00 - 41 minutes - 57 MB

Welcome to Episode 8 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 8, The Emotional Aspects of the Divorce versus the Lawsuit, we pull apart the two aspects of divorce and break them down. You cannot have one without the other, and often the emotional side tends to ruin many peoples’ chances at the lawsuit side. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!

Avoiding The Battle

October 23, 2018 12:13 - 37 minutes - 51.6 MB

Welcome to Episode 7 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 7, Avoiding the Battle – How to Announce That You Want a Divorce, we discuss how to introduce the idea of divorce to your spouse with as little conflict as possible. This announcement is a crucial step in getting your spouse into mediation and staying out of the expensive and high conflict wheel of the court. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!

Don’t Let your Ex Rent Space in Your Head

October 16, 2018 09:00 - 42 minutes - 58.1 MB

Welcome to Episode 6 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 6, Don’t Let Your Ex Rent Space In Your Head. In this episode we talk about the biggest mistake that most people make going through the divorce process. Focusing on your ex post pones your post-divorce life and causes a lot of anger and bitterness. We teach you strategies to kick them out of your head. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!

Will Divorce Mediation Work For Me?

October 09, 2018 09:00 - 36 minutes - 49.5 MB

  Welcome to Episode 5 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 5, Will Divorce Mediation Work for Me? We discuss why court and the litigation process is a bad option for majority of people. Most people tend to think that mediation will not work because they cannot get along, however mediation is designed to help arguing couples come to agreements, and help you get through this process with as little conflict as possible. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversit...

Why Thinking About “Child Custody” Will Hurt Your Case

October 02, 2018 09:00 - 32 minutes - 44.9 MB

Welcome to Episode 4 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 4, Why Thinking About Child Custody Will Hurt Your Case, we talk about having the wrong mindset when it comes to thinking about your child custody case. We help you to understand how the courts generally look at things, and give you tips on what questions you should and shouldn’t be asking. In many cases, it is simply phrasing that hurts or helps a party, and we talk about the language that the courts want to hear. For...

You Don't Know What You Don't Know

September 25, 2018 09:00 - 38 minutes - 52.6 MB

Welcome to Episode 3 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 3, You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know, we talk about the pitfalls of trying to represent yourself in family court. We'll discuss the complexity of the court system, the forms, local rules, and last but not least, unrealistic expectations, that can be the downfall for any unprepared self-represented party. We also dive into how to avoid many of the common pitfalls. We understand that not everyone can afford a lawyer, so...

Use Your Head—Not Your Heart

September 18, 2018 03:11 - 39 minutes - 54.3 MB

Welcome to Episode 2 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Episode 2 we talk about using your head and not your heart. Divorce is a very emotional process for all parties involved. We dive into the top mistakes EVERYONE makes and we’ll help you break down the emotions your feeling and give you strategies to keep them from negatively affecting your case. For more information please visit us at divorceuniversityonline.com. Thank you for watching!