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An Older Gay Guy Show

379 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 337 ratings

This is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.
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Changes In Sleep Habits As We Age

September 09, 2022 02:55

2022 Sweeps Period continues with an episode about sleep...or lack thereof. Most Americans do not get enough sleep and it is affecting health, both physical and mental. In reference to a magazine article I read a few years ago, I used the suggestions I mention in this episode as a way to successfully change my sleep habits by 80%. I hope you enjoy the information in this show. Thank you for joining me.  The 2022 Sweeps Period has several episodes to go, so it will run into early October.

Your Personal Trainer - Part 3 - Emotional Eating

September 02, 2022 20:43

In this show, I want to continue the 'Your Personal Trainer' series with an episode about overeating and specifically, when we eat because of emotions; whether that is depression, celebration, or even boredom. Please note: If you feel you overeat regularly, it will eventually begin to affect your overall health. So please, consult a professional that deals with overeating and binging.  Coming up next in the 'Your Personal Trainer' series will be 'Sauna for Longevity'. Look for that episode...

Gay-to-Gay Bullying

August 23, 2022 23:17

A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and with...

STORYTIME - Bewitched - The Salem Saga

August 16, 2022 02:35

This is from the very first episode of An Older Gay Guy Show. I tell the story of my solo trip as an 11-year old to Salem, Massachusetts to visit what I had seen on Bewitched.

My Favorite Episode - STORYTIME - 'The Personification of Chin-Chin'

August 09, 2022 20:27

Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine.  Thank you to all my wonderful listeners for once again making me a ...

Stories That Touch the Heart 1

August 06, 2022 18:08

This is a new segment that I am going to do every now and then. The news has such negative, depressing stories that sometimes I think we just need a break from it. Therefore this series will be uplifting stories with a slant towards tales with older adults. I hope that they give you the same warm feeling that they have given to me as I prepared this episode. Thank you so much for joining me today. This Sunday will be the reveal of the Finalist Slate for the 2022 Podcast Awards. Thank you to...

How Do We Create New LGBTQ+ Social Spaces ?

July 29, 2022 06:12

 LAST 2 DAYS TO VOTE for An Older Gay Guy Show for the 2022 People's Choice Podcast Awards ! In today's episode I want to kick around some thoughts of how older gay people can find ways to socialize. Many of us senior LGBTQ+ people miss the gay bars and dance clubs where we could meet with our friends, and maybe meet that 'special' someone. If I make the Finals for this year's Podcast Awards, I have quite a line-up of episodes for you during my 'Sweeps Period', so make sure to vote so my S...

Sweeps Period 2022 Preview & Protecting Yourself From The Heat

July 20, 2022 21:00

I am very excited to share with you a preview of some of the episodes coming up from An Older Gay Guy Show during my August-September Sweeps Period !  Also, I review 6 ways that you can help yourself during this Northern Hemisphere Heat Wave. If you enjoy this Podcast, please support me and VOTE for 'An Older Gay Guy Show' in the 2022 17th Annual People's Choice Podcast Awards: Please go to PodcastAwards.com Click on the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voting Now Open' Do the TEMPORARY ...

STORYTIME - The Itchy Drive-In

July 05, 2022 00:46

 This is a STORYTIME episode about an experience that I had in High School. I hope you find this story funny, as it is yet another example of the fact I don't always make wise decisions.  Thank you to all that sent me messages about my Covid-19 and the loss of my beautiful cat, Pooh. I will respond to all. Please be patient. If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please vote for the show in the Podcast Awards.  Please go to PodcastAwards.com Click on the Blue Box that says 'Nominations Voti...

Covid-19 and Compromised Immune Systems - UPDATE

June 09, 2022 22:08

As I am living through Covid-19 with a very weak immune system, I wanted to give an update and talk about it as many older LGBTQ+ people fear getting Covid because you also have compromised immune systems.  In this episode I talk about my experience with the disease and also what it is like to take one of the prescribed medications that help in recovery from Covid-19.

I'm So Pissed !!

June 01, 2022 21:35

 The last month has been hell. Want to feel better about your own life?  Then check this out.

My Loss

May 26, 2022 22:38

 An episode explaining what has been going on in my life these past few weeks.

INTERVIEW - Joshua Senter - 'Still The Night Call'

May 19, 2022 04:57

Today I have an hour-long INTERVIEW episode for your listening pleasure.  Joshua Senter is a Golden Globe Winner and Emmy Award-nominated writer. Josh was raised in the Ozark Mountains of Missouri where he was homeschooled on a cattle farm. He moved to LA in 1997 to pursue filmmaking and he began writing for the hit Showtime series The L Word.  Soon after, he joined the international phenomenon, Desperate Housewives. In addition to many more high-profile screen credits he is also an adjunct...

My Birthday Gift To Myself

May 15, 2022 23:05

Well, happily I turned 64. And Paco is over his Covid-19. And I still remain negative. Yay me! LOL.       In this episode I wanted to begin to introduce to you my awesome gift to myself, although it was ordered in January 2021 ! 15 months of waiting are over. I hope you enjoy this pause between the more serious episodes. 

It Knocked At Our Door

May 06, 2022 03:13

My husband Paco and I have had quite the week. I wanted to tell you about it. I also wanted to play around, and I hope you get a chuckle.

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 3 - Conclusion

May 03, 2022 19:53

 Today I have Part 3, which is the conclusion of the series, with Susan Bratton, the intimacy expert. And boy, today’s show is chocked full of so many helpful suggestions that we as gay men, can really utilize. We take a deep dive into Erectile Dysfunction and Dick Pumps and Susan gives her opinions on such useful topics as Acoustic Wave Therapy, Testosterone Replacement Therapy, the Gains Wave, the Phoenix, and much more. And of course she does it with her charismatic, fun filled energy.  ...

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 2

April 26, 2022 03:07

This episode is Part 2 of the 3-Part Series with Susan Bratton, the Intimacy Expert. In this episode we take a deep dive into open relationships and other intimacy issues.  Relationship Magic The Sexual Soulmate Pact Better Lover Susan Bratton on Instagram

INTERVIEW - Susan Bratton - Intimacy Expert - Part 1

April 19, 2022 02:24

I have quite the treat for you today. I bring you an interview with my first female guest ever, and guys, she is such a joy to have on. She is knowledgeable about so many of the issues I have addressed on this show over the years, but not only does she know her stuff, she is also funny, entertaining and sexy as all hell. I adore her.  Today is part 1 of a 3-part series with the amazing Susan Bratton, an Intimacy Expert. During this series we will talk about many types of relationships, the ...

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 3

April 12, 2022 03:55

In this concluding episode of the 3-part series, actor, author and musical creator David Pevsner discusses his time as a Mature Escort and tells us about his OnlyFans and how he uses it as an expression of his erotic images.  David Pevsner Website Damn Shame on Amazon and Kindle David Pevsner on OnlyFans David Pevsner on Twitter David Pevsner on Twitter (erotic) David Pevsner on Instagram

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 2

March 31, 2022 06:35

Part 2 of the 3-part series with Actor, Musical Creator, Composer and Author,  David Pevsner.  Damn Shame on Amazon & Kindle David Pevsner Website

4 Minute Notice

March 30, 2022 02:24

 A quick update

INTERVIEW - David Pevsner - Damn Shame - Part 1

March 21, 2022 22:20

Today we start a new 3-part series with actor/author David Pevsner. Over the course of these 3 shows, David discusses his book 'Damn Shame', and talks in depth and quite honestly, about his amazing life. If you are in our age range (60's) this first episode will be a re-visit to your childhood. As the series goes along, David gets very candid about his struggles and successes in theater and his unique ways of making money during tough times. This is a fascinating series of episodes.  'Damn ...

STORYTIME - Laura

March 18, 2022 17:15

 The true story of the oddest, most bizarre person I have ever known in my life. 

ANNOUNCEMENT - Joey After Dark and Jockstrap Stories

March 11, 2022 22:47

 A short announcement about changes in my shows that have occurred this week.

Unlovable

February 16, 2022 23:36

A very important episode, that is dear to my heart. Valentine's Day has just passed, and so many LGBTQ+ people dread that holiday. This is a musing on those who search for love. 

My Own Lord of the Flies

February 11, 2022 15:20

 In this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about an adventure that I had with some High School friends that ended up boosting my self-esteem and confidence. Sometimes a bit scary, sometimes a bit funny, this is one of my favorite memories from my High School years. I hope you enjoy it. Check-out the AdamMale.com Sex Machines as mentioned in the commerical: AdamMale with Sex Machine page   Be sure to use the discount coupon code of AOGGS for a 50% savings on almost any one item, and that inclu...

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 8 - Conclusion

January 28, 2022 03:03

 This episode concludes the Gay Military Life series by Sgt. Ron.  I want to thank Ron so very much for sharing his fascinating life with us, both in this series, as well as his Gay Prison Guard stories.   If you have not had a chance to hear the Gay Prison Guard series, I invite you to listen to Ron's tales of the many years he worked in a penitentiary as a Prison Officer.  The series is available in my back catalogue.  'D. Pumps' on Joey After Dark as mentioned in the commerical.

Coming Up In 2022

January 11, 2022 20:34

Happy 2022 !  In this episode I tell you about my short-list of plans for my shows in 2022.  I talk about upcoming interviews and subjects for An Older Gay Guy Show podcast and YouTube channel, as well as new things for the Joey After Dark shows and the Jockstrap Stories podcast where I have started the reading of The Guys of Northridge, the long-awaited sequel to Northridge High Football Camp that I completed reading in 2021. I'm excited about my upcoming plans and I hope you will be also ...

Christmas 2021

December 25, 2021 13:52

A short episode recorded on Christmas Eve. This is a story about one of my Christmases growing up and a humorous family dinner on Christmas Day. I hope you enjoy the story. ~Joey

Chit-Chat 1

December 18, 2021 21:01

Today I'm starting a new periodic series called Chit-Chats. These very informal episodes will be about different short subjects that aren't enough to warrant their own full episodes. In this episode, I talk about the following subjects: Will I ever get back to the gym regularly? Sharing our Bullying past Why can't I just work on one show? Jockstrap Stories, patience please 2022 LIVE Shows Kindness shown to me I need your input regarding some factors we are encountering when looking fo...

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 7

November 29, 2021 22:12

Sgt. Ron's tales about his time in the military and living as a closeted gay man continue, picking up where Part 6 left off. If you have not had a chance the hear Part 6, please do so first, as this episode picks up from mid-story. The Gay Military Series concludes with Part 8 coming in just a couple of weeks.  

MRI-okay?

October 22, 2021 14:08

Another common hospital test is detailed in my story of my procedure earlier this week.  I know many people who have claustrophobia and fear of tight spaces might be hesitant to get this test, so as in my Colonoscopy episodes, I want to dispel some of the anxiety about MRIs.  AdamMale.com's special deal for my listeners  50% off almost any one item. Free U.S. Shipping. Use the discount code of AOGGS at checkout to get your special savings!

Is It Just Paranoia?

October 06, 2021 18:27

 A short episode where I just needed to talk to you. 

INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 2

September 30, 2021 03:28

In the conclusion of this two-part series, Artie talks about some of his tv show appearances on General Hospital, Modern Family, Pushing Daisies and more, and we continue our discussion about his Bad Boy YouTube series. This is a fun and funny episode and I know you will enjoy it. Podcast Awards: The 2021 People's Choice Podcast Awards will be telecast on Thursday, September 30th, International Podcast Day. The show will be on YouTube at 9:00 pm East Coast time and 6:00 pm West Coast time. ...

INTERVIEW - Anthony Hand - Maxxie La Wow - Drag Super-Shero

September 18, 2021 04:33

Continuing Sweeps Period, today I have a fun-filled episode about a subculture of the gay community that I have not discussed on the show before: Drag performers. And in this special episode my guest takes the discussion to new heights, by introducing his creation; Maxxie La Wow, the World's first Drag Super-Shero. This is a funny and educational episode about a topic that I freely admit to know nothing about.  The following are the links to the IndieGoGo Fundraising Page, the Adventure Re...

Gay Health 6 - Major Health Issues In The LGBTQ+ Community

September 11, 2021 04:41

A brief overview of the primary diseases that we face as the LGBTQ+ community. Citing 3 highly regarded organizations, some basic warnings and suggestions are mentioned in this shorter episode.

STORYTIME - I See Dead People - Part 3

August 31, 2021 05:22

In this full episode, I am continuing the I See Dead People series. In today's show, I tell 4 bizarre and humorous stories about my time as a Licensed Funeral Director and Embalmer: The Potomac River Crash The Prisoner The Blizzard The Mausoleum  In addition, I answer some common questions about the Funeral Business and I put to rest a couple of long-believed Old Wives Tales.  I hope you enjoy these stories. A Part 4 will conclude this series with the most horror I encountered as a Fun...

INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 6

August 25, 2021 01:35

Sweeps continues with another episode with Sgt. Ron, who tells us some tales from his time at Eglin Air Force Base. This is Part 6 of the series and will continue with Part 7 coming in September. Enjoy his storytelling.  Link to 'Mystery Box of Sex Toys' from the Joey After Dark YouTube channel.   https://youtu.be/AaL8KyU-q0w  

Your Personal Trainer - Part 2

August 21, 2021 21:30

In Part 2 of the ongoing 'Your Personal Trainer' series, I review your 'homework' from Part 1 and then we talk intensely about one food we need to eliminate, one food group we need to expand, and the beginning of exercise via a YouTube channel that is excellent (with a HOT AF host). The following link is to BarbarianBody's 5-minute home abdominal workout: (it may be clickable or you may have to copy and paste) https://youtu.be/kCbQz-XNcVE

INTERVIEW - Artie O'Daly - Bad Boy series - Part 1

August 14, 2021 16:23

Sweeps Period has begun! In this first episode, I have an awesome interview with a very busy Hollywood actor/writer/producer/director/editor. His name is Artie O'Daly and there is a good chance he has guest appeared on a tv show that you have seen. In this first of a two-part interview, Artie and I talk about his connection to Gilmore Girls (one of my all-time favorite shows) and he tells stories of his appearance on that show and how it came about that one of the Gilmore Girls stars appeare...

Technologically Challenged

August 09, 2021 19:24

Do you ever just stare at your computer because that colored wheel just keeps on spinning and you don't know what to do? Does your DVD player blink '12:00 AM' because you don't know how to set it? When someone mentions seeing something on Twitch, do you think they are talking about that weird facial tick you have? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you may be Technologically Challenged. Please join me for a humorous look at being older in a world where a six-year old can ope...

It Ain't Fashionable Underwear

July 25, 2021 17:16

I didn't expect to record a podcast episode today, but something got me going into a rant. I hope you enjoy it ! If you wish to support An Older Gay Guy Show at no cost to you, please Vote for me in the 2021 Podcast Awards. Voting closes in just a few days, so if you wish to support me and vote for the podcast, please do it immediately. Here are the steps: 1) Go to PodcastAwards.com 2) Click on the Blue Box that says 'Click Here to Vote' 3) Register (the podcast awards delete all info af...

Colonoscopy Fun

July 24, 2021 02:18

 I thought I'd give you a story of how my day went for my 2nd colonoscopy, the first I've had since 2009. If you wish to support An Older Gay Guy Show at no cost to you, please Vote for me in the 2021 Podcast Awards. Voting closes in just a few days, so if you wish to support me and vote for the podcast, please do it immediately. Here are the steps: 1) Go to PodcastAwards.com 2) Click on the Blue Box that says 'Click Here to Vote' 3) Register (the podcast awards delete all info after the...

Up Your Butt

July 20, 2021 04:52

In today's episode, I revisit what I think is my most important podcast episode that I have done. I decided to talk about this again, because in less than 48 hours, I will have this procedure again. If you wish to support An Older Gay Guy Show at no cost to you, please Vote for me in the 2021 Podcast Awards. Voting closes in just a few days, so if you wish to support me and vote for the podcast, please do it immediately. Here are the steps: 1) Go to PodcastAwards.com 2) Click on the Blue ...

Update and STORYTIME - A Castle In The Woods

July 09, 2021 21:44

In today's episode, I am going to update you on several things. The New Joey After Dark Podcast and Joey After Dark YouTube Channel Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/joey-after-dark-podcast/id1573409882 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAg Also, my Eye Health, my Tongue Cancer check-up, the Pride48 Network LIVE Streaming Weekend and The Podcast Awards. Then in STORYTIME, I tell you a fun story about a real castle in my hometown.  If you would li...

Coming Soon To A Bedroom Near You....

June 21, 2021 22:40

 I have a very exciting announcement to make!~ As mentioned in this episode: Content will be:   An Older Gay Guy Show -  Interviews, Gay Health, Gay Aging, etc. Joey After Dark                -  True-Life Erotic Stories, ASMR, Sleep Talk Joey After Dark YouTube Channel - you can subscribe, but After Dark content will begin July 5th. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAg

Crazy Sh*t at The Boston Conservatory of Music

June 21, 2021 11:46

 This is a 'True Life Story' episode about my time at The Boston Conservatory of Music. This episode contains 3 stories: 1) The Asshole Conductor 2) The Dance Belt Adjustment 3) The Orgy Ring-Leader These stories have some sex talk, so please be aware of that. Additionally, I will be doing a very lurid and shocking 4th story on An Older Gay Guy Show YouTube Channel. I will be posting that video tomorrow night (Thanksgiving Night), so don't miss that episode of the video series. 

The Personification of Chin-Chin

June 20, 2021 21:27

This is a story that I am immensely proud of in my life. I hope you enjoy it. I think it's kind of funny and kind of heart-warming. I am producing this show with minor edits as I wanted the story to flow. So please excuse stumbles and misuse of words. Don't forget to Subscribe to An Older Gay Guy Show on YouTube! New videos and vlogs will be starting the week of April 5th. Thanks!

The Personification of Chin-Chin

June 20, 2021 21:27

This is a story that I am immensely proud of in my life. I hope you enjoy it. I think it's kind of funny and kind of heart-warming. I am producing this show with minor edits as I wanted the story to flow. So please excuse stumbles and misuse of words. Don't forget to Subscribe to An Older Gay Guy Show on YouTube! New videos and vlogs will be starting the week of April 5th. Thanks!

The 1960's TV Worlds of Irwin Allen

June 20, 2021 21:25

A TV trip down memory lane discussing some of my favorite TV shows of the 1960's, specifically, the Sci-Fi shows of Irwin Allen. I give you my memories and behind-the-scenes info on: Voyage To The Bottom Of The Sea Lost In Space The Time Tunnel Land Of The Giants Swiss Family Robinson. Whether you watched these shows when you were young like I was, or if you are younger now and hopefully just discovering these timeless classic TV shows, I hope this podcast episode is entertaining for y...

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