An Older Gay Guy Show
379 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 337 ratingsThis is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.
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5 Rules to Get a Second Date
August 24, 2020 03:49So once you have secured that first date with someone, does it often not go as planned? Did you like the guy but then you didn't receive a call/text for a second date? Did you do something wrong? This episode talks about 5 important Rules that will help you make sure that he will want that second date with you !
S5 E17 Gay Health 5 - Angiokeratoma of Fordyce - Black Spots on your Scrotum
August 18, 2020 21:49A brief discussion of a common ailment in older men, one that is generally benign, but is often so embarrassing that guys sometimes withdraw from having sex altogether.
Gay Health 5 - Angiokeratoma of Fordyce - Black Spots on your Scrotum
August 18, 2020 21:49A brief discussion of a common ailment in older men, one that is generally benign, but is often so embarrassing that guys sometimes withdraw from having sex altogether.
S5 E16 I See Dead People - Part 2 - How to Embalm a Body
August 14, 2020 07:01In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed. As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative. Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within...
I See Dead People - Part 2 - How to Embalm a Body
August 14, 2020 07:01In Part 2 of my 'I See Dead People' series, I thought it would be a good idea to tell you about what exactly happens when a body is embalmed. As we age, we will encounter the need to make arrangements for funerals, as well as visit them as a friend or relative. Should it fall on you to make the funeral arrangements, do you know what a loved one would really like for their final disposition? If you have no guidance by written wishes, you will need to make decisions that are difficult within...
S5 E15 INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 1
August 02, 2020 01:02Continuing Sweeps Period, this episode is Part-One of a Five-Part Series from Sgt. Ron, who we previously heard on the popular Gay Prison Guard Series. Here Ron takes us back to his Military experiences and tells tales about his life in a very personal way. Of course we are intrigued and curious about gay life as an airman, and over the course of this Series, his stories will give the answers.
INTERVIEW - Sgt. Ron - Gay Military Life - Part 1
August 02, 2020 01:02Continuing Sweeps Period, this episode is Part-One of a Five-Part Series from Sgt. Ron, who we previously heard on the popular Gay Prison Guard Series. Here Ron takes us back to his Military experiences and tells tales about his life in a very personal way. Of course we are intrigued and curious about gay life as an airman, and over the course of this Series, his stories will give the answers.
S5 E14 INTERVIEW - Randy Slovacek - Broadway Dancer, Singer, Actor - Part 1
July 30, 2020 07:02Sweeps Period 2020 starts off with a humorous and heart-felt conversation with Randy Slovacek about his extensive Broadway and Touring Company performance experience. We last visited with Randy when we discussed his popular LGBTQ Podcast and Blog, both titled The Randy Report. Now Randy tells us in a two-part series about how he got his start in Musical Theater and all about his many big-name musicals performed with some big-name Stars ! If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please tak...
INTERVIEW - Randy Slovacek - Broadway Dancer, Singer, Actor - Part 1
July 30, 2020 07:02Sweeps Period 2020 starts off with a humorous and heart-felt conversation with Randy Slovacek about his extensive Broadway and Touring Company performance experience. We last visited with Randy when we discussed his popular LGBTQ Podcast and Blog, both titled The Randy Report. Now Randy tells us in a two-part series about how he got his start in Musical Theater and all about his many big-name musicals performed with some big-name Stars ! If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please ta...
S5 E13 Construction Site Jack-Off
July 28, 2020 01:11This is one of the rare times I am going to post a true-life sexual story. Most of my stories are erotic, but I have never told one that had an actual sexual experience in it. And so, I offer you this story that happened to me when I was 18-years old. If you enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, please take a few minutes and vote for this show at PodcastAwards.com . Simply click on 'Click Me To Nominate My Favorite Podcasts', then register (I think you can make up a fictitious email, not sure), and t...
S5 E12 Nichols' Story
July 19, 2020 04:01I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode. The show concludes with my rendition of On My Own from Les Miserables in memory of my Nichols.
Nichols' Story
July 19, 2020 04:01I've had a really tough few days. This is a tribute episode. The show concludes with my rendition of On My Own from Les Miserables in memory of my Nichols.
S5 E11 Senior Life Ahead
July 12, 2020 01:28Lessons Learned. Regrets. Happiness. Future Plans. All as I am now 62 years old, the Soft Senior age. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show and want to show your support for the podcast, please go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the LGBTQ Category and the People's Choice Category. Then VERY IMPORTANT, Save Your Votes at the bottom of the page. The deadline is approaching, so please, consider voting for this show. THANK YOU !
Senior Life Ahead
July 12, 2020 01:28Lessons Learned. Regrets. Happiness. Future Plans. All as I am now 62 years old, the Soft Senior age. If you like An Older Gay Guy Show and want to show your support for the podcast, please go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for An Older Gay Guy Show in the LGBTQ Category and the People's Choice Category. Then VERY IMPORTANT, Save Your Votes at the bottom of the page. The deadline is approaching, so please, consider voting for this show. THANK YOU !
S5 E10 Let's Write A Novel - Part 2
June 25, 2020 23:35In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and Filler between your Milestones. We then talk about the voicing and appearance of your Characters and how to join all the scenes together so that you have a good continuous story and a world that you have created. I also talk about my general writing style and how it might help you. Thank you for joining me on this adventure!
Let's Write A Novel - Part 2
June 25, 2020 23:35In this second episode I remind you of what you should have done between these two episodes, and then move on to development of Minor Characters and Filler between your Milestones. We then talk about the voicing and appearance of your Characters and how to join all the scenes together so that you have a good continuous story and a world that you have created. I also talk about my general writing style and how it might help you. Thank you for joining me on this adventure!
S5 E9 Unusual Masturbation 1
June 20, 2020 03:46Men should ejaculate about 21 times per month for prostate health. But, as many of us are older, sometimes we get bored with jerking off when we are single. In this episode, I talk about a new way I learned to um, entertain ourselves. The video I reference in the show is the following link. If it does not work, copy and paste so you can see it. https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5cd9e768af932
S5 E8 INTERVIEW with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report
May 30, 2020 18:47This is an awesome INTERVIEW show with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report Blog and Podcast. The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.
INTERVIEW with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report
May 30, 2020 18:47This is an awesome INTERVIEW show with Randy Slovacek of The Randy Report Blog and Podcast. The Randy Report was recently named one of the Top 13 LGBTQ+ Blogs You Need To Follow by PRNewswire and it has been recognized as a Top 50 LGBT Blog by Feedspot.com In this enjoyable conversation, Randy tells us about how The Randy Report came to be, and the many aspects that keep the Blog and Podcast at the forefront of LGBTQ news.
S5 E7 Let's Write A Novel - Part 1
May 22, 2020 15:38Have you ever dreamed of writing the Great American (or wherever) Novel? Have you ever read a book and was disappointed and said 'Hey I could have written that better'? Well, here is your chance. Most of us are still locked up in our homes and have done just about everything to occupy our time. This is the PERFECT time to try out your writing skills. This episode (and Part 2 coming in a couple weeks) discusses my own method for writing my gay sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' ...
Let's Write A Novel - Part 1
May 22, 2020 03:51Have you ever dreamed of writing the Great American (or wherever) Novel? Have you ever read a book and was disappointed and said 'Hey I could have written that better'? Well, here is your chance. Most of us are still locked up in our homes and have done just about everything to occupy our time. This is the PERFECT time to try out your writing skills. This episode (and Part 2 coming in a couple weeks) discusses my own method for writing my gay sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' ...
S5 E6 The Craziest Place I've Had Sex
May 03, 2020 17:45Ok, if you haven't heard my show before, listen to this one! I tell a story about my life that you just won't believe, but it is 1000% true. If you want a good laugh, this might just do it !
Re-Tooling An Episode
April 09, 2020 00:36The episode I put on the air less than 24 hours ago is being re-tooled.
S5 E6 My Biggest Secret
April 08, 2020 06:45A very important, personal episode where I expose my private life in a way that I have never done before. I do this now in hopes that for those who are alone and afraid of Covid-19, the guys who have hidden away from society because they have certain conditions that makes them more at risk of both the virus, and even life itself, might benefit from my story. I don't know how I will be viewed after you listen to this episode. I hope kindly. I hope I am making the right decision at thi...
S5 E5 Creativity During The Zombie Apocalypse
March 22, 2020 23:34Most of us are isolated in our homes, with more of the world joining in as the weeks pass. This is a stressful time for many. But we can only do so much. We can, and will, work to protect ourselves and others. But we will have a lot of time on our hands. Maybe we can not only find things to take our minds off the situation for a short while, but maybe we could even be creative and do some of the things that we have always 'talked about' doing. Let's explore our creativity and see if ...
Creativity During The Zombie Apocalypse
March 22, 2020 23:34Most of us are isolated in our homes, with more of the world joining in as the weeks pass. This is a stressful time for many. But we can only do so much. We can, and will, work to protect ourselves and others. But we will have a lot of time on our hands. Maybe we can not only find things to take our minds off the situation for a short while, but maybe we could even be creative and do some of the things that we have always 'talked about' doing. Let's explore our creativity and see if...
S5 E4 Is Cheating The Price We Have To Pay To Have A Relationship?
March 04, 2020 22:44So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you might have gotten legally married, bought a house together, co-mingled bank accounts and/or adopted children together. When your lives are so entwined, the discovery of one of you cheating can be devastating to the other. Is monogamy realistic? Can you re-build trust after being lied to? Is a cheater always a cheater? In this episode I tell you a s...
Is Cheating The Price We Have To Pay To Have A Relationship?
March 04, 2020 22:44So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you might have gotten legally married, bought a house together, co-mingled bank accounts and/or adopted children together. When your lives are so entwined, the discovery of one of you cheating can be devastating to the other. Is monogamy realistic? Can you re-build trust after being lied to? Is a cheater always a cheater? In this episode I tell you a ...
S5 E3 INTERVIEW - LGBTQ Blogger from theOUTfront
February 21, 2020 04:03In this INTERVIEW episode, I am joined by LGBTQ blogger Larry Pfeil, co-founder of theOUTfront Blog. Larry is a few years younger than I am, but grew up with many of the same tv sitcoms that I watched in the 1960's and 70's (some first in rerun syndication), so I wanted to get together with him and talk about some of our favorites. In this episode we talk about Bewitched, The Brady Bunch, The Addams Family, Gilligan's Island and a couple of others. This is a relaxed conversation wher...
INTERVIEW - LGBTQ Blogger from theOUTfront
February 21, 2020 04:03In this INTERVIEW episode, I am joined by LGBTQ blogger Larry Pfeil, co-founder of theOUTfront Blog. Larry is a few years younger than I am, but grew up with many of the same tv sitcoms that I watched in the 1960's and 70's (some first in rerun syndication), so I wanted to get together with him and talk about some of our favorites. In this episode we talk about Bewitched, The Brady Bunch, The Addams Family, Gilligan's Island and a couple of others. This is a relaxed conversation whe...
S5 E2 INTERVIEW - Jason T. Gaffney - Filmmaker 'Analysis Paralysis'
February 14, 2020 20:35In this first Interview of Season 5, I talk to Hollywood LGBTQ Independent Filmmaker, Jason T. Gaffney. Jason talks about the current film that he has in release called 'Analysis Paralysis', a funny (and HOT) LGBTQ comedy. We talk about his mission, the process of making this film and the reception that it has had by the older gay community. Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking. Jas...
INTERVIEW - Jason T. Gaffney - Filmmaker 'Analysis Paralysis'
February 14, 2020 00:33In this first Interview of Season 5, I talk to Hollywood LGBTQ Independent Filmmaker, Jason T. Gaffney. Jason talks about the current film that he has in release called 'Analysis Paralysis', a funny (and HOT) LGBTQ comedy. We talk about his mission, the process of making this film and the reception that it has had by the older gay community. Jason is an award-winning writer, actor, producer and director and you don't want to miss this awesome conversation we had about filmmaking. Ja...
S5 E1 2020 Podcast and Personal Plans
January 26, 2020 23:06I start off Season 5 with an episode that outlines some changes that I want to make on the show, and then I give you a couple of things that I want to accomplish myself in 2020. I believe that 2020 can be the best year of our lives. I hope you continue to stay with An Older Gay Guy Show as I grow in substance and quality. If you have not had a chance, please check out An Older Gay Guy Show YouTube Channel. https://youtu.be/2TM148ohfKE What do you want to change in 2020? Have some of y...
S4 E26 An Insider's Look Into The Large Weight Loss Companies
December 29, 2019 22:50In this final episode of the decade, I tell you about my experience in working at one of the Large Weight Loss Companies for a year. I talk about what the food is like, what the strategies are for getting (and keeping) clients on their program, and what you can expect when you walk through the front door. Additionally, I talk a bit more about my strategy for going out on New Year's Eve all alone, and I ask a Vintage TV Trivia Question about 'Designing Women'. Please join me !
An Insider's Look Into The Large Weight Loss Companies
December 29, 2019 22:50In this final episode of the decade, I tell you about my experience in working at one of the Large Weight Loss Companies for a year. I talk about what the food is like, what the strategies are for getting (and keeping) clients on their program, and what you can expect when you walk through the front door. Additionally, I talk a bit more about my strategy for going out on New Year's Eve all alone, and I ask a Vintage TV Trivia Question about 'Designing Women'. Please join me !
My Annual Christmas Episode
December 25, 2019 19:20In the spirit of giving, I credit my amazing sister Barbara who passed 2 years ago, for this wonderful idea. In the time of these Holidays: Christmas, Hanukkah, Kwanzaa and New Year's 2020, please remember those that are alone. A kind word, an offer to assist them with the most simple of tasks, often bring joy to those that would have been depressed and so very alone. Thank you. ~Joey
S4 E25 Night Drive with D**ks Out
December 23, 2019 21:21A 'Christmas Story' (no, it isn't) for your listening pleasure (pleasure being the 'key word', here). This is a true-life story of an encounter that I had with a family member. My fondly used phrase 'We're just guys, doing guy stuff' came from this experience. It took place August of 1974.
S4 E24 Dating During the Holidays
December 13, 2019 01:26Do the Holidays get you down? Is it because you haven't had much luck in finding a Boyfriend/Husband? Well, the Holidays can be an awesome time for new connections (romantic and the other....). I talk about this subject, as well as a funny story about my first meeting with my husband Paco. Also, my own '11 Rules for Getting A Second Date' (or for impressing on the first one).
Dating During the Holidays
December 13, 2019 01:26Do the Holidays get you down? Is it because you haven't had much luck in finding a Boyfriend/Husband? Well, the Holidays can be an awesome time for new connections (romantic and the other....). I talk about this subject, as well as a funny story about my first meeting with my husband Paco. Also, my own '11 Rules for Getting A Second Date' (or for impressing on the first one).
S4 E23 Surviving and Thriving the Holidays
November 28, 2019 07:56It is that stressful and angst-filled time of year; The Holidays. For many of us who grew up in difficult circumstances with families and friends who are not supportive of us, the thought of going to a family gathering or dinner can occupy our thoughts for weeks prior to the event. Sometimes we think it is better to avoid going to these celebrations just so we can stay away from the drama. In this opinion episode I tell you about how I plan my stressful socialization and how to have...
Surviving and Thriving the Holidays
November 28, 2019 07:56It is that stressful and angst-filled time of year; The Holidays. For many of us who grew up in difficult circumstances with families and friends who are not supportive of us, the thought of going to a family gathering or dinner can occupy our thoughts for weeks prior to the event. Sometimes we think it is better to avoid going to these celebrations just so we can stay away from the drama. In this opinion episode I tell you about how I plan my stressful socialization and how to hav...
It's Like Talking with a D**k in my Mouth
November 08, 2019 23:55Just a 5 minute update on all the fun I have been having! Yeah, right ! LOL
S4 E22 Officer Ron - Gay Prison Guard - Part 3
November 01, 2019 00:02The conclusion of the 3-part interview series with Officer Ron, the Gay Prison Guard. In this episode, Officer Ron tells us a few tantalizing stories about the inmates, as well as how and why he chose to become a Corrections Officer. My thanks to Officer Ron for his candid stories about his experiences. Officer Ron will be back in 2020 for another 3-part series about his long Military career that preceded Corrections.
Officer Ron - Gay Prison Guard - Part 3
October 31, 2019 23:07The conclusion of the 3-part interview series with Officer Ron, the Gay Prison Guard. In this episode, Officer Ron tells us a few tantalizing stories about the inmates, as well as how and why he chose to become a Corrections Officer. My thanks to Officer Ron for his candid stories about his experiences. Officer Ron will be back in 2020 for another 3-part series about his long Military career that preceded Corrections.
So Far I'm Still Alive !
October 24, 2019 21:41Another update for 10/24/19 on what is going on with my health
S4 E21 The Personification of Chin-Chin
September 13, 2019 22:21Due to my tongue surgery 2 days ago, I am not able to speak for very long. So I decided to re-issue one of my favorite episodes of An Older Gay Guy Show. This tells the true-tale of my fondest memory from my Funeral Director/Embalmer days. It is the story of a lonely elderly woman who has lost her only companion, and my secret work to ensure that her only family was given the send-off that she deserved. Extremely funny at times, I think it will pull at your heart-strings and will be...
S4 E20 INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 2
September 03, 2019 17:39Sweeps Period continues with Part Two of my fascinating interview with Officer Ron Odion, a 20 year veteran of the New Mexico State Penitentiary. Officer Ron is a proud gay man, and his unique perspective will be of interest to all in the LGBTQ Community. In this second part, Officer Ron tells us about the sexual encounters he witnessed, how the inmates viewed homosexual acts, and the gang activity that was often sexually related.
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 2
September 03, 2019 00:59Sweeps Period continues with Part Two of my fascinating interview with Officer Ron Odion, a 20 year veteran of the New Mexico State Penitentiary. Officer Ron is a proud gay man, and his unique perspective will be of interest to all in the LGBTQ Community. In this second part, Officer Ron tells us about the sexual encounters he witnessed, how the inmates viewed homosexual acts, and the gang activity that was often sexually related.
S4 E19 I See Dead People - Part 1
August 31, 2019 16:52Part One of a Two-Part Series on my experiences as a Funeral Director and Embalmer. This is an insider's look into what happens when a person dies. One of the reasons I wanted to do this series is that I wanted to let you know what happens behind the scenes and ways that you could save money when you have to arrange a funeral. This episode will be of interest to many of you, as we are all aging. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do, especially if we have elderly family...
S4 E17 INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 1
August 31, 2019 16:51Sweeps Period 2019 begins with a fascinating Interview Show with Officer Ron Odion, a retired, Gay Prison Guard who worked in a State Penitentiary in Santa Fe, New Mexico for 24 years. In a 3-part episode arc, Officer Ron gives us a glimpse into the true-life workings of a prison: the guards, the prisoners and the many facets of activities that make up the Correctional System. Officer Ron tells us of his experiences in the Training Academy and how he was treated, and tells us stories ...