So many gay men have to deal with their boyfriend/partner/husband
cheating on them. Sometimes it takes years to find out, and by then you
might have gotten legally married, bought a house together, co-mingled
bank accounts and/or adopted children together. When your lives are so
entwined, the discovery of one of you cheating can be devastating to the
other. Is monogamy realistic? Can you re-build trust after being lied
to? Is a cheater always a cheater?


In this
episode I tell you a story from my own experience with a cheating
boyfriend. I also read to you an email from a guy who is at wits end on
what to do with his husband who may be cheating on him. I also asked a
question of an online Gay Over 40 group, if they had been cheated on,
were there tell-tale signs. I read you their responses.



This is always a difficult subject and is the continuation of an ongoing discussion about gay relationships.