An Older Gay Guy Show
372 episodes - English - Latest episode: 24 days ago - ★★★★★ - 337 ratingsThis is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.
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Will We Know When To Stop ??
April 01, 2024 19:27This episode is a serious topic that I think is very timely. I specifically do not mention what the topic is (I call it a Mystery Topic) because I want the maximum number of guys that I can draw in to hear this important subject. I would appreciate you taking the time to hear this episode. Thank you! ~Joey
Are Firmer Erections Possible As We Age?
March 11, 2024 22:54In this episode we will talk about a subject that is often not discussed, but rather many older men suffer with in silence. The episode begins with 3 emails in our 'Listener Mail' segment. The last email you do not want to miss ! Erectile Disfunction as it relates to older guys being able to get somewhat hard, but maybe not as hard as in our youth, and possibly not hard enough for sexual performance, is discussed. I speak about a Japanese study of men that cannot get fully erect, we revie...
Star Wars is really .....
February 20, 2024 04:36Today I have two different segments for your entertainment. The first is a controversial topic amongst die-hard sci-fi fans, but I think it's been a rumor floating around for decades and maybe we can put it to bed one final time. And the second is the newest segment I am adding to the show for my 9th season. It is listener/viewer mail that I think you will enjoy. If you wish to tell me a story or two about your life growing up that you feel will benefit our listeners, I would love to read i...
Reddit Stories - Gang Showers 1
February 02, 2024 01:17In celebration of this show's 9th season kicking off, I bring you a new series that I will do periodically throughout the year. Reddit Stories, will be actual messages posted on a public forum about various subjects of interest. In this first episode, I offer 4 stories from Reddit readers, about gang showers; in school, at work, and in gym facilities. In future Reddit Stories episodes, I will comment on each one. I did not in this due to difficulty in talking.
End of Year Review
December 29, 2023 04:19Every year at this time I like to look back on the concluding year and determine what I did, or what happened, to advance me towards the goals I have in life. I dissect what I feel was important to the advancement of my goals, as well as what specifically did NOT work or what needs to change. With that decided, I then plan out some goals for 2024. This is the concluding episode of Season 8 of An Older Gay Guy Show.
Christmas STORYTIME - 'The Redemption of Ebenezer Scrooge'
December 21, 2023 18:53In this penultimate episode of Season 8, I have used AI to create an original, emotional telling of 'A Christmas Carol' by Charles Dickens. With some voice acting and sound effects, I read you this famous story, my favorite of all-time. Please listen while relaxing in the days leading up to Christmas. Listen on a quiet night, perhaps with a roaring fire or sitting beneath the lights of your Christmas tree. This story says something to all, not just those of a 'Christian faith', but to all...
Christmas Piano Music
December 14, 2023 20:21In this episode, I offer some of my piano arrangements for your use in any gathering where you might want some background music. A bit about my style of arrangements: I very much like dissonant sounds. Dissonance refers to a lack of harmony. Dissonant music sometimes makes people feel a bit uneasy. Because of this feeling, dissonant music is often used to create tension in films. In the last 10 years or so, I have used dissonance in many of my arrangements because of the unique sound. Not ev...
Suicide - A Cautionary Tale
December 07, 2023 03:36In this serious episode I tell you two stories from my past that are extremely personal. I would not normally be this open, but I know of people who will be alone these holidays and I worry. Thankfully the thoughts I had during this time are far behind me, but I've never forgotten the things I learned during these very difficult days. I hope this helps someone.
'Shameless' Hiatus
October 06, 2023 01:46In this episode, I give you an update of what happened at The Podcast Awards and talk about some upcoming future plans as always mentioned on An Older Gay Guy Show's Facebook Page. An Older Gay Guy Show Facebook Page Additionally, I want to introduce you to one of my guilty pleasures, as well as discuss my current tv crush. 'Shameless' YouTube Clip #1 'Shameless' YouTube Clip #2 Please note: An Older Gay Guy Show is going on a brief hiatus to plan and record a 'stash' of shows that wil...
STORYTIME - Campfire Stories - 'After Football'
September 04, 2023 23:04This is the final episode of my 2023 Sweeps Period and it is a STORYTIME that served as a working model for my book 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I wrote this story in 1992 and I copyrighted it in 1994. If you are a fan of the Jockstrap Stories podcast, you may recognize many of the characteristics of the main protagonist in this story that ended up being part of the character development of Vinnie Manta, the main protagonist in 'Northridge High Football Camp'. I also used some of the des...
STORYTIME - Nutball
August 24, 2023 23:10As we move towards the conclusion of Sweeps Period 2023, I offer up a double-STORYTIME episode. The title of this show is 'Nutball' and it tells two tales of youthful pastimes that often included drinking and toking. I describe two different ways that I played a torturous game for fun. The first story is titled 'Can You Sink the Ball or Sink My Balls?' The second tale is titled 'Thwapping My Nuts' I hope you enjoy these STORYTIMES.
STORYTIME - Jock Feet
August 14, 2023 20:562023 Sweeps continues with a re-edited episode about Jock Feet. I speak about my attraction to certain feet and also what isn't attractive and is too severe for my taste. A quite funny STORYTIME about an experience I had in Montreal about 20 years ago starts at 34:45. If you want to skip right to the story, feel free, but I really think the entire episode should be heard in order to fully understand how and where all of this feet stuff began. I hope you enjoy this episode ! And, thanks f...
STORYTIME - Bubble Butts at the Swimming Hole
August 07, 2023 01:00As we continue with Sweeps Period 2023, this STORYTIME episode is a re-edited show from a few years ago, about a hike that my dog and I went on to a local swimming hole in Western Massachusetts. We were quite surprised at what we found. This show has erotic content, so please be forewarned.
STORYTIME - Guys Flexing - 1
July 30, 2023 20:58In today’s episode, I bring back a re-edited show from the early years of An Older Gay Guy Show and I talk about how bodybuilders prepare for contests and my role as their prep guide. Along the way I will discuss the intense body shaving aspect of their contest preparation and the rigors of learning to flex properly. Towards the end of this episode I tell you a STORYTIME about two college-age guys that were flexing in the locker room of my gym when they thought no one else was around. I ...
STORYTIME - Boner Pills
July 23, 2023 22:32Sweeps Period 2023 continues with an informative, yet humorous look at the various pills used for Erectile Dysfunction. In addition to useful information, I tell a couple of stories about the first time I tried the pills. I have taken three kinds and each made a difference for me in what was achieved. I hope you enjoy the two STORYTIMES contained within. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 202...
STORYTIME - Sweaty Movers
July 19, 2023 04:22A favorite story from my younger days. This is one of those guy things that I don't think you would see today. But back in the late 70's, it really was a different world. Sweeps Period 2023 continues with this STORYTIME. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voting. 1-...
STORYTIME - Tales of the Underwear Thief
July 11, 2023 21:56Sweeps Period continues with a two-story STORYTIME episode. This is a re-edited/recorded episode from many years ago. I hope you find these stories to be tantalizing and enjoyable. They were a memorable part of my younger life. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podcast and would like to show your support, I ask you to take five minutes to vote for me in the 2023 People's Choice Podcast Awards. There is no cost to you and it would mean very much to me. Below are the instructions for voti...
STORYTIME - The College Jock
July 01, 2023 21:40Welcome to Sweeps Period 2023 ! In this first episode, I give you one of my favorite stories that took place when I was 16 years old. I found the memories of what happened in this story to be something that gave me fantasies for many years. Two college jocks lived in an apartment directly across from my boyfriend's apartment, and one particular night I wanted to entertain myself with a devious plot that only a horny 16 year-old could come up with. If you enjoy 'An Older Gay Guy Show' podc...
Summer Talk 1 - Being Old, Feeling Young
June 29, 2023 04:07In this last episode of the show before 'Sweeps Period 2023' !!, I give you a discussion (amongst myself) of several topics. - What to expect from this year's Sweeps Period - Is Box Dancing at clubs again in my future? - Why am I a bit like Blanche Devereaux ? - What was it like being General Manager of a gym, - Where was my prominent position at Provincetown's BIG TEA DANCE? - What is the story behind my shaving my head (I was a pioneer !)? - Early thoughts about my husband Paco an...
STORYTIME - Crazy Sh*t at The Boston Conservatory of Music
June 17, 2023 19:53Welcome! Today I have a STORYTIME episode with 3 true-life short stories about my time at The Boston Conservatory of Music. These take place in the 1970's, and as you shall see, it was a VERY different time in the world. I think you will find these tales funny and a bit shocking! The 3 stories are titled: 1. The Asshole Conductor 2. The Dance Belt Adjustment 3. The Orgy Ring-Leader There is also a 4th STORYTIME about my second year at The Conservatory when I was a Musical Theate...
Fudge Packer
May 30, 2023 23:24Here is a funny short story using a 1950's cautionary tale format. If you are of my generation, I think you will find this quite amusing. If you are younger, I think you will still get many of the references. As there are also visual innuendos, I am posting the link to the video. Fudge Packer video Also links to the 2 new videos on An Older Gay Guy Show's YouTube channel. 7 Things I've Learned In My 65 Years and Judgement video
STORYTIME - Balls Coming At My Face & A Castle in the Woods
May 18, 2023 04:27A double episode of two short stories. The first is a funny experience I had just a few days ago while walking to the store, and the second part is a fascinating story about a real-life castle that was near my house when I was growing up. This residence was literally a full castle, with turrets, parapets and towers and as construction of the main castle was completed, the owner dug a moat, with plans to fill it with water and connect the working drawbridge. It was amazing, and I put some pho...
FEAR, as we age
May 08, 2023 21:17I am about to turn 65 years of age in just a few days. A Senior Citizen! Who would have thought? In the last 5-10 years I have found myself getting increasing fear about many things in every day life. Is Social Media to blame? Or are my fears possibly irrational and don't actually pose a threat to me? See if you possibly have some of the same fears (I'll bet you have different ones). The next episode, coming out next week, will be 'Sleeping Bareassed - Part Two'.
STORYTIME - Sleeping Bareassed - Part One
April 30, 2023 19:49This episode is the first in a two-part series about sleeping naked. In this show I tell you two STORYTIMES about how I came to be someone that sleeps bareassed most of the time. At the conclusion, I go over 5 reasons why sleeping naked can be a healthier option. I hope you enjoy the shows! ~Joey
Metabolic Syndrome/ Pre-Diabetes
April 24, 2023 03:41In this episode, I bring some nutrition and health info to you that is very important for those of us over the age of 40. But, those of you under 40, listen up also, as this info can help you prepare for aging yourself. This show contains a lot of information: A discussion about Metabolic Syndrome (Pre-Diabetes), 5 signs that indicate you might be moving toward this condition, how to evaluate your own body fat and an introduction to the Mediterranean Diet. I hope you enjoy the show.
Manscaping, Dick Pumps & Sounding
April 15, 2023 23:28In this episode, which is the 2nd of 2 'sex' episodes, I discuss 3 sexual topics and I include 2 STORYTIMES that I think you will find funny and a bit shocking. I mention in this show that I am planning a full separate episode about Masturbation for release on Memorial Day Weekend. Between now and then, I'd love some listener stories about Masturbation. They might be about interesting masturbation techniques that you have discovered, or funny stories or even masturbation fails, such as bein...
Dick and Balls Maintenance
April 01, 2023 21:24This is the first of two 'sex' episodes where we will talk about some facts regarding the care and health of your penis and testicles. Next week will be 'Manscaping, Masturbation, Dick Pumps and Sounding, with related content. I hope you enjoy this episode ! ~Joey
Problems of the Senior LGBTQ+ Community & 4 Short-Stories about College Wrestlers
March 20, 2023 01:13This is an odd episode, but I hope you will find it interesting and fun. First up is a short article that I have authored that touches upon some of the unique issues that are problems for the senior gay community and then I tell you 4 short stories about College Wrestlers and their competitions. I hope you enjoy the episode! ~Joey Link to ChatGPT
Gay Dating - Old School vs. Now
March 14, 2023 23:48I am about to turn 65. Gone are the early days of my gay life and the methods that I used to find and meet potential dates or hook-ups. Almost a quarter of the way through the 21st century, new methods and dating philosophies have emerged. Guys my age are sometimes asking themselves if they should follow or still remain with past methods.
STORYTIME - Don't P*ss On My Hollywood Star of Fame
February 28, 2023 23:09The story of my attempt to become a star in Hollywood. (spoiler alert: I'm NOT a star! LOL) I hope you find this story amusing and interesting. At the conclusion of the show, I offer you a surprise. I hope you enjoy this episode.
Health Update and What Episode is Coming Next
February 25, 2023 19:07A short update on what has been going on with my health and what the future holds for me with medical stuff. I also give you the plan for the next episode, a STORYTIME, due out the weekend of February 26th. Thanks so very much for those of you who have stayed listeners of my show. Your patience has been most appreciated. Love you guys !
MUSIC - Christmas 2022
December 25, 2022 19:43Here is a very short episode featuring my piano arrangement of 'Silent Night'. Enjoy the rest of your Holiday.
Where I Have Been
December 25, 2022 04:48This is just a quick update on why I haven't put out any new shows for the past 3 weeks. Tomorrow, Christmas Day, I will put out two episodes. The first will just be a piano piece and the second will be a re-edited Christmas STORYTIME episode.
STORYTIME - Don't Let Your Balls Touch Mine
December 05, 2022 04:46Happy Holidays everyone! I hope you are all doing well. In today's episode, I bring you a newly re-edited story from my old shows. This is a story about a very fun and unusual New Year's Eve that I had when I was 29 years old. It is a tale of five of us guys that went up to a Winter chalet for partying and sports (mostly partying). I used one small part of this true-life story in my gay erotic sports novel 'Northridge High Football Camp' that I did as an audiobook on the Jockstrap Stories ...
I See Dead People - Part 4 - Q&A and STORYTIME
November 23, 2022 04:06In this conclusion to my 'I See Dead People' series, I answer questions that have been submitted to me from listeners. Additionally, I tell a STORYTIME story about the most difficult, gross, and heart-breaking thing I ever had to do in the funeral business. I give a warning prior to starting this story, as it is not for the faint-of-heart.
For Your Entertainment
November 07, 2022 03:43This will be a shorter episode and it is for your entertainment. I hope. This is going to be a few pieces of music that I have been working on writing the arrangements and I have recorded these songs from various groups. The first is a rendition of Hallelujah by Leonard Cohen, and this is my own arrangement performed by a choir. The second is an arrangement for the harp, played by me, and it is When You Wish Upon A Star from Disney. The third is a rendition of Scat Singing, a jazz method ...
Gay Health 7 - Body Image
November 04, 2022 01:37A discussion about the history of Body Image. From the 1970's through today, Body Image has been something that male and female, gay and straight have often dealt with through bombardment from TV, Films, Magazines, Porn and other media. I also address my own personal struggles with this.
GYM STORIES 1 - Was I Being Hit on in the Sauna by an Adonis ??
October 28, 2022 01:29Today I had the most interesting experience in the gym's sauna. I ask you to give me your opinion if I was in fact being hit on by this ADONIS. It's quite an erotic story, and if you like my gay erotic stories, you will love this. Please send me your opinion answer to the question I ask towards the end of the episode. Send to: [email protected]
STORYTIME - Midnight Skinny-Dipping
October 15, 2022 23:50This episode is def rated R. I tell a story about my time on Cape Cod as a Funeral Director and Embalmer when I was hanging out with the young 'townies'. We had a special pond.
Gym Showers
October 02, 2022 03:28This is a re-edited episode of my most popular show with new content added. I hope you enjoy this conversation about Gym Showers and how they have changed over the years, as guys grew more modest. Don't miss the STORYTIME in the middle of this episode. It is one of my favorite stories and telling it brought back so many wonderful memories. Be sure to hear it ! The show concludes with my updated thoughts about locker rooms and showers.
INTERVIEW - Producer & Director of Himeros.tv - Davey Wavey - Gay Porn - Part 2
September 25, 2022 23:10I am pleased to present the conclusion of the 2-part Interview with Davey Wavey. In this episode we continue to talk about our thoughts on Gay Porn, and Davey tells us all about his porn company, Himeros.tv Himeros.tv Preview with Older Guys Himeros.tv Home Touring Page Himeros.tv Dick Special
INTERVIEW - YouTube Star Davey Wavey - Gay Porn - Part 1
September 19, 2022 02:51A great Interview with YouTube Star and Gay Porn Producer & Director, Davey Wavey. This is a return visit with us from Davey, and in this Interview he and I discuss many topics related to Gay Porn production. In this extensive Two-Part Interview, we talk about our personal likes and dislikes in Gay Porn. He also gives us details about his very hot Gay Porn site, Himeros.tv. I know you will enjoy this fascinating discussion with Davey Wavey. Himeros.tv Preview with Older Guys Himeros.tv Ho...
Changes In Sleep Habits As We Age
September 09, 2022 02:552022 Sweeps Period continues with an episode about sleep...or lack thereof. Most Americans do not get enough sleep and it is affecting health, both physical and mental. In reference to a magazine article I read a few years ago, I used the suggestions I mention in this episode as a way to successfully change my sleep habits by 80%. I hope you enjoy the information in this show. Thank you for joining me. The 2022 Sweeps Period has several episodes to go, so it will run into early October.
Your Personal Trainer - Part 3 - Emotional Eating
September 02, 2022 20:43In this show, I want to continue the 'Your Personal Trainer' series with an episode about overeating and specifically, when we eat because of emotions; whether that is depression, celebration, or even boredom. Please note: If you feel you overeat regularly, it will eventually begin to affect your overall health. So please, consult a professional that deals with overeating and binging. Coming up next in the 'Your Personal Trainer' series will be 'Sauna for Longevity'. Look for that episode...
Gay-to-Gay Bullying
August 23, 2022 23:17A theme I have done before, but it deserves more attention. With many believing there exists a fracture in the Gay Community due to lack of physical socializing because so many bars and clubs have closed, it becomes more important that we watch out for each other. That includes the prevailing gay-to-gay bullying that has only increased with the advent of the internet. Let's pause for a few minutes to understand how this type of behavior is more prominent when we are with our friends and with...
STORYTIME - Bewitched - The Salem Saga
August 16, 2022 02:35This is from the very first episode of An Older Gay Guy Show. I tell the story of my solo trip as an 11-year old to Salem, Massachusetts to visit what I had seen on Bewitched.
My Favorite Episode - STORYTIME - 'The Personification of Chin-Chin'
August 09, 2022 20:27Starting out my 2022 Sweeps Period, this is a re-edited episode that is my absolute favorite from An Older Gay Guy Show. This took place in the early 1980's while I was working as a Funeral Director & Embalmer on Cape Cod. It is the most memorable and unique experience that I ever had in the Funeral industry. It is a story that I shall never forget, and I hope you get a laugh and that it touches your heart, as it did mine. Thank you to all my wonderful listeners for once again making me a ...
Stories That Touch the Heart 1
August 06, 2022 18:08This is a new segment that I am going to do every now and then. The news has such negative, depressing stories that sometimes I think we just need a break from it. Therefore this series will be uplifting stories with a slant towards tales with older adults. I hope that they give you the same warm feeling that they have given to me as I prepared this episode. Thank you so much for joining me today. This Sunday will be the reveal of the Finalist Slate for the 2022 Podcast Awards. Thank you to...
How Do We Create New LGBTQ+ Social Spaces ?
July 29, 2022 06:12LAST 2 DAYS TO VOTE for An Older Gay Guy Show for the 2022 People's Choice Podcast Awards ! In today's episode I want to kick around some thoughts of how older gay people can find ways to socialize. Many of us senior LGBTQ+ people miss the gay bars and dance clubs where we could meet with our friends, and maybe meet that 'special' someone. If I make the Finals for this year's Podcast Awards, I have quite a line-up of episodes for you during my 'Sweeps Period', so make sure to vote so my S...