An Older Gay Guy Show
379 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 337 ratingsThis is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.
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S4 E4 Naked Jocks In The Steam Room
August 30, 2019 20:54EDITED: This episode has been edited down from its originally longer (and boring) episode that promoted my live show that I did on Valentine's Day. I kept the HOT part intact ! Enjoy ! In today's episode, I tell you a true-life story of what happened following one of my workouts in the new gym. I think you'll like it.
S3 E38 INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part One
August 30, 2019 20:45In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss all the current treatments available for guys who wish to look their best as they age. Even if you have no interest in having Cosmetic Work done, I think you will find it very interesting. We talk about Kris' history of Cosmetic Work, we also discuss Fillers, Laser Hair and Spot Removal, Cool Sculpting, how to tell if you might need so...
S3 E41 INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part Two
August 30, 2019 20:45This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available for guys. This is not a suggestion or endorsement for you to run out and get cosmetic work, but for many older guys, especially those who have suffered from the effects of HIV and the powerful drugs that are taken to keep it at bay, this information is important. With some, it could even be life-saving, as the depression and isolation p...
#47 INTERVIEW - The Almost Transition
August 30, 2019 20:44An Interview Show featuring one of my closest friends who has had an extraordinary life. Kris shares interesting details of his early days as he prepared for his transition into a woman. He tells of surprising circumstances that led to a life-long quest for acceptance and to find his place in the LGBTQ community. It's a fascinating listen, and I hope you enjoy this first interview episode of An Older Gay Guy Show.
I See Dead People - Part 1
August 29, 2019 21:55Part One of a Two-Part Series on my experiences as a Funeral Director and Embalmer. This is an insider's look into what happens when a person dies. One of the reasons I wanted to do this series is that I wanted to let you know what happens behind the scenes and ways that you could save money when you have to arrange a funeral. This episode will be of interest to many of you, as we are all aging. Sometimes we have to do things we don't want to do, especially if we have elderly famil...
S4 E18 Masturbation - Part 2
August 21, 2019 07:08In this continuation of a re-broadcast of my LIVE Pride48 Show this Summer, I finish this series with an episode that has me reading listener's emails about their own methods and experiences jerking-off. Some are funny, some are quite inspiring, but it does show the varying kinds of self-pleasure that exists. Since this is part of that hour-long LIVE episode, I continue to ask Vintage TV and Movie Trivia Questions. At the beginning of this episode, I ask you to participate in a listeni...
INTERVIEW - Officer Ron, Gay Prison Guard - Part 1
August 10, 2019 04:25Sweeps Period 2019 begins with a fascinating Interview Show with Officer Ron Odion, a retired, Gay Prison Guard who worked in a State Penitentiary in Santa Fe, New Mexico for 24 years. In a 3-part episode arc, Officer Ron gives us a glimpse into the true-life workings of a prison: the guards, the prisoners and the many facets of activities that make up the Correctional System. Officer Ron tells us of his experiences in the Training Academy and how he was treated, and tells us stories...
S4 E16 Jocks in the Changing Room & YouTube Star Davey Wavey Visits !
July 30, 2019 20:55A jam packed super-sized episode today. First I start off telling you about an awesome memory that I have about when I used to go down to the Southeastern Massachusetts Factory Outlets when I was in high school, and a certain day when 4 blond, tanned, muscular brothers had to try on some sports clothing in the factory's one large men's changing room. In the second half of today's show, I interview YouTube and Gay Social Media SUPERSTAR Davey Wavey, who catches us up on what he's been ...
S4 E15 Can't I Just Be Happy, Is That So Much To Ask ?!
July 19, 2019 03:17We all want to be happy. Yet for many, happiness seems to be elusive. Should we change our locations? Change our jobs? Search out better partners? In this look at elusive happiness, maybe the road map has been left behind. ** If you like and enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, I respectfully ask you to go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for this show in the People's Choice, the Society-Culture and the LGBTQ podcast categories. Thank You ! ** - July 31st is the deadline !
Can't I Just Be Happy, Is That So Much To Ask ?!
July 19, 2019 03:17We all want to be happy. Yet for many, happiness seems to be elusive. Should we change our locations? Change our jobs? Search out better partners? In this look at elusive happiness, maybe the road map has been left behind. ** If you like and enjoy An Older Gay Guy Show, I respectfully ask you to go to PodcastAwards.com and vote for this show in the People's Choice, the Society-Culture and the LGBTQ podcast categories. Thank You ! ** - July 31st is the deadline !
S4 E14 Masturbation - Part 1
July 11, 2019 23:14This is Part 1 of the LIVE Show that I did at the end of June for the Pride48 LGBTQ+ Network. In this episode, I ask several Vintage and Current TV Trivia Questions, I discuss a few reasons why it is recommended that you Masturbate a couple of times per week at a minimum, and I tell you about the first times I jerked-off when I was young. In a couple of weeks, I will be putting out Part 2, which will have several listener stories about their own methods of cumming. (If you have an int...
S4 E13 Bubble Butts At The Swimming Hole
July 03, 2019 01:34Another fun weekend, another hot adventure. I took our dog Lola out to Western Massachusetts to try to go swimming together. Well, it didn't work out that way, but what happened instead is like a cherry on top of a hot fudge sundae. I love these unexpected sightings. The stuff that erotic stories are made of. If you are a fan of An Older Gay Guy Show, at the mid-point in this episode, I ask a favor of you as a way to support this always free podcast (it doesn't involve any money, f...
S4 E12 Gay Health 4 - Night Owls and Insomnia
June 19, 2019 21:07Are you a Night Owl? Do you sleep unusual hours, tossing and turning? I discuss my own experience with being a 'Night Person', and how I am striving to correct that life-long habit. ** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate a...
Gay Health 4 - Night Owls and Insomnia
June 19, 2019 21:07Are you a Night Owl? Do you sleep unusual hours, tossing and turning? I discuss my own experience with being a 'Night Person', and how I am striving to correct that life-long habit. ** Please don't miss my LIVE Show this Saturday, June 22, 2019. There will be fun Vintage and Current TV Trivia where you can answer in a real-time Chat Room and the Main Topic will be 'Masturbation", Choking the Chicken, Beating Off, Spanking the Monkey, Fapping. We will discuss why you should masturbate ...
S4 E11 AudioBlog for June 6, 2019
June 06, 2019 23:28In this AudioBlog I explain my 2 week absence, I tell you about an exciting event coming up and I update you on some guests that will be appearing through the Summer ! Thanks for joining me !
S4 E10 AudioBlog for May 20, 2019
May 22, 2019 19:19In this AudioBlog I talk about an issue that has been pissing me off for a few days. I'd love some of your thoughts on this, so please tell me what you think: [email protected] I also tell you about what I have planned for this coming week while Paco is away in Mexico. And, of course, I have a Vintage TV Trivia Questions for you. I hope you enjoy the show. I will be back with a regular episode of the show on Saturday evening, which will be the episode on Masturbation that I...
S4 E9 The Underwear Thief Strikes Again
May 16, 2019 06:03In this story episode, I tell you about how my obsession with used clothing started. This tale is from when I was a Freshman in High School. I thought the guy I describe in the showers was one of the most handsome guys I had ever seen. Please enjoy. ** Please don't miss my beautiful new dog, Lola, in the latest video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel **
S4 E8 Audio Blog for Sunday, May 12, 2019
May 12, 2019 23:21Starting today, I am adding in a second episode per week during the Summer. These will be Audio Blogs where I talk more about what is going on in my life with my husband Paco, our cats Nichols and Pooh and the new addition to our family--our new dog Lola. She is part Labrador Retriever and part German Shepherd (we think--but a DNA test will tell us exactly what she is). In this first Audio Blog, I talk a bit about Lola and also discuss working through the aches and pains of aging. Th...
S4 E7 Gay Aging 2 - Toenails and Fingernails
April 25, 2019 05:43One of the oh so fun aspects of aging, are the changes to your toenails and fingernails. In this episode I discuss the various changes that can occur, their causes and potential treatments. If you are 40+ this will apply to you, but if you are one of my younger listeners, please do check out this episode so you can do some preventative measures to reduce and/or delay the damage that can occur. If you were a fan of the 1990's British TV Show 'Ab/Fab' (Absolutely Fabulous), don't miss my...
Gay Aging 2 - Toenails and Fingernails
April 25, 2019 05:06One of the oh so fun aspects of aging, are the changes to your toenails and fingernails. In this episode I discuss the various changes that can occur, their causes and potential treatments. If you are 40+ this will apply to you, but if you are one of my younger listeners, please do check out this episode so you can do some preventative measures to reduce and/or delay the damage that can occur. If you were a fan of the 1990's British TV Show 'Ab/Fab' (Absolutely Fabulous), don't miss my...
S4 E6 My Worst Date EVER !
April 09, 2019 23:47I have a recorded version of my LIVE Valentine's Day Night Show, and I'm chopping it up to use for various upcoming episodes. In this episode: I tell you the story of my Worst Date EVER in 1981 on Valentine's Day itself. This was when I was working as a Funeral Director and Embalmer, and that back-drop makes for a story that you won't soon forget! Link for : 'Workout Lifestyle for Older Guys' on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCW1EcoCf1DCOBb_-ArJMzAg 'An Older Gay Guy Show...
My Worst Date EVER !
April 09, 2019 23:47I have a recorded version of my LIVE Valentine's Day Night Show, and I'm chopping it up to use for various upcoming episodes. In this episode: I tell you the story of my Worst Date EVER in 1981 on Valentine's Day itself. This was when I was working as a Funeral Director and Embalmer, and that back-drop makes for a story that you won't soon forget! 'An Older Gay Guy Show' on YouTube https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC6aAcpBNXH5nZju92Tml91A
S4 E5 Vacationing Alone
March 05, 2019 01:05Many of us older gay guys are single, and as we age, we might lose contact with friends through relocation, illness, death, arguments; a host of reasons. And that can lead to isolation and eventual depression. One of the ways that I have dealt with loneliness over the years, is that I learned how to travel by myself and enjoy the experiences many times more than if I had a traveling companion. Now traveling alone for some, is a very strange concept. Why would you want to be alone?...
Vacationing Alone
March 05, 2019 01:05Many of us older gay guys are single, and as we age, we might lose contact with friends through relocation, illness, death, arguments; a host of reasons. And that can lead to isolation and eventual depression. One of the ways that I have dealt with loneliness over the years, is that I learned how to travel by myself and enjoy the experiences many times more than if I had a traveling companion. Now traveling alone for some, is a very strange concept. Why would you want to be alone?...
S4 E3 Regrets and Lessons
January 31, 2019 23:57I found some news today that made me think about regrets and lessons in life, and I want to share some thoughts with you. Please....don't miss my LIVE Interactive Show on Valentine's Day night, February 14, 2019. There will be LOTS of Vintage and Current TV Trivia, I will tell you an absolutely unforgettable story about a Valentine's Day date that I had, and there will be some time for questions and answers. An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive I HATE/LOVE VALENTINE'S DAY Show !! Th...
Regrets and Lessons
January 31, 2019 23:57I found some news today that made me think about regrets and lessons in life, and I want to share some thoughts with you. Please....don't miss my LIVE Interactive Show on Valentine's Day night, February 14, 2019. There will be LOTS of Vintage and Current TV Trivia, I will tell you an absolutely unforgettable story about a Valentine's Day date that I had, and there will be some time for questions and answers. An Older Gay Guy Show LIVE Interactive I HATE/LOVE VALENTINE'S DAY Show !! T...
S4 E2 Being The Third Wheel
January 26, 2019 23:27Don't you hate it when one of your closest friends, maybe even your BEST friend, gets into a relationship with a guy and suddenly you don't hear from him as often, or hang out with him as often? And then you find yourself being invited out with the new couple, and you become the dreaded '3rd wheel'. That sucks. Even worse, what if all your friends in your immediate social circle are in relationships and you are the only one left single? So when you go out, you are the.....11th wheel? 1...
Being The Third Wheel
January 26, 2019 23:27Don't you hate it when one of your closest friends, maybe even your BEST friend, gets into a relationship with a guy and suddenly you don't hear from him as often, or hang out with him as often? And then you find yourself being invited out with the new couple, and you become the dreaded '3rd wheel'. That sucks. Even worse, what if all your friends in your immediate social circle are in relationships and you are the only one left single? So when you go out, you are the.....11th wheel? ...
S4 E1 Why Are Young Gay Guys Such Dickwads ?
January 13, 2019 04:15The first episode of Season 4 comes via an email I received from a very nice gentleman in Australia. It has prompted a discussion on why young gay guys are so unkind and mean. As always, this is based on my opinions and my experience. I hope it can prompt some thoughts. The Vintage TV Trivia Question of the week is a fun reflection on The Dick Van Dyke Show from the 1960's. I am looking for guests for this season. If you feel you have a story to tell that relates to the older gay comm...
Why Are Young Gay Guys Such Dickwads ?
January 13, 2019 04:15The first episode of Season 4 comes via an email I received from a very nice gentleman in Australia. It has prompted a discussion on why young gay guys are so unkind and mean. As always, this is based on my opinions and my experience. I hope it can prompt some thoughts. The Vintage TV Trivia Question of the week is a fun reflection on The Dick Van Dyke Show from the 1960's. I am looking for guests for this season. If you feel you have a story to tell that relates to the older gay com...
S3 E49 Guys Midnight Naked Dancing Around A Mayan Temple
January 01, 2019 20:07In this final episode of Season 3, I tell you the story of my first visit to Mexico in my 20's in 1985, and the hot and bizarre encounter I had with a group of partying Mexican straight young guys. This is a story I shall never forget and I want to share it with you this New Year's Eve.
S3 E48 Guys Flexing Their Muscles
December 22, 2018 06:13In this 3rd to the last episode of Season 3, I am re-booting one of the episodes that I used to have in my back catalog that I removed due to 'panicking' about it one day. LOL (sometimes these things happen where I don't trust my own judgement!). It begins with a short true-to-life, somewhat erotic story and then I give a detailed explanation as to how guys flex their muscles and pose and the intense preparation for a Bodybuilding Contest. This is an insider's look into a world that ...
S3 E47 Joey & Paco Get Wasted
December 12, 2018 15:54Bonus episode! As promised, as a 'thank you' for those that have given me 100+ 5-Star Ratings on Apple Podcasts/iTunes, this is an episode that is comprised of 3 different times my husband Paco and I sat down after smoking/drinking and recorded some fun and laughs. This episode touches on the following subjects: Classes we have taken together, Sophia Petrillo's wig, How weird is it that we can 'own' animals? and Blueberry picking fail. Plus, this episode has 2 TV/Film Trivia Questions,...
S3 E 46 How Long Is Thanksgiving Day ?
November 29, 2018 16:04My infamous annual episode about how to survive, and thrive, during Thanksgiving and the approaching Holiday Season. (This is from my 'Beginner Diet and Fitness Show' Podcast) I hope you enjoy ! Happy Thanksgiving! My best, - Joey
How Long Is Thanksgiving Day ?
November 21, 2018 04:52My infamous annual episode about how to survive, and thrive, during Thanksgiving and the approaching Holiday Season. (This is from my 'Beginner Diet and Fitness Show' Podcast) I hope you enjoy ! Happy Thanksgiving! My best, - Joey
S3 E45 A Fluff Episode
November 11, 2018 22:43An unedited extended episode where I speak about what is going on in my life (that I hope you find interesting). I talk about: Paco Baking An Owl Spotting Meet-up Our Unusual Thanksgiving Plans Matt Damon and 'The Talented Mr. Ripley' and 'The Martian' Changing Gyms Our New Business The Halloween Experience of 2018 Again, this is unedited because the last episode was so tightly edited that it sounded like I was hyper. This is a more relaxed conversation. Please let me know what ...
S3 E44 College Wrestlers
November 06, 2018 21:55**Please note: I edited this episode too tightly, resulting in me speaking very fast. Sorry! ** For all lovers of my true-to-life erotic stories, I think this will be one that you really like! For anyone who does not like this type of content, other subjects will be coming in the next episodes. For one season in the early 1980's, I was asked by a University in Boston to film some of the wrestler's practices and competition matches. This is the story. For anyone not familiar with wres...
S3 E43 Phantom Spit
October 12, 2018 20:41A busy episode where I talk about reaching my goal of 100 5-star ratings, the result of The Podcast Awards and give details and some funny moments of our trip to New York City as a celebration of my husband Paco's birthday weekend. (the promised episode about College Wrestlers will be next week).
Phantom Spit
October 12, 2018 20:41A busy episode where I talk about reaching my goal of 100 5-star ratings, the result of The Podcast Awards and give details and some funny moments of our trip to New York City as a celebration of my husband Paco's birthday weekend. (the promised episode about College Wrestlers will be next week).
S3 E42 Thwapping My Nuts
October 04, 2018 16:40An upcoming birthday celebration for Paco in New York City brings memories of my very first trip to NYC with some buddies where we played 'Thwap My Nuts' during the long drive. Be sure to check out the latest video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel about 'My Red Carpet and The 2018 Podcast Awards' for a humorous look this year's Award Ceremony.
INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part Two
September 25, 2018 23:06This year's Sweeps Period concludes with the 2nd Part of my conversation with Kris Venezia about what is new in the areas of cosmetic work available for guys. This is not a suggestion or endorsement for you to run out and get cosmetic work, but for many older guys, especially those who have suffered from the effects of HIV and the powerful drugs that are taken to keep it at bay, this information is important. With some, it could even be life-saving, as the depression and isolation p...
S3 E40 Self-Doubt vs. Confidence - Impostor Syndrome
September 16, 2018 20:31At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two self-esteem philosophies: The Peter Principle and Impostor Syndrome. Now while these theories can be viewed as a negative source of esteem, when coupled with a more applicable and positive method of coping with self-esteem that we talk about in the second half of today's episode, we can assess our self-doubt easier when looking at this sub...
Self-Doubt vs. Confidence - Impostor Syndrome
September 16, 2018 20:31At the request of a listener from British Columbia, Canada regarding his self-doubt as he takes a new position running a sports team, we look at two self-esteem philosophies: The Peter Principle and Impostor Syndrome. Now while these theories can be viewed as a negative source of esteem, when coupled with a more applicable and positive method of coping with self-esteem that we talk about in the second half of today's episode, we can assess our self-doubt easier when looking at this su...
S3 E39 Getting Outside Yourself
August 22, 2018 21:14This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you about the serious danger that I was in due to depression after my parent's deaths. I discuss how my depression first surfaced, plans I had made to take my own life and treatment that I sought out to deal with my issues of grief. But most importantly, I talk about revelations I had during this process that allowed me to view the world in a d...
Getting Outside Yourself
August 22, 2018 21:14This serious episode is the second half of my series on Depression that started with the episode 'Depression: Emotional Eating'. Today I tell you about the serious danger that I was in due to depression after my parent's deaths. I discuss how my depression first surfaced, plans I had made to take my own life and treatment that I sought out to deal with my issues of grief. But most importantly, I talk about revelations I had during this process that allowed me to view the world in a ...
INTERVIEW - The Latest in Cosmetic Work for Guys with Kris Venezia - Part One
August 15, 2018 23:51In today's Sweeps Period episode, I think everyone will find this fascinating. Kris Venezia (from 'The Almost Transition' episode) returns to discuss all the current treatments available for guys who wish to look their best as they age. Even if you have no interest in having Cosmetic Work done, I think you will find it very interesting. We talk about Kris' history of Cosmetic Work, we also discuss Fillers, Laser Hair and Spot Removal, Cool Sculpting, how to tell if you might need s...
S3 E37 The Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy with the Darkest Tan and the Brightest Blue Eyes
August 12, 2018 20:48A Story Episode about my childhood summers growing up on a lake in Maine and my first boyhood crush. Additionally, I give you some exciting news about my show, some future plans that Paco and I have and I ask you a Vintage TV Trivia Question.
INTERVIEW - The Leather Community with Jay Menick
August 08, 2018 19:11An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history. If you have never been a participant in this side of the Gay Community, this episode will give you some surprises. Enjoy! Tomorrow, Thursday August 9th, I will release a NEW Story Episode called 'Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy - My First Crush' in which I tell you all about my summers on a lake up North as a tribute to my father. And....I ...
S3 E36 The Leather Community with Jay Menick
August 08, 2018 19:11An Interview Show with Mr. Providence Eagle 2017, Jay Menick. Jay gives us insight into the Leather Community, it's clubs, contests and history. If you have never been a participant in this side of the Gay Community, this episode will give you some surprises. Enjoy! Tomorrow, Thursday August 9th, I will release a NEW Story Episode called 'Blond Shaggy-Haired Surfer Boy - My First Crush' in which I tell you all about my summers on a lake up North as a tribute to my father. And....I d...
S3 E35 Depression: Emotional Eating
August 07, 2018 20:28Sweeps Period begins with this look at Emotional Eating, which is often Over-Eating, and the toll this can take on your body and mind. If you feel you are Over-Eating or Binge-Eating, please do seek out the many resources that are there to help you. Additionally, 2 more episodes of the Podcast will be released this week. Look for a Special Interview Show with Jay Menick, Mr. Providence Eagle 2017 on air tomorrow (Wednesday, August 8, 2018) where we discuss The Leather Community, it'...