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An Older Gay Guy Show

379 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 337 ratings

This is an LGBT Podcast aimed toward 40+ guys or anyone who enjoys a show that discusses older gay life and interests. The best is yet to come! We are the largest growing segment of gay individuals, so let's keep our community vibrant! Please join host Joey Hernandez as we talk and laugh about the trials and tribulations of growing older, sex, health, fitness, tv and films, personal stories and many other topics.
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Depression: Emotional Eating

August 07, 2018 20:28

Sweeps Period begins with this look at Emotional Eating, which is often Over-Eating, and the toll this can take on your body and mind.  If you feel you are Over-Eating or Binge-Eating, please do seek out the many resources that are there to help you. Additionally, 2 more episodes of the Podcast will be released this week. Look for a Special Interview Show with Jay Menick, Mr. Providence Eagle 2017 on air tomorrow (Wednesday, August 8, 2018) where we discuss The Leather Community, it'...

S3 E34 Coming Out Later In Life

August 04, 2018 17:20

An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older. A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the show and the answer is given at the conclusion of the podcast. Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards! (I really want to win!) Listen back 5 episodes to the one called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me' for the details of how to vote. VOTING CLOSES ON TUESDAY, JULY 31st. So please don't wait ! Thank you so very much in advance for your co...

Coming Out Later In Life

July 29, 2018 00:50

An exploration of the issues and obstacles that gay men face when coming out when older. A Vintage TV Trivia question is asked at the start of the show and the answer is given at the conclusion of the podcast. Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards! (I really want to win!) Listen back 5 episodes to the one called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me' for the details of how to vote. VOTING CLOSES ON TUESDAY, JULY 31st. So please don't wait ! Thank you so very much in advance for your co...

S3 E33 Cum !

July 25, 2018 22:16

A news update, another Vintage TV Trivia Question and also a discussion about Cum (semen), including some important info for you to review with your physician. The health of your Prostate is a very important part of longevity and overall health. All this is discussed. Plus, some shout-outs ! Please vote for me in the Podcast Awards. The short episode called 'Podcast Awards, Please Help Me!' is 4 episodes back and it gives detailed instructions on how to vote for An Older Gay Guy Show...

Relationship Honesty

July 14, 2018 17:16

This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc. I'd like to hear your opinion on this episode. You can reach me at [email protected] regarding this, or any subject. Please vote for me for the 2018 PEOPLE'S CHOICE PODCAST AWARDS! Go to PodcastAwards.com, go to 'Listener Nominations Now Open', fill out the short form, them go to the Nominations page. I am nominated in 3 categori...

S3 E32 Relationship Honesty

July 14, 2018 17:16

This is kind of an addendum to several of previous episodes: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships / Gay Dating / Cruising / Bromance with an Ex / etc. I'd like to hear your opinion on this episode. You can reach me at [email protected] regarding this, or any subject. Please vote for me for the 2018 PEOPLE'S CHOICE PODCAST AWARDS! Go to PodcastAwards.com, go to 'Listener Nominations Now Open', fill out the short form, them go to the Nominations page. I am nominated in 3 categorie...

S3 E31 Black Bodybuilders in the Sauna

July 12, 2018 21:59

Just for fun, I tell you all about an encounter I had today while in the sauna. Two of the most beautiful jacked bodybuilders had my attention.

S3 E30 Cruising

July 10, 2018 20:58

Cruising is one of the hobbies of gay men. Some collect stamps. Some collect guys when cruising. Of course cruising can also be just simply checking out guys when in public. Wherever hot guys go, guys will cruise. In this extended episode, I take a look at the 1980 film 'Cruising' starring Al Pacino and its effect on the gay community. Also, what would an episode be without a true-life story from me. In this episode you get one longer one and a short one for your entertainment. I ...

S3 E29 Monogamy vs. Open Relationships - Part 1

June 25, 2018 23:35

This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship. A listener has shared his story with me and allowed me to share it with you. I also reference an article called, 'Open Relationships or Monogamy: How Gay Couples Can Decide What's Right For Them'. If you have a life story to tell that you feel will be beneficial to this conversation, please feel free to send it to me at: AnOlderGayGuyShow@gm...

Monogamy vs. Open Relationships - Part 1

June 25, 2018 23:35

This is the 1st of 2 parts on a discussion about whether Monogamy is right for your relationship, or if you both prefer an Open Relationship. A listener has shared his story with me and allowed me to share it with you. I also reference an article called, 'Open Relationships or Monogamy: How Gay Couples Can Decide What's Right For Them'. If you have a life story to tell that you feel will be beneficial to this conversation, please feel free to send it to me at: AnOlderGayGuyShow@gm...

S3 E28 Upcoming LIVE SHOW and LGBT Senior/Elder Resources

June 19, 2018 22:48

I'm totally excited about my first LIVE SHOW on the Pride48.com Gay Network!  This Sunday, June 24th, 2018 at 6:00 pm Eastern Daylight Time.  Pride48.com has the player button that you use to connect to the LIVE Event, and also has a chat icon (just above on the right, it is orange), where you can enter and chat with me LIVE during the hour-long show. The topic will be: Monogamy vs. Open Relationships, as well as anything else the people in the chat room want to ask or discuss! You ca...

S3 E27 The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 2

June 05, 2018 23:09

The final episode about my interesting life as a gay Personal Trainer. In Part 1, I talked about how I became a Trainer and my experiences training in the various Boston gyms. In this episode I tell you about building my own gym in the basement of my house and what is is like to train gay guys in this private setting and I tell you about 3 guys who turned into more than training clients. This is the juicy stuff.

The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 2

June 05, 2018 23:09

The final episode about my interesting life as a gay Personal Trainer. In Part 1, I talked about how I became a Trainer and my experiences training in the various Boston gyms. In this episode I tell you about building my own gym in the basement of my house and what is is like to train gay guys in this private setting and I tell you about 3 guys who turned into more than training clients. This is the juicy stuff.

S3 E26 Can You Have A Bromance With An Ex ?

May 25, 2018 00:00

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'. Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast! There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a wor...

Can You Have A Bromance With An Ex ?

May 25, 2018 00:00

Can gay men have a friendship/bromance with an ex easier than a straight couple? Are you friends with any of your exes? I examine an article by author Jeremy Helligar as a prequel to the episode coming up titled 'Monogamy vs. Open Relationships'. Don't miss the 'Golden Girls' Trivia Questions at the end of the podcast! There is a new video on 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube Channel that shows my first (and maybe last?) experience with Waxing My Nose Hair! The video also contains a wor...

S3 E25 Prince Harry / Ancestry DNA Results / Long-Term Project for my 60's

May 15, 2018 23:14

A chock-full episode. Prince Harry gets married this weekend so I have to say good-bye to a fantasy, my Ancestry DNA results are in with some surprises, and I have decided on a long-term project for when I turn 60 next month ! My thanks to all who reached out to me during the last few weeks when my beloved sister passed. I am very glad to be back doing shows ! Please be sure to check out the 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast for my gay erotic fiction, and also 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTu...

S3 E24 Fire-Crotch and Donkey-Dong

April 27, 2018 18:56

I had another 'Close Encounter of the Sauna Kind' today and just wanted to share this thought-provoking (LOL) and guy-junk-stirring story with you.

S3 E23 Strangers Without Candy

April 13, 2018 22:11

A continuation of a topic I started in the most recent 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube video, titled 'Getting Over My Social Anxiety'. Do I fit into one of the 3 major categories of those who talk to strangers?? Can I be a 4th category? I humorous look at the pitfalls of not having social anxiety anymore.

Strangers Without Candy

April 13, 2018 22:11

A continuation of a topic I started in the most recent 'An Older Gay Guy Show' YouTube video, titled 'Getting Over My Social Anxiety'. Do I fit into one of the 3 major categories of those who talk to strangers?? Can I be a 4th category? I humorous look at the pitfalls of not having social anxiety anymore.

S3 E22 The 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast Has Launched

April 05, 2018 21:35

Welcome! This is a short introduction to the new 'Jockstrap Stories' Podcast. Please Note: This new Podcast is GAY EROTIC FICTION. 18+ only, please. Serialized Stories from 'An Older Gay Guy Show' Podcast. 2018: Serial Reading of: 'NORTHRIDGE HIGH FOOTBALL CAMP'  - a gay erotic sports fiction book. 2019: Serial Reading of: 'THE GUYS OF NORTHRIDGE'  - a gay erotic sports fiction book. (the Sequel to 'Northridge High Football Camp' )

S3 E21 The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 1

March 30, 2018 23:28

I have lived a very interesting life as an out and proud Gay Personal Trainer. Along my 33 years (and counting) career I have encountered just about every possible kind of person and situation. In this first part of a two part series, I talk about how I started out and became a Personal Trainer that was known to be gay. I have worked at many gyms and fitness clubs over the years and my choices of my lifestyle created the life I truly wanted. In part two (next week) I will talk about ...

The Life Of A Gay Personal Trainer - Part 1

March 30, 2018 23:28

I have lived a very interesting life as an out and proud Gay Personal Trainer. Along my 33 years (and counting) career I have encountered just about every possible kind of person and situation. In this first part of a two part series, I talk about how I started out and became a Personal Trainer that was known to be gay. I have worked at many gyms and fitness clubs over the years and my choices of my lifestyle created the life I truly wanted. In part two (next week) I will talk about ...

S3 E20 Random Thoughts - DNA

March 30, 2018 01:44

The first in a 'Random Thoughts' episode that discusses some of the crazy and unusual thoughts that infect my mind from time-to-time. In this show, I talk about a truly personal and intimate Valentine's Day gift I received. Also, an update on the YouTube Channels that are growing.

Random Thoughts - DNA

March 30, 2018 01:44

The first in a 'Random Thoughts' episode that discusses some of the crazy and unusual thoughts that infect my mind from time-to-time. In this show, I talk about a truly personal and intimate Valentine's Day gift I received. Also, an update on the YouTube Channels that are growing.

S3 E19 3 Guys, 1 Tent

March 20, 2018 23:17

Who knew getting bare-assed while camping could be so much fun?! In this episode, I update you on a few things, and then I get into the awesome tale of when I went camping with 2 buddies. It's a good story, so if you like my Jockstrap Stories....you will like this!

S3 E18 Nothing In The Dark

March 09, 2018 22:17

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I have ever done. Strap yourself down, get a glass of your favorite imbibement and go on this et...

Nothing In The Dark

March 08, 2018 21:35

WARNING: If you are SENSITIVE regarding the topic of DEATH, or have had a particular trauma with the death of a loved one, PLEASE SKIP THIS EPISODE. Humor regarding death is within this show. But if you are curious about the Universe and are not bothered by discussing death in detail, please enjoy this trippy, intense, thought-provoking episode about the unknown. This is THE MOST BIZARRE episode I have ever done. Strap yourself down, get a glass of your favorite imbibement and go on this et...

S3 E17 Yeah, But Will My Dick Fall Off?

March 02, 2018 22:40

A look at the new CDC guidelines for safe sex. I announce the start of the 'Jockstrap Stories' podcast for my erotic/horror fiction.

S3 E16 The Hot Latino Identical Twins

February 16, 2018 23:55

In this episode, I give you some awesome news about my upcoming serialized books, plus, I ran into my own hot jock story today at the gym!

S3 E15 My Most Brilliant Idea

February 02, 2018 23:41

I'm excited to tell you all about an AWESOME idea that I have for this podcast going forward, and I need to know what you think of this. Also, please check out my short (8 minute) vlogging video of my trip to Mexico to see Paco's family and friends (they would insist I call them MY family and friends!). It has some amazing panoramic views! Look for 'An Older Gay Guy Show' on YouTube.

S3 E14 Jockstrap Stories - "After Football" - Part 2

January 18, 2018 04:18

NOT FOR EVERYONE!  This is the much requested second-part of the erotic Jockstrap Story "After Football". This is a continuation of Part 1 that was in Season 3, Episode 9. There is vulgar language and extreme locker room talk. If any of that offends you, please listen to one of the more serious episodes of this podcast. WARNING!

S3 E13 Naked Martial Arts

January 11, 2018 00:13

This first episode of 2018 I tell you the funny and hot story of when I was in a Taekwondo Competition in Connecticut when I was in my 20's. This is just another example of the 'interesting' situations I get myself into. LOL. I hope you enjoy!

S3 E12 A Boner for 2018

December 31, 2017 06:20

The final episode of this difficult year 2017. I give you an update on my media heading forward into 2018, plus, I give you my intense, erotic personal plan for the New Year.

S3 E11 A Christmas Surprise

December 20, 2017 23:43

My annual Christmas show. In this episode I tell you about some major plans I have for Christmas of 2018, and I'm starting the planning phases right after the New Year. I also re-run the two awesome stories about my sister's previous Christmas tradition that I am now changing a bit to make it my own. This is a joyful episode (with background music) that I hope will inspire you to plan your own tradition for next year. I also give the answers to last week's Trivia Questions and I give s...

A Christmas Surprise

December 20, 2017 23:43

My annual Christmas show. In this episode I tell you about some major plans I have for Christmas of 2018, and I'm starting the planning phases right after the New Year. I also re-run the two awesome stories about my sister's previous Christmas tradition that I am now changing a bit to make it my own. This is a joyful episode (with background music) that I hope will inspire you to plan your own tradition for next year. I also give the answers to last week's Trivia Questions and I give s...

S3 E10 Vintage TV Trivia! - Golden Girls, Lost In Space, Happy Days

December 16, 2017 20:53

A brief episode featuring some Vintage TV Trivia questions. The answers will be given at the start of the Christmas Episode which will be out next week. If you want to challenge yourself and send me your answers prior, I will tell you if you are correct. You can email me at: [email protected] or the Facebook Page for An Older Gay Guy Show! One rule:  NO LOOKING UP ANSWERS! Anyone can Google the answers, but what fun is that? See if you can answer the questions on your own ju...

Vintage TV Trivia! - Golden Girls, Lost In Space, Happy Days

December 16, 2017 20:53

A brief episode featuring some Vintage TV Trivia questions. The answers will be given at the start of the Christmas Episode which will be out next week. If you want to challenge yourself and send me your answers prior, I will tell you if you are correct. You can email me at: [email protected] or the Facebook Page for An Older Gay Guy Show! One rule:  NO LOOKING UP ANSWERS! Anyone can Google the answers, but what fun is that? See if you can answer the questions on your own ju...

S3 E9 Jockstrap Stories - "After Football" - Part 1

December 10, 2017 23:04

By request, this is Part 1 of a re-publish of my erotic story "After Football". Part 2 will be aired right after the 1st of the New Year. THIS IS A HARDCORE LOCKER ROOM/JOCK story. It is very explicit. WARNING: If erotic stories are not your forte, please visit a different episode of the podcast.  Thank you to everyone who enjoyed this the first time, and for the many requests I have had to re-release the episode.

S3 E8 Aging Angst

November 28, 2017 23:12

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

Aging Angst

November 28, 2017 23:12

Two unbelievable things happened to me this week, and unfortunately, they ending up being related. Sit back and listen to a couple of stories that have taught me a most important lesson in life. Learn from my mistakes, please!

S3 E7 Why Can't I Find A Boyfriend??

November 19, 2017 22:55

Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of my perspective on gay dating and finish with an important exercise that will give you insight into the potential reasons why you find it impossible to date a decent guy. I hope it gives you some things to think about!

Why Can't I Find A Boyfriend??

November 19, 2017 22:55

Tired of endless dating and not finding the right one? Or, tired of not even getting any dates to see if they are the right one? I give you my part of my perspective on gay dating and finish with an important exercise that will give you insight into the potential reasons why you find it impossible to date a decent guy. I hope it gives you some things to think about!

S3 E6 What About Bob ?

November 10, 2017 04:24

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

What About Bob ?

November 10, 2017 04:24

I recently re-connected with my friend from high school, Bob. I reminisce about our teenage years and my 'seduction room'.

S3 E5 Gay Bears And Other Labels

October 31, 2017 20:19

A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restrictive and insulting? Let's think about it. 

Gay Bears And Other Labels

October 31, 2017 20:19

A bit controversial, I discuss the various labels used in the gay community and consider whether some are welcome and good, or are all of them restrictive and insulting? Let's think about it. 

S3 E4 Football Jock Stories

October 21, 2017 14:52

This episode is NOT for everyone. This is an erotic story episode. If these kinds of stories bother you, you might want to skip this episode. However, if you enjoy this type of fiction, then do not miss this episode!

S3 E3 Creating Our Own Golden Boys

October 14, 2017 23:48

Senior LGBT folks are often alone and scared. I discuss an upcoming personal visit I will be doing and talk about what we can all do to help those of us in need. We are all going to be there, sooner rather than later, and if we join together as an older gay community, we can take care of and visit our LGBT brothers and sisters to make sure no one is left to feel alone and abandoned. Please give this episode a listen, it can change not only the life of someone else, but it can change you...

Creating Our Own Golden Boys

October 14, 2017 23:48

Senior LGBT folks are often alone and scared. I discuss an upcoming personal visit I will be doing and talk about what we can all do to help those of us in need. We are all going to be there, sooner rather than later, and if we join together as an older gay community, we can take care of and visit our LGBT brothers and sisters to make sure no one is left to feel alone and abandoned. Please give this episode a listen, it can change not only the life of someone else, but it can change you...

S3 E2 The Secret of The Secret

October 12, 2017 15:11

Are you unhappy in life? Have you had problems meeting the right partner? Are you somewhat depressed and feel hopeless at times? I have been there. In this episode I discuss the philosophy that I have adopted that has turned my life around. This is not an answer for everyone. If you are constantly depressed or suicidal, please call an anonymous hotline right away. But for the majority of people who just go through life and basically feel down and alone, I relate how I changed my life f...

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