Latest Trustissues Podcast Episodes
Your Wounded Child | Ep #141
Heal from Infidelity - May 03, 2024 09:00 - 29 minutesAs children raised by imperfect parents, we all have “core wounds” that inform much of our life. We may have had experiences we did not know how to process, and therefore made up stories of what those things meant that we still carry with us today. As we get older, we adapt and learn to naviga...
Episode 082: Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery
Relationships Uncomplicated - April 26, 2024 10:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratings🎙️ Welcome to Episode 82 of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast! In this episode, titled "Overcoming Biases in Infidelity Recovery," host Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into a topic that's often overlooked but profoundly impactful: the biases surrounding infidelity. 💔 Infidelity doesn't just sh...
Three Myths and Three Truths About Infidelity | Ep #140
Heal from Infidelity - April 19, 2024 09:00 - 29 minutesIn this episode, I cover 3 common myths circulating about infidelity, and 3 truths to counter them. With a lot of conflicting information out there, it can be quite confusing to navigate a clear path forward. By applying the principles discussed in this episode, you will be able to more clearl...
Episode 081: A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways
Relationships Uncomplicated - April 05, 2024 10:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratingsIn this episode of the Relationships Uncomplicated podcast, host and affair recovery expert Idit Sharoni, LMFT delves into the intricate process of navigating healing when both partners have been unfaithful. Titled "A Guide to Joint Recovery When Infidelity Strikes Both Ways," Idit explores th...
For My Male Listeners | Ep #139
Heal from Infidelity - April 05, 2024 09:00 - 21 minutesMost of my podcast episodes have been geared toward women who have experienced betrayal, but this one is for the men. First I address men who have been betrayed by their spouse/partner. I cover how betrayal affects men differently than women and why that is. Second, I address men who have be...
Losing Strategies | Ep #138
Heal from Infidelity - March 22, 2024 09:00 - 33 minutesGrowing up, we all take on behaviors that we use when our safety feels threatened. In this episode, I will be covering five strategies we use to try to get back a sense of safety. While these behaviors are common and we all participate in some (or all) of them at times, you’ll learn why they...
Choosing and Being Chosen | Ep #137
Heal from Infidelity - March 08, 2024 10:00 - 21 minutesWhile we all want to be in relationships that are trusting and loving, at the root of it all what we really want is to feel deeply chosen. In this episode, I’ll share different examples (both personal and from clients) where the strong desire to know you are being chosen drives forward courage...
5 Lessons from 5 Years of Coaching | Ep #136
Heal from Infidelity - February 23, 2024 10:00 - 30 minutesAfter having conversations with hundreds of people from all over the world in my five years of being an infidelity coach, there are some patterns, trends and truths I have learned. In this episode, I share those 5 truths and how they have changed some of my views around infidelity. This is one...
Toxic Independence | Ep #135
Heal from Infidelity - February 09, 2024 10:00 - 29 minutesIn a world that celebrates independence, it can seem like “weakness” to build relationships that require vulnerability. With “cancel culture” being rampant, it goes against the messages of the day, especially after infidelity, to fully lean in to building something that will last the test of tim...
People-pleasing and Infidelity with Sara Fisk, Part 2 | Ep #134
Heal from Infidelity - January 26, 2024 10:19 - 41 minutesIn the 2nd of this 2 part series, Sara Fisk and Andrea go deeper into people-pleasing. They go into more detail about how people-pleasing tendencies can put relationships at risk, and how stopping people-pleasing can help relationships heal. You will learn: How we are all deeply wired to pe...
Episode 080: How to Rebuild Trust After Cheating: Earn It!
Relationships Uncomplicated - January 19, 2024 11:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratingsIf you and your partner are navigating the challenging journey of affair recovery, understanding how to rebuild trust after infidelity is crucial. In this episode, we delve into the intricate process of earning back trust that has been lost in a relationship. Join us as we explore the evolutio...
People-pleasing and Infidelity with Sara Fisk, Part 1 | Ep #133
Heal from Infidelity - January 12, 2024 10:20 - 26 minutesDo you struggle with people-pleasing? Is it getting in the way of making clear decisions for yourself in the after-math of infidelity? In this 2-part series, Andrea and Sara Fisk talk all things people-pleasing. You will learn: How we are all deeply wired to people-please How it is likely a...
Rebuilding Your Life After Infidelity with Lauren | Ep #132
Heal from Infidelity - December 29, 2023 10:00 - 56 minutesIn this episode, I interview a former client, Lauren. Be prepared for an episode you will go back to again and again as there were so many gems and truths in her words. Lauren not only shares in depth her personal story with her spouse's infidelity, but she shares her journey of coming back to...
Expectations of Healing | Ep #131
Heal from Infidelity - December 15, 2023 10:00 - 24 minutesHow do you define healing? If you think it means never hurting again, you can be setting yourself up for even more pain in the future. In this episode, I cover various ways we can sabotage our own healing, and clearly define what it actually means. You will also learn how to evaluate how f...
How to Change Relationship Dynamics | Ep #130
Heal from Infidelity - December 01, 2023 10:00 - 19 minutesAfter infidelity, it is easy to fall into the trap of trying to take control of the healing and recovery of your partner. In this episode, you will learn why this is not a healthy, long-term solution and what to try instead. We will cover: Differences between men and women and why our heali...
Seeing the Full Picture | Ep #129
Heal from Infidelity - November 17, 2023 10:00 - 27 minutesSometimes we can use popular opinion against ourselves. We can listen to the opinions of others, rather than deeply searching our own hearts for what is true. In this episode, I use a powerful analogy to teach you how to do your own “investigating” into what is true, beyond what outside source...
Financial Infidelity with Tracy Coenen | Ep #128
Heal from Infidelity - November 03, 2023 09:00 - 43 minutesRomantic infidelity and financial infidelity often go hand in hand. Money is frequently spent on the affair partner, and in high-control relationships, spouses can feel like they have no say about where the money goes. In this episode, guest Tracy Coenen and I discuss: Hidden money Financia...
Changing the Dance | Ep #127
Heal from Infidelity - October 20, 2023 10:37 - 18 minutesInfidelity is one of the few things that can change everything, forever. There is no going back. How we deal with the “after” in infidelity is crucial. It presents an opportunity to change old patterns, learn new ways of being, and new ways to interact with one another. In this episode, you’...
A Spark of Desire | Ep #126
Heal from Infidelity - October 06, 2023 09:00 - 25 minutesDo you often feel like you “should” try to stay after infidelity? Or maybe you feel pressure from others telling you to leave because, as the saying goes, “Once a cheater, always a cheater?” In this episode, I shine a light on how to listen for what is actually true for you. Other well-meaning...
Intrusive Thoughts Part 2 | Ep #125
Heal from Infidelity - September 22, 2023 09:00 - 16 minutesIn this follow up to my last episode, “Intrusive Thoughts,” I go into more depth as to how to navigate the thoughts that seem to take over and rob you of your peace. I share two points that will help you gain some traction and direction the next time an intrusive thought shows up. Point one ...
Episode 079: How Can Someone Who Loves Me Betray Me?
Relationships Uncomplicated - September 12, 2023 10:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 182 ratingsIn this intriguing podcast episode, the topic of love and betrayal takes center stage, prompting us to explore the complex dynamics that arise when the people we cherish deeply hurt us. Idit Sharoni hosts her team of experts in order to shed a light on this topic. She begins with asking Alana ...
Intrusive Thoughts | Ep #124
Heal from Infidelity - September 08, 2023 09:00 - 21 minutesDo you struggle with intrusive thoughts? These are the ones that pop up, seemingly out of nowhere, and can derail your whole day. In this episode, I cover where these thoughts come from, and how to process them so they no longer have a hold on you. You will learn a strategy that will: Help ...
Cognitive Dissonance | Ep #123
Heal from Infidelity - August 25, 2023 09:00 - 28 minutesWhat happens when something you believed as true is challenged? Or when you make up your mind about something and immediately doubt it? Does it mean you made the wrong decision, or is something else happening? In this episode, you’ll learn all about cognitive dissonance and how it is an indica...
Emotional Divorce | Ep #122
Heal from Infidelity - August 11, 2023 09:00 - 17 minutesAfter infidelity, the decision needs to be made whether to stay or go. But for most people, that is only half the decision. Many people go through life being physically in a relationship but emotionally out. Some leave marriages physically but cannot separate themselves emotionally from their ...
Trauma and Resiliency | Ep #121
Heal from Infidelity - July 28, 2023 09:00 - 24 minutesWhen you think of yourself, do you identify more with being someone who has been traumatized, or as someone who is incredibly resilient, despite your trauma? Humans all experience trauma. It is inescapable. But what we forget is that as humans we are built to be resilient, and to rise above ou...
Courage Inspired Action | Ep #120
Heal from Infidelity - July 14, 2023 09:00 - 21 minutesMost of us understand the importance and significance of courage. It is an emotion that can help us to look at hard things in our lives. But if we are unwilling to take action based on our feeling of courage, we end up right where we started. In this episode, I share some ideas pertaining to i...
Keeping the Peace | Ep #119
Heal from Infidelity - June 30, 2023 09:00 - 24 minutesHow much pressure do you put on yourself to “Keep the Peace”? Maybe there are things you don’t say because you don’t want to create conflict. Maybe you just stuff things down rather than speak up and make others uncomfortable. In this episode, I discuss the concept of keeping the peace and whe...
Understanding Our Impact | Ep #118
Heal from Infidelity - June 16, 2023 09:00 - 26 minutesIn the aftermath of infidelity, it can feel like your life has been blown up, and our spouse sometimes does not seem to understand how much their choices impacted us. This episode discusses the importance of knowing that our spouse “gets it” in order to really move forward and build trust. I a...
Self-advocacy with Samantha Nielsen | Ep #117
Heal from Infidelity - June 02, 2023 09:00 - 41 minutesIn this episode, I welcome guest and self-advocacy expert, Samantha Nielsen to the show. If you have ever struggled in knowing how to speak up for yourself, this episode is for you. Samantha shares her own experience with watching herself shrink and be miserable until it became unbearable. She...
Recognizing Truth | Ep #116
Heal from Infidelity - May 19, 2023 09:00 - 28 minutesDo you often wonder how you’ll know the difference between a truth and a lie? It is a common question after infidelity, since the very nature of infidelity includes deceit. In this episode, I share a powerful analogy that will help you discern for yourself between truth and error. You will com...