Latest Slutshaming Podcast Episodes
Is Our Love Positive? (with HIV Advocate Philipp Spiegel)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 26, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week on Is Our Love we explore the positive side of being positive. Advocate Philipp Speigel shares his personal stories from reliving his HIV diagnosis, depression, and processing to ultimately becoming a speaker and advocate through owning his positive status. Where it was once thought of...
Is Our Love Forever Vol.2 (w Lorrae Bradbury: founder of Slutty Girl Probs)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 19, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsBetween breakups, makeups and all that unfolds in between we’ve all had our uglier moments. Lorrae of Slutty Girl Probs fame walks us through the best of times and the worst of times and how learning from those moments has helped her grow and learn more about herself and the types of relationshi...
Is Our Love High? with Sophie St. Thomas
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 12, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsMove over stoner comedies and Bob Marley posters, cannabis has a new sheriff in town…. Sophie St Thomas! This week on Is Our Love we have the most responsible conversation about drugs with the famed author of Finding Your Higher Self and upcoming books Sex Witch and The Little Book of CBD for...
Is Our Love Defined? (with Kinky Queer Architect: Vanilla Honey)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 05, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWe’re back from a *brief* hiatus to bring you the first episode of 2020. We’re getting all kinds of heady dissecting the phrasing, attire and spaces we frequent and what makes then “queer” “kinky” “sexy” etc…. How do we react to each of these individually and how do they influence or affect our ...
Is Our Love A Resolution?
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - December 18, 2019 09:00 - 45 minutes ★★★ - 70 ratingsOn our last episode of 2019, we take a look back on our favorite episodes of the year and also discuss our take on “Resolutions.” What’s the deal with benchmarks and why do we put so much weight into the changing of the years? Find out what Stephen and Lola are looking forward to in 2020 and wha...
How I Microdose Cannabis
So You've Been Slut-shamed - December 11, 2019 13:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 19 ratingsOn this episode of "So You've Been Slut-shamed," I teach you a trick in the REPAIR section on how to use plant medicine to heal from trauma. In the REVEAL section I talk about role-playing as a naughty secretary and having sex for the first time for cash. In the RELAX section, we go on a little ...
Is Our Love Fertile (Egg Freezing with Morganna Nickoff)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - December 11, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week’s Is Our Love ___? hits us right in the babymaker. Cartoonist and budding comedian Morganna Nickoff (@morganna.jokes) joins us to question our fertility and our own opinions on why is it that we do or do not want offspring. What does it say about you if you do want kids and when should...
Is Our Love Fertile? (Egg Freezing with Morganna Nickoff)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - December 11, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week’s Is Our Love ___? hits us right in the babymaker. Cartoonist and budding comedian Morganna Nickoff (@morganna.jokes) joins us to question our fertility and our own opinions on why is it that we do or do not want offspring. What does it say about you if you do want kids and when should...
Is Our Love A Violent Hug? (Wrestling Fetish with Ursa Fierce)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - December 04, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsSometimes love feels like a struggle, but sometimes… maybe we want it too? Wrestling fetish is the biggest craze you’ve never heard about and it’s a lot more common than you think. Before we throw down, we sit with professional fetish wrestler Ursa Fierce to talk about the primal-ness, competiti...
Is Our Love a Cumversation? (with Remy Kassimir)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - November 20, 2019 09:06 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week’s guest knows a thing or two about talking sex stuff in public. Remy Kassimir is the comedian cum role model who still worries if people think she’s cool. Remy joins us to talk about the funny thing that happens when you share your sex life on a global scale. From her first orgasm to m...
Is Our Love Bound By Rules? (with NYC Power Dynamics Practitioner: Lady Euphoria)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - November 13, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we are joined by Pro Domme and sometimes sociologist Lady Euphoria to pick apart why it is that we are so drawn to rules and why the lack of rules makes us so uncomfortable. We are a culture taught to thrive on efficiency and not thoroughness. This conversation uses BDSM as a framework...
Is Our Love A Toy? (Sex Toys w Nadia Deen Founder of AM.appointment)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - November 06, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsSometimes our love feels like a game, but just how much are we toying with it? What are the roles of toys in our sex life and how should we be using them? Are we using toys too much? Too little? ARE WE EVEN USING THEM CORRECTLY!? Nadia Deen of AM.appointment teaches us how to chill the fuck out ...
Pass The Porn Takeover: Sex Magick
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 30, 2019 14:23 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhat witch, wizard or sorcerer would you want to fuck? It’s Halloween and we’re still not sure if we want to channel our sexual energy for good or for evil. This week we’re not question what our love is or isn’t. Instead, we’re taking you on a journey through space and time to our Pass the Porn ...
Is Our Love Vaginal Pain? (w Emily Sauer, Founder Of OhNut)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 23, 2019 08:30 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we're hitting where it hurts…...in the vagina? Sometimes our love involves vaginas, but what happens when that love is...painful? Whose responsibility is it? Do we push through it? Avoid it at all costs? Denial? This week we talk about the often experienced but lesser validated ambigui...
Is Our Love A Cold Sore? (Herpes Etc. W Sexologist Emily Depasse)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 16, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhat a week to have our first guest on to talk STI’s and we’re kicking things off with the black sheep of the STI fam: Herpes. We get honest with our personal HSV stories: both contracting, spreading, and having in all it’s various formats. This weeks guest explains why people are so socially w...
Is Our Love Masochistic (with Pro Sub Indygo Ann)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 09, 2019 08:30 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsOur BDSM trilogy continues on Is Our Love?! After a few weeks of Dommes, we head to the other side of the spectrum and dive deep into sub space with this week’s guest: Indygo Ann. Indygo is a PRO SUB. Yeah, we’re capitalizing it, ‘cause they’re the unsung heroes of dungeons far and wide. But jus...
Is Our Love Full Of Shit? (w Mistress Shayla)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 02, 2019 08:30 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIf our love is full of shit, how much confidence does it take to throatfuck that shit in someone’s mouth? Wait….what? You never asked… we answered, and the answer is this weeks’ guest: Mistress Shayla. A charismatic Texas sadist with a heart of gold. Shayla is seasoned in many areas of FemDom bu...
Is Our Love Kinky? (w/ Mistress Nikita Reign)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 25, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIf being kinky is a spectrum from a simple roleplay all the way to chastity and eternal servitude, where does a new Pro Domme (Dominatrix) fall into it? Kicking off a string of BDSM focused guests is someone on the newer side of Pro Domming, but who is no stranger to smut. Mistress Nikita Reign ...
Is Our Love Body Conscious? (Sex After An Eating Disorder w/ Devon Day Moretti)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 18, 2019 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWith all of the positive strides modern media is making with showcasing different types of bodies and faces, it can feel like body positivity is a simple compliment away, right? It’s not always as easy as telling yourself “I Love You” specifically if that negativity is rooted in insecurity and e...
Is Our Love Intimate (with Sex Therapist Cyndi Darnell)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 11, 2019 12:53 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIn our continued pursuit of all conversations sex & kink, this weeks' guest Cyndi Darnell, a leading sex therapist and educator, brings us back to our human core: INTIMACY. We have an in depth convo about fostering intimacy within our various types of relationships. Cyndi also illuminates how he...
Is Our Love HYPNOTIZED? (Erotic Hypnosis with Wizard: Devin Person)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 04, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week on Is Our Love we talk to a *fucking* Wizard. Find out how one becomes a fucking wizard and what a real life wizard even does. Devin Person dispels the mystique behind erotic hypnosis and what happens when a hypnosis goes dark. So much of pleasure based sex ed focuses on physical touch...
Is Our Love a One Night Stand?
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 28, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsNo conversation about sex is complete without talking about the one night stand. So commonplace its earned its own abbreviation: ONS. One-night standspert MOMO (@momosinmieda) joins Stephen and Lola as we break down what constitutes a one night stand. Are one night stands inherently bad & what c...
Is Our Love the Fetishization of Asian Women?
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 21, 2019 08:00 - 53 minutes ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we boldly go where two white podcasters dare not tread... for good reason. Inspired by a listener question regarding the fetishization of her race within her dating pursuits, Stephen and Lola try their best not to “white savior” by bringing in roommates and friends Yuko and Rachel. Bot...
Is Our Love A Summer Fling
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 14, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIt's summer and we've been on vacation! Lola and Stephen reconvene after a little break and recount what happened with their summer flings and things. While Lola fucked (and educated) her way through Europe, the Reluctant Sexpert spent his days sex nerding at Sex Camp. There's some romance, reve...
How I Overcame Panic Attacks
So You've Been Slut-shamed - August 10, 2019 01:05 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 19 ratingsOn this episode of "So You've Been Slut-shamed," I teach you a trick in the REPAIR section on how to stop panic attacks before they start. In the REVEAL section I talk about answering ads for bikini modeling. In the RELAX section, we do a short guided meditation to calm your mind. Become a Pat...
Is Our Love Codependent w/ Rachel Khints
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 07, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIf codependency is a spectrum, where is a healthy place to sit? How can you tell if your relationship is in equilibrium or codependent AF? Are you in-love or enmeshed? This week we sit down with Rachel Khints, who specializes in treating codependency with a focus on group therapy. We learn the c...
Is Our Love A Multi-Orgasmic Man (Non-Ejaculatory Orgasms with Dominus Eros)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 31, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsNo greater sex goal has plagued man more than the non-ejaculatory orgasm. Ok... well maybe not, but unless you’ve been living under a 'fuck' rock, chances are you’ve heard of The Multi-Orgasmic Man. Sometimes thought only to only be achieved by tantric yogi’s meditating in mountains (and livestr...
Is Our Love A Safer Space? (Gamifying Your Orgy w Robin Scott)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 24, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsExploring sex and love is all fine and dandy but where are we doing all this uber progressive sexploration? Safe(r) spaces are crucial to creating sex positive communities (and sex positive humans)... and Robin Scott is creating some of the most fun, progressive events around. This week, Robin s...
Is Our Love Forever Vol. 1
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 17, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWe're finally tackling our first LOVE spectacular! Is there a reason we're inherently attracted to the “wrong” people? How do you date for love vs. date for sport? This week, Stephen takes the wheel as the resident hopeless romantic as we're joined by Bobby, who knows a thing or three about love...
Is our Love Bisexual?
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 10, 2019 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIs bisexuality a 50/50 split or is it a bit more complicated than that. Join us for all the confusion from the bicurious to the biphobic, we discuss all sides of the Kinsey scale and question if straight is built out of fear, ignorance or a definite identity. Julia Koerwer, MSW, joins us to drop...
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