Latest Limerence Podcast Episodes
Married To A Controlling Wife
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - May 19, 2022 14:00 - 11 minutesBeing controlled by anyone is terrible, but it's especially painful when the person controlling you is your wife. How can you break free of someone who controls your thoughts, decisions, passions, and hobbies? At Marriage Helper, we have developed an acronym called PIES to determine your phy...
Bonus Episode 2: 1FW Robyn
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - May 15, 2022 12:54 - 18 minutesThe conference is coming up on Friday. There is still time to join us in person here in the DMV and to purchase a ticket to watch the replay! Today, I am talking to my friend Robyn. She talks about why the conference is important and exciting to her, why she's so excited, and what One Fierce...
Husband Looking At Other Women Online & What To Do About It
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - May 11, 2022 20:00 - 6 minutesWhat do you do if you find your husband looking at other women online? You should talk to him about it if it's bothering you but the question is "how?" Join Kimberly this week as she walks through the pitfalls that can come from these types of conversations and how to approach it if it's happe...
307: Mother's Day
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - May 07, 2022 13:39 - 1 hourLONG EPISODE ALERT!!!! I do not enjoy Mother's Day anymore. There's the fact that I've had six children with a man who from the day he left, has never ackwleged me. It's the fact that I have a daughter who doesn't speak to me and a mother in law who also abandoned me and has chosen to ...
Bonus Episode 1: One Fierce Woman Conference
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - May 06, 2022 20:58 - 23 minutesHave ya heard? One Fierce Woman Conference Experience is here! LaTasha Briscoe of LB Innovations sits diown with me to discuss how this conference is for all women. I can't wait to meet you here in the DMV for this experience. Our keynote speaker is Maimouns "Mumu Fresh" Youssef and she's p...
Feeling Disrespected In My Relationship
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - May 06, 2022 05:00 - 9 minutesMost people want out of a marriage, either because they don't feel loved, don't feel liked, or don't feel respected. But what is respect? And how do you show it? In marriage, we tend to feel respected if each of us feels heard, each of us feels lovely and lovable, and each one of us feels like...
305: Normalize Red Lips with Candice Benbow
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - April 26, 2022 17:20 - 37 minutesTrenace Richardson joins me as co-host for this interview with author Candice Marie Benbow. She is one of my new favortie authors online and her book "Red Lip Theology" is at the top of my lifetime list of books that changed me. Candice talks about what began her process for writing this book...
How To Win Back Your Wife
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - April 26, 2022 17:00 - 14 minutesAre you and your wife going through a separation or becoming emotionally distant? Are you wondering how to win your wife back? Men make three common mistakes when they feel that their wife is leaving them. From manipulation to snooping, these mistakes only wind up causing more issues. So wha...
Gaslighting In A Relationship
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - April 22, 2022 05:00 - 9 minutesHave you ever, in a relationship, begun to doubt your own mind? You may have experienced gaslighting. In this episode, Dr. Joe Beam explains what is and isn't gaslighting and shares ways you can overcome it. If you're having an issue with communication in your marriage, you may want to work ...
304: Dr. Griffin
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - April 21, 2022 14:18 - 35 minutesMy friend Byron who is the creator of the FB Group Nerdy, Sexy, Cool, introduced me to the story of Dr. Griffin. Dr. Griffin has a story about having confidence himself and starting his own Plastic Surgery Practice. There's a lot to learn from that, but I really wanted you guys to hear a frank...
The Difference Between An Emotional Affair And Friendship
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - April 15, 2022 05:00 - 9 minutesWhen a married person looks to another most of the time, someone of the opposite sex, to fulfill an emotional need, that is emotional cheating. Going to someone else instead of their spouse and being unwilling to give up that relationship is emotional cheating. At the bottom of it, emotional che...
I Hate My Wife
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - April 08, 2022 06:00 - 11 minutesYou never thought you'd get to this place. Your bride, your best friend, the woman you fell in love with, has become someone you despise. Does this sound like you? If you hate your wife and are unsure of what to do about it, you've come to the right place. I'll be talking you through some of t...
Marriage Separation
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - April 01, 2022 11:00 - 9 minutesHave you been unhappy in your marriage but not sure if you're ready for divorce? Perhaps you're thinking, "I don't want to live like this, but I'm not sure I'm ready to end this thing. Maybe we need to separate for a while to see if we can figure some things out." Maybe somebody is recommending...
When To Break SMART Contact With Your Spouse
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - March 22, 2022 04:00 - 8 minutesSMART Contact is one of the pillars of what we teach at Marriage Helper. It helps to reset the communication between you and your spouse. Often, we get so caught up in the business of life or some perceived or real hurt that's come from our spouse that we may forget that we love them and need to...
Positive Signs During Separation That Could Mean Reconciliation
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - March 18, 2022 10:00 - 7 minutesSo you're separated, but you don't want to be. What are some positive signs during separation to look for that may indicate you can put your marriage back together? I was on a podcast recently where we talked about how difficult it can be to put a marriage back together when one spouse wants o...
303: Clap Back (Pun Intended)
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - March 12, 2022 12:56 - 35 minutesThe converwsationwith my cousin Shun continues. On top of becoming a widow and losing three of her step children in a tragic accident, she was almost immedieately thrown into a battle with his first wife. It's hard to explain, you just have to listen. I also talk a little bit about how I e...
Emotionally Exhausted Because Of My Cheating Spouse
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - March 11, 2022 10:00 - 11 minutesMy spouse is cheating. I'm hurting and emotionally exhausted. How can I stop hurting and become emotionally healthy again? In almost every conversation I have with a client, these are the statements I hear. I have so much compassion for these clients because I know all too well how that feels. ...
302: When God Breaks Your Heart
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - March 06, 2022 04:40 - 40 minutesMy cousin's widow, Shun, is my guest on this episode. We've talked about our expectations of God in many forms for over a year. Shun shares her experience of tasting a sweet life... being married to my cousin for only 14 days... and then losing him when he passed away along with three of his c...
Emotional Cheating In A Marriage
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - March 04, 2022 10:00 - 9 minutesWhat is cheating? Is it still cheating if it never becomes physical? Is there such thing as emotional cheating? The answer is yes. Emotional cheating is real and probably happens way more than people realize. This episode will teach you what emotional cheating is, how to know if you are emotio...
301: I Miss You, But F$*# You
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - February 27, 2022 18:35 - 39 minutesIt's episode one of the new season! Today I am talking to author Dominique Dewel. She wrote a journal with the most petty title I've ever heard... "I miss you, but F#*@ you!". The title resonated and set off a million bells within me. I am so proud of her creating this journal to help us put t...
Is Limerence Bad? How Marriage Can Often Start With Limerence
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - February 25, 2022 10:00 - 10 minutesOften, clients will tell me that they are sure that they were in limerence with their spouse before they were married. But does that mean that the relationship with their spouse was bad from the beginning? If you were in limerence with your spouse when you first entered a relationship together...
Bonus: One Fierce Woman
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - February 24, 2022 12:42 - 21 minutesThis season ending bonus episode is a formal introduction and invitation to the One Fierce Woman Conference Experience! The conference is being held in Arlington, Virginia on May 20 and 21, 2022. It is an in-person event to which I hope you will all travel. However there will be atickets availa...
230: Peek a boo? Who's there? F*. F* Who? F* You.
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - February 20, 2022 16:41 - 25 minutesThis is the season ending episode for season 2. It is one of those ones where I readily admit, It ain't the best episode. I held onto it for a couple of weeks. I'm so greived. I ramble. But I got it out. It needed to come out of me. Thanks for listening and bearing with me...even though this a...
How To Tell Your Spouse You Want A Divorce
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - February 18, 2022 10:00 - 10 minutesDo you want to divorce, but you haven't told your spouse yet? Maybe you're just waiting for the perfect moment to present it to them to where it prevents any more damage to the relationship. Or perhaps you're plotting the best way to throw it in their face because you feel fed up with their acti...
How To Heal After Being Cheated On
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - February 11, 2022 10:00 - 7 minutesYou're in pain. You just found out your spouse is cheating on you, and you're not sure what to do. In today's episode Director of Coaching, Melody Oseguera is going to share a few tips that will be very beneficial for you to start healing your pain. When you begin to take steps to heal, you're...
How To Save A Marriage On the Brink Of Divorce
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - February 04, 2022 10:00 - 13 minutesIf you are trying to figure out how to save your marriage from the brink of divorce, then this is the information for you. At Marriage Helper, we have worked with 1000s upon 1000s of marriages to help situations just like yours. The majority of people who come to us are those where their spous...
How to Futureproof Your Marriage
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - January 28, 2022 10:00 - 8 minutesIf you want to future-proof your marriage, then this episode is essential. Whether you are newly married, about to get married, or have been married for 20 years, this episode is going to help you know how to stay married. Now, there are no guarantees. But I will teach you tips today to improv...
Reasons For Divorce
Marriage Quick Tips: Affairs, Communication, Avoiding Divorce, and Saving Your Marriage - January 21, 2022 10:00 - 9 minutesWhy do people divorce? Quite a question, isn't it? So let us walk you through what the research says. When we start talking about divorce, we can speculate all day long. If you ask people on the street, "What do you think is the biggest problem with marriage?" They will say something like commu...
Bonus 3: Titus 2 with a Question Mark
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - January 20, 2022 17:14 - 31 minutesAs Nameica, Kimberly, Angila and I were wrapping up we started discussing things we would change on our wedding days. Titus 2 states that the older women should teach the younger woman. Nameica, however, says she's not sure she wants to follow the women of the old as it relates to marriage. Is i...
229: I Got Questions
Not Bitter. Just Petty. - January 15, 2022 15:12 - 50 minutesI asked Angela Curvey-Chukwu, Kimberly Cleveland, and Nameica Craig to join me for a Q&A session. We were able to get a few questions in, but it really felt like a few friends talking! We covered... what I hoped to gain from sharing my story and doing this podcast. Whether I believed in lo...