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So, Tell Me About Relationships

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - May 10, 2021 05:01 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we look at the benefits of intimate relations...
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So, Tell Me About Suffering

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - May 03, 2021 05:01 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we discuss how hardships have the potential t...
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So, Tell Me About Grief

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - April 26, 2021 05:01 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
  This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we talk about grief. We explore why west...
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What you can expect from therapy

The Therapy Spot - March 02, 2021 07:56 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
Released March 2, 2021 Susan Reyland returns to the show to talk about what you can expect from therapy. Susan is a clinical and developmental psychologist with an international practice, as well as a fellow Internal Family Systems practitioner and Somatic trained therapist. She’s been a g...
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So, Tell Me About Repentance

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 12, 2020 21:01 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we look at repentance as it pertains to chan...
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So, Tell Me About Forgiveness

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 05, 2020 05:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we discuss what forgiveness is, what forgiven...
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04 - So, Tell Me About Confession

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - September 28, 2020 05:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. On this episode, Marsh delves into how the habit of confession...
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So, Tell Me About Confession

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - September 28, 2020 05:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. On this episode, Marsh delves into how the habit of confession...
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So, Tell Me About Time

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - September 21, 2020 05:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we discuss the concept of time and the role i...
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So, Tell Me About Truth

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - September 14, 2020 05:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we take a deep dive into truth, as it pertain...
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So, Tell Me About Grace

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - September 07, 2020 05:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
This season we'll take a look at a few theological and philosophical concepts that inform Marsh's view of helping. While his counseling paradigm consists primarily of CBT, his faith undergird his worldview and view of human nature. In this episode, we look at the concept of grace (as an attitu...
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So, Tell Me About Christmas

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - December 11, 2019 06:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this bonus episode we discuss what makes Christmas so special and dreadful. We also talk about some of our favorite things, and Marsh makes his most controversial statement to date... on the podcast anyway. Contact Us Email:[email protected] kent@sotellmeaboutyou...
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So, Tell Me About Societal Emotional Process

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - November 25, 2019 06:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode, we discuss how the same adaptive patterns families use to cope magically appear at the societal level too. This is the final episode of the season and the last concept in Bowen Family Systems Theory. Contact Us Email:[email protected] kent@sotellmea...
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Dr. Susan Reyland: The Problem is not Communication — it's Regulation

The Therapy Spot - November 19, 2019 05:00 - 21 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
This month, I am joined once more by fellow Internal Family Systems practitioner and clinical psychologist Dr. Susan Reyland. On this episode, our goal is to help you be a better communicator and connect better with your partner. For more, visit: bethrogerson.com
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So, Tell Me About Sibling Position

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - November 18, 2019 06:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
Does birth order (first born, youngest, etc.) influence our character traits and who we become? We discuss. Contact Us Email:[email protected] [email protected] Twitter: https://twitter.com/stmaympodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/...
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So, Tell Me About Emotional Cutoff

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - November 11, 2019 06:00 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode, Kent and Immanuel disagree about the utility of emotional cutoff. Is it ever prudent, or even possible, to distance yourself emotionally from family members? Contact Us Email:[email protected] [email protected] Twitter: https:...
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So, Tell Me About Multigenerational Transmission Process

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - November 04, 2019 06:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode we explore multigenerational transmission process. The idea is that self-differentiation (see S2E2) is handed down from parents to children (both intentionally and unintentionally). These levels of differentiation ebb, flow, and evolve throughout the generations of the family. ...
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So, Tell Me About Family Projection Process

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 28, 2019 05:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode, Kent unpacks the fourth concept of Bowen's Family System Theory - family projection process. This concept explains how parents may pass their emotional problems on to their children. Contact Us Email:[email protected] kent@sotellmeaboutyourmotherp...
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So, Tell Me About Nuclear Family Emotional Process

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 21, 2019 05:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
According to Murray Bowen, problems emerge from four relationship patterns: 1) Marital conflict; 2) Dysfunction in one spouse; 3) Impairment of one or more children; 4) Emotional distance. In this episode, Kent breaks down these patterns and Bowen's Nuclear Family Emotional Process. Contact Us ...
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So, Tell Me About Differentiation of Self

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 14, 2019 05:00 - 51 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode, we discuss the second concept of Bowen's Family Systems Theory -- Differentiation of Self. Everyone has a self, but Bowen theorized that the level of self we have influences how we relate to others. Contact Us Email:[email protected] kent@sotellmeab...
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So, Tell Me About Triangles

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - October 07, 2019 05:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
We're devoting this season to Kent's theoretical orientation - Dr. Murray Bowen's Family Systems Theory. Each episode Kent will introduce a core concept of the theory. In this episode, we discuss "Triangles" - the three-person relationship structure of Bowen Theory.   Contact Us Email:immanue...
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H.E.A.L. From Negative Experiences with Self Compassion

The Therapy Spot - July 02, 2019 04:00 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
For show notes, visit: bethrogerson.com
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Getting to Know Your "Hater Parts"

The Therapy Spot - May 28, 2019 03:30 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
I know I’ve talked to you before about curiosity, and specifically about being curious towards your sad and vulnerable parts. Today, however, I want you to get curious towards the hater part, the one who resists your sadness, or tries to push it away. This part definitely won’t show up in a vuln...
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So, Tell Me About Family

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - May 20, 2019 05:00 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
On this episode, we discuss how early familial relationships affect us in adulthood. We also discuss a little about birth order, and Marsh takes a shot at only children. Contact Us Email:[email protected] [email protected] Twitter: https://tw...
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So, Tell Me About Parenting

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - May 13, 2019 05:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this episode, we discuss somewhat counter-cultural, and, perhaps, counterintuitive ideas about parenting. Contact Us Email:[email protected]          [email protected] Twitter: @stmaympodcast Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SoTellMeA...
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So, Tell Me About Marriage

So, Tell Me About Your Mother - May 06, 2019 04:00 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 11 ratings
In this pilot episode, we take a shallow dive into the institution of marriage. Why do people still get married? And why do some stay married while others don't? What We Mentioned: Family Evaluation by Michael E. Kerr and Murray Bowen For Women Only by Shaunti Feldhahn Love & Respect by Dr...
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New Beginnings: An IFS Journey with Tammy Sollenberger

The Therapy Spot - April 23, 2019 03:30 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
Spring has come to the northern hemisphere and I’m excited to bring you a new episode of my podcast. In the spirit of new beginnings, my guest this month is Tammy Sollenberger. Tammy has just launched her new podcast, titled “The One Inside: An Internal Family Systems Podcast for Anyone Looking ...
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An IFS Overview and Listener Questions

The Therapy Spot - March 26, 2019 00:05 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
I have many new exciting interviews planned for the coming months, so let's have a quick refresher course on IFS! Then, I'll answer some questions about IFS and Self compassion sent in by a listener. For more, visit: bethrogerson.com
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Reissue: Martha Sweezy, Ph.D., on Shame, Guilt, and Self Compassion

The Therapy Spot - February 26, 2019 05:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
As a bonus this month, I am reissuing my interview with Martha Sweezy, Ph.D., from May of 2017. Martha weighed in on important issues at the core of shame, such as: What is shame and why is it important? How do we learn to shame ourselves and others? How can criticism and blame help us, and...
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Kristy Arbon on Stress, Shame, and Somatic Self Compassion

The Therapy Spot - February 05, 2019 04:30 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 32 ratings
My guest today is Kristy Arbon, the Founder and CEO of HeartWorks Training. Her work revolves around supporting people in their practice of self-compassion, mindfulness, somatic awareness, and shame resilience. Among her many other talents, she is an excellent mindful Self compassion coach and t...
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