Was That Good For You?
139 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 282 ratingsWas That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.
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Episodes
OnlyFans & The Stigma Of Sex Work
September 17, 2020 07:00 - 56 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by actress and musician Erika Heidewald to discuss the recent takeover of OnlyFans by millionaire celebrities (Bella Thorne, Cardi B) and why they're attempt to help is actually harming sex workers and adding to the stigma. Erika and Raya also discuss how just because she has an OnlyFans and posts pictures online, that doesn't mean she is less deserving of love and meaningful relationships. Follow Erika on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/c/ErikaHeidewald Follow Erik...
OnlyFans & Sex Work In Today's World
September 17, 2020 07:00 - 56 minutesThis week, I had actress, musician and OnlyFans creator Erika Heidewald on to discuss the recent takeover of OnlyFans by millionaire celebrities (Bella Thorne, Cardi B) and why they're attempt to help is actually harming sex workers and adding to the stigma. Erika and I also discuss how just because Erika has an OnlyFans, that doesn't mean she, or any sex worker, is less deserving of love and meaningful relationships. Follow Erika on Instagram: Instagram.com/ErikaHeidewald For more on IG: @r...
Revisiting - Porn with Rachel Eck
September 10, 2020 07:00This week, Raya revisits one of her more popular episodes, which is of course about porn! And now that everyone is still stuck at home for the long haul, this episode is more relevant than ever. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/goodforyou! From the original episode: On this weeks episode, Raya is joined by Rachel Eck to talk all things porn. They get into their preferences, habits, and even the possible negative effects of watching too much. Have ...
Incorporating Cannabis Into Your Sex Life
August 27, 2020 07:00 - 43 minutesThis week, I had journalist and author of two sex & cannabis books, "The Little Book of CBD for Self-Care" & "Finding Your Higher Self: Your Guide to Cannabis for Self-Care", Sophie Saint Thomas in the studio. We discuss the many benefits of introducing weed into your sexual relationships, including anal and vaginal suppositories, enhancing your orgasms, and reducing pain during sex. She also give tips on how to introduce pot to others who might be nervous about it, and we explore the stigmas...
The Stigma Of Young Marriage (& Divorce)
August 13, 2020 07:00 - 45 minutesThis week, I'm joined by my friend Morgan Grimes who was married (and divorced) at a young age. She discusses how people, both older relatives and peers, viewed her own marriage and divorce and explains why it's not much different than people getting together and breaking up. We also discuss the stigma behind multiple marriages and how it's time we rethink these prejudices. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. For more on IG: @rayacarmona ...
The Stigma of Marriage and Divorce for Young People
August 13, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by Morgan Grimes who has been married and divorced at a young age. She discusses how people, both older relatives and peers, view marriage and divorce and explains why it's not much different than people getting together and breaking up, as well as why multiple marriages are so frowned upon, but it's time we rethink these prejudices. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today's topic? ...
Women and Sexuality: The Madonna-Whore Dichotomy
July 30, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by Shani Long to discuss the double standards when it comes to owning your sexuality with men versus women. They discuss how society has set expectations for how men can flaunt their sexuality, but when women do it, they're put into a certain category, and how Kim Kardashian's status and perceptions made people ignore the fact that her sex tape was nothing more than revenge porn. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou...
The Madonna-Whore Dichotomy
July 30, 2020 07:00 - 59 minutesThis week, I had the lovely Shani Long on to discuss the double standards when it comes to owning your sexuality. We discuss the Madonna-Whore Dichotomy and how Kim Kardashian's status and perceptions made people ignore the fact that her sex tape was nothing more than revenge porn. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Women Need to Take Control of Their Sexuality
July 30, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by Shani Long to discuss the double standards when it comes to owning your sexuality with men versus women. They discuss how society has set expectations for how men can flaunt their sexuality, but when women do it, they're put into a certain category, and how Kim Kardashian's status and perceptions made people ignore the fact that her sex tape was nothing more than revenge porn. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want t...
Revisiting - Sex on the First Date ft. Kristi Beck
July 18, 2020 00:27This week, Raya revisits her very first episode, just in case you missed it! From the original episode: Kristi Beck joins Raya in the studio for a frank discussion on the always-fascinating topic of sex on the first date! As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or ...
How Sex Work (And Sex) Are Being Changed By Quarantine
July 09, 2020 07:00 - 37 minutesThis week, Raya talks with writer Ashleigh Gray to discuss how taboo industries, which already dealt with struggles before the pandemic, are dealing with physical restrictions that they relied on. Ashleigh sheds some light on how OnlyFans and other services like it are now rising during quarantine and she also offers up advice on how to navigate dating and physical relationships when being physical is not allowed. Plus, Raya and Ashleigh discuss the troubles with posting sexy content that cou...
Revisiting - Interracial Relationships with Imani Hakim and Daniel Weaver
July 02, 2020 20:32This week, Raya revisits a classic episode that deals with interracial dating that seems more relevant than ever. From the original episode: On this week's episode, Raya is joined by Daniel Weaver and actress Imani Hakim to talk interracial relationships. They get deep about the challenges that come with dating outside your race, and what they’ve learned along the way. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting BetterHelp.com/GoodForYou. Have a question or comment on today...
How to Use Astrology to Find a Good Relationship ft. Colin Bedell
June 11, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by Astrologer Colin Bedell AKA QueerCosmos to discuss how no two signs are ever incompatible when it comes to relationships, sometimes you just need to work on yourself first. Colin also brings astrology into the 21st century by explaining how gender and sexuality shouldn't factor into your readings and how only finding "compatible" signs could actually land you in a terrible relationship. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories ...
Factoring Astrology Into Dating With Colin Bedell!
June 11, 2020 07:00 - 50 minutesThis week, I'm joined by Astrologer Colin Bedell AKA QueerCosmos to discuss how no two signs are ever incompatible when it comes to relationships, sometimes you just need to work on yourself first. Colin also brings astrology into the 21st century by explaining how gender and sexuality shouldn't factor into your readings and how only finding "compatible" signs could actually land you in a terrible relationship. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoic...
Astrology In Sex and Relationships ft. Colin Bedell
June 11, 2020 07:00 - 50 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by Astrologer Colin Bedell AKA QueerCosmos to discuss how no two signs are ever incompatible when it comes to relationships, sometimes you just need to work on yourself first. Colin also brings astrology into the 21st century by explaining how gender and sexuality shouldn't factor into your readings and how only finding "compatible" signs could actually land you in a terrible relationship. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories ...
Asexuality and Its Many Misconceptions ft. Yasmin Benoit
May 28, 2020 07:00 - 37 minutesThis week, I had model and asexuality advocate Yasmin Benoit on the show to discuss the many misconceptions around asexuality. We also chat about how it's slowly becoming more widely accepted as a sexual preference, although Yasmin knows firsthand it still has a long way to go in mainstream society. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Zoom Orgies, Male Bisexuality & Butt Stuff ft. Zachary Zane
May 21, 2020 07:00 - 51 minutesThis week, I'm joined by the amazing speaker/author/activist Zachary Zane to discuss how Zoom virtual sex orgies work, how non-monogamous couples are navigating quarantining together and why being on lockdown is the perfect time to put things up your butt, For more Zach, check out his column on Men's Health or explore your body with B-Vibe. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Zoom Orgies, Male Bisexuality & The Beauty Of Butt Stuff ft. Zachary Zane
May 21, 2020 07:00 - 51 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by speaker/author/activist Zachary Zane to discuss how Zoom virtual sex orgies work, how non-monogamous couples are navigating quarantining together, why being on lockdown is the perfect time to put things up your butt and so much more! For more Zach, check out his column on Men's Health or explore your body with B-Vibe. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? G...
Roommate Sex, Coronavirus in Semen and Other Sex In the News
May 14, 2020 07:00Has dating actually become easier during the quarantine? Why is New York telling its citizens not to have sex? Raya breaks down some of the craziest and most interesting news stories surrounding sex and relationships that have happened during this crisis. Plus, Raya gives advice on how to safely date while in quarantine and why masturbating can actually improve your sex life. Sources: New York Sex Guidelines Reese Piper's Op Ed about Having Sex With Her Male Roommate Kinsey Institute's R...
Safe Words, Dating During Covid & More!
April 23, 2020 20:58 - 46 minutesRaya and returning guest Gabriella Sibaja answer even more of your most burning sex and relationship questions. In this part two of last weeks Q&A, they answer questions ranging from "How sustainable are polyamorous relationships?" to "What do I do if I'm attracted to my boyfriend’s best friend?" and "Should I even be dating during this lockdown?" Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? ...
Safe Words, Bi-Curiosity and Dating During Covid - Q&A Pt. 2
April 23, 2020 20:58Raya and returning guest Gabriella Sibaja answer even more of your most burning sex and relationship questions. In this part two of last weeks Q&A, they answer questions ranging from "How sustainable are polyamorous relationships?" to "What do I do if I'm attracted to my boyfriend’s best friend?" and "Should I even be dating during this lockdown?" Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? ...
Sex & Relationship Q&A Pt. 2
April 23, 2020 20:58 - 46 minutesGabriella Sibaja is back to help me answer even more of your most burning sex and relationship questions. In this part two of last weeks episode, we answer questions ranging from "How sustainable are polyamorous relationships?" to "Should I even be dating during lockdown?" For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Your Sex & Relationship Q's Answered!
April 09, 2020 07:00 - 51 minutesThis week, I had Meghan Rose back on the show to help answer listener-submitted questions. Topics range from how to broach the subject of kinks to your partner, if pegging makes you gay (it doesn't), navigating forbidden crushes and so much more! For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Raya Answers Your Burning Sex Questions!
April 09, 2020 07:00 - 51 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by guest (and roommate) Meghan Rose to answer some fan-submitted questions. They answer questions ranging from how to broach the subject of kinks to your partner, if pegging makes you gay (it doesn't), exploring kinks that are way more common than you think and so much more! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her ...
Quarantined? Time to Explore Your Body, Guys!
March 26, 2020 07:00In her first solo episode, Raya listens to fan-submitted voicemails from men who have used sex toys, either with a partner or with masturbation. Raya explores the stigma surrounding men using sex toys for self-pleasure and we hear some crazy stories involving improvised sex toys, using substances to enhance pleasure, and a man finally embracing anal play. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future ...
The Art of Multiple Orgasms ft. Lacey Broussard
March 12, 2020 07:00 - 45 minutesWomen's sex coach Lacey Broussard joins me to discuss her work with women and changing the narrative that women are often plagued with surrounding their sexuality and having orgasms. Lacey discusses using a jade egg to enhance sexual pleasure, using modern and ancient techniques to have multiple orgasms, and how men are missing out on great pleasure by not putting stuff in their butts. Visit Lacey's website The Multiorgasmic Mama for more! For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your a...
The Importance Of Self-Love In Relationships
March 05, 2020 08:00 - 42 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by self-love guru Jonathon Aslay to discuss why just about everyone struggles with self-esteem issues and jumps into relationships before they even know what they want. Jonathon explains why women should be in the driver's seat of the relationship and how building up confidence in yourself could lead to healthier and long-lasting relationships Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions f...
Exploring Attachment Styles
February 27, 2020 08:00 - 35 minutesLicensed marriage counselor Bri Ferron joins Raya to discuss the various attachment styles, how it was probably established in your childhood, and how to deal with a partner that has a different attachment style than you. Find out your attachment style here! For more information on attachment styles, check out "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love." Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to ...
Attachment Styles 101
February 27, 2020 08:00 - 35 minutesGood friend and licensed marriage counselor Bri Ferron joins me to discuss the various attachment styles, how it was probably established in your childhood, and how to deal with a partner that has a different attachment style than you. Find out your attachment style here! For more information on attachment styles, check out "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love." For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcas...
How Your Attachment Style Can Affect Your Relationship
February 27, 2020 08:00Associate marriage counselor Bri Ferron joins Raya to discuss the various attachment styles, how it was probably established in your childhood, and how to deal with a partner that has a different attachment style than you. Find out your attachment style here! For more information on attachment styles, check out "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love." Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to...
Bisexuality, Sex Parties & Performance Anxiety
February 20, 2020 08:00 - 49 minutesToday, my friend Emily and I cover a variety of topics including the trouble with defining your sexuality, finding sex parties on Eventbrite, what DMs they're getting on a regular basis, and their performance anxiety in bed. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
No Fake Orgasms, More Masturbating, & Other Sex New Year Resolutions
February 13, 2020 08:00It may be February, but it's not too late to get through your New Year's Sex Resolutions! Raya is joined by sex blogger Ashley Cobb to run down the top resolutions everyone should follow in 2020 for a happier and healthier sex life! Tips include stop faking orgasms, don't be ashamed to get tested, build up your leg stamina for dick-riding, and so much more! For more on Ashley and her advice, check out her blog here! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories...
How Does Trauma Affect Our Relationships?
February 06, 2020 08:00 - 48 minutesThis week, Raya is joined via phone by Jimanekia Eborn AKA The Trauma Queen, who has worked in the mental health field for 12 years, specializing in sexual education and sexual trauma support. Raya and Jimanekia define trauma as being more than just physical and how it can affect every type of relationship. Jimanekia also explains how to navigate your sexuality and future relationships after a traumatic event. Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you w...
How Trauma Affects Our Relationships
February 06, 2020 08:00 - 48 minutesThis week, I had the incredible Jimanekia Eborn AKA The Trauma Queen on the show. They have worked in the mental health field for 12 years, specializing in sexual education and sexual trauma support. We discuss the many ways to define trauma and how it can affect every type of relationship. Jimanekia also explains how to navigate your sexuality and future relationships after a traumatic event. For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Are Men Really Bad at Dating?
January 30, 2020 08:00John Kim, licensed therapist/relationship coach and founder of life coaching intensive, JRNI, joins Raya to discuss the generalizations surrounding men in dating - everything from 'are men truly bad at relationships?' or 'are men less emotionally available?' Raya and John also address the pressures placed upon young men in society and how it affects how they interact with their partners once they enter relationships. Plus, the two chat about swipe culture and if Millennials are worst at commi...
Are Straight Men Actually "Bad" at Dating?
January 30, 2020 08:00 - 42 minutesJohn Kim, licensed therapist/relationship coach and founder of life coaching intensive, JRNI, joins Raya to discuss the generalizations surrounding men in dating - everything from 'are men truly bad at relationships?' or 'are men less emotionally available?' Raya and John also address the pressures placed upon young men in society and how it affects how they interact with their partners once they enter relationships. Plus, the two chat about swipe culture and if Millennials are worst at commi...
Best Of Was That Good For You? - Part 2
December 19, 2019 08:00In the final episode of the year, Raya picks some of the best moments from the later episodes of the season. She and some memorable guests explore masturbation, number of sexual partners, age differences and tons of other hilarious and incredible stories. Stay tuned for more WTGFY in 2020! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give Raya a call at (424) 245-5102 or email her at WTGFYPo...
Best Of Was That Good For You? - Part 1
December 12, 2019 08:00As the year wraps up, Raya reminisces on some of the best, craziest, and sexiest moments from this past year! Raya recaps episodes 1-9 and some of the most memorable moments to happen in studio. This year, Raya and her guests have covered a ton of sex-related topics like porn, sexting, as well as deeper relationship topics like emotional availability and dating in the modern age. What will sex and dating in 2020 look like? Raya will be there to cover (and uncover) it all! And stay tuned next ...
Spirituality in Sex and Relationships
December 05, 2019 08:00 - 48 minutesModern mystic Meghan Rose joins Raya this week to explore where spirituality fits into sex and dating in our modern world. Meghan explains how being able to balance energies is crucial in any physical and romantic connection and how working on yourself is the most important action you can take before trying to enter into any romantic relationship. Word of the Day: Tantric Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestion...
Spirituality in Sex and Relationships with Meghan Rose
December 05, 2019 08:00 - 48 minutesSpirituality advisor and tarotscopes writer for Glamour Magazine Meghan Rose joins me this week to explore where spirituality fits into sex and dating. Meghan explains how being able to balance energies is crucial in any physical and romantic connection and how working on yourself is the most important action you can take before trying to enter into any romantic relationship. Word of the Day: Tantric For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adch...
Open Relationships, Polyamory & Modern Love
November 28, 2019 08:00Non-monogamy, threesomes and more on modern love are explored in this week's episode. Raya is joined by entertainer & makeup artist Julia Fae to discuss the best and worst about dating in this day and age. They chat about how the internet has made it much easier to find people that share your kink and how "rules” for relationships are slowly fading away, which they both agree is a good thing! Word of the Day: Polyamory Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stor...
Open Relationships & Modern Love
November 28, 2019 08:00 - 47 minutesNon-monogamy, threesomes and more on modern love are explored in this week's episode. I'm joined by my friend Julia Fae, who identifies as polyamorous, to discuss the best and worst about dating in the modern world. We chat about how the internet has made it much easier to find people that share your kink and how antiquated "rules” for relationships are slowly fading away. Word of the Day: Polyamory For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adcho...
Dating and Sex Horror Stories
November 21, 2019 08:00Savannah Mills and Chelsea Roth join Raya this week to swap embarrassing sex and dating stories that have either led to ghosting, injury or shame. Raya kicks things off with a steamy shower session that ended in her passed out on the floor. Chelsea then talks about how her date found an embarrassing Google search. Savannah shoots back with the time she told the guy she was dating "I love you" way too early into the relationship. Plus tons of other stories that will make you cringe! Word of th...
Debunking Sex Myths and Lies
November 20, 2019 18:07Music producer and amateur furniture-maker Matt Beckley joins Raya to dispel some myths and lies surrounding the world of sex and relationships: Does playing hard-to-get really work? Is rebound sex the perfect way to get over someone? Matt and Raya break down the questions and use their own past experiences to finally put some relationship urban legends to rest. Word of the Day: Figging Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you ...
The Lies We Tell Ourselves In Relationships
November 20, 2019 18:07 - 48 minutesMusic producer Matt Beckley joins me to dispel some myths and lies surrounding the world of sex and relationships: Does playing hard-to-get really work? Is rebound sex the perfect way to get over someone? We break down these questions and use our own past experiences to finally put some relationship urban legends to rest. Word of the Day: Figging For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Is Cheating Ever Forgivable?
November 07, 2019 08:00 - 51 minutesToday I'm joined by my friend Summer Thomas to discuss why people cheat and how it can lead to trust issues. Summer recounts the times she was cheated on and how she's still recovering from the damage. After that, we discuss what the line is between innocent flirting and full-on cheating. Word of the Day: Axilism For more on on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Have Fun With Sex Toys
October 31, 2019 07:00This week, Dana Savage, the founder of Tango, a revolutionary sex toy company that caters to all genders, orientations and genitalia, to talk about the current state of sex toys and the many misconceptions that keep people away from sex toys all together. Plus, Dana and Raya explore why there is a stigma against men using sex toys and how all of that might be changing thanks to the "eating ass" movement. Word of the Day: Anal Beads Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any ...
Integrating Toys Into Your Sex Life
October 31, 2019 07:00 - 48 minutesThis week I had the amazing Dana Savage on! Dana is the founder of Tango, a revolutionary sex toy company that caters to all genders, orientations and genitalia. We talk about the current state of sex toys and the many misconceptions that keep people away from them all together. Plus, we discuss why there is a stigma against men using sex toys and how all of that might be changing thanks to the "eating ass" movement. Word of the Day: Anal Beads For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about y...
Integrating Sex Toys Into Your Life
October 31, 2019 07:00 - 48 minutesThis week, Dana Savage, the founder of Tango, a revolutionary sex toy company that caters to all genders, orientations and genitalia, to talk about the current state of sex toys and the many misconceptions that keep people away from sex toys all together. Plus, Dana and Raya explore why there is a stigma against men using sex toys and how all of that might be changing thanks to the "eating ass" movement. Word of the Day: Anal Beads Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any ...
Special Edition: Answering YOUR Sex Questions - LIVE at Los Angeles Comic Con!
October 24, 2019 07:00In the first live "Was That Good For You", Raya and her guests, musician Brasko and best friend Gabriella Sibaja, talk about kinks in front of a live audience at the 2019 L.A. Comic Con on the Studio71 stage! Raya, Brasko and Gabby answer fan-submitted questions about unusual fetishes potentially turning off a partner and the shame in telling a new partner that you are a virgin. Word of the Day: Queening Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to...