Was That Good For You?
139 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 282 ratingsWas That Good For You? is a guide to all things sex and relationships. Every week, sex educator Raya Carmona talks openly and honestly with guests on topics ranging from navigating interracial dating to normalizing kinks in the bedroom to the trajectory of becoming a sugar baby. Through candid conversations with friends as well as interviews with leaders in the sexual health field, this show works to destigmatize the sexual journey we are all on. Recurring guests include Raya’s partner Kelen Capener and her best friend Gabby, who help answer listener-submitted sex and relationship questions. For more, follow the show on Instagram at @wasthatgoodforyou.
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Episodes
Is Cheating In Past Relationships A Dealbreaker? - Q&A
April 07, 2023 07:00 - 45 minutesWe tackle so many unique questions on this week's Q&A and there's truly something for everyone. One listener is looking for tips on diving into kink for the first time, while someone else wonders if their new boyfriend following Instagram models is a red flag. We also dive into navigating overly-friendly exes as well as whether or not cheating in the past should worry a new partner. Follow Gabby & I on Instagram! instagram.com/rayacarmona instagram.com/gabbysibaja Follow Raya: Twitter: @...
Social Media's Effect On Relationships
March 31, 2023 07:00 - 1 hourThis is my first round table episode in over a year! On this week's episode, I had two of my favorite couples over to discuss social media and its effects on relationships. We chat through the pressure to seem perfect, posting about break ups, how to drown out the opinions of others and so much more. Listen to the end for a tangent (although an extremely enlightening one) about navigating another layer of complication: when one person in a partnership has ADHD. Follow everyone below! instag...
Sex 101: Back To Basics
March 17, 2023 07:00 - 34 minutesIt's okay to be early on in your sexual journey than others. We don't shame around here! If you feel like you need a refresher on sex education, looking for some tips & tricks to be better in bed or are simply just starting out - this is the episode for you! Get tested for STIs here: https://gettested.cdc.gov/ Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don’t forget to subscribe to the podcast for free wh...
Sometimes NOT Communicating Is The Answer - SOLO!
March 03, 2023 08:00 - 37 minutesOn this month's solo episode, I discuss how important emotion regulation has become to me, for myself and for the sake of my relationship. I also talk about how sometimes forbearance is the right choice over open communication and how to keep a spark alive even in a long-term relationship. Give it a listen and let me know what you think! Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don’t forget to subscribe...
Navigating Desire Differences & Owning Your Vanilla-ness feat. Yana Tallon-Hicks
February 24, 2023 08:00 - 54 minutesI had couples & relationships therapist, consent, sex & sexuality writer and educator Yana Tallon-Hicks on the show this week! We discussed how to navigate desire differences in a relationship, understanding the root of your kinks, how your sex life affects the rest of our life and why it's okay to own your vanilla-ness even in this new ultra sex-positive world! Get Yana's new book "Hot & Unbothered" here! https://yanatallonhicks.com/preorder/ Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: ...
You Can't Punish Someone For Not Loving You - Q&A
February 17, 2023 08:00 - 42 minutesThis month's Q&A is one of those episodes where there's something for everyone. If any of the advice you hear today might resonate with someone you know, send it along for the greater good of humanity! We answer questions such as: What should I do about a friend who's too flirty with my partner? If a guy is too nice, should I worry he'll eventually become a "Wife Guy?" How do I handle an ex who is punishing me simply for ending things? Give this episode a listen to hear the answers to these a...
Vaginal Health 101 feat. The Yoni Nutritionist
January 20, 2023 08:00 - 49 minutesI had Adrienne, also known as The Yoni Nutritionist, on the show today for a crash course in vaginal and sexual health. Adrienne is a certified nutritional practitioner who specializes in holistic nutrition & wellness for common, chronic vaginal infections like yeast infections, candida overgrowth, bacterial vaginosis, UTI’s, and STI's. We talk about the medicinal struggle for people with vaginas, the importance of diet and stress and how they may be affecting you more than you realize and so...
Having The Safe Sex Conversation feat. Safe Slut
January 13, 2023 08:00 - 50 minutesThis week I had the incredible Tricia Wise, also known as Safe Slut, on the show. We talked about life with genital herpes, how reiki can help heal sexual traumas and navigating the safe sex conversation. Tricia and I discuss red flags when it comes to talking about STIs and the importance of setting clear boundaries with people. See more from Tricia here! https://www.safeslut.shop/about Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on...
The Emotional Side of Being a Cam Girl feat. Banksie
December 30, 2022 08:00 - 59 minutesI had award-winning global CamStar, Lindsey Banks, on the show today. Banksie, who is a veteran in the adult industry, has also been on multiple panels, hosted seminars and works as a voice for cam girls, sex workers and Latinx creators in the community. We discuss her career trajectory, incorporating virtual reality into sex work, the emotional side of camming and so much more. Get more from Banksie here! https://www.banksietv.com/about-me Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @ra...
Boyfriend Is Too Big, Navigating Pronouns Around Family, & Snooping Gone Wrong - Q&A!
December 23, 2022 08:00 - 40 minutesFor our last Q&A of the year, Gabby and I tackle a ton of listener-submitted questions! We discuss how to work around a penis that's too big, navigating a partner's pronouns around family during the holidays, and why the classic saying "Those who look will find" is so true when it comes to snooping. Follow Gabby! https://linktr.ee/gabbysibaja Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don’t forget to sub...
Overcoming Sexual Anxiety feat. Dr. Tara
December 16, 2022 08:00 - 46 minutesI had the incredible Dr. Tara on the show today to discuss overcoming sexual anxiety. Dr. Tara is a tenured professor of relational and sexual communication at California State University Fullerton, an award-winning researcher, sex and relationship coach, and the host of the Luvbites podcast. We also discuss the idea that dating is a learned skill and the importance of prioritizing pleasure over performance. Learn more from Dr. Tara here! https://www.luvbites.co/ Follow Raya: Instagram: @ra...
Addictive Relationships & The Need For Validation - SOLO
December 09, 2022 08:00 - 37 minutesThis is an episode that starts off as one thing, goes into an entirely different thing and then somehow comes full circle and works relatively cohesively. C'est la vie. I discuss the science behind why unhealthy relationships can be so addicting, our need for validation and how it can be traced back to childhood, the importance of rejecting normalcy, and why it's cool to be a piece of shit. Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast...
Dating While Trans, Bisexuality, & Navigating Fetishization
December 02, 2022 08:00 - 1 hourKristofer and I became online friends over the pandemic and after reading his essay "Dad Used To Have Boobs (And They Were Kind Of Big)," I knew I wanted to have him on the show. Kristofer is a comic, screenwriter, and Twitter personality, and today he joined me to discuss his experience dating while trans, our thoughts on the nuance of bisexuality and navigating fetishization on dating apps. Follow Kristofer here! https://twitter.com/kristoferthomas?s=21&t=vxcmCnT7mVkz1WhD7VIo9g Follow Ra...
How To Give Better Oral, Car Sex 101 & When To Call It Quits - Q&A!
November 25, 2022 08:00 - 49 minutesGabby is back for this month's listener-submitted Q&A and let me tell you - this is a crazy one. We got more personal than ever while discussing the best blowjob techniques and how to make car sex amazing (I told the story about the time I had spite sex in a berry field). We also answered some more serious questions involving sexual compatibility, being new to queer dating and when to keep fighting in a relationship versus calling it quits. Follow Gabby on Instagram: https://www.instagram.c...
Boyfriend Is Too Big, Navigating Pronouns Around Family & Snooping Gone Wrong - Q&A!
November 18, 2022 08:00 - 40 minutesFor our last Q&A of the year, Gabby and I tackle a ton of listener-submitted questions! We discuss how to work around a penis that's too big, navigating a partner's pronouns around family during the holidays, and why the classic saying "Those who look will find" is so true when it comes to snooping. Follow Gabby! https://linktr.ee/gabbysibaja Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channel Don’t forget to sub...
The Art Of The Dominatrix
November 11, 2022 08:00 - 1 hourI had professional dominatrix Lucy Sweetkill on the show today to walk us through life as a dominatrix with over 10 years of experience. From how she got started to the power dynamics around dungeons, this episode feels like a crash course on the world of professional BDSM. Lucy also explains the art of mindful domination, boundary setting and healing trauma through kink. Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's...
A Conversation With My Ex!
November 04, 2022 07:00 - 46 minutesThis was one of the most fun episodes I've ever recorded on the show. I invited my ex (and now very good friend) Chris to join me for a very candid conversation about our previous relationship. We broke up many years ago, and although it was quite a serious relationship, looking back with the hindsight and maturity that time has given us was so interesting. We also discuss the nuance to being friends with someone you were once in a partnership with, and why it doesn't always work out as well ...
The Glamorization Of Stripping, Escorting & Online Sex Work
October 28, 2022 07:00 - 58 minutesMy good friend Cici joins me today to chat about all things sex work. Cici has spent time as a dancer, an escort and an OnlyFans creator, so we discuss the pros and cons of doing one type of sex work versus another. We also talk through the difficulties that can arise behind the scenes in the world of stripping as well as how our work on OnlyFans has actually helped us create better boundaries in real life. Follow Cici on Instagram at instagram.com/spicycowgal Follow Raya: Instagram: @raya...
Keeping An Ex's Nudes, How To Ask For Better Sex, Watching Gay Porn - Q&A!
October 21, 2022 07:00 - 47 minutesGabby joins the show for our first monthly Q&A of the season and we've got some wild listener-submitted questions. How unethical is it to masturbate to an ex's nudes? Does watching gay porn make me gay? How do I ask for better sex without upsetting my partner? We answer all of that and more on today's episode! Follow Gabby on Instagram at instagram.com/gabbysibaja Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayacarmona To watch the podcast on YouTube: Raya's Channe...
Life With Herpes feat. Suzbub
October 14, 2022 07:00 - 1 hourOf all the STIs, why does herpes carry such a heavy stigma? When did it become the sexual boogeyman? Suzanna Brusikiewicz is determined to change that. In 2021, she came out publicly about having HSV2 and has been working ever since to spread awareness as well as unconditional love and self-acceptance. Alongside her work as a sensual guide, Suz works to help people reclaim their sensuality and let go of society's judgements. See more from Suzanna here: https://www.suzbub.com/ Follow Raya: ...
The Media is Making Your Sex Worse
October 07, 2022 07:00 - 52 minutesNo one knows marketing and media more than this week’s guest and my good friend Kristi. We met during our time working at Playboy, so we kick off the episode by discussing the #1 question we used to get: Where is line between objectification and sexual empowerment? We also talk about the harmful effects of porn & romcoms, the times we let media dictate our sex lives and the importance of intimacy coordinators on set. Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @rayacarmona TikTok: @rayaca...
The Pressure Of Perfection - SOLO EP!
September 30, 2022 07:00 - 42 minutesIt's my first episode of the new season! Solo episodes are hard for me. I suffer from serious imposter syndrome. As you can see from the title of the episode, this is basically a stream of consciousness in regards to the pressure I (and most people) put on ourselves - whether that's in relationships, the bedroom, or just life in general. I talk about accepting every version of myself and the pressure to perform on social media. We get deep. Follow Raya: Instagram: @rayacarmona Twitter: @raya...
Chatting With A Sugar Baby
May 27, 2021 07:00 - 42 minutesThis week, I had Christina Kim - an LA-based sugar baby and entrepreneur on the show. We discuss the misconceptions around sugaring and the importance of giving the pros and cons to women interested in seeking arrangements. Christina explains why she decided to become a sugar baby herself, as well as how it has propelled her to live out her most authentic life - and become the CEO of her own company. We also discuss the importance of knowing the risks involved and how to be confident and set ...
Sugar Baby 101
May 27, 2021 07:00 - 42 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by Christina Kim - an LA-based sugar baby, entrepreneur, and founder of Agency LA. Christina and Raya discuss the misconceptions around sugaring and the importance of giving the right information for women interested in seeking arrangements. Christina explains why she decided to become a sugar baby herself, as well as how it has propelled her to live out her most authentic life - and become the CEO of a company. Christina and Raya also discuss the importance of knowi...
Dating Through Zoom, Setting Boundaries & More feat. Yamini Nambimadom
May 13, 2021 07:00 - 50 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by LA-based comedian and podcast host Yamini Nambimadom. Yamini takes Raya through her almost year-long relationship that started during the pandemic and has been entirely had via Zoom, texting & FaceTime. They also chat about how quarantine has helped people learn to be more honest, set boundaries, and possibly may even lead to safer sex. Listen to Yamini's podcast here. Do you have suggestions for any future topics? Drop Raya an email at [email protected] and ...
Co-Creative vs. Performative Sex
April 22, 2021 07:00 - 51 minutesThis week, I'm joined by Portia - the founder & creator of Froetic Sexology. We discuss the ways in which we were taught about sex as well as how it can be improved for generations going forward. Portia explains how to bring mindfulness and meditation practices into sexual experiences, and how it can lead to even better orgasms. Toward the end, we dive deep into the importance of looking at sex as a co-creative experience versus a performance, which we find many women and femmes struggle with...
Better Sex (& Love) Through MDMA
April 08, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutesThis week, I'm so excited to be joined by Charles & Shelley Wininger. Over the past 20 years, Charley, 71 years old, and Shelley, 69 years old, have found MDMA to act as a kind of romantic glue for them. They've used it intentionally to enhance and deepen their bond, with its positive effects on their marriage accumulating over time. They explain that they’ve done MDMA carefully and responsibly together over 70 times. We chat through how the drug has rejuvenated them both emotionally and sexu...
Being A Nasty Woman
April 01, 2021 07:00 - 1 hourI had porn collage artist Lisa Be and photographer Rina Mov on to discuss what it means to be a "nasty woman." We debate the best time to start being open about bodily functions with a new partner as well as the standards women are held to when it comes to those things. We also discuss why men are uncomfortable around women who openly like sex and swap stories of the times we've had to get "nasty" in front of our sexual partners. For more Lisa & Rina For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more a...
Revisiting - Quarantined? Time to Explore Your Body, Guys!
December 17, 2020 08:00It's been a long year, and with a vaccine on the horizon, it's time to look back at the start of the pandemic. Raya gives advice on how to fill your time during quarantine. Enjoy! From the original episode: In her first solo episode, Raya listens to fan-submitted voicemails from men who have used sex toys, either with a partner or with masturbation. Raya explores the stigma surrounding men using sex toys for self-pleasure and we hear some crazy stories involving improvised sex toys, using sub...
Discussing Kink With A 24/7 Collared Submissive
December 10, 2020 08:00 - 54 minutesThis week, I chat with BDSM educator & 24/7 collared submissive Lina Dune to dispel some myths surrounding BDSM and the kink community, including how safe it is, how it stresses consent and communication, and how aspects of kink can help with everyone's sexual experiences, even those not interested in BDSM. Check out Lina's Patreon here! For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Inside the BDSM World: Ask a Submissive ft. Lina Dune
December 10, 2020 08:00 - 54 minutesThis week, Raya talks with BDSM educator & 24/7 collared submissive Lina Dune to dispel some myths surrounding BDSM and the kink community, including how safe it is, how it stresses consent and communication, and how aspects of kink can help with everyone's sexual experiences, even those not interested in BDSM. Check out Lina's Patreon here! Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex stories you want to share? Or do you have suggestions for any future topics? Give R...
Revisiting - Masturbation ft. Georgie Leahy
December 04, 2020 08:00This week, Raya revisits a classic episode that deals with masturbation. Listen alone or with a partner, up to you! From the original episode: Entertainer, actress, and fire-breather Georgie Leahy joins Raya to talk about everyone's favorite subject: Masturbating! Georgie and Raya explore the many differences between the way women and men masturbate. They also discuss how awkward it can be to masturbate in front of a partner, why having more sex actually drives women to masturbate more, plus ...
Rockstars, Repression & Religion ft. Bonavega
November 26, 2020 08:00This week, Raya is joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's found himself through his music, including not conforming to any gender or sexuality norms and even the subject matter he sings about, as well as how this personal exploration has actually led to healthier relationships. Listen to Bonavega's music here! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by v...
Repression & Religion
November 26, 2020 08:00 - 49 minutesThis week, I'm joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's found himself through his music, including not conforming to any gender or sexuality norms and even the subject matter he sings about, as well as how this personal exploration has actually led to healthier relationships. Listen to Bonavega's music here! For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Repression & Religion ft. Bonavega
November 26, 2020 08:00 - 49 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by musician Bonavega to discuss coming from a religious background and breaking out of that shell. Bonavega details how he's found himself through his music, including not conforming to any gender or sexuality norms and even the subject matter he sings about, as well as how this personal exploration has actually led to healthier relationships. Listen to Bonavega's music here! Was That Good For You Merch Drop 1 is still available, but going fast! Support the show by v...
Writing Songs About Exes & Being A Bad B*tch feat. almondmilkhunni
November 19, 2020 08:00 - 51 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by musician almondmilkhunni to discuss her dating life and explosive career, the pressure she feels from being on social media, and how she became a de facto voice for dancers and sex workers. Almondmilkhunni also weighs in on the divide among OnlyFans users and she explains why she avoids dating men whose sign is cancer. Listen to almondmilkhunni's music here: https://open.spotify.com/artist/778bhPsYwr6sAELsBBX8MC?si=TRtIl2gaSG--bHqz-hBktw As a listener, you’ll get...
Writing Songs About Exes with almondmilkhunni
November 19, 2020 08:00 - 51 minutesThis week, I had my friend and musician almondmilkhunni on discuss her dating life and explosive career, the pressure she feels from being on social media, and how she became a de facto voice for dancers and sex workers. We also discuss the divide among OnlyFans users and she explains why she avoids dating Cancer men. Listen to almondmilkhunni's music here: https://open.spotify.com/artist/778bhPsYwr6sAELsBBX8MC?si=TRtIl2gaSG--bHqz-hBktw As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by v...
Doomsturbating & Beginner Sex Toys with Gabrielle Kassel
November 13, 2020 08:00 - 43 minutesThis week, I talk with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kassel to chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explains where and how a beginner user can start incorporating toys, and gives her recommendations for toys you may have never heard of. We also discuss Doomsturbating, talking about sex outside of the bedroom, and how Covid may make conversations about STI testing easier in the future. Sex Toys & Companies mentioned on this episode: Cute Little Fuck...
Sex Toys You’ve Never Heard Of, Doomsturbating & Having The STI Talk
November 13, 2020 08:00This week, Raya talks with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kassel to chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explains where and how a beginner user can start incorporating toys, and gives her recommendations for toys you may have never heard of. Gabrielle and Raya also discuss Doomsturbating, talking about sex outside of the bedroom, and how Covid may make conversations about STI testing easier in the future. Sex Toys & Companies mentioned on this episo...
Sex Toys, Doomsturbating, STI's & More feat. Gabrielle Kassel
November 13, 2020 08:00 - 43 minutesThis week, Raya talks with sex journalist and sex toy enthusiast Gabrielle Kassel to chat about masturbation, sex toys, and so much more. Gabrielle explains where and how a beginner user can start incorporating toys, and gives her recommendations for toys you may have never heard of. Gabrielle and Raya also discuss Doomsturbating, talking about sex outside of the bedroom, and how Covid may make conversations about STI testing easier in the future. Sex Toys & Companies mentioned on this episo...
Ethical Non-Monogamy 101 with Gabrielle Smith
November 05, 2020 08:00 - 52 minutesThis week, writer and polyamory ethical non-monogamy resource Gabrielle Smith joins me to discuss how to navigate opening a relationship to polyamory and/or ethical non-monogamy and how to set appropriate boundaries to ensure success in your relationship. We chat about the issues that don't allow people to comprehend opening a relationship, including insecurity and pressure, and why we're conditioned societally to think that jealousy is just a part of being with someone. As a listener, you’ll...
Ethical Non-Monogamy 101 feat. Gabrielle Smith
November 05, 2020 08:00 - 52 minutesThis week, writer and polyamory ethical non-monogamy resource Gabrielle Smith talks with Raya about how to navigate opening a relationship to polyamory and/or ethical non-monogamy and how to set appropriate boundaries to ensure success in your relationship. They discuss the issues that don't allow people to comprehend opening a relationship, including insecurity and pressure, and why we're conditioned societally to think that jealousy is just a part of being with someone. As a listener, you’l...
How The Media Affects Our Sex
October 22, 2020 07:00 - 53 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by repeat (and very first!) podcast guest Kristi Beck to discuss the misrepresentation of sexuality, namely the female experience, in television and movies, and how we've all been negatively influenced by terrible sex cliches. They also talk about how the media has pressured everyone into thinking they have to constantly be a relationship and the standards we see every day can lead to performance issues for both men and women. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your f...
Sex Magick, Witchcraft & The Goddess
October 08, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by author and certified witch Gabriela Herstik to discuss Sex Magick (not to be confused with "magic") and how sexual energy is crucial in her work. They also explore how Magick can work for everyone in their everyday lives, no matter what your background or what you believe in, and how to get a handle on your energies to find success. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! Have a question or comment on today's topic...
Sex Magick & Witchcraft
October 08, 2020 07:00 - 53 minutesThis week, I had author and certified witch Gabriela Herstik on to discuss Sex Magick (not to be confused with "magic") and how sexual energy is crucial in her work. We also explore how Magick can work for everyone in their everyday lives, no matter what your background or what you believe in, and how to use your energies to find love and success. As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou! For more on IG: @rayacarmona Learn more about your ad ch...
Cuckolding, The Importance Of Sex Ed & More With Liz Goldwyn
October 01, 2020 07:00This week, Raya is joined by author filmmaker, and host of "The Sex Ed" Podcast, Liz Goldwyn and they discuss how there is no such thing as a late bloomer, the many short-comings of even modern sex education toward young people, and why most of the concepts around virginity are just social constructs. Plus, Liz answers some fan-submitted questions, including how to explore new avenues of sex with your partner & whether you should sleep with your ex (spoiler alert: you probably shouldn't). As ...
Cuckolding, Sex Ed & More With Liz Goldwyn
October 01, 2020 07:00 - 55 minutesThis week, I'm joined by author and host of "The Sex Ed" Podcast, Liz Goldwyn to discuss how there is no such thing as a late bloomer, the many short-comings of modern sex education, and why most of the concepts around virginity are just social constructs. Plus, Liz answers some listener-submitted questions, including how to explore new avenues of sex with your partner & whether you should sleep with your ex (spoiler alert: you probably shouldn't). As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first...
Cuckolding & More With Liz Goldwyn
October 01, 2020 07:00 - 55 minutesThis week, Raya is joined by author filmmaker, and host of "The Sex Ed" Podcast, Liz Goldwyn and they discuss how there is no such thing as a late bloomer, the many short-comings of even modern sex education toward young people, and why most of the concepts around virginity are just social constructs. Plus, Liz answers some fan-submitted questions, including how to explore new avenues of sex with your partner & whether you should sleep with your ex (spoiler alert: you probably shouldn't). As ...
“Hot Guy” Stereotypes: The Rockstar
September 24, 2020 07:00 - 56 minutesThis week, I chat with musician Ryan Scott Graham, a member of State Champs (and Gabby's boyfriend)! We talk about why people fall for musicians, what that does to their egos and personalities, and Ryan's personal experiences on how his life completely changed when he became a musician, including how being left on read was a thing of the past. Follow Ryan: Instagram.com/ryanscottgraham As a listener, you’ll get 10% off your first month by visiting betterhelp.com/goodforyou For more on IG: @r...
The Hot Guy Musician Stereotype
September 24, 2020 07:00This week, Raya talks with Ryan Scott Graham, musician and all-around hot guy musician, to talk about how people fall for musicians, what that does to their egos and personalities, and Ryan's personal experiences on how his life completely changed when he became a musician, including how being left on read was a thing of the past. Follow Ryan: Instagram.com/ryanscottgraham Follow his band: instagram.com/statechampsny Have a question or comment on today's topic? Do you have any wild sex storie...