Pure Desire Podcast
632 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 609 ratingsA weekly podcast helping you take back your life from the effects of unwanted sexual behavior and betrayal trauma.
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065 - Leading Conquer Groups
October 02, 2018 16:30 - 34 minutes - 31.3 MBWe talk through 6 tips (and a bonus) on leading Conquer Series groups. We discuss leading by example, shaming in group, relationship with God, confidentiality, and more. RESOURCES CONQUER SERIES KIT CONQUER SERIES TRAINING & PROMOTIONAL VIDEOS GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Insta...
Episode 064 - Social Media Minefield
September 25, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 57.5 MBWe talk about maneuvering through the minefield of social media. We discuss how social media can be detrimental to our sexual integrity. We also talk through things to avoid, the positives of social media, and what being a healthy social media user looks like. RESOURCES TECH ACTION PLAN
064 - Social Media Minefield
September 25, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MBWe talk about maneuvering through the minefield of social media. We discuss how social media can be detrimental to our sexual integrity. We also talk through things to avoid, the positives of social media, and what being a healthy social media user looks like. RESOURCES TECH ACTION PLAN GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS...
063 - Stories Of Healing: Patty Moreno
September 18, 2018 16:44 - 47 minutes - 43.5 MBWe hear Patty Moreno's story of healing from her husband's unfaithfulness. She talks through how God used the refuse in her life and marriage to create a renewed relationship with her husband and a restored ministry in the kingdom. RESOURCES BETRAYAL & BEYOND KIT FASTER SCALE TOOL RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A P...
Episode 063 - Stories Of Healing: Patty Moreno
September 18, 2018 16:44 - 47 minutes - 65.1 MBWe hear Patty Moreno's story of healing from her husband's unfaithfulness. She talks through how God used the refuse in her life and marriage to create a renewed relationship with her husband and a restored ministry in the kingdom. RESOURCES BETRAYAL & BEYOND KIT FASTER SCALE TOOL RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE)
Episode 062 – Bringing Hope & Freedom
September 11, 2018 16:30 - 39 minutes - 54 MBWe hear from Pure Desire's Advancement Specialist and pastor, Rodney Wright. This episode is Rodney's message titled: Bringing Hope & Freedom.
062 – Bringing Hope & Freedom
September 11, 2018 16:30 - 39 minutes - 36.1 MBWe hear from Pure Desire's Advancement Specialist and pastor, Rodney Wright. This episode is Rodney's message titled: Bringing Hope & Freedom. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Follow us on X (Twitter)
061 – FAQ #5
September 04, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 37.9 MBWe talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like relapse and consequences, generationally passing addiction down, the role of Group Leaders in groups, comparing traumas, and more. Email your question to: [email protected] Use the subject line: PD PODCAST DM/Message us RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL CRASH SITE ANALYSIS RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (ADDICTED SPOUSE) RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE) PURE DESIRE by Dr. Ted Roberts GET ST...
Episode 061 – FAQ #5
September 04, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 56.7 MBWe talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like relapse and consequences, generationally passing addiction down, the role of Group Leaders in groups, comparing traumas, and more. Email your question to: [email protected] Use the subject line: PD PODCAST DM/Message us RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL CRASH SITE ANALYSIS RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (ADDICTED SPOUSE) RECOVERY ACTION PLAN (BETRAYED SPOUSE) PURE DESIRE by Dr. Ted Roberts
060 – Arousal Template
August 28, 2018 16:07 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MBWe talk through the Arousal Template tool. We discuss what the tool is, the 5 steps to using it, and how it helps us create a game plan for sustained sobriety. We also talk through the length of use for this tool, who you should share it with, and more. RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM UNRAVELED (WOMEN’S RESOURCE REPLACING EIGHT PILLARS TO FREEDOM) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your F...
Episode 060 – Arousal Template
August 28, 2018 16:07 - 45 minutes - 62.3 MBWe talk through the Arousal Template tool. We discuss what the tool is, the 5 steps to using it, and how it helps us create a game plan for sustained sobriety. We also talk through the length of use for this tool, who you should share it with, and more. RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM UNRAVELED (WOMEN’S RESOURCE REPLACING EIGHT PILLARS TO FREEDOM)
Episode 059 – Triggers
August 21, 2018 16:30 - 36 minutes - 49.6 MBWe talk about triggers for sexual addiction. We discuss the different types of triggers and how we can identify them, if these triggers stay constant in life, the role of group accountability, and more. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE 3 CIRCLES TOOL
059 – Triggers
August 21, 2018 16:30 - 36 minutes - 33.1 MBWe talk about triggers for sexual addiction. We discuss the different types of triggers and how we can identify them, if these triggers stay constant in life, the role of group accountability, and more. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE 3 CIRCLES TOOL GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagra...
058 – Misconceptions Of Marriage
August 14, 2018 16:30 - 37 minutes - 34.2 MBWe discuss 7 common misconceptions on marriage. We discuss misconceptions like: sex will always be good, your spouse will complete you, you can change your spouse, my spouse's health is my responsibility, and more. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Follow us on X (Twitter)
Episode 058 – Misconceptions Of Marriage
August 14, 2018 16:30 - 37 minutes - 51.1 MBWe discuss 7 common misconceptions on marriage. We discuss misconceptions like: sex will always be good, your spouse will complete you, you can change your spouse, my spouse's health is my responsibility, and more.
057 – Sex During Recovery
August 07, 2018 16:30 - 48 minutes - 44.5 MBWe discuss the role of sex during recovery from sexual addiction. We talk through if it's ok to withhold sex during recovery, how to increase emotional intimacy, how periods of abstinence can help your marriage, and more. RESOURCES LOVE MAPS CARDS by The Gottman Institute GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on ...
Episode 057 – Sex During Recovery
August 07, 2018 16:30 - 48 minutes - 66.6 MBWe discuss the role of sex during recovery from sexual addiction. We talk through if it's ok to withhold sex during recovery, how to increase emotional intimacy, how periods of abstinence can help your marriage, and more. RESOURCES LOVE MAPS CARDS by The Gottman Institute
056 – Behind The Mask
July 31, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 37.9 MBWe talk about our resources and groups available for young women, Behind the Mask. We discuss who the group is for and what the main message is behind the resource. We also talk through why having these groups for young women is so important, how to get groups started, how to develop leaders, and more. RESOURCES BEHIND THE MASK GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation J...
Episode 056 – Behind The Mask
July 31, 2018 16:30 - 41 minutes - 56.8 MBWe talk about our resources and groups available for young women, Behind the Mask. We discuss who the group is for and what the main message is behind the resource. We also talk through why having these groups for young women is so important, how to get groups started, how to develop leaders, and more. RESOURCES BEHIND THE MASK
Episode 055 – Stories Of Healing: Paul Zunker
July 24, 2018 16:30 - 35 minutes - 48.9 MBWe hear Paul Zunker's story of healing from sexual addiction. He talks through the depths of his addiction, the legal issues that it created, and what failed attempts he had made to break free from his addiction. He also shares when it all started to click, how he found freedom, and what life looks like now with freedom from his addiction. RESOURCES SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM
055 – Stories Of Healing: Paul Zunker
July 24, 2018 16:30 - 35 minutes - 32.7 MBWe hear Paul Zunker's story of healing from sexual addiction. He talks through the depths of his addiction, the legal issues that it created, and what failed attempts he had made to break free from his addiction. He also shares when it all started to click, how he found freedom, and what life looks like now with freedom from his addiction. RESOURCES SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule...
Episode 054 – Nightly Routines
July 17, 2018 16:30 - 29 minutes - 40 MBWe talk through 6 healthy nightly routines and how they help in our overall health. We discuss device use, protecting your sleep, planning ahead, meditation, gratitude, and eating habits in regards to how they benefit our holistic health.
054 – Nightly Routines
July 17, 2018 16:30 - 29 minutes - 26.7 MBWe talk through 6 healthy nightly routines and how they help in our overall health. We discuss device use, protecting your sleep, planning ahead, meditation, gratitude, and eating habits in regards to how they benefit our holistic health. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook Follow us on Instagram Fo...
Episode 053 – Creating Healthy Guardrails
July 10, 2018 16:30 - 44 minutes - 60.8 MBWe talk about creating healthy guardrails for maintaining sobriety from sexual addiction. We discuss why guardrails are important, what makes a healthy/unhealthy guardrail, and who should be involved in the creation or changing of our guardrails. RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL (RELAPSE PREVENTION) VALUES LIST
053 – Creating Healthy Guardrails
July 10, 2018 16:30 - 44 minutes - 40.6 MBWe talk about creating healthy guardrails for maintaining sobriety from sexual addiction. We discuss why guardrails are important, what makes a healthy/unhealthy guardrail, and who should be involved in the creation or changing of our guardrails. RESOURCES 3 CIRCLES TOOL (RELAPSE PREVENTION) VALUES LIST GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online...
Episode 052 – 8 Tips For Launching Groups
July 03, 2018 17:15 - 33 minutes - 46.5 MBWe talk through 8 tips for launching Pure Desire groups. We discuss the importance of sharing our story, establishing expectations and standards for groups, and the culture you create in groups. We also give practical tips on how to set your groups up for health and success. RESOURCES GROUP GUIDELINES MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING PARENTAL WEB RESOURCES
052 – 8 Tips For Launching Groups
July 03, 2018 17:15 - 33 minutes - 31.1 MBWe talk through 8 tips for launching Pure Desire groups. We discuss the importance of sharing our story, establishing expectations and standards for groups, and the culture you create in groups. We also give practical tips on how to set your groups up for health and success. RESOURCES GROUP GUIDELINES MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING PARENTAL WEB RESOURCES GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counse...
051 - When Crisis Occurs
June 26, 2018 16:30 - 49 minutes - 45.8 MBWe discuss the situation where men and women find themselves in a crisis due to sexual addiction. We talk about first steps when a crisis occurs, what things to avoid, and how to help others in crisis. We also discuss the role of group members in crisis and the resources available to anyone in crisis. RESOURCES FIND A PURE DESIRE GROUP STORIES FOR MEN STORIES FOR WOMEN GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Yo...
Episode 051 - When Crisis Occurs
June 26, 2018 16:30 - 49 minutes - 68.5 MBWe discuss the situation where men and women find themselves in a crisis due to sexual addiction. We talk about first steps when a crisis occurs, what things to avoid, and how to help others in crisis. We also discuss the role of group members in crisis and the resources available to anyone in crisis. RESOURCES FIND A PURE DESIRE GROUP STORIES FOR MEN STORIES FOR WOMEN
Episode 050 - FAQ #4
June 19, 2018 16:30 - 47 minutes - 65.7 MBWe talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like withholding sex during recovery, what is sexual health, what the healing journey from sexual addiction looks like, and more. Email your question to: [email protected] Use the subject line: PD PODCAST DM/Message us
050 - FAQ #4
June 19, 2018 16:30 - 47 minutes - 43.9 MBWe talk through more Frequently Asked Questions. The questions on today's episode cover topics like withholding sex during recovery, what is sexual health, what the healing journey from sexual addiction looks like, and more. Email your question to: [email protected] Use the subject line: PD PODCAST DM/Message us GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure...
Episode 049 – 5 Tips on Using the FASTER Scale
June 12, 2018 16:30 - 32 minutes - 44 MBWe give 5 tips on how to use the FASTER Scale tool. We discuss when to check the FASTER Scale, how to work it, when to talk through it, who to do it with, and it's role in life without Pure Desire Groups. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE TOOL FASTER SCALE EPISODE (PODCAST)
049 – 5 Tips on Using the FASTER Scale
June 12, 2018 16:30 - 32 minutes - 29.4 MBWe give 5 tips on how to use the FASTER Scale tool. We discuss when to check the FASTER Scale, how to work it, when to talk through it, who to do it with, and it's role in life without Pure Desire Groups. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE TOOL FASTER SCALE EPISODE (PODCAST) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Facebook...
Episode 048 – Theology Of Addiction
June 05, 2018 16:30 - 56 minutes - 77.8 MBWe talk about the theology of addiction. We discuss the biblically-based and clinically-informed approach that Pure Desire's takes on healing from sexual addiction. We identify where addiction is in the Bible, why "loving Jesus more" isn't the solution, and why confession isn't enough for true healing. We also talk through why identifying trauma and triggers are necessary for lasting freedom.
048 – Theology Of Addiction
June 05, 2018 16:30 - 56 minutes - 52 MBWe talk about the theology of addiction. We discuss the biblically-based and clinically-informed approach that Pure Desire's takes on healing from sexual addiction. We identify where addiction is in the Bible, why "loving Jesus more" isn't the solution, and why confession isn't enough for true healing. We also talk through why identifying trauma and triggers are necessary for lasting freedom. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom Fr...
047 - Stories Of Healing: Ernie & Jackie Chambers
May 29, 2018 16:30 - 44 minutes - 40.9 MBWe hear Ernie and Jackie's story of healing and redemption of their marriage. They talk through their marital tension caused by Ernie's sexual addiction and how they began their healing journey. They also share with us how their relationships with each other and their community changed through the process of healing. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure De...
Episode 047 - Stories Of Healing: Ernie & Jackie Chambers
May 29, 2018 16:30 - 44 minutes - 61.2 MBWe hear Ernie and Jackie's story of healing and redemption of their marriage. They talk through their marital tension caused by Ernie's sexual addiction and how they began their healing journey. They also share with us how their relationships with each other and their community changed through the process of healing.
Episode 046 - Summer Sobriety
May 22, 2018 16:30 - 40 minutes - 55.7 MBWe discuss maintaining sobriety during the oftentimes difficult summer months. We talk about things to avoid, helpful guardrails, and how to maintain accountability during the summer. We also discuss the opportunities that the summer months possess for finding sexual integrity. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE COMMITMENT TO CHANGE
046 - Summer Sobriety
May 22, 2018 16:30 - 40 minutes - 37.2 MBWe discuss maintaining sobriety during the oftentimes difficult summer months. We talk about things to avoid, helpful guardrails, and how to maintain accountability during the summer. We also discuss the opportunities that the summer months possess for finding sexual integrity. RESOURCES FASTER SCALE COMMITMENT TO CHANGE GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A ...
045 - Regional Group Leaders (RGL)
May 15, 2018 16:30 - 33 minutes - 30.8 MBWe talk to two of our Regional Group Leaders (RGL's) about the RGL volunteer position. We discuss what an RGL is, why they exist, and how they help churches with Pure Desire groups. We also talk through mistakes churches make when it comes to utilizing their RGL. RESOURCES FIND YOUR REGIONAL GROUP ADVISOR (RGA) GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire...
Episode 045 - Regional Group Leaders (RGL)
May 15, 2018 16:30 - 33 minutes - 46.1 MBWe talk to two of our Regional Group Leaders (RGL's) about the RGL volunteer position. We discuss what an RGL is, why they exist, and how they help churches with Pure Desire groups. We also talk through mistakes churches make when it comes to utilizing their RGL. RESOURCES FIND YOUR REGIONAL GROUP ADVISOR (RGA)
044 – Pastors & Porn
May 08, 2018 16:00 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MBWe talk about the reality of porn/sex addiction in pastoral ministry. We discuss best ways to admit there is a problem, how much pastors should share, and how a church should respond to an admission of addiction from their pastors. We also give encouragement on how to get help and how to best support your pastors in this arena. RESOURCES PURE DESIRE LEADERS (PDL) PROGRAM COUNSELING REQUEST FORM SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM EIGHT PILLARS TO FREEDOM CONQUER SERIES GET STARTED Free eBook: 7...
Episode 044 – Pastors & Porn
May 08, 2018 16:00 - 50 minutes - 69.3 MBWe talk about the reality of porn/sex addiction in pastoral ministry. We discuss best ways to admit there is a problem, how much pastors should share, and how a church should respond to an admission of addiction from their pastors. We also give encouragement on how to get help and how to best support your pastors in this arena. RESOURCES PURE DESIRE LEADERS (PDL) PROGRAM COUNSELING REQUEST FORM SEVEN PILLARS OF FREEDOM EIGHT PILLARS TO FREEDOM CONQUER SERIES
Episode 043 - Group Guidelines
May 01, 2018 16:30 - 50 minutes - 68.8 MBWe talk through Pure Desire's Group Guidelines. We talk about the importance and reasoning behind each guideline. We also discuss some misconceptions about the group guidelines and some common ways we break guidelines. RESOURCES GROUP GUIDELINES MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING
043 - Group Guidelines
May 01, 2018 16:30 - 50 minutes - 46 MBWe talk through Pure Desire's Group Guidelines. We talk about the importance and reasoning behind each guideline. We also discuss some misconceptions about the group guidelines and some common ways we break guidelines. RESOURCES GROUP GUIDELINES MEMO OF UNDERSTANDING GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling Consultation Join A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALS Follow us on Face...
Episode 042 - Betrayal & Beyond
April 24, 2018 16:30 - 42 minutes - 58 MBWe talk through our Betrayal & Beyond (B&B) groups and group resources. We discuss why groups are needed for betrayed spouses and reasons why churches tend to not offer these groups. We talk about what it means to find healing from betrayal and how the Betrayal & Beyond group resource helps betrayed spouses on their journey to healing. RESOURCES BETRAYAL & BEYOND KIT COUNSELING REQUEST FORM
042 - Betrayal & Beyond
April 24, 2018 16:30 - 42 minutes - 38.8 MBWe talk through our Betrayal & Beyond (B&B) groups and group resources. We discuss why groups are needed for betrayed spouses and reasons why churches tend to not offer these groups. We talk about what it means to find healing from betrayal and how the Betrayal & Beyond group resource helps betrayed spouses on their journey to healing. RESOURCES BETRAYAL & BEYOND KIT COUNSELING REQUEST FORM GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom F...
041 - Mistakes Churches Make
April 17, 2018 16:00 - 47 minutes - 44 MBWe talk about common mistakes churches can make when addressing the topic of sexual addiction. We discuss the common approach that churches take when diving into this topic and the issues that it often times creates. We also talk about how to best start this ministry in your church in a way that is inviting and welcoming to people in all seasons of healing. GET STARTED Free eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal Trauma Free eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From Porn Schedule Your Free 15-Minut...
Episode 041 - Mistakes Churches Make
April 17, 2018 16:00 - 47 minutes - 65.8 MBWe talk about common mistakes churches can make when addressing the topic of sexual addiction. We discuss the common approach that churches take when diving into this topic and the issues that it often times creates. We also talk about how to best start this ministry in your church in a way that is inviting and welcoming to people in all seasons of healing.
Episode 040 - Family Dynamics
April 10, 2018 16:00 - 49 minutes - 68.3 MBWe talk about family dynamics and how they play out in our daily lives. We discuss how to identify, address, and change the unhealthy dynamics in our families. We also talk through how discuss unhealthy dynamics in a beneficial way and what it looks like to create healthy dynamics in our families.