Precious Predicaments
532 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★ - 3 ratingsThe show is designed to educate, encourage provide resources and empower individuals as they discuss their life challenging issues with a therapist.
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Are You Paying Attention
July 13, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.3 MBToday is appears that the wolrd is out of control. There is so much going on until many are losing hope. However as a Believer we know that God is in control. Many will question such as the world appears to be out of control. Join myself and others as I discuss, "Being In The World But Not Of The World." We really need to pay attention. Yet not be consumed of the turmoil. I want to hear your thoughts. Live 7/13/21 to join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914.
The Responsibility Of The Black Community
July 12, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 31.4 MBWhen it comes to the Black Community what is the responsibility of its residence as well as others? There is so much blame, shame, misunderstanding and guilt being put on individuals as it relates to the community. But what is the real issue? Do individuals outside of the community really know what is going on? Do they care about what is going on? Did they create the situation within the Black Communities? We all have a responsibility. Trusting another however is of a great concern. Join mys...
Know Your Enemy
July 06, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.3 MBJoin myself and others as we engage in a discussion, " Know Your Enemy." Today more than ever we really need to pay attention to what is going on in our world. One need not to be paranoid however we must pay attention to what is going on around us. Do you know your enemy? How do you identify an enemy? Many Christian sourses refer to the world, the flesh and the devil as being an enemy. However what does that really mean? As a Believer what did Jesus mean by "Love your enemies?" It seems tod...
Timing
June 29, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 31.1 MBToday's show is designed to address timing as it relates to God's timing. Many have been taught that timing is a choice, judgment or control when something should be done. It can also be a particular point of time when something happens. With all that we as Believer is witnessing happen in the world around us. Our carnal mind wants and expect things to happen as we plan both good and bad. However when it comes to God we must remember that God's timing is always perfect. God's never early, nev...
Unnecessary Gun Violence
June 28, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 29.2 MBIt appears that gun violence is becoming an epidemic. Everyday in America an individual is affected by gun violence. Time and again many are heartbroken by news of mass shootings, workplace shooting, drive by shootings and even shootings and violence between family members. What can we do to put an end to these senseless crimes? They are destroying families, ending the lives of others prematurely and making or communities and neighborhoods unsafe. We all can play a part. Often individua...
Manipulative Spirits
June 22, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 30.6 MBManipulation is an action of manipulating someone in a skillful manner. In most cases it can be done in a very clever way. It could lead to an attempt to sway someone's emotion to get them to act or feel a certain way. There are several manipulative behaviors. It can be seen in different types of relationships. Today many individuals are being manipulated or may be at risk of being manipulated in a number of ways. Join myself and others as we talk about manipulative spirits. Such is a subtle...
Should We Mask Up
June 21, 2021 19:00 - 3 minutes - 1.28 MBAs many individuals are receiving information as it relates to COVID 19, Delta, being vacinated versus unvacinated there is a lot of confusion as it relates to continuing to wear a mask. It appears that many individuals would like for things to return back to the way they were as it relates to how we previously socialized, attended school or church or perhaps lived our lives. However, the attitudes regarding wearing a mask is getting out of control. I want to hear your thoughts. Let's talk ab...
Withholding Affection
June 14, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 29.8 MBEmotions can be very complex. When it comes to expressing one's emotion such can be difficult especially within a relationship. It has been said that males and females express their affection differently. However when an individual get upset with another withholding affection may seem logical yet it can become an unhealthy way to deal with a conflict. One's childhood experience can affect one's adult's relationship as it comes to expressing affection.. Join myself and others as I provide in...
Bitterness
June 08, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 29.5 MBJoin myself and others as we talk about bitterness. Bitterness starts off as hurt. It is an emotional pain. One may feel victimized by another. If left unchecked it will turn into a chronic and pervasive state of smoldering resentment. It is also one of the most toxic human emotions. Do you know the symptoms of bitterness? What does the Bible say about bitterness? Bitterness comes with a cost. Let's talk about it. Uprooting it is possible. Forgiveness is also a choice. Let's talk about it liv...
Life Transitions
June 07, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 30.1 MBLife can throw a person a curve ball. Transitioning can be complicated. How do a person prepare for life? My mother once had a saying., " Keep Living." For years I really did not know what that meant however as life kept going I learned that there was a lot of things that I really was not prepared for. Question is, how can one do better with making sure that one is ready for life? With parents having children graduating from pre school through college many have expressed concerns as to wheath...
Unfriending Toxic Relationships
June 01, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.6 MBLoving like Jesus is the best way to live. When we love like Him, we can step outside of ourselves and clearly see our love ones and their needs. Also a relationship that last is one with Christ in the center. However what is one to do when the relationship becomes toxic? Join myself and others as we discuss unfriending toxic relationships. Live 6/1/21 at 11:30am Pacific.To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914. I want to hear your thought. How do you handle toxic relationships? Can y...
Being A Faithful Woman Of God
May 25, 2021 18:30 - 3 minutes - 1.21 MBWhen it comes to being a faithful woman of God how would you describe such a woman? We know that no one is perfect. However has the image of a faithful woman of God changd overtime? It is indicated that such a woman is one that has faith, remain true, constant or loyal. One must also maintain sexual loyalty to one's spouse. The Bible speaks of extraordinary traits of a faithful woman. It also states that wives must be dignified, not slanderers, sober-minded, faithful in all things in their li...
Lupus And Mental Health
May 24, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 29.7 MBThe Month Of May is both Lupus and Mental Health Awareness Month. In honor of such I would like to invite you to join myself and others as we share what it is like to live with Lupus. I will also provide information regarding living with Lupus and experiencing mental health issues. Lupus is an autoimmune disease in which the body's immune system mistakenly attacks healthy tissue in many parts of the body. Symptoms vary between individuals and can occur for women, men asd well as children. It...
Meditation
May 17, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 28.7 MBThe Month Of May is also Mental Health Awareness Month. Stress and anxiety appears to be at an all time high. Many individuals live demanding lives and have busy schedules. As such many often take on more than they should. Join myself and others today as we talk about meditation. Meditation is an ancient tradition. It is practiced all over the world. It is needed now more than ever as such can assist with reducing stress and improving one's mental health. It can also create a sense of calm an...
Do Not Wait Too Late
May 11, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.2 MBJoin myself and other as we discuss, "Don't Wait Too Late." As a Believer many individuals believe that they have time. However time waits for no one. I have heard individuals say that they are waiting for God. Such statement can be applied for a variety of situations. What are you waiting for? Let's talk about it live 5/11/21 at 11:30am Pacific. To join in on the conversation call 516.387-1914. Hosted by Jeanette Abney LMFT.
Policing And Respect
May 10, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 34.3 MBWorking in the field of law enforcement may not be as easy as one may think. Many individuals grew up watching movies or cop shows and develop a perception as to what the job consist of. However it seems like everyday we are hearing about more police shooting. What can we do to stop the madness? Join myself and others as we discuss policing and respect. When should one call the police? How can they protect and serve? What can we do to make sure we are safe as well as making sure that we are l...
Faithful Church Mothers
May 04, 2021 18:30 - 1 minute - 358 KBWith Mother's Day approaching many individuals within the church will be acknowledging their church mothers. Today's show is designed to discuss the role of a church mother. I have seen church mothers throughout the years as I have attended church. However what is their role or position within the church? And what can we learn form these womens? Let's talk about it. I want to hear your thoughts live 5/4/21 at 11;30am Pacific. Ti join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914.
Being A Mother
May 03, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 27.3 MBAs Mother's Day is approaching manying individuals will be honoring their mother's in a variety of ways. With that being said today's show is designed to discuss what is is like being a mother. I am currently the mother of two adult children. My mother passed at the age of 59 to Breast Cancer. At that time I was in my early 40's. I was not prepared nor did I know what llife was going to be like without my mother. Many individuals that I know have also lost their mothers as celebrating Mother'...
Being Inconsiderate
April 27, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.2 MBToday's show is designed to address the behavior of individuals as it appears that many individuals are experiencing a great deal of pain and trauma. Individuals more than ever need the support of another as support can be demonstrated in a variety of ways. Yet more than often individuals are being inconsiderate. As families have been grieving and going through I started wondering if others reallly realized how their behavior or comments may have affected another. Let's talk about it 4/27/...
I Have Walls
April 26, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 29.3 MBBeing in a relationship with another can present a variety of challenges. Individuals may demonstrate inappropriate behaviors consciously or unconsciously. When one sabatoge the relationship it could cause the partner to question themself. One might say why would one deliberately destroy, or damage a relationship? One may refer it to having baggage. Both males as well as females are capable of engaging in such behavior. The most common response is, "I have walls." Today's show is designed to...
Dealing With Envy
April 20, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 32 MBEnvy is feeling of discontent or resentful longing aroused by someone else's possessions, qualities, or luck. Today's show is designed to address envy. Today individuals may think that the grass is greener on the other side. It may seem like others may have more than they do. However envy can get people in trouble. One may not have a clue as to what it took for an individual to get to where they are in life, a relationship or financially. Even in the chruch envy exist. Lets talk about live 4...
Emotional Wreckage
April 19, 2021 19:00 - 59 minutes - 26.9 MBWith all that is going on today it can be very diffficult for many individuals to avoid being an emotional wreck. An emotional wreck is the state of mind or conscience where all of one's emotions are tangled into one big ball of mess. Symptoms can include feeling confused, with tangled ideas regarding who or what to be angry or sad at or about. Today's show is designed to addressed dealing with emotional wreckage as well as what to do about it in a positive and healthy way. Live 4/19/21 at ...
The Spirit Of Jezebel
April 13, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 28.7 MBMany individuals may have heard of Queen Jezebel. However, there are many individuals that may lack the knowledge of the Jezebel spirit. The spirit can be in a male or female. There are negative connotations and symbolism surrounding the name Jezebel. The spirit is the nastiest, evil, most disgusting, cunning and seductive spirit in Satan;s hierachy, It has destroyed churches, pastors and many marriages within the Christian Ministries. Today's show is designed to provide an understanding an...
Self Confidence
April 12, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 28.3 MBToday it appearrs that many individuals are pututting their dreams on hold due to not having confidence in themself. Many often confuse self confidence with self esteem. Self confidence is your belief in how good you are at something. It however is not measured based on your actual skills . It is what you believe. Today's show is designed to assist individuals with improving their self confidence. It is very important that one believe in oneself. Self confidence could also lead to more posit...
Operating In Your Gift
April 06, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 31.9 MBAre you operating in your gift? Do you know the gift that God has designed for you? Do you know the difference between a gift and a talent? Today's show is designed to discuss how to identify if you are operating in your gift. As a Believer many have found it difficult to operate their gift while in church. The show will also address what the Bible says about using your gift. God wants us to bless others as well as build his kingdom. Let's talk about it. Live 4/6/21 at 11:30am Pacific. To joi...
Self Care
April 05, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 27.6 MBSelf care is a buzz word that many individuals talk about but often fail to do. Some individuals may confuse it with being selfish yet when one fail to take care of oneself they may lack the energy to care for another. Today's show is designed to address the importance of self care. Neglect has consequences. Let's do better with our personal self care, mentally, physically, financially and within our relationships with others. Hosted by Jeanette Abney, LMFT. 4/5/21 at 12pm Pacific. To join ...
Your Foolishness Has To Stop
March 30, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 27.7 MBAs a child I can recall being told by my grandmother, "Stop with all of that foolishness." As a child I had no ideal of what she was talking about. Many of our elders were wise and had a great deal of wisdom. Do you know the characteristics of a foolish person? Today we are witnesing Believers as well as Non Believers acting out in foolish ways. Today's show will discuss what the Bible says about being Foolish. To join in on the conversation call 516 387-1914 3/30/21 at 11:30am. Hosted by Jea...
Christian Parenting
March 23, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 31.6 MBMany individuals were what was called, "drugged to church." As a child I thought church was seven days a week. And don't let my mother be going through a situation that meant church at night. No parent is perfect. It has been said to train a child the way he should go. And when he is old he will not depart from it. Proverbs 22:6. Today's show is designed to discuss Christian parenting. How do you view Christian parenting from wordly parenting? Many individuals were raised in the church or we...
Parenting Your Challenging Adult Child
March 22, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 30.2 MBBeing a parent is a lifetime commitment. Children grow up very fast physically. They do not stay babies long. However, mentally and emotionally once they become adults it can be hard for a parent not to veiw their adult child as an adult. Today's show is designed to talk about many of the challenges that parents face as they parent their adult child. I recall thinking that once my son reached 18 being a parent was going to be fun as I got through the teenage years. But like many parents it ...
Learn From Your Mistake
March 16, 2021 18:30 - 1 hour - 27.8 MBIn life it is important to know that no man is perfect. Even Christans make mistakes. As a child one often would get punished for making mistakes. As parents learned that punishing children was not always effective. They had to find better ways to assist in the development and growth of their children. Making mistakes allows you to learn what you value, what you like, what you don't want, and what you don't need. When you shift your midset, it allows you to understaand that there are actuall...
It Can Get Better
March 15, 2021 19:00 - 1 hour - 58.7 MBToday it appears that many individuals are dealing with a lot of mixed emotions. Such is being demonstrated in how one think, feel and behave. It is also affecting many individuals relationships. Emotions can be very complex. Depression appears to be flooding the minds of many individuals both young and old. Today's show is designed to offer hope as well as encourage individuals that are going through a test in their life. Things can get better. Let's talk about it. If you are going throug...
Following Your Vision
March 09, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 58.3 MBDo you know your purpose? Have your dreams or ideas came true? Many individuals struggle with finding their purpose in life. As A child do you recall being asked, "What do you want to be when you grow up?" Did you follow through with what you said as a child? Or did you just give up or perhaps took a different course? Today's show is designed to share how to explore your vision and to follow through. Join me as I interview my cousin Cedric Boyd Author of The Good Wolf as he share his journe...
Family Strife
March 08, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 57.5 MBFamily conflict is normal. We also can not pick our family members. We all have unique personalities. And at times those personalities can clash. In some cases there could be communication issues, jealousy one may have also shared a family secret or perhaps stole a mate. And is some cases the other person may have no ideal what the problem is. There are family grudges that have lasted for years. Some individuals have also took their grudge and resentment to the grave. Today's show is designe...
Women In The Bible
March 02, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 55.7 MBThe month of March is dedicated as Women In History. In honor of such we will be talking about the influential women of the Bible. These women not only impacted the nation of Isreal but also the eternal history. Some of the women were saints, Some were scoundrels or a woman with an interesting history. A few were queens. Most were considered as a common woman. However all played a key role in the Bible as each woman brought their own unique character and had a unique situation which they will...
The Blame Game
February 23, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 56.6 MBBlaming God is a common response when life do not go the way we want it to or when things in life does not make any sense. Sense God is suppose to be in control why not blame God? There are many individuals that have walked away from the church or perhaps are wavering in thier faith for many different reasons.The word blame is to find fault. Is it really God's fault? Todays show is design to resist the desire to blame God. God's sovereignty will be discussed is it relates to our suffering. H...
Strong Black Mothers
February 22, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 59.3 MBThe month of February is considered Black History Month. As we remember our history it is important to consider those who have made menaingful political contributions, often times fighting for our rights, liberty, and freedom. We must remember those that have paved the way to make the world a better place with their contributions. As we remember let's not forget about our own Black Mothers. February 17th was the thirteen year anniversary of the passing of my mother ReJean Brooks-Sistrunk. S...
Wrongdoing
February 16, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 55.9 MB1 John 5:17 states that all wrongdoing is sin, but there is sin that does not lead to death. Romans 13:4 states: For he is God's servant for your good. But if you do wrong, be afraid, for he does not bear the sword in vain. For he is the servant of God, an avenger who carries out God's wrath on the wrongdoer. Leviticus 5:1 states the "if you are called to testify about sommething you have seen ot that you know about,, it is sinful to refuse to testify, and you will be punished for your sin."...
Addressing Colorism
February 15, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 57.3 MBIn honor of Black History Month we will be addressing "Colorism." Colorism is a predudice or discrimination against individuals with a dark skin tone. This typically occurs among people of the same ethnic or racial group. It can effect both males and females. There are negative implications that can occur. Many still have limited knowledge yet colorism still exist in families, movies, television, advertising, sports, politics and employment. Colorism can be rooted in generations. The trauma c...
Lord Please Heal Our Land
February 09, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 59.3 MBI have heard that we are living in our last days. Whether you are a Believer or not what we are witnessing in our world is out of control. The Bible has many verses that tells us what is going on as well as provide instructions to follow. It is obvious that man can not get us out of this mess alone. Today's show is designed to address what is going on as well as explain what needs to be done for the Lord to heal our land. 2 Chronicles 7:14 is a verse that clearly states what must be done. Le...
Healing From Infidelity
February 08, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 57.5 MBValentine's Day is shortly approaching. That is a day where many indiviuals will share their love and affection towards another. However what is a couple to do if they are dealing with the aftermath of an affair? There are many individuals that are struggling as they are trying to overcome and affair. How does one get rid of the pain? The betrayal can be devastating. Help is available. Today's show is designed to address how a couple can recover from infidelity. Dr. Monique, DHA, LPC the a...
Stop Complaining
January 26, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 56.6 MBIs complaining a learned behavior? As a child I thought individuals was just fussing. However as I got older I found that there are some individuals you just can't satisfy or make happy. As a Believer how can one trust God yet often complain? Today's show is designed to address complaining. Complaining is sinful to God. It is also dangerous. If one is discontent, disgruntled or upset about something or someone especially in the church what is a person to do? What does the Bible say about com...
The Importance Of Diversity
January 25, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 57.1 MBDiversity comes in many forms. It could be gender, race, religion, sexual orientation, social economic background just to name a few. All of these contribute to an individual unique experioence as it relates to the world. Diversity is something that many individuals fear. I can lead to hate, racism as well as helping others in a positive way. Diversity is important as it helps us to survive. Today's show is designed to discuss the importance of diversity. There are benefits. It is well neede...
Chaos
January 19, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 56.1 MBChaos is confusion or a confused mass of being without any form or order. It is characterized as order, lawlessness, unpredictability or instability. What makes it worst is when one create chaos without thinking or caring about the wellbeing of others. Today we are in the midst of a pandemic and a very violatile climate in our country as we are dealing with several different issues such as unemployment, COVID 19 related issues, deaths, racism, as well as violence. Today's show is designed t...
Being Oppressed
January 12, 2021 19:30 - 1 hour - 65.6 MBToday many are concerned about what we are hearing as it relates to what we are witnessing in the United States. As I watch the news and scroll through the news feed of my social media outlets I am like "Really." Todays show is designed to address oppression. Many individuals are at odds as it relates to the 2020 Election however the way it is being handled is out of control. Not to mention that individuals believe that they are fighting for justice but are they really? If you want to underst...
Ending Childhood Sexual Trauma
January 12, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour - 63.8 MBChildhood sexual abuse is one of the most stimatized issues in our society. It happens to children all over the world. It is recognized as a violation of basic human rights. It is a serious public health concern. It is also connected to Human Sex Trafficking. The abuse can happen to both females as well as males. In most cases the perpetrator is know by the victim. The perpetrator could also be a parent or close relative that the child trust. Today's show is designed to provide information ...
Prosperity
January 05, 2021 19:30 - 1 minute - 47.8 KBProsperity is a state of being wealthy, or having a rich and full life. Many often view prosperity with money or success. However prosperity theology views the Bible as a contract between God and humans; if humans have faith in God, he will deliver security and prosperity.The doctrine emphasizes the importance of personal empowerment, proposing that it is God's will for his people to be blessed. Prosperity is a topic that is grossly misunderstood. Today's show is designed to discuss what the...
Dating With A Purpose
January 04, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 64.6 MBWhen it comes to dating are you a chronic dater? Do you waste peoples time? Are you one that date with a purpose? Do know what you want? Who you are? Are you ready to settle down? Today's show is designed to address dating another. We are now in a new year, many individuals have indicated that they are tired of being alone, However what does that mean? Are you ready to tie the knot are perhaps happy with your dating style? Let's talk about it live 1/4/21 at 12pm Pacific. Let's stop dating fo...
Being Blessed
December 29, 2020 19:30 - 1 hour - 60.5 MBMany individuals have heard or perhaps have said that they are blessed. Yet I have learned that many individuals really have no ideal or understanding as to what that really mean. For years, I myself thought that it meant that one was happy in life without a care or burden in the world. I as well as others was led to believe that it consisted of material items which was visable to another. However as I matured in my spiritual walk I learned that such is a favor or gift bestowed by God thereby...
Goal Setting
December 28, 2020 20:00 - 1 hour - 56.2 MB2020 is finally coming to an end. Many are excited as others are trying to make it through. As we enter into 2021 have you set any goals for yourself? Many call them New Year's Resolutions. I would say such may start off as a good intention yet many fail to follow through. Today's show is designed to address goal setting. Let's get motivated and enter the new year with a positive attitude and break some of our bad habits, end toxic relationships, improve or health and spiritual life and inc...
Step Up Your Prayer Life
December 22, 2020 19:30 - 1 hour - 58.8 MBToday more than ever we need to have a personal relationship with a higher power. Our world appears to be falling to peices. Many are losing their fatih as well as trust. However as a Believer we are considered to be in the world but not of the world. As a child I can recall hearing my mother pray. I learned that was how she communicated with God as well as I thought she was telling God on me. Later in my life I realized that I needed to develop a prayer life on my own so that my mother did n...