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Husband Material

290 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 days ago - ★★★★★ - 203 ratings

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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Porn And Third Culture Kids (with John Kilmer)

June 12, 2023 15:00 - 41 minutes - 28.6 MB

Growing up between worlds, third culture kids face unique challenges in developing their identity and sense of belonging. Can these experiences create a higher risk of struggling with pornography? John Kilmer reveals the impact of moving during crucial developmental stages, and how unprocessed grief and loss can lead to unwanted sexual behavior. Through John's story, we discover the burden AND the beauty of being a third culture man. John Kilmer is a Mental Health Life Coach, Occupational T...

Porn, Autism, and ADHD: Embracing Neurodiversity (with Candice Christiansen)

June 05, 2023 15:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MB

How do neurodifferences like ADHD and autism relate to unwanted sexual behavior? How can embracing neurodiversity help us heal and outgrow porn? Candice Christiansen offers powerful perspectives and practical advice. This interview is delightful! For neurodivergent individuals (and same or mixed neurotype couples) who are struggling, Candice is here to help you gain clarity to make your relationship, intimacy, and sex as enjoyable, wonderful, and pleasurable as possible! Candice Christians...

How To Confront Parents With Compassion

May 29, 2023 15:00 - 22 minutes - 15.3 MB

Have you ever thought about confronting a parent, but you're not sure how? In this episode, you'll learn the right questions to ask yourself when considering why and how to confront your parent(s) with compassion.  Three important questions to ask:  What happened (to them and to me)?  How do I feel about what happened?  What do I want going forward?  Recommended reading (paid link):  Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved P...

Healing With My Parents (with Yvonne Boa and Sandy Boa)

May 22, 2023 15:00 - 31 minutes - 22 MB

In this episode, my parents share the good and the bad of how they raised me, and how we are healing. It's a story of vulnerability, repentance, and redemption.  "All families have difficulties. If you bury them, you grow apart. If you get them on the table and solve them, then you can heal from that." —Sandy Boa  "Don't be afraid to go to the person and ask for forgiveness, because God's healing you and he's gonna heal the other person too. If you truly trust Him and you go with God, it's...

Adult Children Of Sex Addicts (with Dr. Ken Adams)

May 15, 2023 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.1 MB

What happens when you grow up in a family affected by sexual addiction? In this episode, Dr. Ken Adams reveals the burdens carried by adult children of sex addicts.  This conversation is especially helpful for those of us who inherited sexual shame from our parents. You'll learn why and how to release shame that has been passed down to you...and how to stop the cycle of generational trauma. Dr. Ken Adams is a world-renowned therapist and expert on sexual addiction, shame, and enmeshment. L...

Three Keys To Becoming Husband Material

May 08, 2023 15:00 - 13 minutes - 9.04 MB

What does it mean to become husband material? In this episode, you'll learn the importance of self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-leadership. Stay until the end for special appearances by 12 Husband Material Men!  New opportunities: HMA is reopening in July. Join the waitlist at joinhma.com Come to our retreat in Santa Barbara in September! Register now at husbandmaterial.com/retreat Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2:...

Introduction To Outgrowing Porn (wth Dr. Robert Masters)

May 01, 2023 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

What does it mean to outgrow porn? Dr. Robert Masters unpacks this concept (which he created) with stunning depth and clarity.  Robert Augustus Masters is a psychotherapist, group leader, and relationship expert with a doctorate in psychology. His intuitive, uniquely integral work, developed over the past four decades, blends the psychological and physical with the emotional and spiritual. Learn more at robertmasters.com. Buy Robert's books (these are paid links): To Be a Man: A Guide To...

Emotional Abuse (with Dr. Jake Porter)

April 24, 2023 15:00 - 37 minutes - 25.9 MB

What is emotional abuse? Dr. Jake Porter explains how to identify emotional abuse, heal from it, and stop emotionally abusing others. Dr. Jake Porter is a Board Certified Counselor, Certified Sex Addiction Therapist, APSATS Certified Clinical Partner Specialist, and the Founder of Daring Ventures. He is also the creator of Couple–Centered Recovery, a model for overcoming attachment wounds in couples experiencing the trauma of betrayal.  Connect with Jake at drjakeporter.com Take the Husba...

Directing Sexual Energy In Singleness

April 17, 2023 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.3 MB

What do I do with my sexual energy—especially if I'm single? In this episode, you'll learn the two types of sexual energy, why singleness can feel like a curse, and God’s good design for sexuality in singleness. You'll also hear real life examples of Christian men directing their sexual energy into deeper connection, pleasure, and creativity. Resources mentioned in this episode: God & Sex (sermon series from Reality San Fransisco featuring Dave Lomas) Finding Intimacy And Community As A C...

How To Use The Body To Outgrow Porn (with Andrew Bauman)

April 10, 2023 15:00 - 23 minutes - 16.5 MB

In this episode, you'll learn why healing must happen in your body. Andrew Bauman reveals why talk therapy is not enough, what "the body keeps the score" actually means, how to use the body to outgrow porn and real-life examples of embodied healing. This interview is awesome! Andrew Bauman is the founder & director of the Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health & Trauma (CCC). Andrew is an author and licensed mental health counselor with a Master of Arts in Counseling Psychology from...

Role Playing Betrayal Trauma (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)

April 03, 2023 15:00 - 1 hour - 76.6 MB

In this extended episode, you'll hear 8 dramatized examples of mistakes men make while relating to women they have sexually betrayed and traumatized. You'll learn how to offer validation, own your impact, build your confidence, and be proactive. This session from The Porn Free Man Conference will show you exactly what (not) to do to help her heal. Dr. Eddie Capparucci is an author and therapist who specializes in the treatment of sex and porn addiction. He's also the creator of the Inner Ch...

How Do You Define Pornography?

March 27, 2023 15:00 - 7 minutes - 5.07 MB

In this episode, you'll learn 2 ways to define pornography, 6 pornographic styles of relating, and what it means to be sexually healthy and mature. Resources mentioned by Andrew Bauman: A Pornographic Style of Relating (article) What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (article) The Psychology of Porn (book; paid link) The Sexually Healthy Man (book; paid link) Sign up for the Husband Material Virtual Retreat on May 5-7 featuring Andrew Bauman! Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Lis...

Healing From Spiritual Abuse (with Chris Inman)

March 20, 2023 15:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MB

In this episode, you'll learn what spiritual abuse is and how to heal from it. Chris Inman tells his story of being spiritual abused as a boy and how it has affected him into adulthood. Chris Inman is the creator and facilitator of Porn Free Masculinity, an online intensive recovery program for men struggling with porn and compulsive sexual behavior. He invites men to consider how the blessings and trauma of their stories have curated their unwanted sexual brokenness. Chris helps men transf...

Bullying And Same-Sex Attraction (with Jordan Castille)

March 13, 2023 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MB

How can bullying contribute to same-sex attraction? Jordan Castille tells his story of being bullied, how that impacted his sexual development, and how Jesus brought him healing and freedom from gay porn. Jordan Castille is a Board Certified Christian Counselor, Sex Addiction Specialist, and Certified Husband Material Coach. He and his wife Cherise have two boys. Jordan loves Jesus, people, video games, working out, learning how to fix things, legos, and his church community. Jordan also do...

Unburdening Sexual Arousal (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)

March 06, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour - 54.5 MB

In this episode, Dr. Peter Malinoski guides Drew Boa through the process of unburdening sexual arousal using the internal family systems model (IFS). This type of healing experience can bring tremendous freedom from porn and unwanted sexual behavior. Disclaimer: This is what we call a demo, which is short for a demonstration. Demos are a common way for IFS therapists to practice with each other and to show others what IFS is like. Demos are not therapy or counseling. In sharing this demo, w...

Guided IFS Experiential Exercise (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)

February 27, 2023 16:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MB

In this episode, you'll be guided through an exercise using the internal family systems model (IFS). Dr. Peter Malinoski demonstrates how to connect with your "parts"—including parts that might be attached to porn and unwanted sexual behavior. Clinical psychologist Dr. Peter Malinoski is president of Souls and Hearts and host of Interior Integration for Catholics, a podcast helping Catholics embrace their identities as beloved sons and daughters of God. Peter specifically addresses the topi...

Experience Healing Through IFS (with Dr. Peter Malinoski)

February 20, 2023 16:00 - 31 minutes - 21.5 MB

In this episode, you'll learn why healing experiences are essential for outgrowing porn. Dr. Peter Malinoski explains how the internal family systems model (IFS) can help us heal by meeting the five attachment needs we all have.  Clinical psychologist Dr. Peter Malinoski is president of Souls and Hearts and host of Interior Integration for Catholics, a podcast helping Catholics embrace their identities as beloved sons and daughters of God. Peter specifically addresses the topics of freedom ...

How Much Does She Need To Know About The Porn? (LIVE)

February 13, 2023 16:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MB

Have you ever wondered how much your crush, girlfriend, fiancée, or wife needs to know about your relationship with porn? In this episode, you'll learn the appropriate level of detail to share when you're single, dating, engaged, or married. This episode is challenging and necessary. ✅ Free document: Resources For Partners Of Husband Material Men Download other free documents at husbandmaterial.com/documents  Further reading on therapeutic full disclosure (including paid links): What's A...

How Porn Affects Children (with Benji Nolot)

February 06, 2023 16:00 - 35 minutes - 24.7 MB

If you were exposed to porn at a young age, this episode is for you. Award-winning filmmaker Benji Nolot explains why children are not voluntary consumers of porn, and why self-compassion is essential for healing. You'll get a powerful glimpse into the humanity and vulnerability of men and women on both sides of the screen. Benji Nolot is committed to the abolition of modern-day slavery by campaigning to shift cultural mindsets and laws that would abolish commercial sexual exploitation. He ...

How Porn Fuels Sex Trafficking (with Benji Nolot)

January 30, 2023 16:00 - 30 minutes - 20.9 MB

In this episode, you'll learn four ways pornography fuels sex trafficking...and what we can do about it. Award-winning filmmaker Benji Nolot reveals what goes on behind the scenes of pornography.  Benji Nolot is committed to the abolition of modern-day slavery by campaigning to shift cultural mindsets and laws that would abolish commercial sexual exploitation. He founded Exodus Cry in 2008 after being inspired by the life of William Wilberforce. In everything he does, Benji is driven by a c...

Sexual Fluidity And Sexual Plasticity

January 23, 2023 16:00 - 10 minutes - 7.51 MB

In this episode, you'll learn two concepts that can give you less shame and more hope on your journey of outgrowing porn.  Resources mentioned in this episode: Sexual Fluidity in Males and Females by Lisa Diamond  The Porn Free Man 2023 Conference (now available) Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-...

What Types Of Change Are Possible? (with Rich Wyler)

January 16, 2023 16:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

In this episode, Rich Wyler answers tough questions with curiosity, compassion, and courage. You'll learn what it looks like to work through internal conflict around sexual arousal and personal beliefs. You'll also learn why unconditional love and acceptance is our starting point. Rich Wyler is the founder of Brothers on a Road Less Traveled (“Brothers Road”), a non-profit, multi-faith, international fellowship of men. Brothers Road is primarily for men from bisexual and same-sex attracted ...

Habits That Heal (with Shawn Bonneteau)

January 09, 2023 16:00 - 38 minutes - 26.2 MB

What habits are most helpful for healing and outgrowing porn? In this episode, Shawn Bonneteau presents a beautiful menu of ideas to transform habits without pressure, perfectionism, or "shoulding" all over yourself in 2023. Shawn Bonneteau is a Christian pornography recovery coach and podcast host at Secret Habit. After quitting porn in the summer of 2017, he has spent his life pursuing God's call to transform relationships through coaching men to find freedom from porn. Shawn is a certifi...

Becoming Porn Free In 2023

January 02, 2023 16:00 - 12 minutes - 8.85 MB

In this episode, I'll recommend 3 resources to help you outgrow porn in 2023. Stay til the end to hear a big announcement about HMA (the doors are closing).  As promised, here are my top 5 episodes of Husband Material:  How To Outgrow Porn  Sexual Arousal vs. Sexual Desire  How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies  Why Attachment Is The Key To Healing  How To Heal Your Inner Child  Register now for The Porn Free Man 2023 Online Conference on January 6-7, 2023. Get your free pass at theporn...

How Do I Help My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)

December 26, 2022 16:00 - 53 minutes - 37.1 MB

How can I help my partner heal? When she is "throwing rocks" at me, what can I do? In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci shares 10 rules for healthy interaction with your grieving partner: 10 Rules: 1. No Explaining 2. No Surprises 3. Validation, Not Defensiveness 4. Don’t Wilt (Be Confident) 5. Don’t Let Your Inner Child Speak To Your Partner 6. See Her Pain 7. Walk Into The Fire 8. Communicate Before Going Out In Public 9. Own Your Impact, Not Just Your Intentions 10. Prepare Y...

How Do I Deal With My Hurting Spouse? (with Dr. Eddie Capparucci)

December 26, 2022 16:00 - 53 minutes - 37.1 MB

How can I help my partner heal? When she is "throwing rocks" at me, what can I do? In this episode, Dr. Eddie Capparucci shares 10 rules for healthy interaction with your grieving partner: 10 Rules: 1. No Explaining 2. No Surprises 3. Validation, Not Defensiveness 4. Don’t Wilt (Be Confident) 5. Don’t Let Your Inner Child Speak To Your Partner 6. See Her Pain 7. Walk Into The Fire 8. Communicate Before Going Out In Public 9. Own Your Impact, Not Just Your Intentions 10. Prepare Y...

Emotional Fitness (with Sathiya Sam)

December 19, 2022 16:00 - 37 minutes - 25.8 MB

What's the difference between emotional health and emotional fitness? Why does it matter? In this episode, Sathiya Sam explains what emotional fitness looks like and how you can leverage the added stress of the holiday season to become stronger. Sathiya Sam is an entrepreneur with a passion to see people’s lives transformed. DeepClean, a program that helps men overcome pornography addiction, is Sathiya's most recent work to date. His proven process for freedom has helped everyone from colle...

How To Be A Great Lover (with Dr. Keith Gregoire)

December 12, 2022 15:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MB

What does it take to unlock a woman's sexual pleasure? Dr. Keith Gregoire explains how sex actually works, why we need to redefine sex, and how men can become better lovers. Keith Gregoire is a pediatrician who is passionate about building great marriages and equipping couples to parent well. He is co-author (along with his wife, Sheila Wray Gregoire) of "The Good Guys Guide to Great Sex." Together, they have been speaking to couples around the world for over fifteen years, providing health...

Authentic Manhood (with Dr. Joe Martin)

December 05, 2022 16:00 - 1 hour - 41.4 MB

What is a real man? Dr. Joe Martin exposes the lies we believe about our value as men, in contrast to the example of authentic manhood set by Jesus Christ. Wrong perceptions of manhood (what society says): Occupation Compensation Education Reputation Intimidation  Authentic manhood is determined by: Leading spiritually Rejecting passivity Loving and serving sacrificially Dr. Joe Martin is an award-winning speaker, author, educator, and certified builder of men. He’s the author of ...

What If I'm Sexually Attracted To Myself?

November 28, 2022 16:00 - 16 minutes - 11.5 MB

Have you been sexually attracted to yourself, or someone just like you? In this episode, you'll learn three types of self-attraction, my own personal story, and what to do if you are sexually attracted to yourself. Come to my workshop "What Do I Do With My Sexual Attractions?" at The Porn Free Man online conference on January 6-7, 2023. It's free. Register now at thepornfreeman.com Here's the Seinfeld clip I quoted: "Falling in love with someone who's just like you" - https://youtu.be/NVDT...

Male Survivors Of Sexual Abuse (with Mike Chapman and Dr. Doug Carpenter)

November 21, 2022 16:00 - 1 hour - 68.5 MB

What's it like to be a male survivor of sexual abuse? In our very first community-based episode, Husband Material men tell their stories of sexual abuse. You'll learn how to respond appropriately to the needs of male survivors. Mike Chapman is a Certified Husband Material Coach and the leader of our community sub-group for survivors of sexual abuse. Contact Mike at [email protected] Dr. Doug Carpenter is a clinical psychologist, author, and moderator in the Husband Material Co...

Find The Boy Within The Man (with Chris Bruno)

November 14, 2022 16:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MB

Is there really a boy inside every man? What does "healing the boy" practically look like? Chris Bruno delightfully demonstrates how to find your younger self and bring him home. This interview is amazing! You'll come away with greater awareness, curiosity, kindness, and healing. Chris Bruno is the Co-Founder and CEO of Restoration Project, and Founder of ReStory Counseling, devoting his life to helping people come alive. He is a licensed professional counselor who has decades of experience...

How To Break Up With Porn

November 07, 2022 16:00 - 11 minutes - 8.13 MB

Outgrowing porn is not easy. The process is often messy and prolonged. That's why some men have found value in writing a formal break-up letter to pornography. This episode will give you a simple structure to write your own break-up letter. You can also use this structure to break up with an abusive partner or any other unwanted sexual behavior, fantasy, or attachment. Download the free PDF worksheet: How To Break Up With Porn Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this po...

Emotional Safety (with Alex Avila)

October 31, 2022 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.3 MB

"Our most vital relational need is to be emotionally safe...we cannot truly connect with anyone if we don't feel safe in their presence." —Alex Avila But what is emotional safety, exactly? How can you tell if a person or relationship is safe or unsafe? Christian therapist Alex Avila explains what it looks like to protect our hearts while giving and receiving "safer love." SAFER LOVE: S = Slow and soft A = Appreciation F = Feelings E = Empathy R = Responsibility L = Listening O = ...

How Can Fathers And Sons Outgrow Porn Together? (with John Fort and Lucas Fort)

October 24, 2022 15:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MB

"Your failure in sexuality is what qualifies you to talk to your son about sex in the first place." In this fascinating episode, a father and son tell their story of learning to talk about emotions and sex together. John and Lucas Fort explain what does(n't) work, what's (not) appropriate, and why imperfection is necessary for connection. Buy John and Lucas's book (this is a paid link): Father-Son Accountability: Integrity Through Relationship John Fort serves as Director of Training for B...

Is Covenant Eyes "Shameware"?

October 17, 2022 15:00 - 21 minutes - 14.6 MB

Anti-porn accountability software has come under scrutiny after an article in WIRED Magazine described Covenant Eyes as "shameware" and "just another way the church controls you.” In this episode, you'll hear what's going on, what I think about accountability software, and how to decide if it's right for you. Article in WIRED Magazine: The Ungodly Surveillance of Anti-Porn ‘Shameware’ Apps My top recommendation for accountability software: Covenant Eyes For those of you who use accountabi...

From Pain To Purpose (with Rick Carlson)

October 10, 2022 15:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MB

Rick Carlson spent years running from pain, hiding from others, and hating God... until everything changed. In this episode, Rick shares his story of prenatal trauma, physical differences, self-hatred, substance abuse, porn use, and his healing journey over the past 12 years. "Your greatest pain can become your greatest purpose." —Rick Carlson Rick Carlson is the founder of Comeback Coaching. As a Certified Husband Material Coach, Life Coach, and Pastor, Rick is passionate about walking w...

Porn, Anxiety, And Depression (with Ben Bennett)

October 03, 2022 15:00 - 31 minutes - 21.7 MB

Do you know what it's like to struggle with depression or anxiety in addition to porn? Ben Bennett does; he has also experienced years of freedom. In this episode, Ben unpacks how mental health challenges and unwanted sexual behavior are related. Using a mix of science and Scripture, he also highlights the path to healing. This episode is important! Ben Bennett is an author, podcast host, and speaker with Josh McDowell Ministry as the Director of Resolution Movement–a global movement helpin...

The Beauty Of Brotherhood (Psalm 133)

September 26, 2022 15:00 - 40 minutes - 27.5 MB

Listen to my sermon about embodied brotherhood from the recent Husband Material Retreat in Santa Barbara. Psalm 133 (NIV 1984) "How good and pleasant it is     when brothers live together in unity!   It is like precious oil poured on the head,     running down on the beard, running down on Aaron's beard,     down upon the collar of his robes.   It is as if the dew of Hermon      were falling on Mount Zion.   For there the LORD bestows his blessing,      even life forevermore." The Beauty...

Wisdom After Sexual Betrayal (with Marnie Ferree)

September 19, 2022 15:00 - 31 minutes - 21.6 MB

Marnie Ferree understands sex addiction from both sides: from personal experience, and from being a partner. In this episode, Marnie shares her story of grief and growth after discovering her own sexual betrayal trauma. Marnie Ferree is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Nashville, Tennessee, where she directs Bethesda Workshops, which provides Christian-based treatment for sex addicts, their partners, couples, and teens affected by sexual addiction. Learn more at bethesdaworkshops...

Healing From Sexual Betrayal (with Dr. Sheri Keffer)

September 12, 2022 15:00 - 53 minutes - 36.8 MB

What is intimate deception betrayal trauma? Why is it so hard for partners of porn users to get help? When it comes to healing, what (doesn't) work? Dr. Sheri Keffer explains how porn impacts partners—and more importantly, what we can do about it. She even guides you on how to share this episode with your wife or girlfriend without triggering her. If you're married, your wife will love hearing from Dr. Sheri! Dr. Sheri Keffer is the author of Intimate Deception (paid link) and a regular coh...

Attunement: The Key To Connection

September 06, 2022 06:00 - 29 minutes - 20.6 MB

Attunement is the ability to be aware of and respond to another person's needs—and our own needs, too.  In this episode, you'll learn the building blocks of good attunement, why over-attunement is unhelpful and exhausting, and how to practically sharpen your attunement skills and improve your relationships.  How Husband Material can help: Receive attunement from a Husband Material Coach Observe attunement in Husband Material Academy Practice attunement in a Husband Material Group Take t...

Bent On Men, Part 2 (with Harrison Bly)

August 29, 2022 15:00 - 29 minutes - 20.1 MB

What does redemption look like for men who experience unwanted same-sex attraction? Harrison Bly grew up "too gay to be Christian, too Christian to be gay." In this episode, Harrison shares his story of freedom through vulnerability, sonship, brotherhood, and redefining masculinity. Harrison Bly writes with a firm and unusual resolve about male sexuality. He uses story as a way to make sense of taboo subjects that are often over-simplified and misunderstood. Secretly gay in a conservative C...

Bent On Men, Part 1 (with Harrison Bly)

August 22, 2022 15:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MB

What does it look like to untangle unwanted same-sex attraction toward men? Harrison Bly grew up "too gay to be Christian, too Christian to be gay." In this episode, Harrison shares vulnerable stories from boyhood that shed light on why and how he sexualized masculinity. Harrison Bly writes with a firm and unusual resolve about male sexuality. He uses story as a way to make sense of taboo subjects that are often over-simplified and misunderstood. Secretly gay in a conservative Christian wor...

What Does The Bible Say About Purity? (LIVE)

August 15, 2022 15:00 - 33 minutes - 22.9 MB

The word "purity" must be defined without the damaging messages of purity culture. In this episode, I'll explain 3 types of purity in the Bible. I'll also share a vulnerable story about my own lack of purity. Then at the end, I'll answer questions and clarify the true meaning of purity. Free resources mentioned in this episode: Holiness - The Bible Project Five Failures Of Purity Culture Why Didn't I Like Vaginas? How To Measure Freedom From Porn What To Do When You See Attractive Peop...

How To Track Your Heart (with Josh Glaser)

August 08, 2022 15:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MB

How do you discover the deeper roots underneath surface-level sexual symptoms? Josh Glaser guides us in "tracking the heart," revealing where unwanted thoughts, feelings, and behaviors come from. Josh Glaser is the Executive Director of Regeneration, a Christ-centered ministry equipping men and women to live God’s good, holy, and beautiful design for relationships and sexuality. He is the creator of Awaken, an online community and 48-week discipleship series for men pursuing sexual integrit...

How To Teach Children About Sexuality (with Adam + Karissa King)

August 01, 2022 15:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MB

What should sex education look like in today's world? Adam and Karissa King explain why parents must teach children about sexuality from a young age—and how to make these conversations easy, effective, and even fun. Adam + Karissa King are a licensed coach/therapist team and the founders of Dear Young Married Couple. They understand the pressure Christian parents feel to give their kids a godly understanding of sexuality. That's why they partnered with Korena Hendryx (a biology teacher and ...

Internal Family Systems And Jesus (with Kim Miller)

July 25, 2022 15:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MB

Are you frustrated by internal conflict? Tired of being overwhelmed by thoughts and feelings? Kim Miller explains a Christ-centered approach to internal family systems (IFS). You'll learn the 5 steps of "taking a you-turn" so every part of you can encounter Jesus and be led by your Spirit-led self. Kim Miller (MTh, LMFT) is a speaker, retreat leader, and co-author of Boundaries For Your Soul. She’s certified in Internal Family Systems Therapy and Imago Relationship Therapy. Buy Kim's book...

Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 2)

July 18, 2022 15:00 - 26 minutes - 18.3 MB

N is for Ninety Days O is for Outgrow P is for Plasticity Q is for Questions R is for Redemptive Risk S is for Supernormal Stimuli T is for Trauma & Traumasexuality U is for Unwanted & Unwanted Workbook V is for Vagus Nerve & Polyvagal Theory W is for Worship (special playlist) X is for Ex- (example breakup letter) Y is for Yes! Z is for Zero Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Ste...

Outgrowing Porn From A To Z (Part 1)

July 11, 2022 15:00 - 25 minutes - 17.8 MB

In this episode, you'll learn 13 key concepts for outgrowing porn based on the first 13 letters of the alphabet. Check out the list below for further information about each key concept (including paid links): A is for Alexithymia B is for Breathing C is for Co-regulation D is for Dopamine E is for Eroticized F is for Fathering G is for Group H is for Holistic I is for IFS J is for Journey K is for Knowledge L is for Lust & Love M is for Mindfulness Next week, I'll cover the second half of ...

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