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Husband Material

290 episodes - English - Latest episode: 6 days ago - ★★★★★ - 203 ratings

So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode will make it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.

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Overcoming Enmeshment (with Dr. Ken Adams)

September 20, 2021 15:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

How does enmeshment with a parent lead to sexual brokenness? And how can we heal from it? In this episode, Dr. Ken Adams will inspire you to break free from inappropriate loyalty so you can regain your passion and purpose in life. Dr. Ken Adams is a world-renowned therapist and expert on enmeshment, covert incest, shame, abuse, and sex addiction. Learn more about Dr. Adams and the Mother-Enmeshed Men Workshop at overcomingenmeshment.com. Free Resources: Take the Men's Enmeshment Impact Sur...

How To Interpret Sexual Fantasies

September 13, 2021 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MB

Do your sexual fantasies ever feel confusing or disturbing? Have you ever wondered why they are so powerful, or how they work? In this episode, you will learn my exact formula for interpreting sexual fantasies. If you don't understand your fantasies, you will have a love/hate relationship with them. However, sexual fantasies lose much of their power when you learn how to interpret them. You can become less ashamed, and more accepting of yourself. You can also become less fixated, and more f...

Why Attachment Is The Key To Healing (with Dr. Jake Porter)

September 06, 2021 15:00 - 51 minutes - 35.7 MB

Attachment is at the core of who we are, why we struggle, and how we heal. Dr. Jake Porter explains attachment in a way that is powerful, practical, and personal. Listening to this episode is insightful and delightful! Dr. Jake Porter is the founder of Couple-Centered Recovery, a model for treating attachment wounds of couples experiencing the trauma of betrayal. Jake is a Christian psychotherapist who has taught and presented research on the topics of theology, counseling, trauma, and addi...

The Science Of Masturbation (with Scott Cone)

August 30, 2021 15:00 - 1 hour - 47.7 MB

Can masturbation ever be healthy? How does it affect the brain? What does the Bible say?  In this episode, Scott Cone shares a comprehensive assessment of masturbation. The Five Gaps Of Masturbation: The Arousal Gap The Duration Gap The Frequency Gap The Sensation Gap The Connection Gap PDF Download: Scott Cone's Masturbation Assessment Worksheet Books mentioned in this episode (these are paid links): Unwanted, by Jay Stringer The Great Sex Rescue, by Sheila Wray Gregoire Out Of The ...

How To Form A Triad (LIVE)

August 23, 2021 15:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

Get wisdom on how to practically build brotherhood with 2-3 other men. At Husband Material, we call groups of 3 men "triads." In this episode, you'll learn why we recommend triads over accountability partners, how to form your own triad, and what real men in 3 different triads are currently doing to help each other heal. 3 Ways To Form A Triad: Join the Husband Material Community (free) Join Husband Material Academy (low cost, low commitment) Join a Husband Material Small Group (high cos...

Healthy Male Friendship (with Drew, Stephen, Marcus, and Doug)

August 16, 2021 15:00 - 1 hour - 51.1 MB

Why is it so hard to make friends with other men? How can we go deep and get close without getting inappropriate? What about physical touch? Many of us never learned these things. If you long for deep, satisfying brotherhood in Christ, this episode is for you. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one pr...

Your Brain Off Porn (with Greg Oliver)

August 09, 2021 15:00 - 53 minutes - 36.5 MB

Why is it so difficult to stop using porn? What brain chemicals are involved, and how do they work together? Listen to recovery coach Greg Oliver answer these questions with sharp insights from neuroscience and Scripture. Dopamine & Norepinephrine = anticipation and arousal Oxytocin & Vasopressin = bonding and mate selection Serotonin & Prolactin = soothing relaxation and sleep If you would like a summary of all the research we shared today, email Greg Oliver at [email protected]. G...

The Pirate & The Monk (with Nate Larkin)

August 02, 2021 15:00 - 1 hour - 45 MB

One of my all-time favorite storytellers is Nate Larkin. In this episode, Nate tells his whole story. You'll hear how he failed as a Pharisee, how he came out of hiding, what he is struggling with right now, and how to do the 4-point check-in he uses with his friends on a daily basis. Nate Larkin is the founder of the Samson Society, a fellowship of Christian men who are serious about authenticity, community, humility, and recovery. Buy Nate's book here (this is a paid link): Samson and the...

Theology of the Testicles

July 26, 2021 15:00 - 8 minutes - 6.1 MB

What is God's design for the testicles? How do testicles uniquely reflect the image of God? You might be surprised! This episode is a follow-up to a previous episode: Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson). Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for...

What Is Spiritual Bypass? (with Dr. Craig Cashwell)

July 19, 2021 15:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MB

Have you ever met someone who over-spiritualizes everything? In this episode, Dr. Craig Cashwell introduces the concept of spiritual bypass: how spiritual ideas or practices can become a crutch to cope with pain or trauma (just like pornography). Along the way, Craig  unpacks different examples of spiritual bypass, such as toxic positivity, compulsive goodness, and forced forgiveness. We also talk about how emotional/spiritual health is totally different and so much better! Dr. Craig Cashwe...

From Crisis To Closeness (with Clinton and Charity Muñoz)

July 12, 2021 15:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MB

This is the story of a couple who nearly divorced 4 years into marriage due to chronic sexual betrayal. They got a lot of bad advice and made a lot of mistakes, but with God as their foundation, Clinton and Charity Muñoz are now closer than ever before. They went from infidelity to intimacy—from crisis to closeness—and now they help others do the same at Restored 2 More. Learn more about Restored 2 More here: Restored2More.com Restored2More Podcast Restored2More Instagram Take the Husband ...

Bullying And The Inner Critic (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)

July 05, 2021 15:00 - 50 minutes - 34.8 MB

The voice in your head that constantly criticizes you, saying you're weak, ugly, stupid, or not good enough is the voice of a bully. Bullying can come from anywhere: parents, peers, or even pornography. In this episode, Dr. Doug Carpenter explains why bullying creates the "inner critic" inside each of us, how bullying can be sexualized, what to do if you are currently being bullied, and how to heal from the effects of past bullying. Dr. Doug Carpenter is the founder of Insight Counseling Se...

Master Your Nervous System (LIVE)

June 28, 2021 15:00 - 52 minutes - 35.9 MB

What is the autonomic nervous system and why should I care? Because freedom from porn depends on it. Being able to notice, name, and navigate your nervous system allows you to regulate, replacing the pacifier of porn. You can find a visual summary of this episode here. Resources mentioned (these are paid links): The Body Keeps The Score, by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk Polyvagal Theory in Therapy, by Deb Dana Polyvagal Exercises for Safety & Connection, by Deb Dana The Pocket Guide to the Polyv...

Master Your Nervous System (Live)

June 28, 2021 15:00 - 52 minutes - 35.9 MB

What is the autonomic nervous system and why should I care? Because freedom from porn depends on it. Being able to notice, name, and navigate your nervous system allows you to regulate, replacing the pacifier of porn. You can find a visual summary of this episode here. Resources mentioned (these are paid links): The Body Keeps The Score, by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk Polyvagal Theory in Therapy, by Deb Dana Polyvagal Exercises for Safety & Connection, by Deb Dana The Pocket Guide to the Polyv...

Healing Mother Wounds (with Dan Hitz)

June 21, 2021 15:00 - 52 minutes - 35.9 MB

What is a mother wound? How do you know if you have one? And how can mother wounds be healed? In this episode, Dan Hitz tells the story of his mother wounds, how they impacted his sexuality, and what the Lord has done to alleviate his anger, remove his self-hatred, and allow him to feel safe with women. Dan Hitz is the Executive Director of Reconciliation Ministries (a member of Restored Hope Network). Dan is a Licensed Professional Counselor in Michigan, a Certified Clinical Trauma Profes...

Theology of the Penis (with Jeremy Williamson)

June 14, 2021 15:00 - 40 minutes - 27.9 MB

What is God's purpose for the penis? How does it reflect the image of God? And how can I reclaim the goodness of my penis? Join me and Jeremy Williamson for a candid conversation about God, men, and embodied brotherhood. Jeremy Williamson is a Pastoral Counselor at Restoration Counseling in Northern Colorado. Email Jeremy at [email protected]. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Mate...

Emotional Times And Seasons

June 07, 2021 15:00 - 10 minutes - 7.33 MB

Why are certain times of the day, week, or year more difficult? Because emotions fluctuate. In this episode, I'll help you prepare for emotionally difficult times and seasons so you can give yourself plenty of grace and space to process your emotions rather than turning to the pacifier of porn. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Po...

Psychology And Spirituality (with Dr. Ken McGill)

May 31, 2021 15:00 - 30 minutes - 21.2 MB

How does psychology relate to spirituality? How does therapy relate to theology? Dr. Ken McGill is a Christ-centered clinician who has been answering these questions for decades. In this episode, Dr. Ken offers a perspective on sex addiction that is both clinical and compatible with Christianity. Dr. Ken McGill is a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist with a Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He is the author of Cultivating Love Book Series (this is a paid link): https://amzn.to/3hUNmlv Learn ...

How To Measure Freedom From Porn (LIVE)

May 24, 2021 15:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

Measuring freedom from porn usually produces self-contempt or self-righteousness. How can we avoid these two pitfalls? Is there a better way? Yes, there is! In this episode, I'll share the 4 levels of freedom from porn, how to evaluate your sexual and emotional maturity and my #1 most meaningful measurement. Register my upcoming free live class, "How To Outgrow Porn," at outgrowporn.com! Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: J...

Porn As Re-Enactment Of Sexual Abuse (with Wendell Moss)

May 17, 2021 14:00 - 57 minutes - 39.4 MB

Why do we return to porn even though it harms us? What if we return to porn precisely because it harms us? The answer is often re-enactment. "Re-enactment (noun): the acting out of a past event." Therapist and licensed mental health counselor Wendell Moss tells the story how porn re-enacted sexual abuse from when he was a boy, and what happened when he was confronted by the fierce kindness of God. Wendell Moss teaches at The Seattle School of Theology & Psychology and The Allender Center. A...

Scarred By A Sibling (with Marcus Spaur)

May 10, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MB

Have you ever been hurt by a sibling or close friend? Sometimes porn is used as a pacifier for painful peer relationships... or in some cases, the lack of any relationships at all. Marcus Spaur knows what it's like to be scarred by a sibling, and also what it's like to heal more deeply than he ever imagined. He has over 6 years of freedom from porn... and a passion for helping other men become the best possible versions of themselves this side of heaven! Marcus Spaur is the founder of Betwe...

Healing Brother Wounds (with Marcus Spaur)

May 10, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 47.8 MB

Have you ever been hurt by a sibling or close friend? Sometimes porn is used as a pacifier for painful peer relationships... or in some cases, the lack of any relationships at all. Marcus Spaur knows what it's like to be scarred by a sibling, and also what it's like to heal more deeply than he ever imagined. He has over 6 years of freedom from porn... and a passion for helping other men become the best possible versions of themselves this side of heaven! Marcus Spaur is the founder of Betwe...

Unwanted Sexual Attraction

May 03, 2021 14:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MB

Let's change the way we talk about sexual attractions and desires. No matter who or what you're sexually attracted to, this episode is for you.  What can we do with unwanted sexual attraction?  1. Talk about it  2. Understand it  3. Appreciate it  4. Manage it  Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one ...

The Truth About Erectile Dysfunction (with Shawn Bonneteau)

April 26, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 42.9 MB

Porn-induced erectile dysfunction is more common—and curable—than you might think. Hear Shawn Bonneteau's story of PIED/ED, why he continued to struggle after years of freedom from porn, and how he finally overcame it. Shawn also shares practical steps to freedom from PIED/ED, including The Thought Model. Download Shawn's free 5-page PDF explaining The Thought Model here. Shawn Bonneteau is a professional mentor and the co-founder of Secret Habit, where he and his wife Helena equip & empow...

Embrace Conflict (with Jay Stringer)

April 19, 2021 14:00 - 40 minutes - 27.8 MB

Porn is a pacifier for conflict...with God, with others, and even with ourselves. Learn to embrace conflict in a redemptive way with author and therapist Jay Stringer. I recommend Jay's book more than any other (this is a paid link): Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way To Healing More Resources by Jay Stringer and Drew Boa: The Sexual Fantasy Framework (Free Mini-Course) The Unwanted Digital Workbook Jay will be joining us for an exclusive Q&A event and special announcement...

BONUS: Drew's Spiritual Warfare Song

April 12, 2021 15:00 - 1 minute - 1.13 MB

Listen to this short clip on repeat to memorize Ephesians 6:10-17. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Seven Strategies For Spiritual Warfare (LIVE)

April 12, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 44.6 MB

We are not in a war against sexuality (which is good); we are in a war against evil. Come learn 7 strategies for spiritual warfare based on the Temptation of Jesus in Matthew 4:1-11... and hear my special spiritual warfare song! Download a free one-page summary of this episode here: husbandmaterial.com/43 NOTE: In the middle of this presentation I started weeping.  Don't be alarmed! It's okay. God was ministering to me. I believe my tears are not a sign of weakness, but strength. Take th...

Rebuilding Sexual Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)

April 05, 2021 14:00 - 33 minutes - 23.3 MB

In a marriage devastated by porn, when and how should sex come back into the picture? In part two of this two-part series, Adam King and Karissa King explain how to slowly but surely restore sexual intimacy to be better than it ever was before. Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all over the world through onlin...

Rebuilding Emotional Intimacy After Porn (with Adam King and Karissa King)

March 29, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 43.7 MB

In a marriage devastated by porn, how do you rebuild trust? In part one of this two part series, Adam King and Karissa King share the 5 steps every couple must take to rebuild trust (for both spouses). Download the free PDF guide here: 5 Steps When Trust Has Been Broken Adam and Karissa (@dearyoungmarriedcouple) have been working as a coach-therapist team since 2011 and are dedicated to helping couples become intimately connected, get adventurous, and find purpose. They serve couples all o...

The Art Of Affirmation (with Stephen Thomas)

March 22, 2021 14:00 - 46 minutes - 31.9 MB

We believe practicing verbal affirmation is absolutely essential to outgrowing porn. In this episode, Drew and Stephen will tell you why, and share practical strategies for how (not) to do it. Qualities Of Effective Affirmation:  specific and precise (not generic or vague) evidence-based (clearly not made up) focused on the person (not the performance) Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Co...

Healing Father Wounds (with Chris Bruno)

March 15, 2021 14:00 - 42 minutes - 29.5 MB

How does porn relate to your father? If you have been under-fathered, what does it look like to be re-fathered? And how can we become fathers who reverse the curse of sexual sin and shame? Let this conversation with Chris Bruno open your eyes! Chris Bruno is the Founder and CEO of Restoration Project, a ministry restoring the hearts of men. He is also the leader of Restoration Counseling and a married father who enjoys mountains, rivers, and hammocks. Chris has authored two books (these ar...

Transform Your Thought Life (with Sathiya Sam)

March 08, 2021 15:00 - 53 minutes - 36.8 MB

Let's change our brains. How can we take back control of our thoughts and transform our core beliefs? My fellow Canadian friend Sathiya Sam is here to show us how. Sathiya Sam is the founder of Deep Clean, an online recovery program that helps Christian men overcome porn. Connect with Sathiya  @sathiyamesam and check out his program at getadeepclean.com Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Comm...

Nine Tips About Triggers

March 01, 2021 15:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MB

What are triggers? How do triggers work? And most importantly, how can we take back control when we get triggered? This episode will answer each of these questions clearly and concisely...and at the end, I'll explain my own B.O.A. Technique for effective regulation. Download the free one-page summary: Nine Tips About Triggers Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the fr...

Holy Sexuality & Singleness (with Dr. Christopher Yuan)

February 23, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 43.3 MB

Hear Dr. Christopher Yuan's amazing story of coming to Christ, surrendering same-sex attraction, and embracing the gift of singleness. Dr. Christopher Yuan has taught at Moody Bible Institute for over ten years and his speaking ministry on faith and sexuality has reached five continents. In this episode, we dive into his newest book: Holy Sexuality and the Gospel. Dr. Yuan is the author of three books (these are paid links): 1. Out of a Far Country: A Gay Son’s Journey to God, A Broken Mot...

A Pastor Finds Freedom From Porn (with Bernie Anderson)

February 15, 2021 15:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

Outgrowing porn can be especially difficult for pastors and ministry leaders. Hear how Pastor Bernie Anderson got found out, but found a way out...and how God found a way in! Bernie will be a leader at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat. Sign up now to join his small group! Buy Bernie's book here (this is a paid link): Breaking The Silence: A Pastor Goes Public About His Battle With Pornography Email Bernie at [email protected] Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: ...

What Should I Do With My Sexual Desires?

February 08, 2021 15:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

What should I do with my sexual desires—my attractions, urges, impulses, cravings, fantasies, aches, longings, and yearnings? I've been on a quest to answer this question for 15 years and finally found an answer worth sharing... Download the worksheet for this episode with 35 desires and 4 directions for each one: https://www.husbandmaterial.com/35-desires-and-4-directions P.S. Don't forget to sign up for the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat!  Take the Husband Material Journey......

Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci, Scott Cone, and Stephen Thomas)

February 01, 2021 15:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

We all have blind spots. But what are they? If we knew, they wouldn't be blind spots! Listen to a lively conversation between 4 leaders as we talk about the blind spots we commonly see in ourselves and the men we coach. Eddie, Drew, Scott, and Stephen will all be leaders at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat on "Healing The Inner Child" on the weekend of February 26-28! Get the details and register now at husbandmaterial.com/retreat Other free resources mentioned on this episod...

Blind Spots In Relationships (with Eddie Capparucci and Stephen Thomas)

February 01, 2021 15:00 - 39 minutes - 27.2 MB

We all have blind spots. But what are they? If we knew, they wouldn't be blind spots! Listen to a lively conversation between 3 leaders as we talk about the blind spots we commonly see in ourselves and the men we coach. Eddie, Drew, and Stephen will all be leaders at the upcoming Husband Material Virtual Retreat on "Healing The Inner Child" on the weekend of February 26-28! Get the details and register now at husbandmaterial.com/retreat Other free resources mentioned in this episode: Edd...

Jesus Is Our Pure Hope (with Jasper Hall)

January 25, 2021 15:00 - 33 minutes - 22.8 MB

Let's redefine purity: it's a relationship, not an accomplishment...it's about presence, not performance...and according to Jasper Hall, it comes from Jesus. Jasper Hall is the President of pureHOPE, a ministry equipping men and women to pursue purity through relationship with Jesus. Jasper brings a sense of calm and assurance to people who feel anxiety about navigating a sexualized, digital age. Learn more at purehope.net Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcas...

When Porn Seems Like The Only Option...

January 18, 2021 15:00 - 47 minutes - 32.9 MB

Do you ever feel trapped? Let me give you 5 empowering choices when it feels like porn is the only option...and along the way, I'll tell a story I've never shared in public before. This episode comes with a free PDF worksheet. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy ...

What Is A Sexually Healthy Man? (with Andrew Bauman)

January 11, 2021 15:00 - 41 minutes - 28.7 MB

Many of us grew up without a clue about what it means to be a sexually healthy man. That's why I'm so grateful for Andrew Bauman and his new book, "The Sexually Healthy Man." Join us for a rugged conversation about true masculine sexuality. Andrew J. Bauman and his wife Christy run the Christian Counseling Center for Sexual Health and Trauma, where they "provide high-quality experiential, narrative-based psychotherapy from a Christian worldview." Andrew is the author of several books, inclu...

Fight The New Drug (with Clay Olsen)

January 04, 2021 15:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

The global anti-porn movement is gaining momentum. In this episode, you'll hear about it directly from Clay Olsen, co-founder of Fight The New Drug. Fight The New Drug (FTND) is a youth movement dedicated to raising awareness of the harmful effects of pornography and other forms of sexual exploitation. Learn more at fightthenewdrug.org. Here are 2 amazing resources by Fight The New Drug everyone needs to know about: Brain Heart World - brainheartworld.org This is a 3-part documentary seri...

How To Relate Like An Adult

December 28, 2020 15:00 - 11 minutes - 8.12 MB

Learn the two styles of relating you need to outgrow in order to enjoy the freedom of life as an adult. Interested in outgrowing porn? Learn more at outgrowporn.com. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Marnie Ferree: Meet The Three Bears

December 21, 2020 15:00 - 42 minutes - 29.4 MB

Within each of us, there are three bears in three chairs. Listen to Marnie Ferree explain why, and you'll understand yourself in a whole new way. Marnie C. Ferree is a licensed marriage and family therapist in Nashville, Tennessee, where she directs Bethesda Workshops, which provides Christian-based treatment for sex addicts, their partners, couples, and teens affected by sexual addiction. Learn more at https://www.bethesdaworkshops.org/ Marnie is also the author of No Stones: Women Redeem...

Greg Oliver: Prepare For A Porn-Free Christmas

December 14, 2020 15:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

It's the most triggering time of the year! Have yourself a healthy little Christmas with tips from Greg Oliver as shares the 4 challenges we all face at Christmastime, the CPR method for staying healthy, and how to redeem the hand you use to masturbate. Greg Oliver struggled for over 25 years with an addiction to sex & porn. Since 2009 he has been on a journey of healing and recovery. Greg is a certified Sexual Recovery Pastoral Counselor and the Director/Co-founder (with his wife Stacey) o...

Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend

December 07, 2020 15:00 - 34 minutes - 23.6 MB

Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerability.  Stephen is a husband and father who has had sobriety from porn for over 12 years. He has led multiple Pure Desire groups and is now joining Husband Material as a private small group leader. Stephen is passionate about seeing men who feel hopelessly buried by addictions come alive and realize the...

Stephen Thomas: Shame Is A Terrible Friend

December 07, 2020 15:00 - 34 minutes - 23.6 MB

Shame sucks. In this episode, Stephen Thomas shares a childhood story of humiliation, his struggle with porn and same-sex attraction, and how he found lasting freedom through radical vulnerability.  Stephen is a husband and father who has had sobriety from porn for over 12 years. He has led multiple Pure Desire groups and is now joining Husband Material as a private small group leader. Stephen is passionate about seeing men who feel hopelessly buried by addictions come alive and realize the...

The Gospel For Sexual Sinners (Live)

November 30, 2020 15:00 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MB

How does the gospel speak into sexual brokenness? This episode is all about who Jesus is and who we are as sexual beings in Christ. Free resource: check out my list of Identity in Christ statements with Scripture references included at https://www.husbandmaterial.com/37 Spoiler Alert: In the middle of this episode, there is a rap. Bet you didn't see that coming! In case you're wondering, the song is "The Cross (3 Hours)" by Shai Linne. Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen ...

Josh Glaser: Lust And Love

November 23, 2020 15:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MB

What's the difference between lust and love? Hear from Josh Glaser as he shares his story of healing and we talk about what it means to not just avoid lust, but grow in Christ-like love. Josh Glaser is the Executive Director of Regeneration, a Christ-centered ministry that helps men, women, and families to learn and live God’s good, holy, and beautiful design for sexuality. Check out Josh's podcast at regenerationministries.org/podcast Contact Josh to inquire about coaching at regeneratio...

How To Fall Asleep Without Porn

November 16, 2020 15:00 - 9 minutes - 6.28 MB

If lust is your lullaby, this episode is for you. Learn the unique reasons why porn serves as a sleep aid and how to find a better solution.  Take the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

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