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Divorce Team Radio - Your Source for Divorce and Family Law Matters

260 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 67 ratings

If you, a friend or family member is facing a divorce or similar family law matter, then this show is for you. Here is where we share our experience and knowledge to help others navigate a challenging phase of life. This show is a re-broadcast of a Radio Show sponsored by Meriwether and Tharp, a law firm with over 40 lawyers focusing on divorce and family law matters.

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Episodes

257 - How to Co-Parent with a Difficult Person

May 30, 2024 21:28 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MB

Parenting is difficult. Co-parenting in the context of a divorce or custody action even more so. But co-parenting with someone who has a history of difficult behavior can sometimes seem impossible! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses tips to help you co-parent with difficult and aggressive people.

256 - Discovery and Experts in Divorce Actions

May 30, 2024 20:56 - 30 minutes - 29.1 MB

Divorce agreements don’t just happen, and if you want to ensure a fair settlement you need to gather and analyze relevant information! Whether the issues relate to custody, support or division of property and debt, the use of discovery and experts is incredibly important. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses how, why, and when you may need to engage in discovery and seek the assistance of expert w...

255 - Legal Rights of Unmarried Couples

May 30, 2024 20:43 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MB

Property and other rights are completely different when parties are married. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses property and other legal rights if you are not legally married.

254 - Avoid These 12 Divorce Pitfalls

May 30, 2024 20:35 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MB

Navigating the divorce process can be scary, and there are countless ways that your actions and decisions can impact your case! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses 12 common divorce pitfalls that can hurt your case, and ways to avoid them!

253 - The Ultimate Divorce Question – Concede or Contest

May 30, 2024 20:22 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Just because you can fight, doesn’t mean that a fight is in your best interest. Every day people are faced with the decision – should I take a position and fight about an issue, or should I give up on the issue and move on? Sometimes making that decision in an emotionally charged process, like divorce, can be difficult. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, talks about this very important question and the im...

252 - Should I File for Contempt?

May 30, 2024 20:12 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

If your ex fails or refuses to comply with a court order, the behavior may rise to the level of contempt. But does that mean you should race to court and file a contempt action? Maybe, but maybe not! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses when and if you should file a Petition for Contempt!

251 - 4 Crucial Steps Before You File for Divorce

May 30, 2024 20:03 - 43 minutes - 40.6 MB

If you are considering divorce, then preparation is key! In some situations, the steps you take in preparation for divorce are just as important as the things you do during the divorce. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses 4 incredibly important steps you should take BEFORE you file for divorce!

250 - Georgia Visitation and Parenting Time

April 26, 2024 15:54 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

If you or someone you know is dealing with custody issues in a divorce or custody modification case, you must listen to this episode of Divorce Team Radio as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses issues, challenges and pitfalls he regularly sees as parents fight to protect their parenting time with children.

249 - Grandparent Visitation with David Canale

April 25, 2024 17:10 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Grandparents DO have rights! But the law is very specific about what you must show to seek and obtain visitation rights as a grandparent. This is a very technical area of family law, and in this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston discusses grandparent visitation with David Canale, a partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC.

248 - More Q&A About Divorce and Family Law

April 25, 2024 16:56 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MB

Reviewing other people’s questions and commonly observed legal fact patterns is a great way to get educated about your own case.  In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, answers legal questions that may just provide you with the answers you need to properly protect yourself in court.

247 - Will Mediation Work for Me?

April 25, 2024 16:33 - 44 minutes - 41.5 MB

Mediation is a very common and effective type of Alternative Dispute Resolution that is widely used in divorce, custody and other family law cases. Many courts require mediation before hearings and trials can be scheduled, and if you prepare properly, there is a very high chance that the assigned mediator will help you reach an agreement and stay out of court. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, discusses ...

246 - Understanding Family Violence Protective Orders

March 19, 2024 17:58 - 43 minutes - 40.9 MB

Family Violence Protective Orders are issued by judges in order to address allegations of stalking, harassment and violence between specific individuals. The process has unique and fast-paced rules you must understand if you find yourself involved in such a case. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, offers a detailed explanation about filing and litigating these types of cases.

245 - Everything you need to know about the Divorce Process

March 19, 2024 17:40 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MB

Divorces don’t just happen, and navigating divorce processes and procedures can be incredibly challenging. From filing requirements, to service of process, to settlement negotiation and strategy, there is a lot to think about and accomplish in order to avoid an unfortunate outcome. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses issues you must consider in your divorce.

244 - 10 Tips for a Healthy Holiday

March 19, 2024 17:27 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Holidays can be stressful in the best of times, but during or after a divorce they can become emotional mine fields! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses 10 tips to help ensure that you and your family experience a happy, healthy, and conflict-free holiday season!

243 - Tips for Your Uncontested Divorce

March 15, 2024 19:08 - 44 minutes - 41.4 MB

Are uncontested divorces real? Absolutely! But “uncontested” is not the same thing as “amicable.” To have an uncontested divorce you need to be in agreement with your spouse on all matters related to the divorce. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses tips you need to hear to increase the chance that your divorce is uncontested.

242 - Information you Need to Know About Asset Division in Divorce

February 13, 2024 15:57 - 45 minutes - 42.3 MB

One of the 4 Core Areas of divorce, Asset Division is often more complicated than people think. Failure to identify all of the marital assets, protect pre-marital and separate assets, or include the correct settlement language in a divorce settlement agreement, and the mistake could cost you dearly! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio you will hear Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discuss Georgia’s Equitable Division of Property standard, ...

241 - When Should I Tell My Spouse I Am Filing for Divorce?

February 13, 2024 15:52 - 45 minutes - 42.2 MB

There may never be a good time to tell your spouse you are filing for divorce, but there are definitely right ways and wrong ways! A poor decision related to how you tell your spouse about a pending divorce action could have long lasting consequences that interfere with your ability to avoid messy litigation. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio you will hear Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, offer tips on how to go about having these diffic...

240 - Important Questions and Answers About Divorce and Family Law

February 13, 2024 15:44 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MB

In this episode of Divorce Team Radio you will hear Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, explore complex questions about divorce and other family law matters. Listening to the issues faced by others has two primary benefit: it helps you deal with similar issues in your case, and it also help you more generally understand how divorce and family law issues are commonly addressed by Judges.

239 - How Should I Tell the World That I Am Divorcing?

February 13, 2024 15:31 - 44 minutes - 42 MB

You may want to tell the entire world about your divorce, but the manner in which you handle the public announcement can have serious effects on your divorce case. If you handle it the wrong way it could interfere with settlement, or even be used against you in court hearings and trials! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio you will hear Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discuss methods and potential pitfalls relating to how you tell friends...

238 - Questions and Answers Related to the 4 Core Areas of Divorce

January 18, 2024 15:34 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Q&A sessions are powerful tools that explore important divorce issues. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, answers questions related to the 4-Core divorce issues – Custody, Child Support, Alimony, and Equitable Division of Property.

237 - 25 Vital Post Divorce Tips

January 18, 2024 15:25 - 43 minutes - 40.4 MB

How many useful tips regarding the things you MUST think about AFTER your divorce can you fit into one show?  In this episode of Divorce Team Radio the answer is 25!  Listen as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, offers vital information you need to ensure a successful post-divorce!

236 - How Your Behavior in the Marriage Can Impact Your Divorce

January 18, 2024 15:17 - 44 minutes - 41.5 MB

In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, continues his discussion about behavior that can cause parties to divorce by examining how evidence of that behavior is regularly used in divorce actions.

235 - Why Divorce Happens - 9 Common Behaviors That Lead to Divorce

January 18, 2024 14:51 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Over the last 25 years the attorneys at Meriwether & Tharp, LLC have represented thousands of clients in divorce actions, and while every case is unique, it is clear that certain behavior can push couples towards divorce. In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses 9 common behaviors that lead to divorce.

234 - 8 Tips for Your Initial Conference with a Divorce Attorney

January 11, 2024 20:10 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Preparation is important when you meet for the first time with your divorce attorney! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses how to prepare for and make the most of your initial divorce attorney conference.

233 - Do You Really Want Your Day in Court?

December 05, 2023 19:15 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MB

1.       Are you are determined to present your divorce case to a judge?  Are you confident that the judge in your divorce case will understand and take your side? In this episode of Divorce Team Radio, listen as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether & Tharp, LLC, explores the benefits and potential pitfalls associated with pushing your case to a hearing or final trial.

232 - Prove It!

December 05, 2023 19:02 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

In Divorce and Family Law cases it is not just what you say that counts – it is what you can PROVE that matters most!  Judges in divorce cases rely on evidence, and in this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses why it is vital to gather, organize and present evidence that supports the positions you take in divorce, custody and other family law cases.

231 - Is Divorce Your Only Option?

December 05, 2023 18:47 - 45 minutes - 42 MB

Annulment, Separate Maintenance and Postnuptial Agreements, oh my! in this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses possible alternatives to filing for divorce. In the show Todd explores a few ways to address issues relating to custody, support, and property division, without filing a divorce action.

230 - Gender Bias in Divorce and Custody Cases

December 05, 2023 18:35 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Do statutes and case law favor one gender over another? Do judges presiding over divorce and custody cases base their rulings on gender? In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, considers these questions and more as he analyzes the true impact of gender in divorce and family law cases.

229 - How and When Should You File for Divorce

November 29, 2023 17:16 - 45 minutes - 42 MB

Start your divorce the wrong way and it could put you at a serious disadvantage. You must consider how and when to file your divorce in order to protect your finances and custody rights.  In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, shares his thoughts about issues like timing, methods of service, and the strategic consequences of your decisions.

228 - Common Misconceptions About Divorce

November 07, 2023 17:44 - 45 minutes - 42.1 MB

There are many different opinions about divorce issues, but not all advice is good advice!  In this episode of Divorce Team Radio you will hear Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, explain some very common misconceptions people have about issues like adultery, alimony and property division in a divorce.

227 - Divorce: Why Details Matter

October 31, 2023 17:52 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

Information and details are incredibly important in a divorce. As a general rule, the more you have the more protected you will be! In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, discusses why the discovery and use of detailed information relating to your case will help guarantee your custody, support and property rights are protected!

226 - Ways to Protect Your Separate Property

October 31, 2023 16:53 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

If you brought separate property into your marriage, make sure you know how to protect those separate assets in a divorce!  In this episode of Divorce Team Radio Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family Law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, offers tips on how to protect separate and non-marital assets, and to NOT do things that could damage or destroy the separate nature of those assets.

225 - Divorce and Mortgage Refinancing with Expert Ryan Jacobs

October 25, 2023 19:03 - 45 minutes - 42.3 MB

Listen to Divorce Team Radio as Todd Orston, Partner at the Divorce and Family law firm of Meriwether &Tharp, LLC, explores divorce and mortgage refinancing with Atlanta mortgage expert Ryan Jacobs of Homespire Mortgage. Ryan and Todd discuss mortgages, refinancing, and the 6 Tips you MUST know if mortgage refinancing is a requirement in your divorce!

224 - Thanks for The Memories

January 17, 2022 19:00 - 44 minutes - 62.5 MB

In this show, Leh starts off with an announcement that is both happy and sad all at the same time.  Then Leh and Todd discuss resources to help save your marriage if it is in the middle of a crisis; to help you improve your marriage; to help you prepare for your next marriage; and to help you improve your communication skills.  They explain how to listen to their past shows together to gain the greatest benefit.  The shows they reference in this episode are listed below: 11 - Can I Save My...

223 - Painting a Picture of What to Expect at Mediation

December 27, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 42 MB

In today's show, Leh and Todd discuss Mediation, how it is structured, who is involved, why it is so valuable, and how to prepare for it.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it.  Not sure how? You can read about it here.

222 - Bankruptcy, tax, and custody Q&A's

December 20, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

In this show, Leh and Todd take on a variety of questions on different topics surrounding divorce and custody cases. The questions they take on include: Can my ex get out of selling the house by filing for bankrutpcy? Does the opposing party have to file a response with the Court in order to get a Court date for custody. If I do not file a response to a Motion for Judgment, am I in default? Can my child's father get rights to see our daughter if I choose not to have him involved? Can I ...

221 - Freeing Brittney from Her Conservatorship

December 16, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Leh and Todd explore what happened in Brittney Spears' conservatorship case and discuss the 'political' discussion that erupted from it.  They explain what a Conservatorship is; when is it appropriate to appoint a conservator; review the facts that led up to the original appointment of a conservator and the facts that led up to its dismissal; and finally look into the difference between a family and a professionally licensed conservator.   If you would like a transcript of this show, you ca...

220 - Answering Questions about Custody, Contempt, Sleeping with One's Lawyer, and More

November 29, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 42 MB

In this show, Leh and Todd  answer a variety of questions dealing with several different topics.  The questions they discuss involve: What to do if you and your co-parent live in different states and there is no court order regarding parenting time?   When should you file for a motion for contempt to enforce your parenting time?   If my ex-wife continued to live with me and withdraw money from our joint bank account after the divorce, will I have to pay her back owed child support after...

219 - Solving Co-Parenting Dilemmas with Diane Dierks and Dr Rick Voyles

November 15, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 103 MB

The reason that Leh and Todd do this show is to help people going through difficult times.  That includes sharing resources that they believe will help their listeners.  In today's show, they interview the co-hosts of the new podcast Co-Parenting Dilemmas.  Their podcast takes listener questions and answers them on the show!  After Diane and Rick explain the why, what and how behind their new show, Leh and Todd discuss the dark side of Georgia's 14 year old election statute.  Diane and Rick ...

218 - How A D.A.I.L.Y. Reminder Can Improve Your Holiday Experience

November 08, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

A divorce can quickly ruin the holidays for you and your children.  It is rough.  But, there are steps you can take to help create new positive memories for your children rather than nightmares they will never forget.  In today's show, Leh and Todd talk about the D.A.I.L.Y. steps you can take to help improve your situation and create positive memories despite the pain of a divorce.  The pneumonic stands for Days matter; Attitude; I, I, I (it is not all about you); Live in the moment; Y do yo...

217 - 2021 Halloween Special!!!

October 25, 2021 16:00 - 45 minutes - 104 MB

It is that time of the year again where Leh and Todd talk about what the undead and monsters can do about their family law problems.   To be clear, they both take what they do seriously, but this show is just for fun.  This year, they get a visit from an old favorite, Dracula.  He is having trouble seeing his grandkids because his daughter's family has gone vegan.  Following Dracula, they get a visit from Jaques Th'rippa.  He wants to get a name change because everyone thinks his name is Jac...

216 - Is Alimony only for Women?

October 18, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Commentary on some recent YouTube videos triggered today's show.  The commentator was surprised by the responses women had to a recent award of alimony to Kelly Clarkson's soon to be ex-husband.  In this show, Leh and Todd discuss alimony.  They explore how it is gender neutral as written (in Georgia, at least), but often it is not gender neutral in application.   They close out the show by discussing steps you should take make the best possible claim for alimony in light of your circumsta...

215 - 8 Tips to Create Room for an Amicable Divorce

October 13, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 42 MB

Leh and Todd discuss eight simple tips to help create room for an amicable divorce.  Not all the steps are easy, but they are simple.  The steps they include: Learn how to speak “respectfully”  Give each other “space” when sharing common spaces in the home Consider alternate sleeping arrangements Respect your spouse’s safe haven Respect your spouse’s personal property (clothing, collectibles, work-related info/items, etc.) Respect the marital property When it may be time to move...

214 - Q&A - How do you navigate the divorce process without income?

September 27, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Leh and Todd came across a question that had many layers.  These layers ran deeper than just the question on the surface. So, they decided to spend most of the show breaking it down.  Here is the question they tackled - How can I file for and successfully navigate the divorce process when I don't currently have income?  I am a full time college student, a senior, my husband is the sole provider. We have two special needs kids that make the situation even trickier. I don’t want him to be able...

213 - Knowing The Rules of Evidence so the Judge Rules In Your Favor - Part 2

September 22, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Leh and Todd finish up their review of the Rules of Evidence.  In particular, they focus on the exceptions to the hearsay rule.  While these rules can get complicated, they take their time to present them in an understandable way.  If you can't survive an 'objection' to your evidence, the Judge won't be able to consider it. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website.     If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about ...

212 - Knowing The Rules of Evidence so the Judge Rules In Your Favor

September 17, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 42 MB

Leh and Todd take on the rules of evidence.  More specifically, they discuss the exceptions to the hearsay rule.  Hearsay is somewhat straightforward:  It is an out of court statement that goes to the truth of the matter asserted.  What makes this simple rule complicated are all the exceptions to this rule.  In order to properly introduce your evidence in Court, you have to know these rules.  But, Leh and Todd do their best to point out the ones your will most likely encounter in a divorce c...

211 - You Want to Avoid Hearing this in Court: "I Object" ... Understanding the Rules of Evidence

August 30, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 62.5 MB

Leh and Todd spend some valuable time explaining the rules of evidence, where they come from, why they are there, and how they can seem complicated. When you know the purpose behind the rules of evidence and how they have been developed over time, it is much easier to understand them when you try to apply them in Court. Even if you are represented by an attorney, understanding these rules will help you work with your attorney to better prepare for trial.   If you would like a transcript o...

210 - The Four Kinds of Evidence That Will Help You Win Your Trial

August 25, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MB

In this show, Leh and Todd  discuss the four primary forms of evidence that you can present at trial. If you cannot introduce evidence in your trial, then there is a high likelihood that you will not win. If you cannot settle your case, then it is extremely important that you know what evidence you will need to win and how to introduce it into the courtroom.   The four kinds of evidence include lay witness testimony, expert witness testimony, documentary evidence, and photographic/audio/...

209 - Even More Divorce Strategies that do NOT work!

August 20, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

As a follow up to the last show, Leh and Todd talk about more divorce strategies that do NOT work.  Over the years, they have seen many attempts by people to 'pull a fast one' on them.  They share what they have seen, what does not work and why.  Examples include: Blasting "your story" to others - Social Media; text messages; emails Filing a TPO with unsupported allegations  Contacting your spouse's employer to impact their employment Passively Interfering with Parenting Time Making...

208 - Divorce Strategies that do NOT work!

August 11, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MB

Leh and Todd dive into divorce strategies that do NOT work and explain why they do not work.  While some folks think these things are a good idea, what they often do not realize is that most lawyers have been trained to spot these strategies and how to counter them.   The strategies they know typically fail include: Having no strategy at all Stop working or reduce your income to reduce or eliminate your child support or alimony obligation Choosing to avoid getting a job to increase yo...

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