Divorce Team Radio - Your Source for Divorce and Family Law Matters
260 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 67 ratingsIf you, a friend or family member is facing a divorce or similar family law matter, then this show is for you. Here is where we share our experience and knowledge to help others navigate a challenging phase of life. This show is a re-broadcast of a Radio Show sponsored by Meriwether and Tharp, a law firm with over 40 lawyers focusing on divorce and family law matters.
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Episodes
207 - How to Mediate a High Conflict Dispute with Bill Eddy, LCSW, Esq.
July 30, 2021 16:00 - 45 minutes - 42.4 MBBill Eddy comes back on the show to share his newest book, Mediating High Conflict Disputes. One could say that this book has been in the works for a couple decades. Bill and his co-author, attorney Michael Lomax share what works and doesn't work when mediating a case with a High Conflict Personality. Their book is a game changer for those who want to settle their case but are dealing with someone who may have a personality disorder, making settlement near impossible. If you would lik...
206 - Debunking 21 Divorce Myths
July 12, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.5 MBAfter taking countless questions over the years, Leh and Todd identified several misconceptions, or myths, the people often have about divorce. So, they decided to tackle 21 divorce myths that they often hear from people considering a divorce. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.
205 - Why are the Gates and more older people divorcing?
July 09, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.4 MBWith Leh and Todd today are Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg for a repeat appearance are the authors of the book: Home Will Never Be the Same: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce. Carol and Hughes discuss the Gates divorce, what may have lead up to it, and what kind of advice would they give to their adult children if they came to them for counseling. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take...
204 - The 4 Truths That Exist in Every Courtroom
June 14, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.4 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd talk about the Four Truths that exist in every courtroom in a divorce or family law case. And, they break down the 6 things you can do to make sure that your truth is the one that is the one that the Court accepts. The 4 truths are: Your truth, Your spouse's truth, The actual truth, and The only truth that matters - what the judge (or jury in some cases) thinks is the truth. The 6 things you can do to help the Judge adopt your truth are: Main...
203 - Answering More of Your Family Law Questions
June 07, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.3 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd answer more of your family law questions. The questions they answer include: What do I do to get this situation handled and get this woman away from me? Can I get my domestic violence charges dropped since it's been seven years ago and I've never been convicted of any of them? Can copies of medical records left behind by ex fiancé be used in a domestic violence protective order proceeding? A judge heard my TPO complaint and told me that I was going around t...
202 - Answering Your Family Violence Questions
May 24, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd dedicate a whole show to family violence questions, something they had never done before. The questions they tackle include: If I filed a TPO but haven't heard from courts yet, do I have to respond to the abuser? Can I get an order of protection if I do not know my husband's current address? Why would a divorce judge ignore a restraining order? If I reside in Georgia and the non-custodial parent resides in California, can I get a restraining order in Geo...
201 - Answering Child Custody Questions
May 03, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd take on more questions that are focused on child custody issues. The questions they tackle include : Can I leave GA with my 2 kids to get away from my emotionally and mentally abusive husband? What is the most likely response from a superior court judge when a temp order has been broken during a divorce? How likely can a divorce by publication that gave me sole custody be reversed? Can a custodial parent move kids to another state after the divorce in Georgia?...
200 - What is Financial Infidelity and Why is it a Problem?
April 26, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBA recent commissioned survey found 4 out of every 10 U.S. adults that are married, in a civil partnership or otherwise living together are keeping a major money secret from their current partner. In this show, Leh and Todd discuss the surprising results of this study. They explore why people commit 'financial infidelity' and why it is such a big problem. They wrap up the show with a discussion about what to do about it if you or your partner is 'financially unfaithful.' If you would l...
199 - What Are Common Experts Used In Divorce Cases?
April 22, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.4 MBExperts can be used to not only help win a case, but also to simplify complicated issues to help parties settle their case. In this show, Leh and Todd break down the experts that you commonly see in a divorce case. They explain the type of experts that you can hire in child custody disputes, asset disputes, as well as in child support and alimony disputes. If you are having trouble with an issue in your divorce, an expert may be able to help. Tune in to hear the types that are available. ...
198 - Taking on Divorce and Child Custody Questions
April 16, 2021 15:05 - 44 minutes - 21.3 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd tackle several divorce and child custody questions, and in so doing explain various aspects of the law through real live examples. The types of questions they tackle include: Married for 1.3 yrs, can I divorce my wife if she is verbally abusive? How can I file for Divorce in GA if my spouse lives in NC? Can out of state travel consent be revoked or conditional? In the event something happens to me, will my child's father get my son? What rights does my ...
197 - Improving Your Child Support or Alimony Case
March 31, 2021 19:17 - 44 minutes - 21.4 MBContinuing their series about procrastination, Leh and Todd discuss how procrastination can hurt your child support and alimony case and what you can do about it. If you are looking to help your support case, you will want to listen to this show. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.
196 - Bill Eddy and His Newest Book - BIFF for Co-Parent Communication
March 22, 2021 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MBLeh and Todd are excited to have author Bill Eddy back on the show to discuss his new book, BIFF for CoParent Communication. At the time of recording the show, it was number 1 on Amazon under “Divorce & Separation Family Law.” Check it out by clicking here: BIFF for CoParent Communication. There are some people that are simply high conflict personalities. They are difficult to deal with and can make your co-parenting life a living hell, especially when you do not know how to communic...
195 - How Procrastination Can Crush Your Hopes for a 'Fair' Division of Assets in Your Divorce
March 16, 2021 16:59 - 44 minutes - 104 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd talk about what you should NOT do during the various parts of the divorce process, give specifics on how a lack of preparation can crush you, and discuss what you should be doing to make sure you are prepared as it relates to a fair division of assets. Who does this apply to? Everyone! Someone with a large marital estate can be harmed more, but when you scale the harm considering income, it can impact everyone the same. If you would like a transcript of th...
194 - Examples of What Happens When You Do Not Stay on Top of Legal Deadlines and Issues
March 01, 2021 17:00 - 45 minutes - 104 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd give examples of what happens when you miss legal deadlines or you do not take action on certain legal issues. They discuss when the failure is fatal to the case, and when you might be able to do something about it. The examples we tackle include: If I missed a Court Hearing, can I file an appeal because I can barely see my daughter? My Marriage application was voided by the Probate Court because I did not file the proper steps, does that mean that I don't have t...
193 - How To Improve Your Communication To Help Your Divorce or Custody Battle
February 22, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 21.4 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss how the stress of a divorce or custody battle can really hurt communication between co-parents. In order to help, they used Dr. David Berlo's basic communication model, SMCR, as a framework to break down the 4 basic elements of good communication. They talked about the different ways that parents can work on improving their communication to help reduce the tension in their divorce and hopefully reduce the costs of their litigation as well. They offer simpl...
192 - How Procrastination Can Hurt Your Child Custody Case
February 15, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBAs a follow up to episode 191, Leh and Todd take a deep dive into the impact of procrastination on child custody cases. They go through each phase of a case involving a contested custody matter, break down the negative impact of procrastination and discuss how not to procrastinate. The aspects of the case they walk through include: Guardian ad Litem & Custody Evaluation Mediation Temporary Hearing Final Hearing If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website...
191 - The Evils of Procrastination in Taking Legal Action
February 08, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd break down how procrastination can really hurt a valid cause of action. Sometimes the delay has a negative legal impact. Other times it has an adverse practical impact that can be just as bad. They discuss what happens when you delay bringing a variety of actions, including divorce, legitimation, modifications, child support, and contempt. If you want to learn more about Leh and Todd, you can visit www.mtlawoffice.com If you would like a transcript of this s...
190 - 10 Resolutions for the Recently Divorced
January 28, 2021 17:00 - 44 minutes - 104 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss 10 Resolutions that the recently divorced should make to improve the quality of their lives and their children. These 10 things will make sure that you move forward in your life on the best possible foot from a personal, mental, physical, and financial standpoint. The 10 things they discuss include: 1) Stop fighting battles from a dead marriage. 2) Find a good counselor 3) Forgive Your Spouse 4) Forgive Yourself 6) Update your will, trusts, insura...
189 - 10 New Year's Resolutions for Your Marriage
January 11, 2021 17:26 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MBOnce a quarter, Leh and Todd like to dedicate a show to marriages. From seeing 1000's of failed marriages, they learn many things not to do in marriage as well as things you should do to help build a healthy, happy marriage. In today's show, they pull together 10 new years resolutions to help build a healthy marriage in 2021. They assembled ideas from different counselors, authors, and psychologists and put them into a short list of action items for 2021 to strive for. If you would li...
188 - Adultery Questions and Answers
December 14, 2020 12:21 - 44 minutes - 103 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd tackle questions about Adultery. The questions they answer include: Do I have to answer all questions if I am being deposed as a mistress? Can I sue my ex for cheating while we were married Or get better child support ? Can I sue the man, my wife is cheating on me with. How much a stay at home mom should get from her ex husband that earns 6 figure salary and owns properties? How can I apply for alimony pendente lite in GA? You can read more about Le...
186 - Adultery's Impact on Divorce
November 30, 2020 16:50 - 44 minutes - 21.1 MBDivorces caused by adultery are filled with emotion for obvious reasons. But what impact does it have on the actual outcome of the case from a legal perspective? In this show, Leh and Todd explore its impact on Child Custody, Child Support, Alimony, and Equitable Division of Property. They also discuss the Financial and Emotion impact it has on the case. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a mom...
187 - Property Issues in Celebrity Divorces
November 29, 2020 23:31 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd explore the claims that Nicole Young is making against her husband's (Dr. Dre) assets. They also discuss the interesting claim that Orianne Cevey is trying to make against Phil Collins 12 years after their divorce. They wrap up the show by answering certain specific questions about the division of marital assets and dealing with property issues post-divorce. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website www.mtlawoffice.com ...
185 - SupportPay - Enabling Parents to Manage Child Support & Share Expenses – Directly with Each Other
October 29, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.2 MBLeh and Todd had the privilege of interviewing Erika Anne Englund, the Chief of Strategy for SupportPay. Erika came on the show for two reasons. First, she shared with us SupportPay. This App really helps co-parents easily and quickly manage their child support and shared child expenses. She told us the inspiration for the software as well as how it works. Second, she broke down the top five child support mistakes parents make and how to avoid them. After listening to the show, chec...
184 - Dealing with Debt in a Divorce
October 16, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBYou only get one chance to deal with the debt in a divorce, so it is critical to get it right. When you don’t, it can become a nightmare that feels like it will never go away. In this show Leh and Todd discuss some forms of debt that arise in a divorce and how to deal with them, including Credit Cards, Store Credit, Auto Loans, Taxes, Business Loans, and Mortgages.
183 - Does My Divorce Have to Be Nasty?
October 12, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBLeh and Todd decide to tackle a question that they often get : Does My Divorce Have to Be Nasty? They break down this question; explain what they mean by “Nasty”; why it is so important to avoid letting your divorce get nasty; and discuss multiple scenarios where it is extremely difficult to keep from getting nasty and how to keep a level head.
182 - The 17 Child Custody Factors that a Judge Can Consider
September 28, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 61.7 MBRecently, Leh and Todd received a question asking what a Judge can legally consider when dealing with a contested custody case. The answer to this question could be explored in multiple shows, but they were able to condense the information down to an overview of the factors that a Judge has been authorized to consider when determining the parenting time for each parent. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the sho...
181 - Child Custody Q&A
September 21, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 62.1 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd take on various questions surrounding child custody. They break down the questions and discuss the issues that each question presents. The questions include: What can I do to prevent the mother of my child from leaving the state before she is served with a Legitimation Petition? What chances does the father of my son have of winning custody if we never married and he waited 3 years before even trying to become involved in his life? Can I put limits on my ...
180 - The Three P's of a Virtual Hearing
September 16, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MBWhile the rules of evidence have not changed, presenting a case in a virtual courtroom has its own set of challenges that differ from an in person hearing. In this show, Leh and Todd, break down the three p's of a virtual hearing (Preparation, Practice, and Performance). They discuss how to prepare, practice for and present your case at a virtual hearing. With these tools, you will improve your chance of a positive outcome at Court. If you would like a transcript of this show, you c...
179 - Answering Questions about Divorce Procedures
September 08, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd answer a series of questions surrounding divorce procedure and evidence. They tackle questions like: In a child custody case, how far back can a Judge look regarding evidence of drug use? What are my options for a speedy divorce if my husband is not coorperating? It has been 6 months since the hearing, but there was no written order. What can I do to get the Court to sign the final decree of divorce? What are the documents I need to file for an unconte...
178 - Nicole Young vs. Dr. Dre - Can She Get the Pre-nup Thrown Out?
August 25, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 102 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd examine the allegations made by Nicole Young in her divorce against Dr. Dre, whose estate if valued around one billion dollars. He has asked the Court to enforce the Pre-nuptial Agreement. She has moved the Court to throw it out based on a number of claims, including the allegation that he had torn up several copies of the agreement three years into the marriage. Leh and Todd discuss the validity of her claims and under what scenario she might win. If you...
177 - Post Divorce Financial Mistakes To Avoid with Simon Brady, CFP
August 18, 2020 17:00 - 44 minutes - 61.9 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd interview Simon Brady, a Certified Financial Planner, from Anglia Advisors, about the top financial mistakes he sees people make after their divorce is over. A life lesson he learned early in life inspired him to focus his practice on helping those who are recovering from a divorce. He wants to ensure that his clients set their financial future in the right direction. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If yo...
176 - A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce - Interview with Dr Carol Hughes and Bruce Fredenburg
August 13, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.1 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd had the honor of interviewing Dr. Carol R. Hughes and Bruce R. Fredenburg about their new book “Home Will Never Be the Same Again: A Guide for Adult Children of Gray Divorce.” This book was written to help those adult children who are struggling with their parent's divorce. With the booming ‘gray’ divorces, there are countless adult children struggling out there. They are afraid to ask for help because they are supposed to be adults . . . they can handle this ....
175 - Challenging Family Law Real and Personal Property Questions
July 28, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.4 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd take on some challenging family law & divorce questions surrounding real and personal property. The discuss the problem, how to deal with it, and how to best avoid it to begin with. The questions include: What do you do when an ex who co-owns a vacation property just disappears? How do you remove an ex-spouse from a house that you were awarded in a divorce? How do you remove an ex-spouses personal property from the house without getting into trouble? If...
174 - Top Ways to Ruin Your Post Divorce Life
July 21, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.4 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd talk about the ways in which people either intentionally or unintentionally bring unnecessary stress into their life after their divorce is over. The topics they cover include money, division of personal property, custody, and taking care of yourself at a personal level. If you can follow their advice, you will set yourself up for success over the long term once your divorce is over. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our websi...
173 - The Top Actions That Will Set Off Fireworks in Your Divorce
July 07, 2020 16:00 - 44 minutes - 21.3 MBOver the years, we have seen what appears to be a simple divorce suddenly become complicated. It often starts when one or both parties do something that sets off an emotional explosion. In today’s show, Leh and Todd discuss to top actions they have seen set off fireworks in a divorce action. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You ca...
172 - 9 Practical Steps to Take to Prepare for a Virtual Hearing
July 01, 2020 18:06 - 44 minutes - 21 MBWith the pandemic, Courts switched to virtual hearings and trials to keep cases moving forward. Anytime you appear before a judge, you want to make the best impression you can. A virtual hearing is no different. In this show, Leh and Todd discuss 9 practical steps you can take to improve the professionalism of your virtual appearance in Court. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to ...
171 - Do Child Support Arrears Impact COVID19 Stimulus Checks?
May 07, 2020 16:00 - 14 minutes - 21.4 MBThe CARES Act granted certain Americans a 'Stimulus Check'. COVID19 not only taken lives, but also jobs. Of course, for those who suddenly have their children at home full time, they need that child support now more than ever. In this show, Leh and Todd discuss how a child support arrearage would impact a stimulus check, the reasons for the delays, and what someone can do if they married someone who had a child support arrearage. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find...
170 - One Question that Could Help Your Marriage in the Middle of This COVID19 Crisis
May 06, 2020 19:18 - 13 minutes - 19.2 MBThere has been discussion that the current COVID19 crisis could lead to a surge in divorces. In this show, we explore one question that could help couples who might be struggling, and it arose out of a personal experience. When Leh started to feel tension at home during the crisis, he wanted to get mad. Instead, he realized that there was a question he could ask that would help get to the bottom of the issue. Tune in to hear Leh and Todd discuss the tension and what question he asked tha...
169 - Should I File a Child Support or Alimony Modification In the Wake of COVID19?
April 28, 2020 16:00 - 38 minutes - 53.8 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss Child Support and Alimony Modifications that could be filed as a result of the COVID19 crisis. Two questions that they addressed where: "Under which circumstances should you file for a modification;" and "How long should you wait before you file?" If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it...
168 - Are Parenting Plans Still Valid with a COVID 19 Lockdown?
April 15, 2020 16:00 - 35 minutes - 50.1 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss Parenting Plans and the impact of Shelter-in-Place orders on them. They also discuss how to stay on top of and make sense of new orders and their amendments as they continue to come out on a weekly basis. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoying the show, please take a moment to post a positive review about it. Not sure how? You can read about it here.
167 - Are the Courts Open in this COVID-19 Crisis?
April 14, 2020 12:30 - 37 minutes - 57.8 MBSo much has happened in the past three weeks. We have received dozens of Emergency Orders and Amendments to those Orders. Orders are coming from our State and Local Government, the Supreme Court of Georgia, and the Chief Judges of each county/circuit in Georgia. In this show, Leh and Todd discuss the status of our Courts here in Georgia and what you can do to stay on top of this ever changing landscape if you have a current case in our court system.
166 - Answering Questions about Assets and Liabilities in a Divorce
March 30, 2020 18:26 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBLeh and Todd take on a variety of questions about dealing with assets and liabilities in a divorce action. The questions they take on include: Will I be protected from bankruptcy if I divorce my husband? Can my husband have the home put in his sons name to keep me from having access to it during a divorce ? Do I need an attorney to dissolve a 'Rights to survivor" on my home owned jointly with my husband? Or is there something else I can do? Can my spouse take my car during a divorc...
165 - Child Custody Questions and Answers
March 30, 2020 18:02 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this show, Todd and Leh answer a variety of child custody questions based on specific fact patterns. Included are questions like: If the non-custodial mother moves from Georgia to Florida with no notice, what can we do? How can me and my husband win custody of my 15 year old stepdaughter? My husband has my child most of the time. I just found out that theres no running water in the house. Can my child just stay with me? Are there loop holes in a morality clause or can a moral...
164 - Planning for COVID-19's Impact on Your Divorce/ Family Law Case
March 16, 2020 17:02 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBThis show was pre-recorded last week. A lot has happened since they recorded this. Leh and Todd had predicted Court closures while they were recording the show. Since they recorded the show, a number of Court systems have issued emergency orders addressing the COVID-19 pandemic. In this show, they discuss what to do if your case is put on hold and whether there is anything you can do to be proactive if there is an emergency issue that you need the Court to address. If you would like a ...
163 - A Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce - Revised Edition
March 05, 2020 21:00 - 44 minutes - 62.1 MBSarah Armstrong came back on the show to talk about her recently revised edition of A Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce. Sarah explained what inspired her to write The Mom’s Guide to a Good Divorce and what provoked her to revise the book now. Leh and Todd discussed with her what she added, why she felt it was important, and how she actually reorganized some of the content to help it flow a little better. Sarah also shared new ways parents can lessen the impact of divorce on children. If y...
162 - An Organized Child is a Healthy Child - Teaching Skills to Handle Change
February 27, 2020 21:00 - 44 minutes - 62.4 MBA divorce is a tough transition for a child. Often problems are compounded when a mom or dad remarry and the new spouse has children of their own. Without proper planning to deal with this transition in our busy world, families and children can suddenly find themselves in the middle of a chaotic mess. In this show, Leh and Todd discuss tips on how to raise an organized child in a blended family, help them with the transition and develop valuable life skills. If you would like a transcr...
161 - Review of the Divorce Movie "Marriage Story"
February 20, 2020 21:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBIn their first ever divorce movie review, Leh and Todd discuss the Netflix Original "Marriage Story" staring Scarlett Johansson and Adam Driver, along with a fantastic group of supporting actors. They break down what they liked and disliked about the movie. They also discussed how 'realistic' the movie was, from a legal and practical standpoint. You might be surprised by what they said. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on our website. If you are enjoy...
160 - A Divorce with a Happy Ending - A Story of Reconciliation
February 13, 2020 20:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBJust in time for Valentine's Day, Leh and Todd interview Ellen Marmon. Ellen is a licensed counselor who has a personal story that is truly inspiring. We are thankful that she was willing to share her story with us on today's show, and we think you will be too. Ellen's divorce was not the end of her marriage to her husband. It was actually the beginning of a personal journey for both of them that led them back together and into a marriage that was stronger than ever. If you would lik...
159 - 7 Steps to Take Before Filing for Divorce
February 06, 2020 21:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBWhen you properly prepare for your divorce, you will accomplish three things. You will increase your chance of a positive outcome. You will increase your chances of having an amicable divorce because you will not be operating from a place of fear. Lastly, you will decrease your overall costs because you will save money in attorney's fees. In this show, Leh and Todd help you better prepare by giving you 7 steps to take before filing for a divorce.
158 - 4 Questions to Ask Yourself Before Filing for Divorce
January 30, 2020 21:00 - 44 minutes - 42 MBMost people do not take divorce lightly. For those that have never been through a divorce, they do not have any experience to rely on when deciding if divorce is the right option. In this show, Leh and Todd propose 4 questions to ask yourself before you pull the divorce trigger. As with most life events, asking the right questions (and working hard to answer them) can set you on the right path and provide a better outcome. If you would like a transcript of this show, you can find it on...