Divorce Team Radio - Your Source for Divorce and Family Law Matters
260 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 67 ratingsIf you, a friend or family member is facing a divorce or similar family law matter, then this show is for you. Here is where we share our experience and knowledge to help others navigate a challenging phase of life. This show is a re-broadcast of a Radio Show sponsored by Meriwether and Tharp, a law firm with over 40 lawyers focusing on divorce and family law matters.
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Episodes
109 - Divorce Coaching - How To Get Legal Help Without Retaining A Lawyer
January 28, 2019 17:00 - 44 minutes - 62.6 MBFor those that make too much for legal aid but not enough to hire a lawyer, there is hope. You can still get legal guidance without hiring a lawyer full time to represent you. In this show, Todd and Leh breakdown what that might look like and how you can get the help you need.
108 - Who Has Custody When the Parents Were Never Married?
January 21, 2019 17:00 - 45 minutes - 62.7 MBIn this episode, Leh and Todd answer the question “Who has custody when the parents were never married?” They start the show with a recent study which showed an increase in stable marriages, but at the same time an increase in un-stable co-habitation situations. They take this question head on and break down all the legal pitfalls that arise when two well meaning adults have a child together out of wedlock. For those that are in a co-habitation arrangement, this is a must listen.
107 - Healing Past Divorce with Joshua Ludlum
January 15, 2019 15:32 - 45 minutes - 63.1 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd talk with Joshua Ludlum and what he is doing to help people heal past divorce. After experiencing his own divorce, Joshua realized that he had to over come three limiting beliefs before he could really move on with his life. Tune in to hear Joshua lay out those limiting beliefs and break down the three freeing beliefs that will help you heal past your divorce.
106 - How to Make "Relationship" Resolutions for the New Year
January 07, 2019 17:00 - 44 minutes - 62.3 MBThe beginning of every year is typically filled with New Year's Resolutions to lose weight, make more money, or go on more vacations. What you don't hear about that often, however, are Relationship 'Resolutions.' and yet, these kind of resolutions can have an enormous impact on the rest of your life. In this show, Leh and Todd apply the S.M.A.R.T.E.R. Goal setting system to relationships and discuss what that might look like. If you are not happy with your current relationships, listen in...
105 - Tough Child Custody Questions and Answers Part 2
December 31, 2018 17:00 - 45 minutes - 42.4 MBIn this show, Todd and Leh continue to take on some tough child custody questions. They cover questions like: What behaviors are enough for a Court to find someone unfit and change custody; What do you do if you find out your marriage is a fraud; and Do I have to pay for an ER bill if my ex did not tell me about the visit ahead of time?
104 - Tough Child Custody Questions and Answers Part 1
December 26, 2018 18:09 - 45 minutes - 63.3 MBIn this show, Todd and Leh take on some tough child custody questions. They cover questions like: How to file a child support and visitation agreement for a child that was legitimized 8 years ago?; Can I legally keep my kids from being around my ex wife's step son?; How do I move Forward with my Emergency Custody Hearing ?; and more.
103 - Common Surprises Men Experience Going Through a Divorce
December 19, 2018 11:26 - 45 minutes - 63.6 MBAs a follow up to episode 100, Leh and Todd explore some of the common surprises they see men experience going through a divorce. You will want to listen to this even if you are a woman, because it can help you understand why certain revelations may upset your soon-to-be-ex and possibly deal with them in advance.
102 - New Life After Divorce with Bill Butterworth
December 12, 2018 19:07 - 45 minutes - 42.6 MBIn this special show, Leh and Todd interview author and professional speaker Bill Butterworth about his book New Life After Divorce. After 17 years of what he thought was a great marriage, he was devastated by his wife’s request for a divorce. Not only had his personal life been turned upside down, but he was worried that it would be the end of his professional career as a highly paid speaker on marriage. His book explains how he got through this dark time in his life and came out on the ...
101 - Best Advice that Parents Can Give Their Children When Dealing with Law Enforcement
December 03, 2018 17:00 - 45 minutes - 42.2 MBWe want our children to respect law enforcement, and, at the same time, do not want them to harm their future over a silly mistake. Our zero tolerance environment with videos recording our every move has thrown commons sense and discretion out the window. Paul Ghanouni from the Teen and Adult Defense Law Firm comes back on the show to share with us the best advice you can give your children on how to communicate with law enforcement in a respectful manner while protecting themselves from u...
100 - Common Financial Surprises Women Experience Going Through a Divorce
November 26, 2018 17:00 - 45 minutes - 83.3 MBIn our 100th episode, Leh Meriwether and Todd Orston break down some of the most common financial surprises that women experience when going through a divorce. They also discuss some of the causes of those surprises and how to work through them.
99 - Celebrity Family Law Issues and What We Can Learn From Them
November 19, 2018 17:00 - 45 minutes - 83.9 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss some celebrity divorce and family law cases that have hit the news. They break down what is going on and how the Courts handled their cases. The celebrities that they discuss include A-Rod, Bethany Frankel, WWE superstar Charlotte Flair, Chris Pratt, Anna Faris, Ben Affleck, Jennifer Garner, and Columbus Short.
98 - How to Deal with Lottery Winnings, Inheritances, Personal Injury Awards in Divorce
November 13, 2018 17:00 - 45 minutes - 83.9 MBOver the years, we have seen many divorces arise shortly after one spouse received a large sum of money through either inheritance, a personal injury award, or winning the lottery. The way the Courts handle these funds is very fact dependent and can get tricky. Tune in to hear Leh and Todd break down different scenarios and how the Courts have handled them.
97 - Top Ten Things Kids Wish They Could Tell Their Divorced Parents with Jay and Tammy Daughtry
November 05, 2018 17:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBWe often see good parents struggle with co-parenting their children during and after a divorce. Sometimes, it just seems easier to quit putting on a happy face around your ex-spouse. It is in those times that parents need the extra motivation to continue to co-parent. Jay and Tammy Daughtry, a co-parenting team, have been helping parents for the past 14 years. Over the years, they put together the Top Ten Things Children Wish They Could Tell You when you don't co-parenting well.
96 - 2nd Annual Halloween Special
October 29, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 42.9 MBWhile we take what we do very seriously, we can't always take ourselves too seriously. That is why, for the 2nd year in a row, Todd and Leh have taken classic Halloween monsters and put them into divorce and family law scenarios. In this show, they talk about a Zombie wanting a divorce, a Mommy Mummy who wants a modification of child support, the Creature from the Black Lagoon who wants visitation with his son, and Count Dracula calls in to ask questions about his second marriage.
95 - Top Divorce Mistakes You Can Make
October 22, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 42.5 MBAs lawyers, one of the most frustrating things we see is people becoming their own worst enemy in their divorce or family law case. In this show, Todd and Leh discuss some of the common mistakes we see people make in their Divorce and Family Law Cases. By listening to this show, you will learn what to avoid and set yourself up for success.
94 - Recent Changes to Georgia's Child Support Law
October 15, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 42.3 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd dive into some of the most recent changes to Georgia's Child Support Laws that went into effect in July of 2018. There were some significant changes to the law that will impact how Judges determine child support in future cases.
93 - How to Reduce Holiday Stress Using 5 Simple Concepts
October 08, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 42.8 MBWhile the holidays do bring a lot of joy, they also tend to add a lot of stress to families, especially those that are going through or have just gone through a divorce. We do this show in early October, because one of the keys to reducing the stress is planning. Todd and Leh discuss 5 things you can do today that will increase the likelihood of positive memories for your children rather than ones you wish they would soon forget.
92 - 7 Things to Consider BEFORE Attempting a DIY Divorce
October 02, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 63.5 MBOn the surface, divorce can appear simple. But, as the saying goes, the devil is in the details. As a result, so many people get themselves into horrible situations when they try to handle their divorce on their own. It has nothing to do with their intelligence either. If you are confronting a situation where you think you either can't afford an attorney or don't need an attorney, you will want to listen to this show. Leh and Todd talk about 7 things you should consider before trying a ...
91 - Practicing Healthy Communication - Taking Your Marriage to the Next Level Part 2
September 25, 2018 19:17 - 46 minutes - 64.3 MBIs it common sense that healthy communication is the key to a healthy marriage? If so, then why do so many struggle with communication in their marriage? And, is there something you can do about it? In this show, Todd and Leh continue their discussion on taking your marriage to the next level. They break down what healthy communication might look like and things you should avoid. They also look into some recent research and how it can help improve your communication with your spouse.
90 - Taking Your Marriage to the Next Level
September 17, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 62.9 MBOnce a quarter, we try to have a show (or 2) dedicated to advice on things you can do today that may prevent you from ever having to hire a lawyer. In this show, Todd and Leh talk about the following concepts: Assume a Place of Love; Fight the Defensive Instinct; Create Listening Time and Places; Spouse School; 20 Questions; Love Notes; Breaking the Marriage Monotony; How to Discuss the Little Things in a Crazy Busy World; Retirement Planning; and Confidentiality. Listen in for ideas that...
89 - 10 Things You Should Know BEFORE Meeting with a Guardian ad Litem
September 10, 2018 16:46 - 45 minutes - 63.9 MBIn contested child custody cases, a Court will often appoint a Guardian ad Litem ("GAL"). The GAL's responsibility is to investigate the situation and make a recommendation to the Judge as to what they think is in the children's best interest. In this show, Leh and Todd interview attorney and Guardian ad Litem Courtney Carpenter to break down the 10 things you should know BEFORE you meet with a Guardian ad Litem in your case. Understanding these 10 points will make a huge difference in ho...
88 - What Kind of Trouble Can Your Kids Get Into Without Even Knowing It?
September 04, 2018 13:29 - 44 minutes - 62.2 MBWith the rapid advancements in technology and the nature of today's zero tolerance policies, our teenagers face legal challenges that we never knew could exist 20 years ago. What our kids may consider as funny or just horsing around could land them in jail facing felony charges for any number of innocent "jokes." Knowing that the stress on children gets even worst during a divorce, we brought on attorney Paul Ghanouni from the Ghanouni Teen & Young Adult Defense Firm to discuss the current...
87 - Question and Answer Show
August 27, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.9 MBEvery so many episodes, Todd and Leh like to take people's specific questions and answer them on air. This week, they tackled questions involving getting out of settlement agreements; grandparent rights; annulments; how long can child support orders be enforced; and more. If you have questions, you can email us at [email protected]
86 - Private Investigators - What They Can and Cannot Do with Jason Lanyon
August 20, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 62.7 MBSome of us watched Magnum PI growing up as kids. While the show was fun to watch, it did not necessarily give you an accurate depiction what a real private investigator’s job was like. In this episode, Leh and Todd interview private investigator Jason Lanyon from Absolute Investigations. Jason breaks down many of the common misconceptions about private investigators. He discusses what they can and cannot do; shares a few war stories with us; and leaves us with advice on how to choose a g...
85 - Probate Myths and How to Avoid Probate Nightmares with Attorney Erik Broel
August 13, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 63 MBIn this show, Todd and Leh interview attorney Eric Broel from the Georgia Probate Law Group. Erik’s firm handles probate litigation, which involves litigation over wills and dividing up the estate of someone who has died recently. They have seen first-hand what happens when someone does not properly set up their will. He breaks down many common misconceptions about wills and what happens to someone’s estate when they die. If you have family that depend on you or loved ones that you do n...
84 - Latest Research on Co-Parenting with Diane Dierks
August 06, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 83.1 MBCo-Parenting expert Diane Dierks recently attended a conference put on by the Association of Family and Conciliation Courts, an organization that brings together all professionals connected to the family court processes. Leh and Todd talk with Diane about the results of some longitudinal studies surrounding co-parenting. She discuss what co-parenting techniques are considered "healthy" in which situations, and how they lead to better outcomes for the children. If you are divorced with chi...
83 - What NOT To Do After Your Divorce Has Been Granted
July 30, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 62.2 MBWhen some reach the end of a long divorce road, they feel liberated. The Court process is no longer in their life and they are now "free" to do things that they felt they could not do during their marriage. This new found 'freedom' tends to get people into trouble, however. In this episode, Leh and Todd talk about certain things you should NOT do after a divorce. Certain behaviors or decisions will cause serious financial hardship. Other poor post-divorce decisions run the risk of creati...
82 - How a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst Can Help You with Beau Varnadoe
July 23, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 104 MBMany people quickly become overwhelmed when they go through a divorce. And, for those who never controlled the marital finances, they can really struggle getting a grasp on understanding their future financial situation, including what to do with their retirement accounts and how to handle their cash. For others, their work schedules keep them from really paying attention to the details of their current budget at home. In this episode, Leh and Todd interview Beau Varnadoe, Jr., a Certified...
81 - Things That Will Set Off Fireworks in Your Divorce
July 16, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 104 MBThere are certain behaviors that can turn a 3 month, $3,500 divorce into a 3 year, $150,000 divorce. As we often like to do, we use humor and satire explore a list of behaviors that you should avoid in your divorce. Unless, of course, you really do want to help fund your lawyer's children's college education.
80 - 12 Things You Should Do After Your Divorce
July 09, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 103 MBThe Divorce process can be exhausting. It is easy to find yourself wanting to do nothing after the Final Judgment is granted. That is, unfortunately, a mistake that many people understandably make once they are divorced. There are at least 12 things you should make sure you take care of after your divorce. In this show, Todd and Leh discuss down each one that may apply to your situation.
79 - Custody Arrangements for Pets? and Other Personal Property Issues
July 02, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 62.1 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd tackle issues surrounding pets and other personal property issues. We look at how Courts around the country are handling disputes around pets in the context of a divorce. We share stories of how some Judges really do not like dealing with pets while others have tried to create a pet "custody arrangement." We also talk about ways in which parties can resolve their personal property issues on their own without spending thousands of dollars on attorney's fees.
78 - What's an Emergency in the Court's Eyes?
June 25, 2018 17:43 - 44 minutes - 62.3 MBWhen you are in the middle of a legal battle involving money or your children, everything can feel like an emergency. Unfortunately, the Court has limited resources and time. This forces the Court to narrowly define what they consider an emergency. In this episode, Leh and Todd break down what Courts tend to classify as an emergency and what situations will be given expedited consideration. They also dive into what is really going on behind the scenes that limit the Court's resources.
77 - When is $20,000 a Month in Child Support Not Enough? Celebrity Child Support Awards
June 22, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.5 MBRecently, Kevin Federline began legal action requesting more child support from his ex-wife Brittney Spears. While he is currently receiving $20,000 per month, he is asserting that this amount is not enough. For most people, receiving $20,000 per month tax free would be akin to winning the lottery. In this show, Todd and Leh break down this situation, discuss how Brittney might defend against this action, and try to answer the question “When is $20,000 a month in Child Support not enough?...
76 - Lessons from Other's Family Law Challenges
June 18, 2018 19:32 - 44 minutes - 41.5 MBIn this episode, Leh and Todd took on various legitimation, divorce, family violence, child support and family law questions. They broke down what they thought was going on in each situation, what people can do, and what we can learn from their situations. To create a little bit of a challenge, neither Leh nor Todd had a chance to review the questions before the show.
75 - How to Prepare for a Temporary Hearing
June 05, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.4 MBIn general, you are more likely to have a temporary hearing than a final hearing in a divorce or family law case. In this practical episode, Todd and Leh break down what you should be doing to properly prepare for a temporary hearing in most situations. Proper preparation sets you up for success on multiple fronts. It helps reduce anxiety. It improves you chance of settling the temporary issues to avoid the hearing. And, if you can't avoid the hearing, it puts you in the best position fo...
74 - What Can I Expect at a Temporary Hearing?
May 28, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.7 MBIn divorce and family law cases, it has been our experience that Temporary Hearings occur more often than final hearings. Temporary Hearings are limited in nature and scope and are really designed to keep the status quo or keep the peace while the case proceeds forward towards settlement or trial. For this reason, Todd and Leh decided to take a deep dive into this unique hearing so that you will have an understanding of what to expect at this hearing, including what the Judge will and will...
73 - Unique Financial Issues in High Asset Divorces
May 21, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MBIn this show, Leh and Todd discuss just some of unique financial issues in high asset divorces. They dive into several different topic areas including the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017; how to protect easily moved items such as cash, collectibles, precious metals, jewelry and Fine Art; discovering crypto-currencies; and valuing businesses. Stay tuned for more shows on this topic, because there is so much to cover here.
72 - Digital Dangers - Is Anything Private Anymore?
May 14, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.2 MBDid you know that many devices today have virtual assistants that are constantly listening to you? Did you know that your private conversations are not only being used to drive marketing but also could also be used against you in Court. In this show, we interview expert Cabot Howell about several potential digital threats that could impact you and your privacy.
71 - Digital Dangers - How Secure is My Digital Information with Cabot Howell?
May 07, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 81.7 MBWith every new new digital device and convenience we use, we create all new ways for our digital data to be hacked. At Meriwether & Tharp, protecting our client’s confidential information is important especially in the middle of litigation, but we can’t protect the data before it gets to us. In this show, Todd and Leh interview Cabot Howell of Digital Agent to learn about different ways that your portable devices can be accessed by the wrong people and what you can do about it.
70 - Understanding Sexual Addictions with Roy Blankenship
April 30, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 82.8 MBSexual addictions can be devastating to a marriage and a family. Unfortunately, the term 'sexual addiction' is not listed as a formal mental diagnosis. But, if you ask families dealing with sexual addition, they will tell you it should be. Fortunately, there are experts who understand the affliction and know how to treat it. In this show, Leh and Todd interview Roy Blankenship, a Certified Clinical Sexual Addiction Specialist. He founded Hope Quest in 2004 to help those struggling with ...
69 - How Social Media Posts WILL Be Used Against You in Court
April 23, 2018 16:00 - 45 minutes - 82.8 MBMost of us really do not understand the full extent of the information we make public by using social media. Lawyers, however, are learning every day how much data social media collects on our smart phones and computers. And, they are using that data to their client's advantage in and out of the Courtroom. In this show, Todd and Leh interview Irena Chernova, one of the attorneys at Meriwether & Tharp, to explore just what information is being pulled from social media and how lawyers are u...
68 - 20 Crazy Ways People Try To Hide Assets In a Divorce
April 16, 2018 21:45 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MBIn this episode, Leh and Todd explore 20 different ways people have tried to hide assets in a divorce from their spouse. Some of them are simple like siphoning money into a pay-pal account, while others are somewhat sophisticated and involve cryptocurrencies and the IRS.
67 - 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life by Bill Eddy
April 09, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.8 MBWe were honored to interview Bill Eddy, LCSW, JD about his new book, The 5 Types of People Who Can Ruin Your Life, Identifying and Dealing with Narcissists, Sociopaths, and other High-Conflict Personalities. Bill Eddy’s resume is extensive and he has taken his years of experience in this field and written a book that everyone should read. As high conflict personalities increase in our society, you will undoubtedly encounter someone like this at some point in your life. If you do not know ...
66 - 5 Things That Can Block, Stop or Reduce Alimony
April 06, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MBIn this show, Todd and Leh break down 5 things that can prevent an award of alimony, stop a previous award of alimony, or reduce an Alimony obligation.
65 - What Will Happen To Alimony When It Can No Longer Be Deducted
April 02, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.6 MBStarting January 1, 2019, Alimony settlements and awards will no longer be tax deductible. This has the potential to make an huge impact on Alimony. The ability to deduct alimony payments was very helpful to settling divorce cases, but that negotiation tool has now been removed by the recent tax law changes. How will it impact a Court's awards at trial? Will it mean that there will be smaller awards of alimony? We explore these questions and more in this show.
64 - Exploring Tough Child Custody Situations Part 2
March 30, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 103 MBIn this show, we continue our focus on the issue of child custody. After the last show, we had so many questions left to explore. So, we decided to continue to apply the law to real life situations. In part two, we dive into some challenges people are facing; break down what is going on; and discuss the legal remedies the parents have.
63 - Exploring Tough Child Custody Situations Part 1
March 28, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 103 MBIn this show, we focus on the issue of child custody. We explore this area of the law through its application to real life situations. We dive into some challenges people are facing; break down what is going on; and discuss the legal remedies the parents have.
62 - Can a Father Really Win Custody?
March 19, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 81.8 MBIn this show, we break down some of the past laws that existed around custody and how they were inherently against fathers. We explore the recent legal and cultural changes in our legal system, as well as some subconscious biases that may exist in our legal system. We also explain how you can overcome any challenges that may exist in your case while answering the ultimate question, which may not be the question you are asking.
61 - What You Need To Know About Testifying in Court
March 15, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 62 MBIn the last episode Todd and I broke down 10 tips to help get you ready for your day in Court. In this episode, we share specific practical advice on how to put your best foot forward while on the Witness Stand in Court. If you are about to testify in Court for any reason, then this show is a must listen.
60 - 10 Things You Should Do Before You Testify in Court
March 12, 2018 16:00 - 44 minutes - 41.4 MBFor most, the thought of testifying in Court is terrifying. Regardless of whether you are a party or simply a witness, the anticipation of getting on the stand can stir up a high level of anxiety. In this show, Todd and I discuss courtroom testimony and the top tips on how to prepare. We also discuss some of the challenges lawyers face in helping witnesses get ready and how to take control of the situation to make sure you are prepared.