Closeness
166 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 months ago - ★★★★★ - 125 ratingsSan Diego's number one rated sex, intimacy and love coach takes you on a passionate journey through all the forbidden questions you've always wanted answers to. Get clear, sensual, guidance to help you learn about your body, experience more passion and uncover hotter chemistry. Learn how to do all of it simply by tuning in and applying what you learned. If you're currently experiencing heartbreak, emotional pain or betrayal there are plenty additional episodes to help you get through it all. Tari's unique blend of wisdom, intelligence and humor takes complex and often uncomfortable subjects and breaks them down into something you can do something with, tonight! A must for anyone who wants to elevate themselves or their intimate relationship to the next level. The Closeness podcast is also a supplement to real world in-person and virtual coaching sessions.
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Part 2 How to say no: Changing your mind and maybe
October 30, 2019 06:47 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBHow many times have you changed your mind? Perhaps you didn’t desire someone at first and you later found yourself wanting them. You said you were attracted to them, you acted like you were attracted and then suddenly something …
Sunday morning for her: A new sensual meditation
October 28, 2019 19:34 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MBOne of the best parts of closeness is great sex! After a great deal of positive feedback from the episode “A sensual rampage of appreciation,” Tari is back with another guided sensual meditation. Make sure you’re in a place where …
How to say no Part 1: Rejecting and approaching
October 15, 2019 06:40 - 1 hour - 58 MBRejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining healthy boundaries and a healthy sex life. Why don’t we ever put ourselves in anyone else’s shoes? We hate rejection, but we never stop to imagine the effect our own words have on others. It’s usually scathing and we have no idea that we’re treating others so poorly. It’s critical t...
How to say no: rejecting and approaching
October 15, 2019 06:40 - 1 hour - 58.7 MBRejection leaves most people feeling unworthy and hurt. Both men and women are generally terrible at receiving it and even worse at giving it. But rejection is a necessary step towards establishing or maintaining healthy boundaries and a healthy sex life. Why don’t we ever put ourselves in anyone else’s shoes? We hate rejection, but we never stop to imagine the effect our own words have on others. It’s usually scathing and we have no idea that we’re treating others so poorly. It’s critica...
Part 1: Who should pay for the first date and beyond?
October 13, 2019 17:48 - 1 hour - 101 MBIn this two part episode, host Tari share’s some thought provoking and racy thoughts about who should pay and why. He draws on several personal experiences that have helped shape his views over the years and gets very personal towards …
Sunday morning for her: Another sensual meditation
September 30, 2019 19:34 - 14 minutes - 19.7 MBOne of the best parts of listening to Closeness is learning how to have great sex! After so much great feedback from previous sensual meditations, we’d like to offer you another. When men listen to this episode, they don’t understand it, yet, for a woman it can mean everything. Check it out for yourselves and let us know what you think. It’s short enough for both partners to listen in one setting and it’s worth discussing how each of you felt after listening. Make sure you’re in a place wher...
Part 3: Who should pay for first dates and beyond?
September 15, 2019 00:57 - 1 hour - 135 MBThis much-anticipated, 90-minute conclusion to our 3 part series holds nothing back. We’ll share articles, statistics, personal references and even explore if paying for dates is a form of prostitution! We’ll discuss how people really feel when their partner fights or argues for the bill, what the expectations are when people pay, and how it works if you have sex first before going to dinner. We’ll even look at evidence that suggests up to 70% of men feel obligated to pay whether they want t...
Part 2: Who should pay for the first date and beyond?
August 31, 2019 22:01 - 1 hour - 111 MBIn this three part series, we explore over 25 more points regarding who should pay, including: – What happens when the woman makes significantly more financial resources? – How do we know when our ego is running the show vs. our generosity? – How to handle dating with regard to the wage gap – Is paying for and going on dates like prostitution? We’ll deeply explore semantics, expectations, and whether our choices are stemming from fear or inspiration. Do you feel like sex is someth...
The Female Sexual Response Cycle: 10 Passionate Steps
August 20, 2019 23:54 - 49 minutes - 67.5 MBThis is one intimate and sexually explosive episode. Understanding how, when and why a woman gets extremely turned on is tricky business and in this episode we’ll unravel the 10 phases most women go through as they get more and …
Who should pay for the first date and beyond?
August 15, 2019 17:48 - 1 hour - 101 MBIn this incredible three part series, host Tari shares his thought-provoking stance on who should pay and why. He draws on countless personal experiences as well as experiences from others that have helped shape his philosophies over time. Over three and a half hours of content spread out over three episodes ensures you’ll reexamine almost everything you thought about dating rituals and male, female dynamics. Drawing on countless case studies and hundreds of interviews, Tari helps you explor...
How to know if a girl really wants you using 5 signs
August 01, 2019 05:30 - 1 hour - 89.4 MBWhen we learn how to share closeness with someone else, it often deals with the things we should avoid doing. We’ll give some examples of this before exploring body language, hugging, eye contact as well as understanding who should initiate touch. After listening to this episode, you’ll have five sure-fire ways to figure out if a woman is really into you and what you can do about it. Are you ready to come closer? Closeness Coaching for sex, intimacy, relationships and quality of life...
How to know if a girl really wants you. 5 easy to identify signs
August 01, 2019 05:30 - 1 hour - 89.4 MBSo much of what we learn about Closeness is what not to do and this episode jumps right in to all of that. Then we’ll uncover the five sure fire ways to figure out if a woman is really in …
5 easy steps to figure out what turns you and your partner on
July 14, 2019 21:48 - 50 minutes - 69.5 MBOpen any self-help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate? Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener? Do we practice non-violent communication? How do you know if your partner is understanding what you are trying to express? We can’t hide behind the word, “communication” and expect it to solve everything. We have to know how and when to communicate. More importantly, we have to know what specific things to say ...
5 steps to figure out what turns you and your partner on
July 14, 2019 21:48 - 50 minutes - 69.5 MBOpen any self help book to discover the phrase, “communication is the key.” But do we in fact know how to communicate? Are we shy? Do we say what we mean? Are we a great listener? Do we practice non-violent …
Whether or not to engage in long distance relationships
June 30, 2019 21:46 - 30 minutes - 42.5 MBWe all have the capacity to make something work, but are long distance relationships really worth it in the end? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now, you know how challenging it can be without regular …
Should you engage in long distance relationships?
June 30, 2019 21:46 - 30 minutes - 42.5 MBWe all have the capacity to make things work, but are long distance relationships really worth it? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now, you know how challenging it can be without regular visits and zero physical connection. In this episode we look at the countless disadvantages to these types of arrangements and explore why it probably isn’t for everyone. How long can you go without intimacy, being touched, or someone’s real physical presence? This short-form episode is perfect ...
Why you shouldn’t engage in long distance relationships
June 30, 2019 21:46 - 30 minutes - 42.5 MBWe all have the capacity to make things work, but are long distance relationships worth it? If you’ve been in one yourself or are in one now you know how challenging it can be without regular visits. In this episode …
The intimate adventures of a 48 year old mother
June 15, 2019 01:46 - 1 hour - 102 MBThis epodes is part two of the previous chapter. It takes the same juicy subject of intimacy and rather than hearing about it from a newly turned 21 year old, we explore it with a 48 year old mother. We …
The intimate and anonymous adventures of a 48 year old mother
June 15, 2019 01:46 - 1 hour - 102 MBThis epodes is the second part of the previous podcast. It takes the same juicy subject of sex and intimacy but rather than learning about it from a 21 year old, we explore it with a 48 year old mother. …
Interview: The intimate adventures of a 48 year old mother by anonymous
June 15, 2019 01:46 - 1 hour - 102 MBThis epodes is the second part of the previous podcast. It takes the same juicy subject of sex and intimacy but rather than learning about it from a 21 year old, we explore it with a 48 year old mother. …
Interview: The intimate adventures of a 48 year old mother
June 15, 2019 01:46 - 1 hour - 101 MBHot sex and great intimacy is not just for young people. In this episode we cover a lot of territory such as: – Stigmas and judgements about homosexuality and whether it’s easier for a woman to be openly bisexual in today’s society – Judgements and whether it’s possible not to judge – If the concept of non-judgement is a myth – Double penetration – What is true love, devotion and monogamy? – Does being jealous mean you don’t “truly” love the person? – If you are jealous are you lov...
Interview: How to excite a demi sexual with Sarah
June 01, 2019 09:29 - 1 hour - 89.1 MBWhat does it mean to be demisexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? This is a very special and juicy episode with a beautiful woman who has a phenomenal voice and laugh! In this special interview, Sarah shares her story and explains why she made a major life decision to undergo a double mastectomy. We explore how this choice affected her sexually as well as when you should disclose potential physical surprises such as scarr...
The intimate adventures of a 21 year old traveling girl. Interview with Marisa Vogiatzi
May 30, 2019 03:59 - 1 hour - 123 MBTraveling is one of the world’s favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance. In this episode we interview newly turned twenty one, Marisa Vogiazi about world travel, sex and romance. Topics discussed include: Traveling alone vs with a partner.…
Interview: The intimate adventures of a 21 year old traveling girl with Marisa Vogiatzi
May 30, 2019 03:59 - 1 hour - 123 MBFor many, traveling is one of our favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance. In this episode, we interview freshly-turned twenty-one, Marisa Vogiatzi about world travel, sexual adventures and romance. Topics discussed include: – Traveling alone vs. with a partner – Long distance relationships when traveling – How to stay safe as a young, single woman while traveling and having sex – How to turn down unwanted attention or affection – The power of the words: I’m not inte...
Interview: The intimate adventures of a 21 year old traveling girl with Marisa
May 30, 2019 03:59 - 1 hour - 123 MBFor many, traveling is one of our favorite ways to experience life, culture and romance. In this episode, we interview freshly-turned twenty-one, Marisa about world travel, sexual adventures and romance. Topics discussed include: – Traveling alone vs. with a partner – Long distance relationships when traveling – How to stay safe as a young, single woman while traveling and having sex – How to turn down unwanted attention or affection – The power of the words: I’m not interested – Ho...
Can men and women actually be friends?
May 15, 2019 16:49 - 1 hour - 98.1 MBBy default you are probably thinking, yes of course! However, is that what’s really going on when sexual attraction is involved? This podcast takes a profound look at the favors men do for women to bargain for their friendship as well as the many ways women keep their so-called friends around to help them with other favors and kind gestures. We also examine the differences between and definitions of being true friends vs acquaintances or lovers. Are you ready to come closer? Closenes...
The final 13 deadly sins of online dating (Part 3)
April 16, 2019 01:40 - 51 minutes - 71.1 MBIn this riveting climax to the 3-part series of Deadly Sins of Online Dating, we’ll give you the final thirteen sins and teach you how to avoid them at all costs. In this episode: – Using general or filler words to make your partner jealous such as being “out with friends” – Being intentionally boring – Not answering direct questions and avoiding them at all costs – Getting offended that the man was “too” this or that – Sending your relationship to the graveyard by suggesting you, “l...
The next 12 deadly sins of online dating (Part 2)
March 15, 2019 21:20 - 55 minutes - 76.5 MBOur next installment of deadly sins of online dating include: – Looking approximately 40% worse in person than your worst profile photo – Speaking only of what you “don’t do and won’t do” and being utterly disagreeable – Endless excuses for not getting together when you like someone and never committing to a date – Using snapchat filters and specifically, dog filters – Holding other people’s babies – Giving overly-abbreviated answers – Using the phrase “next time” – Freaking ...
The first 15 deadly sins of online dating
February 15, 2019 20:19 - 1 hour - 125 MBOnline dating is a bit like the wild, wild, West. For some, it’s like a dirty little secret we don’t discuss with anyone but our closest of confidants. With so much choice and technology at our fingertips, why do most people leave dating apps feeling frustrated, jaded and alone? More importantly, why do we do all seem to say or do the worst kind of things when it comes to how we treat potential lovers and partners? If all the convenience of online dating is supposed to bring us closer, why d...
Closeness and self-love: 5 pillars of self care
January 11, 2019 01:52 - 22 minutes - 31 MBBeing close with another starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to stay in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of your own presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. Then we’ll look at different types of physical activity that supports healthy brain function and explore how to break up our work day in a way that feels energizing and life giving. Sometimes the cure to our own frustrations and anxieties comes from the simplest of activities. Allow us to show...
Closeness with yourself: 5 pillars of self care
January 11, 2019 01:52 - 22 minutes - 31 MBBeing close with other starts with caring for yourself and knowing how to keep yourself in alignment. In this episode we discover the power of presence. This alone can dramatically improve your life. We’ll then look at physical activity that …
A sensual meditation and rampage of appreciation
December 31, 2018 23:12 - 17 minutes - 23.9 MBDo you know exactly what gets you really turned on? How about what puts you in that space of pure unadulterated sexual desire? We do, and in this episode you’ll discover why knowing what excites you can give you experiences …
Rome: A sensual meditation and rampage of appreciation
December 31, 2018 23:12 - 17 minutes - 23.9 MBIntroducing two incredible offerings packed into one little episode. First, learn how to go on a rampage of appreciation to immediately feel more positive emotions. Next, get your first taste of our signature Sensual Meditations. Imagine being able to close your eyes while Tari speaks sensually to you about intimate subjects that makes you feel like you’re right in the middle of it all. We’ll describe it in rich, vivid detail so that it becomes easy for you to imagine and visualize what ...
12 Female faux pas to avoid in 2019
December 29, 2018 01:48 - 1 hour - 111 MBHere’s a taste of what’s in store when you tune to over 12 faux pas to avoid when interacting with others: Unabashed over exaggeration Erroneously flinging around psychological and clinical terms about others Minimizing other women and degrading them Exaggerating …
12 Female faux pas
December 29, 2018 01:48 - 1 hour - 111 MBIn this action-packed episode, we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here's just a taste of what we'll cover: - Hyper-exaggeration - Erroneously flinging around heavy psychological diagnoses about men - Minimizing other women and degrading them - Exaggerating about your girlfriend who is so "gorgeous" - Asking “is she prettier than me” (or any other comparison) - The “I called you but you didn’t answer” dilemma - Roping other men into...
12 Wicked little female faux pas to avoid
December 29, 2018 01:48 - 1 hour - 111 MBIn this action-packed episode, we’ll discuss more than twelve mistakes you want to avoid when communicating with others. Here’s just a taste of what we’ll cover: – Hyper-exaggeration – Erroneously flinging around heavy psychological diagnoses about men – Minimizing other women and degrading them – Exaggerating about your girlfriend who is so “gorgeous” – Asking “is she prettier than me” (or any other comparison) – The “I called you but you didn’t answer” dilemma – Roping oth...
Proper Manners: 5 of the biggest mistakes for women to avoid
December 08, 2018 23:43 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis episode is part of an interesting new series on recognizing bad manners and poor behavior, as well as learning what to do about it. Regardless of your gender, it’s worth listening to! Most of us know when someone is being flat-out rude, but what does psychological warfare look like when the signs are subtle and people have ill intent? Learning to communicate well with others and people we’re attracted to is an art unto itself that can save both men and women a lot of pain. Have y...
5 of the biggest mistakes for women to avoid
December 08, 2018 23:43 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it, regardless of your gender. It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out rude but what does psychological …
5 of the biggest mistakes to avoid in 2019
December 08, 2018 23:43 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it, regardless of your gender. It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out rude but what does psychological …
Part I: 5 female faux pas to avoid in 2019
December 08, 2018 23:43 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis is part of an interesting new series on how to recognize bad manners and behavior and what to do about it, regardless of your gender. It’s easy to tell when someone is flat out rude but what does psychological …
Proper Manners: 5 of the biggest faux pas for women to avoid
December 08, 2018 23:43 - 1 hour - 104 MBThis episode is part of an interesting new series on recognizing bad manners and poor behavior, as well as learning what to do about it. Regardless of your gender, it’s worth listening to! Most of us know when someone is being flat-out rude, but what does psychological warfare look like when the signs are subtle and people have ill intent? Learning to communicate well with others and people we’re attracted to is an art unto itself that can save both men and women a lot of pain. Have you ...
A Sex Coach in your Pocket: The Juicebox app and an interview with Brianna Radar
November 19, 2018 07:59 - 53 minutes - 73.2 MBBrianna discusses real fears in today’s world such as erectile dysfunction, masturbation and consent. Where can we go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? You already know you can get Closeness Coaching wtih us at www.getcloseness.com, and now …
Sarah likes it hot. How to excite a demi sexual
November 08, 2018 09:29 - 1 hour - 89.1 MBWhat does it mean to be demi-sexual and how does this affect online dating? What does it take for someone like Sarah to get aroused? Sarah shares her story as well as her why she made a major life decision …
Interview: A sex coach in your pocket using the Juicebox app with Brianna Radar
November 01, 2018 07:59 - 53 minutes - 73.2 MBHave you thought about where you can go to get help for intimacy and relationship issues? Hopefully after listening to the Closeness podcast you know that we are here for you. We offer in person private meetings and video chat as well as text support. But what if you’re not ready for that yet and you’re more of a private person? In this episode Brianna introduces Juicebox: an app that gives you direct access to sex coaches and sex therapists via text! Closeness listeners get a 5-day free...
Interview: A better sex life through dance with Daniela Goulart
October 28, 2018 01:23 - 1 hour - 83.3 MBAs many people have discovered for ages, leading and following in dance can directly translate to how you healthily navigate your relationships. In this interview, we'll discuss why women who trust and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy. Then we look at how partners can get in touch with their masculine and feminine sides through movement. Can we use what we know about social dancing to have better sex and find closeness? Leading and following can be a sensitive ...
Interview with a Brazilian Dancer: A better sex life through dance and learning to be submissive
October 28, 2018 01:23 - 1 hour - 83.3 MBAs many dancers have known for ages, leading and following in dance can directly translate to healthy roles in the bedroom. In this interview, we’ll discuss why women who trust their partner and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy if they have a dynamic like this in their relationship. We’ll then look at how partners can get in touch with their masculine and feminine sides more easily through movement. At the end we explore jealousy and how to work through it. Can we ...
Improve your sex life through dance and movement. An interview with Daniela Goulart
October 28, 2018 01:23 - 1 hour - 83.3 MBThis powerful episode explores the roles of leading and following in dance and how that translates to relationships. We’ll discuss why women who trust and follow in dance can also experience better sex and intimacy. Then we look at how …
Interview: Dirty dancing explained with Briana Gibson
October 18, 2018 23:24 - 48 minutes - 66.2 MBBriana Gibson is a talented social dancer. In this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs, she breaks down the art of communicating through dance. A universe can be discovered about someone by moving closely with them for three minutes! In this episode, we’ll discuss what some of those things are. Briana also explains what to do when someone has “ghosted” you, and offers some perspective on why women reject men in the dance world. Our interview concludes with a few key ways to understand chem...
Leading in relationships is like leading in dance. An interview with Briana Gibson
October 18, 2018 23:24 - 48 minutes - 66.2 MBBriana Gibson is a talented social dancer. In this candid interview with @breezydanceswcs she breaks down the art of communicating through social dancing. A lot can be learned by moving with someone for three minutes and in this episode …
Part 2: Who should initiate sex and intimacy in relationships?
October 05, 2018 01:18 - 25 minutes - 35.6 MBHave you ever wondered why women don’t try again after initiating or approaching only once? We’ll explain how severely women internalize rejection and what both partners can do about it. We’ll then break down how to handle and give rejection compassionately. As a social being, this is perhaps one of the most important skills you can have! Whether you’re dating, married or in a relationship, few people know how to reject gracefully. Are you ready to come closer? Closeness Coaching for...