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Boldly Becoming You Podcast

225 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 17 ratings

The Boldly Becoming You Podcast is your bi-weekly invitation to become who you were born to be. Underneath the layers of rules and expectations you have adopted over your lifetime, in an effort to connect and be accepted, you’ve lost much of who you were when you entered this world. Twice a week I will call on you to answer that whisper from your inner wisdom that you have been shushing for years and begin the redesign of your life.

On Mondays I’ll share truths about the human experience and highlight opportunities to deepen your connection to yourself so you can show up in all areas of your life in full alignment and with a meaningful impact. In these brief episodes, you will be reminded of your responsibility to yourself to become the person you have always wanted to be.

On Thursdays, I’ll introduce you to people who have lived both lives - the one where they agreed to what others expected of them, following the same arbitrary rules we all agreed to AND then had the courage to finally listen to their gut telling them there was something more. We will learn how to navigate the sometimes messy experience of listening to our truest selves from their collective journeys and then redesign daily life to pursue our respective purposes.

In reality, there are no Universal rules about what is right and wrong or good and bad in parenting, partnership, friendship, etc. It’s about what is aligned with your purpose...and what is not. Boldly Becoming You will help you challenge the rules you may not even know you are following so you can get on with living an authentic life that fills you up and allows you to have meaningful connections while practicing your purpose.

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Episodes

Episode 23 What is Intentional Parenting?

August 10, 2020 04:00 - 8 minutes - 5.93 MB

Regardless of how you became a parent, how you show up is completely up to you; this includes the mom and dad, as well as the bonus mom and bonus dad,. And the weight you feel to do it right is warranted because how we parent does determine how our kids feel about themselves and what they believe they can do or achieve, at least initially. This sometimes translates into the desire to perfect our parenting approach, be the perfect mom or dad in every moment of our children’s lives but I want ...

Episode 22 The straw house, the stick house and now her brick house where she's the most she's ever been herself

August 06, 2020 04:00 - 55 minutes - 33.3 MB

Valarie Stephens shares her incredible metaphor of the 3 little pigs houses. The straw house, her stick house and now the house she has created with brick that is the truest and most beautiful life she can imagine for herself. I'm really excited for you to hear her journey from deflecting her leadership in an early relationship to guiding hundreds of families through incredible transformations to healthy and happy connection. Stay in touch with Valarie here: https://www.yourfamilyguru.co...

Episode 21 3 Parenting Rules that are jacking up our kids

August 03, 2020 04:00 - 10 minutes - 7.71 MB

As we continue our journey to uncover our truest selves by peeling back the layers of rules, expectations and obligations we unknowingly agreed to, we will be digging into each of the relationships we have a role in. Today, I share the 3 rules that I struggled with and then released to make room for my efforts to be an intentional mama. No matter how or what your specific parenting role is, today's episode will deepen your relationship with your kid(s) while also empower them to be their tru...

Episode 20 Musician to Doctor treating rare disease and making break throughs in how we respond to illness

July 30, 2020 04:00 - 56 minutes - 47.9 MB

She was a musician and studied music through college when she injured her hand changing the trajectory of her career. Dr. Jessica Pizano shares her story of musician to Doctor of Clinical Nutrition, nutritional genomic counseling, and treating rare diseases such as mast cell activation disorders and connective tissue disease. I'm thrilled to introduce you to the expert who finally cracked the code for my mystery symptoms and led me out of the ME (Myalgic Encephalomyelitis) 4+ year haze and c...

Episode 19 The Science of Sleep

July 27, 2020 04:00 - 7 minutes - 5.1 MB

We wear lack of sleep as a badge of honor and proof that we are working harder than our peers to achieve more and reach epic levels of success. This is especially true in the world of entrepreneurship but also in parenthood and other areas of adulting. We have heard news reports, read articles and listened to the gurus talk about how important sleep is but why? What actually happens when you sleep that is so important? If I can run on 4-6 hours of sleep with a little (or a lot) of help f...

Episode 18 From rare cancer diagnosis and deep loss to Hypnotherapist for cancer patients

July 23, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 58.5 MB

Mikaila Henderson was on the fast track to a purposeful life in her mid 20s when her dad became ill and died within 4 months of diagnosis. Her spiritual journey took a detour as she went into denial of losing him. 6+ years later, she was celebrating her first wedding anniversary, in her doctorate program for forensic psychology and she was diagnosed with a rare cancer. But that wasn't the traumatic part for her. After having a traumatic first round of chemotherapy, she found her way to hyp...

Episode 17 Science of Stress during Change and Transition

July 20, 2020 04:00 - 10 minutes - 7.26 MB

It's not a mystery why so many of us are experiencing extreme stress over the last few months. While we try to keep our heads above water with remote work, remote learning for our kids and the herding of all the cats in our lives, our bodies are working overtime to make every day happen. Prolonged stress - chronic stress - has major health implications. We hear this all the time, right? But what does that mean? What's going on in your body every time you have to make a new decision? Every ...

Episode 16 Part 2 Dr. Gwen Williams - health disparities, moving out of bias and into compassion

July 16, 2020 04:00 - 36 minutes - 21.2 MB

In Part 2 of my conversation with Dr. Gwen Williams, a hospitalist, who has experienced racial bias as a medical student and a practicing physician, we unpack some of the most alarming statistics on infant mortality rate and cancer death rates that are more than twice likely to affect the black and brown communities. We discuss the complexities of these statistics and Dr. Williams gives us insight on how to move to an equitable healthcare system for all people. You can follow along on her ...

Episode 15 Why Supplements Don't Work....and I take 15+ several times a day

July 13, 2020 04:00 - 7 minutes - 5.67 MB

Often we try a supplement because we hear it will help us...sleep, lose weight, have more energy, get fewer headaches, etc. And we try it and ...no relief.  In this episode I will tell you WHY your efforts with supplements haven't worked and I geek out on THE most important mineral we have in our bodies that is responsible for over 300 biochemical reactions. I was drastically deficient in this one (spoiler - you are too). Don't forget to grab your free My Body Health Guide to shift out o...

Episode 14 She navigated racism through medical school and as a practicing doctor Part 1

July 09, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 48 MB

Dr. Gwen Williams knew at 4 years old she would be a doctor. She was raised by first generation immigrant parents who empowered her confidence by living the example of making the world a better place, to be kind, to have compassion and self-aware. Having grown up in NYC, she was used to all flavors of diversity and was exposed to the historic truths of race in America by intentional community leaders. During medical school she was corrected by fellow non-white students to "behave" and she ...

Episode 13 The Human Body and Your Health

July 06, 2020 04:00 - 7 minutes - 5.63 MB

What if we stopped addressing our health concerns about weight, strength, stress and sleep from the outside and actually got to the root of the problem...for free? What if we stopped trying to FIX our bodies and instead understood how to support their function? What if we shifted our relationship with the human body from aesthetic opinion to how our bodies can give us more energy and presence to fulfill our purpose?  This month we are flipping health as we have known it on it's head an...

Episode 12 Tragic Loss Only Amplified His Mission as Optimist, Biohacker and Cellular Healer

July 02, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 33.9 MB

Dr. Michael Wild knew from the age of 12 that he would become a health and wellness professional healing the world. He didn't anticipate the depth of purpose, or personal loss, in his journey over the next 30+ years, including losing the love of his life, Linda. In this episode, you hear a story of incredible resilience and also gain human body education that will be life-changing. You can find Dr. Wild at www.drwildcanhelp.com.

Episode 11 Boundaries, Codependency and Interdependence in Partnership

June 29, 2020 04:00 - 8 minutes - 6.55 MB

Boundaries and codependency have a weird stigma in the world of social media meme culture and have been watered down, thus ineffectively used in the effort of supporting healthy and connected relationships of all kinds. I see dozens of posts regularly in the "relationships" category on all platforms about using boundaries when you find yourself in a "toxic" relationship. We will cover how ridiculous the term "toxic relationships" is in another episode but today we are pulling back the veil...

Boundaries, Codependency and Interdependence in Partnership

June 29, 2020 04:00 - 8 minutes - 6.55 MB

Boundaries and codependency have a weird stigma in the world of social media meme culture and have been watered down, thus ineffectively used in the effort of supporting healthy and connected relationships of all kinds. I see dozens of posts regularly in the "relationships" category on all platforms about using boundaries when you find yourself in a "toxic" relationship. We will cover how ridiculous the term "toxic relationships" is in another episode but today we are pulling back the veil...

Episode 10 Chronic illnesses, an eating disorder and chronic pain to joy and the journey to Self

June 25, 2020 04:00 - 45 minutes - 24.6 MB

Jenn Dragonette shares her story of unaddressed chronic pain, an undiagnosed eating disorder, her addiction to being busy and how her journey began at 3 when she performed Reiki on her grandfather. After chasing fad diets and being prescribed medications for 20+ years, she worked with a functional medical doctor and acupuncturist, and discovered intuitive eating. She launched her podcast Feed Your Body With Love this past spring and you can follow her on her incredible journey at www.jdr...

Episode 9 Communication and Conflict in Partnership

June 22, 2020 04:00 - 10 minutes - 7.31 MB

Communication is the vehicle to connection and it's essential to use effective communication in our partnership relationships. Knowing how to talk about what you need, what's bothering you and how to receive the same from your partner requires practice and an unlearning and reframing of rules you brought with you into your relationship. In this episode, I'll offer some questions to consider, share some of the challenges I have to work through in my partnership and the number 1 tip I got from...

Episode 8 Left the corporate world to start a desert homestead

June 18, 2020 04:00 - 39 minutes - 21.3 MB

Becky and Chris Barr left the busyness of what so many of us experience in 2015 to become homesteaders to achieve a self-sustainable life. After a handful of long awaited camping trips and a gift from Chris’s father who unexpectedly passed, their 5 year plan to go off the grid was expedited and they have been living in their solar powered homestead including alpacas, goats, chickens and more and have never been happier or more connected to each other or nature. Check out their journey, alp...

Episode 7 Your Purpose and Your Partner

June 15, 2020 04:00 - 7 minutes - 5.61 MB

What do you do when you are speeding down the personal evolution highway and can’t get your partner to even look in the direction of where you are going? We cover this challenge and potential solutions in this episode. www.facebook.com/groups/boldlybecomingyou www.rulesandrebellion.com/jumpstart

Episode 6 After losing her sight for 4 months she stopped asking for permission

June 11, 2020 04:00 - 57 minutes - 31.2 MB

After postpartum depression, the premature birth of her son, two businesses and losing her sight for 4 months, Heather Angell finally found the clarity in her purpose. After working with a business and life coach who suggested she read the Miracle Morning, she stopped asking for permission and her life changed forever. Now she is grateful for the lessons she learns as her life journey twists and turns and helps others realize their dreams as well. www.heatherangell.co.uk Check out the F...

Episode 5 The Rules we bring to our Partnership

June 01, 2020 04:00 - 8 minutes - 6.94 MB

Are there really only 2 people in your partnership? What do you expect from this long-term committed relationship? Partnerships are complex, multi-layered and can be an incredible part of your support system to become the boldest and truest you. But there are likely some factors you haven’t considered that could be delaying your deeper connection or cutting it off completely. Today’s conversation will offer some insight into where to start digging around so you can close those gaps.   ww...

Episode 4 Undiagnosed until 36 and now a public speaker and leader in her community

May 28, 2020 04:00 - 42 minutes - 21.4 MB

After 36 years of undiagnosed autism, including challenges in work, relationships and health, Becca Lory Hector found the missing piece to explain why she experienced the world differently. Over the last 8 years, Becca has become a dynamic autism advocate, consultant, speaker, and author.  You can see the work she does, and connect with her close-knit community at www.beccalory.com  ASAN is also mentioned in our conversation so head over to https://autisticadvocacy.org/ to learn more abo...

Episode 3 Emotional Rules

May 25, 2020 04:00 - 8 minutes - 6.77 MB

We all learned and adopted rules about how, when and what emotions are acceptable to have, express and acknowledge. These rules have limited your ability to connect with the people in your life but most importantly with your inner wisdom and alignment. In this episode, I walk you through the questions you can ask yourself to continue the journey of Boldly Becoming You. www.facebook.com/groups/boldlybecomingyou  

Episode 2 From shy girl in school to YouTube host and Online Content Creation Expert

May 21, 2020 04:00 - 1 hour - 33.8 MB

After growing up incredibly shy and moving around a lot, she found herself going to college at 16, captain of the speech and debate team at 17 in her college and eventually on local and national broadcasts both for TV and a prominent YouTube channel. It was at that YouTube channel where Gwendolyn Gay experienced the necessary friction to launch herself into a business that provided some hard lessons and ultimately the path to her joy and freedom to be who she was born to be.  You can find ...

What is stopping you from being the BOLDEST you?

May 18, 2020 04:00 - 9 minutes - 11.6 MB

You have everything you need to make your mark on the world but you keep letting things from your past stop you. End that today.

Trailer for Boldly Becoming You

April 15, 2020 00:24 - 2 minutes - 2.55 MB

Tasha Skillin invites you on a journey to rebel against the rules that hold you back from living a meaningful life with purpose and impact through interviews with those who bravely answer their calling from within and her personal lessons on relationships and self discovery.

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