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Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast

48 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 2 years ago -

I've been told my whole life that I'm a little blunt, not sharp, blunt. I simply lack the finesse required for sharpness. Maybe it's because I'm a Sagittarius or the fact that I am a sensitive bitch, nonetheless my mind is both a scary and enlightened place, sometimes my mind is kind to me, sometimes it hates me. I sometimes like it here, I sometimes don't, and the older I get the more I'm fucking okay with that. I don't have all the answers, nor do I claim to (well to be fair sometimes I really do have the answers, I just don't like them). I'm on a learning, discovering, and enlightenment journey. I have questions, many questions, for life and the experiences it encompasses. Something I say a lot is the expression "that makes no sense" and usually it slips, sometimes I scream it out, sometimes under my breath when I come to the realization that there is a bigger picture. That many of the things we are raised to believe make sense really don't. I love love these moments because it means I've been given a chance to learn, listen, and grow from someone's story, experiences, and existence. In these moments my mind got bigger, my capacity for understanding and knowledge expounded and my empathy beamed. So this podcast will simply be me asking a lot of questions, talking, and learning about whatever I want. So come along! You may agree or you may disagree BUT just remember life is full of glitter and glue and we ebb and we flow!

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The Final Episode: Ending the Podcast, Starting Anew and Walking In The Flow of My Purpose

January 19, 2022 15:00 - 39 minutes - 35.8 MB

Saying goodbye is never an easy thing, and saying goodbye to something that was created by my own hands, for my own survival and growth is even more difficult. But it's time to let go and move on to newer and better things. This will be the last episode of the Blunt and No Not Weed Podcast. In this episode, I explain why I've decided to close this chapter, what's coming next (Yes, I am not done with podcasting yet), and where my mindset is in 2022. A huge thank you to all my guests (Natale, N...

Ep. #29| Booktober Series: The Book That Saved My Life Ft Eat Pray Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

October 15, 2021 14:06 - 50 minutes - 46.4 MB

It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a world that so often makes little sense. They bring me moments of quiet, reflection, and questioning. Books are my safe space, the cheapest and arguably the healthiest form of "escapism" out there. Books speak to me, they open small windows of insights inside my mind, which then seeps into my soul. I'm...

Ep. #28|Lessons I've Learned From My Favorite Books Ft 12 Rules For Life By Jordan B Peterson

October 08, 2021 15:53 - 54 minutes - 49.7 MB

It's the start of the booktober series! This October I'll be sharing some of the life lessons that literature and words have imparted upon me. Books are my safe space, they make sense to me in a world that so often makes little sense. They bring me moments of quiet, reflection, and questioning. Books are my safe space, the cheapest and arguably the healthiest form of "escapism" out there. Books speak to me, they open small windows of insights inside my mind, which then seeps into my soul. I'm...

Ep. #27|Ft Kemelo “Kemi” Sehlapelo: Reconstructing a Sexual Identity After Sexual Assault, Navigating Self-Healing Amidst Echoes of Stigma

October 01, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 109 MB

As a woman, perhaps my biggest fear is having something sexual or violent been done to my body without my consent, on the backdrops of the #metoo movement, the continuous degradation and disregard for women's bodies and rights running rampant throughout a plethora of legal systems, South Africa's very real and scary femicide in the form of gender-based violence, sexual violence, and murder; a clear message is being sent to women, and it's not one of protection, freedom, safety, accountability...

Ep. #26| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Wendy Weng: Between Two Worlds, Growing Up In A Traditional Conservative Chinese Family In The US

September 24, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 73.9 MB

Growing up between two worlds with clear-cut and distinguishable differences in values, cultural norms and expectations can be a jarring game of navigation and simultaneous assimilation. This is true for this week's guest Wendy Weng, who was born to traditional conservative Chinese parents and raised in the U.S. The values she learned at home and the ones found within the society she was living in couldn't have been more day and night. This theme and clash would continue throughout her life a...

Ep. #25| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 2: Sexual Liberation & Understanding Dialogue Nuance Within Sex Positivity

September 17, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 68.7 MB

There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one that can cause contention both within us and outside of us, lies within our sexual identity. For women, black women, women with disabilities, LGBTQ individuals this can be an extremely difficult journey towards sexual discovery and freedom. In this episode, I sat down to talk to Mo, aka Queen Cunn...

Ep. #24| Sexy September Sex Series Ft Mo (Queen Cunnilinga) Part 1: Discovering Sexual Identity Against the Backdrops of Religion & African Conservativism

September 10, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 71.9 MB

There is something powerful, beautiful, and scary about finding more of who you are as life progresses and all the pieces collected over time start to make sense. One key area of human identity; one that can cause contention both within us and outside of us, lies within our sexual identity. For women, black women, women with disabilities, LGBTQ individuals this can be an extremely difficult journey towards sexual discovery and freedom. In this episode, I sat down to talk to Mo, aka Queen Cunn...

Ep. #23| Sexy September Sex Series: Growing Up With a Sex Complex, My Hoe Phase and Discovering My Sexual Voice

September 03, 2021 12:22 - 45 minutes - 41.4 MB

Growing up my mum used to always tell us that "you never taste the penis, if you do you won't be able to stop because it's so good". Random right? She instilled both fear and desire at the same time. BUT what I do appreciate from her quirky expression was that she never lied to my sisters and me about how good sex is, that it is a GOOD thing. Of course, she also qualified this expression with "only in the grips of marriage". It's no wonder I developed a sex complex, with religion telling me o...

Ep. #22| Value and Worth, Where Does Your Value and Worth Come From, I'm Finding Society Attributes and Attaches These To Some Of The More Arbitrary Stuff

August 27, 2021 13:50 - 42 minutes - 38.7 MB

Perfection is truly the disease of our society and like Queen, B said "it's the soul that needs a surgery". In today's episode I talk about worth and value, where does my worth and value come from? Can worth be taken away, is it a movable asset? When all the arbitrary things we attach to our worth and value, having money, being a parent, being coupled, having a certain degree or status, the religions we follow, the car we drive, the job title we have, when all of that is stripped away what is...

Ep. #21| Mental Health: I'm Trying To Not Be Dealing With The Same Shit and Trauma Into My 30s, Trying To Kill My Ego, The Ego Death Experience

August 25, 2021 12:51 - 48 minutes - 44.2 MB

There is a beauty I have come to find in suffering. The other day I sat on my toilet seat 🤣😎 (TMI) but whatever), reminiscing, and found myself being actually appreciative and grateful for the very difficult year of suffering and loss I've been thrown into. There is a power in watching everything go wrong and then realizing you are still here, alive, breathing with the sands of time still in your favor. One of the reasons for this dawn came through exploring mental health and really diving in...

Ep. #20 | Discipline, How I lack It and How It's Holding Me Back. Gosh Should I Just Confess That I Do Laziness Better?

August 12, 2021 22:00 - 49 minutes - 45.6 MB

It's FRIDAY the 13TH and I have decided to HAUNT myself today 😂😂😂. I just feel like I have made a life choice to soak, dwell and bathe in laziness. Yes, I am on Spring break after wrapping up a very difficult and challenging first year of my MBA studies BUT this form of sloth has been a long time coming. I can binge-watch K-dramas for between 8 to 10 hours straight a day, especially if it is one of THOSE shows. I lose track of what I do in my day and where my hours go with little to no guilt....

Ep. #19.2 | Miscarriages: The Difficult Healing Process, What Men and Spouses Go Through, Coming Out the Other Side Ft Ndamu

August 07, 2021 14:50 - 1 hour - 77.5 MB

The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's also one of society's most misunderstood, exploited, and devalued forces. One such way the female body experiences this; is in pregnancy. The monolithic expectation of pregnancy that leads to a healthy birth has forced many women into silence and hiding when their body doesn't meet this expectation....

Ep. #19.2 | Miscarriages: The Healing Process, What Men and Spouses Go Through, Coming Out the Other Side Ft Ndamu

July 30, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 77.5 MB

The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's also one of society's most misunderstood, exploited, and devalued forces. One such way the female body experiences this; is in pregnancy. The monolithic expectation of pregnancy that leads to a healthy birth has forced many women into silence and hiding when their body doesn't meet this expectation....

Ep. #19.1 | Miscarriages: The Shame That Follows and Why Women Don’t Talk About It, A Harmful Reality Ft Ndamu

July 27, 2021 22:00 - 1 hour - 82.8 MB

The female body is arguably one of the most powerful forces exiting in our current realm. It breaks itself apart monthly and puts itself back together again. It houses and nourishes life, but it's also one of society's most misunderstood, exploited, and devalued forces. One such way the female body experiences this; is in pregnancy. The monolithic expectation of pregnancy that leads to a healthy birth has forced many women into silence and hiding when their body doesn't meet this expectation....

Ep. #18.2 | The Devaluation of Anger, Cancel Culture, Objective Truths vs Subjective Realities Ft Natale

July 24, 2021 09:59 - 1 hour - 69 MB

Has society always been this angry? Or is something else at play? Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has also seen a rise in online social wars, echo-chamber debates and conversations, and ultimately the cancellation of people. Grace seems to be lacking and everyone has become too angry and simultaneously too morally superior. Celebrities and public figures get the brunt of this anger and rage. Is can...

Ep. #18.1 | Cancel Culture, The Current Illusion of Moral Superiority & The Devaluation of Anger Ft Natale

July 20, 2021 17:55 - 1 hour - 85.5 MB

Oh how quickly we all get triggered! We see it, we don't like it, we tweet and we fought it goddammit! The rise of social media has also seen a rise in online social wars, echo-chamber debates and conversations, and ultimately the cancellation of people. Grace seems to be lacking and everyone has become too angry and simultaneously too morally superior. Celebrities and public figures get the brunt of this anger and rage. Is cancel culture good? or bad? or both? or neither? Let's talk about it...

Ep. #17 | Oh South Africa, This is What Happens When The Chickens Come Home To Roost, Why Are We So Surprised?

July 16, 2021 11:06 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MB

The truth shall set you free, but first, it will piss you off. So, here we are...this episode was not on my episode list, I could not have prepared for this episode until this week, nonetheless, the events that occurred this week were by no means surprising. On the backdrops of COVID-19, rabid income inequality and disparity, an ugly racial trauma, and corruption, and alas! Revelio🪄! These events WERE and HAVE BEEN coming for a long time, right? We all knowww thisss rrright? Really? We didnt ...

Ep. #16 | Sex for Grades A case study on Ghana, On the backdrops of African traditional gender roles, internalized misogyny, female genital mutilation Ft. Tshima

July 09, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 105 MB

She's back! Welcome back! My sister and I are back in this two-episode special. In this episode, we dig into how sex-for grades have become a thing in Africa and how men are using their positions of power to assault and exploit their female students, with our lens shifting specifically to Ghana. What is the kind of environment that even allows for something like this to happen? We look at the role of African Traditionalism with its customs such as female genital mutilation and imposed gender ...

Ep. #15 | The Objectification and Over-sexualization of Women, the Role Social Media Plays and the Power of the Male Gaze ft Tshima

July 06, 2021 19:48 - 1 hour - 94.5 MB

This episode is one for the books, featuring arguably my favorite person in the world talking about a topic that we are both very curious and interested in. You know you cannot scroll through Instagram without coming across some boodies and titties, it's all the rage, it's all the likes and it's all the fluence and all the follows. Are women now objectifying themselves, and does this make it, okay seeing as it's on our terms, or is the male gaze still the stirrer of all this shit and if so, i...

Free Britney, We fucked all the way up on Britney Spears, Society's stigmatization of Mental Health, We FAILED.

June 25, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 65.9 MB

It's Britney Bitch! That very saying proves that the Princess of POP has been conquering and overcoming all the bullshit thrown her way for decades. The pop-culture expression "if Britney Spears could survive 2007/08, then you can survive anything" is both a testament and an unavoidable reality of the extent of pain, hurt and mental trauma Britney Spears was going through. AND yet she did survive, 13 years within and later she completed a residency in Vegas, continues to pump out performances...

Ep. #14 | Free Britney, We fucked all the way up on Britney Spears, Society's stigmatization of Mental Health, We FAILED.

June 25, 2021 06:00 - 1 hour - 65.9 MB

It's Britney Bitch! That very saying proves that the Princess of POP has been conquering and overcoming all the bullshit thrown her way for decades. The pop-culture expression "if Britney Spears could survive 2007/08, then you can survive anything" is both a testament and an unavoidable reality of the extent of pain, hurt and mental trauma Britney Spears was going through. AND yet she did survive, 13 years within and later she completed a residency in Vegas, continues to pump out performances...

Ft. Manzi Njokweni -Being a sexual being, The toxicity of Evangelical Purity Culture & African Traditionalism, Unburdening sexual shame Part 2

June 02, 2021 15:17 - 1 hour - 88.5 MB

This is THAT episode. Let's talk about the uncomfortable stuff. In Part 2 we talk about how the church is failing to meet the moment, its failure to serve the society it exists in, and how it continues to perpetuate the oppression of certain groups. Being raised in the church, sex was always a touch-and-go topic of contention, you were told that sex outside of marriage was unholy, that gay sex was shameful & deviant and abstinence was an acceptable form of contraception, OMG the horror. Frank...

Ep. #13 | Being a sexual being, The toxicity of Evangelical Purity Culture & African Traditionalism, Unburdening sexual shame Part 2 Ft.- Manzi Njokweni

June 02, 2021 15:17 - 1 hour - 88.5 MB

This is THAT episode. Let's talk about the uncomfortable stuff. In Part 2 we talk about how the church is failing to meet the moment, its failure to serve the society it exists in, and how it continues to perpetuate the oppression of certain groups. Being raised in the church, sex was always a touch-and-go topic of contention, you were told that sex outside of marriage was unholy, that gay sex was shameful & deviant and abstinence was an acceptable form of contraception, OMG the horror. Frank...

Ep. #12 | Being a sexual being, The toxicity of Evangelical Purity Culture & African Traditionalism, Unburdening sexual shame Part 1 - Ft. Manzi Njokweni

May 29, 2021 14:13 - 1 hour - 82.7 MB

This is THAT episode. Let's talk about the uncomfortable stuff. Being raised in the church, sex was always a touch-and-go topic of contention, you were told that sex outside of marriage was unholy, that gay sex was shameful & deviant and abstinence was an acceptable form of contraception, OMG the horror. Frankly these same teachings are still being taught today. The push for sexual purity was so intricately tied to one's "Christianess" and often correlated to your relationship with your God, ...

Ft. Manzi Njokweni -Being a sexual being, The toxicity of Evangelical Purity Culture & African Traditionalism, Unburdening sexual shame Part 1

May 29, 2021 14:13 - 1 hour - 82.7 MB

This is THAT episode. Let's talk about the uncomfortable stuff. Being raised in the church, sex was always a touch-and-go topic of contention, you were told that sex outside of marriage was unholy, that gay sex was shameful & deviant and abstinence was an acceptable form of contraception, OMG the horror. Frankly these same teachings are still being taught today. The push for sexual purity was so intricately tied to one's "Christianess" and often correlated to your relationship with your God, ...

Adulting Is Destroying My Life, When You Realize You Are Toxic Traits and Recognizing Duality

May 17, 2021 22:23 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MB

It's been three weeks since the last podcast and that's because life has been kicking my ass. In today's topic, I discuss what adulting means to me, what is adulting? Am I successfully adulting? How do you know when you are an adult? I know I pay bills, pay rent and water and buy groceries and pay for my monthly transport pass but does that make me an adult? I feel like I'm not an adult yet, but I know that I can still be an adult without feeling like one. Let's talk about adulting, where do ...

Ep. #10 | Adulting Is Destroying My Life, When You Realize You Are Toxic and Your Toxic Traits & Recognizing Duality

May 17, 2021 22:23 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MB

It's been three weeks since the last podcast and that's because life has been kicking my ass. In today's topic, I discuss what adulting means to me, what is adulting? Am I successfully adulting? How do you know when you are an adult? I know I pay bills, pay rent and water and buy groceries and pay for my monthly transport pass but does that make me an adult? I feel like I'm not an adult yet, but I know that I can still be an adult without feeling like one. Let's talk about adulting, where do ...

My Life is a Movie, Adulting, My Toxic Traits and Recognizing Duality

May 17, 2021 22:23 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MB

It's been three weeks since the last podcast and that's because life has been kicking my ass. In today's topic, I discuss what adulting means to me, what is adulting? Am I successfully adulting? How do you know when you are an adult? I know I pay bills, pay rent and water and buy groceries and pay for my monthly transport pass but does that make me an adult? I feel like I'm not an adult yet, but I know that I can still be an adult without feeling like one. Let's talk about adulting, where do ...

Bullying, Could Lufuno have been saved? The prevention bandwagon isn't as sexy as the viral aftermath bandwagon

April 17, 2021 20:59 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Our society continues to love to fetishize the idea of jumping on the social media hashtag trend after the math, for clout? or for whatever. HOWEVER, we don't seem to be so interested in prevention and getting things addressed before the tragedy. This was clearly evident in the events following Mbiliwi Secondary School and the death of the beautiful young lady Lufuno. What are we doing in our own circles? How complacent are we? And do we only care once the tragedy hits? Let...

Ep. #9 | Bullying, Could Lufuno have been saved? The prevention bandwagon isn't as sexy as the viral aftermath bandwagon

April 17, 2021 20:59 - 57 minutes - 52.7 MB

Our society continues to love to fetishize the idea of jumping on the social media hashtag trend after the math, for clout? or for whatever. HOWEVER, we don't seem to be so interested in prevention and getting things addressed before the tragedy. This was clearly evident in the events following Mbiliwi Secondary School and the death of the beautiful young lady Lufuno. What are we doing in our own circles? How complacent are we? And do we only care once the tragedy hits? Let...

Ep. #8 | Cultural Appropriation, Yall' Struggle With Appreciation Cause It Takes WORK, Can "Whiteness" be appropriated? FT. Natale

April 12, 2021 02:05 - 1 hour - 104 MB

The big ol' elephant in the room. That hairstyle, that headgear, that way of speaking, do you know where it CAME from? Where its origins lie? Whose ancestors it's honoring or dishonoring? Ignorance is bliss, but it really isn't. Cultural appropriation operating in the backdrops of a system of racism and supremacy is problematic at best, and erasure of minority groups at worst. It must be spoken about, it is not innocent, in fact it's malicious and needs to be called out. Appreciation and appr...

Cultural Appropriation, Yall' Struggle With Appreciation Cause It Takes WORK, Can "Whiteness" be appropriated? FT. Natale

April 12, 2021 02:05 - 1 hour - 104 MB

The big ol' elephant in the room. That hairstyle, that headgear, that way of speaking, do you know where it CAME from? Where its origins lie? Whose ancestors it's honoring or dishonoring? Ignorance is bliss, but it really isn't. Cultural appropriation operating in the backdrops of a system of racism and supremacy is problematic at best, and erasure of minority groups at worst. It must be spoken about, it is not innocent, in fact it's malicious and needs to be called out. Appreciation and appr...

Weekly Mini Weed Puffs Episode 1 - The constant struggle with "self" ft Beyonce

April 02, 2021 14:19 - 18 minutes - 16.6 MB

Welcome to a new series here at the Blunt podcast. I decided to title the series "Mini Weed Puffs" this is because, firstly, these are way shorter & secondly, these episodes touch on some deeper subject matters. It's basically the battle of the minds, I go toe to toe, head to head, head to toe with my own mind. It's both fun, exhausting, and freeing all in one, well for me that is. As its usually me trying to reason all the shit happening in my consciousness and how to deal with it. If I feel...

BONUS | Weekly Mini Weed Puffs Episode 1 - The constant struggle with "self" ft Beyonce

April 02, 2021 14:19 - 18 minutes - 16.6 MB

Welcome to a new series here at the Blunt podcast. I decided to title the series "Mini Weed Puffs" this is because, firstly, these are way shorter & secondly, these episodes touch on some deeper subject matters. It's basically the battle of the minds, I go toe to toe, head to head, head to toe with my own mind. It's both fun, exhausting, and freeing all in one, well for me that is. As its usually me trying to reason all the shit happening in my consciousness and how to deal with it. If I feel...

Time travel, Music lyrics sometimes personally attack me, Yes, KPOP is an actual thing

April 02, 2021 12:33 - 47 minutes - 43.4 MB

We are going time-traveling and going back in time! This week's episode was recorded in less gloomy but still gloomy nonetheless times, lets hitch a train back to July 2020. In this episode, I drank some JB Whiskey courtesy of my friend Mpho (and for some reason went on a random appreciation rant about her (she totally deserves it)), went down memory lane, and kind of ended up talking about music and KPOP. This episode will set the premise for next week's episode on cultural appropriation in...

Ep. #7 | Time travel, Music lyrics sometimes personally attack me, Yes, KPOP is an actual thing

April 02, 2021 12:33 - 47 minutes - 43.4 MB

We are going time-traveling and going back in time! This week's episode was recorded in less gloomy but still gloomy nonetheless times, lets hitch a train back to July 2020. In this episode, I drank some JB Whiskey courtesy of my friend Mpho (and for some reason went on a random appreciation rant about her (she totally deserves it)), went down memory lane, and kind of ended up talking about music and KPOP. This episode will set the premise for next week's episode on cultural appropriation in...

Ep. #6 | Black is the new trend, Being a coconut, are you black enough? What does it even mean to be black?

March 26, 2021 19:01 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MB

Questioning your blackness sounds stupid right? I walk into a room and nobody is going to miss my blackness, the brown hue of my skin is all-consuming and present. However, you can be black and still not be considered black enough, whatever the hell that even means, but it's a THING in our community. In today's episode, I explore my own history with my blackness and break down what it means to be black beyond the hue of skin tone.

Black is the new trend, Being a coconut, are you black enough? What does it even mean to be black?

March 26, 2021 19:01 - 47 minutes - 43.7 MB

Questioning your blackness sounds stupid right? I walk into a room and nobody is going to miss my blackness, the brown hue of my skin is all-consuming and present. However, you can be black and still not be considered black enough, whatever the hell that even means, but it's a THING in our community. In today's episode, I explore my own history with my blackness and break down what it means to be black beyond the hue of skin tone.

Ep. #5 | I lost my Dad (my world) to Covid-19, moving to Budapest, & am I even still Christian?

March 18, 2021 21:11 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MB

Hi Blunters! This is a quick update on what's been happening in my life since episode 4, which was over a year ago OH MY GWAAAD. I share about what's coming up this season in my life and give an update on where I'm at, what I've been feeling, and the current trajectory of my life journey. Buckle up cause this is about to be raw, real, vulnerable, and unfiltered. I'm speaking my truth this season and unapologetically so.

I lost my Dad (my world) to Covid-19, moving to Budapest, & am I even still Christian?

March 18, 2021 21:11 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MB

Hi Blunters! This is a quick update on what's been happening in my life since episode 4, which was over a year ago OH MY GWAAAD. I share about what's coming up this season in my life and give an update on where I'm at, what I've been feeling, and the current trajectory of my life journey. Buckle up cause this is about to be raw, real, vulnerable, and unfiltered. I'm speaking my truth this season and unapologetically so.

Ep. #4 | How I've survived spending 70% of my 2020 in quarantine "aka" isolation Part 2

March 24, 2020 18:30 - 52 minutes - 47.7 MB

In this episode, I share my experiences of living in China during the initial stages of the Corona Virus outbreak and how I have survived spending 59 days and counting in quarantine and isolation. It's crazy for me to believe that not so long ago I was celebrating New Years with such joy and excitement AND now? 70% of that very same year has been spent in isolation. This is how I have managed to stay sane yo!

How I've survived spending 70% of my 2020 in quarantine "aka" isolation Part 2

March 24, 2020 18:30 - 52 minutes - 47.7 MB

In this episode, I share my experiences of living in China during the initial stages of the Corona Virus outbreak and how I have survived spending 59 days and counting in quarantine and isolation. It's crazy for me to believe that not so long ago I was celebrating New Years with such joy and excitement AND now? 70% of that very same year has been spent in isolation. This is how I have managed to stay sane yo!

Ep. #3 | How I've survived spending 70% of my 2020 in quarantine "aka" isolation Part 1

March 24, 2020 15:57 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MB

In this episode, I share my experiences of living in China during the initial stages of the Corona Virus outbreak and how I have survived spending 59 days and counting in quarantine and isolation.  Its crazy for me to believe that not so long ago I was celebrating New Years with such joy and excitement AND now? 70% of that very same year has been spent in isolation. This is how I have managed to stay sane yo!

How I've survived spending 70% of my 2020 in quarantine "aka" isolation Part 1

March 24, 2020 15:57 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MB

In this episode, I share my experiences of living in China during the initial stages of the Corona Virus outbreak and how I have survived spending 59 days and counting in quarantine and isolation.  Its crazy for me to believe that not so long ago I was celebrating New Years with such joy and excitement AND now? 70% of that very same year has been spent in isolation. This is how I have managed to stay sane yo!

So, Netflix's "Love is Blind". Can we order a subscription for that in real life please?

March 15, 2020 08:05 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MB

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Ep. #2 | So, Netflix's "Love is Blind". Can we order a subscription for that in real life please?

March 15, 2020 08:05 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MB

cold ×crown ×divorce ×epidemic ×life ×star sign ×african experience ×feeling ×for women ×genz ×life crises ×love ×melenin ×millennials ×on the go ×triggering ×wakanda forever ×wine ×40s ×dating ×easy ×growth ×king ×marriage ×music ×ok boomer ×pain ×quick listen ×20s ×blunt ×life style ×numb ×' ×enlightenment ×hard ×privilege ×rich ×stories ×fast listen ×for men ×genx ×instagram ×lust ×menstruation ×miscarriage ×pop culture ×30s ×parenting ×political stances ×psychology ×queen ×religion ×stor...

No, divorce rates aren't going haywire, young women are just starting to understand their worth.

March 12, 2020 05:18 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

cold ×crown ×divorce ×epidemic ×life ×star sign ×african experience ×feeling ×for women ×genz ×life crises ×love ×melenin ×millennials ×on the go ×triggering ×wakanda forever ×wine ×40s ×dating ×easy ×growth ×king ×marriage ×music ×ok boomer ×pain ×quick listen ×20s ×blunt ×life style ×numb ×' ×enlightenment ×hard ×privilege ×rich ×stories ×fast listen ×for men ×genx ×instagram ×lust ×menstruation ×miscarriage ×pop culture ×30s ×parenting ×political stances ×psychology ×queen ×religion ×stor...

Ep. #1 | No, divorce rates aren't going haywire, young women are just starting to understand their worth.

March 12, 2020 05:18 - 50 minutes - 46 MB

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