As a woman, perhaps my biggest fear is having something sexual or violent been done to my body without my consent, on the backdrops of the #metoo movement, the continuous degradation and disregard for women's bodies and rights running rampant throughout a plethora of legal systems, South Africa's very real and scary femicide in the form of gender-based violence, sexual violence, and murder; a clear message is being sent to women, and it's not one of protection, freedom, safety, accountability, and liberation. Sex is sometimes not sexy, in this episode I sit down with Kemelo “Kemi” Sehlapelo and discuss her journey of navigating the muddy waters of reconstructing a sexual identity after sexual assault and how she has channeled self-healing & self-efficacy amidst the echoes of societal imposed stigma, shame, guilt. She comes in blunt, honest, and very real.

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