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Awakening Women Podcast

493 episodes - English - Latest episode: 4 days ago - ★★★★★ - 136 ratings

Discussing all topics related to holistic health, alternative health, spirituality, psychology, marriage, and personal development.

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322. Let's Talk About Red Flags

November 24, 2022 20:20 - 25 minutes - 27.1 MB

Join my November Breaking UP with toxic Video Series  https://www.leanneoaten.com/breaking-up-series   Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session to get my guidance on your toughest relationship challenges:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Join my End The Cycle Evolve program: leanneoaten.com/e...

321. The Special Brand of Narcissism That Keeps You Hooked in the Dynamic

November 17, 2022 14:00 - 14 minutes - 15.4 MB

Join my November Breaking UP with toxic Video Series  https://www.leanneoaten.com/breaking-up-series   Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session to get my guidance on your toughest relationship challenges:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Join my End The Cycle Evolve program: leanneoaten.com/e...

Breaking UP with Toxic Series Coming in November!

November 16, 2022 23:58 - 3 minutes - 3.72 MB

Join my November Breaking UP with toxic Video Series  https://www.leanneoaten.com/breaking-up-series   Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session to get my guidance on your toughest relationship challenges:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Join my End The Cycle Evolve program: leanneoaten.com/e...

320. [Q + A] Can I Really Be Over the Relationship So Quickly?

November 10, 2022 14:00 - 8 minutes - 9.23 MB

Join the End the Cycle Program and get started with your transformation today. leanneoaten.com/evolve  In this episode, Leanne answers a question about whether it's normal to feel over a long-term relationship quickly after separating.     

{Announcement} End the Cycle Evolve Self Study Course is Now Available!

November 08, 2022 23:29 - 3 minutes - 4.04 MB

A quick announcement: I've made the decision to close enrollment into the group coaching program and offer a self-study format only. I may open up a closed group program in 2023, but the format will be much different and offer some 1:1 support as an option. You can join the program here.   

319. {Community Member Spotlight} Guilt Over Wanting a Divorce, Lost Feeling of Love and Physical Abuse

November 03, 2022 20:47 - 14 minutes - 15.3 MB

Take your next step toward growth and EVOLVE out of the dynamics in your relationship.   Want a deeper dive beyond what we cover here on the podcast?    Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session to get my guidance on your toughest relationship challenges:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Joi...

318. Social Media, Scrolling Narcissistic Abuse Content, And How to Move Beyond Information Gathering

October 27, 2022 20:39 - 9 minutes - 10.7 MB

Take your next step toward growth and EVOLVE out of the dynamics in your relationship.   Want a deeper dive beyond what we cover here on the podcast?    Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session to get my guidance on your toughest relationship challenges:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Joi...

317. Reclaiming Who You Are After Narcissistic Abuse

October 20, 2022 20:58 - 21 minutes - 22.6 MB

Take your next step toward growth and EVOLVE out of the dynamics in your relationship.   Book an Initial 1:1 Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55   Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27   Join my End The Cycle Evolve program: leanneoaten.com/evolve   Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook   

316. When Your Children Act Out Toward You

October 13, 2022 13:00 - 12 minutes - 14 MB

Take your next step toward growth and EVOLVE out of the dynamics in your relationship.  Want to explore on a deeper level beyond this podcast? Purchase the Awakening Women Collection  Work with me in my coaching program End the Cycle Evolve  Follow @awakeningwomensupportoffical on Instagram and Facebook

315. Who Really Has Your Back?

September 29, 2022 18:21 - 14 minutes - 15.4 MB

Going through the separation phase of leaving a narcissistic relationship will often show you who really is in your corner, and who you can trust. Get Leanne's advice on how to navigate this common challenge women face when they begin to exit the relationship. Book an Initial Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault....

314. Facing Your Fears of Divorcing an Abusive Partner with Kate Anthony

September 22, 2022 13:00 - 42 minutes - 30.7 MB

In this episode, Kate Anthony and I discuss the barriers women face when they are considering divorce including finances, co-parenting, dating, and falling into other toxic relationships. Follow Kate @thedivorcesurvivalguide on Instagram  Follow Leanne @awakeningwomensupportofficial on Instagram 

Welcome Back! Doing YOUR Work + The New Vibe for 2022 Season

September 20, 2022 19:53 - 11 minutes - 13.3 MB

After taking the summer off, Awakening Women Podcast is back with a new vibe! We are focusing on the work YOU need to do to get out of the unhealthy relationship patterns you've felt stuck in forever.  We are ending the HERO role (Helping, Enabling, Rescuing, and Overfunctioning) in our relationships so that we can live our lives from a more self-focused, balanced, and grounded place. When we are attached to the outside we are detached from our inside.  Work with me: Join End the Cyc...

313. Is it REALLY That Bad? Is it Abuse or am I Being Too Sensitive?

June 30, 2022 13:38 - 17 minutes - 17.4 MB

If you ask yourself if it's really that bad, or if you're being abused, this is the episode you MUST listen to! Join my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Facebook and Instagram

312. The Many Promises to Change (That Don't Lead to Changed Behaviour)

June 16, 2022 13:00 - 11 minutes - 12.1 MB

Take my free masterclass today and start your transformation journey: https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, or other products you’re making it possible for weekly podcast episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.   Pur...

311. Anger Toward Abusive Partner

June 09, 2022 13:02 - 12 minutes - 13.7 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, or other products you’re making it possible for weekly podcast episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.   Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation C...

310. Cycles of Love and Abuse

June 02, 2022 13:00 - 12 minutes - 13.1 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 By purchasing courses and joining the ETCE mentoring program, or other products you’re making it possible for weekly podcast episodes to continue. Thank you so much for your support.   Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation C...

308. 6 Empowering Mind Shifts You Can Make TODAY

May 20, 2022 22:34 - 16 minutes - 17.3 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27 Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Learn 6 disempowering thoughts ...

307. Remember Who You're Dealing With

May 12, 2022 13:37 - 11 minutes - 6.43 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27 Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    When you're dealing with an abus...

306. What Is He? | Why Labelling Your Partner Keeps YOU Stuck in The Abusive Dynamic

April 28, 2022 17:40 - 14 minutes - 15.6 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27 Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    We hear a lot these days about "...

305. A Covert Abuse Tactic They ALL Use | What About What YOU Did?

April 21, 2022 13:00 - 8 minutes - 7.98 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/27 Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    In this episode Leanne shares wh...

304. 4 Signs You're Not Ready to Leave Your Relationship

April 14, 2022 13:00 - 5 minutes - 5.98 MB

Are there signs you may not be ready to leave your relationship? Yes! You've seen the lists of reasons you need to level, but have you considered why you may still have work to do before you make that leap?  Let's talk about it.  Join my upcoming Masterclass, How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook

303. Closet Abusers| Why You Want to Avoid Being Alone with Your Partner

April 07, 2022 13:00 - 12 minutes - 12.7 MB

Do you avoid being alone with your spouse? Leanne breaks down why this is, and how this also impacts children over time.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook  Join my masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship Join my 6-month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve: leanneoaten.com/evolve   Join the Awakening Women Podcast Discussion Group on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/awakeningwomensupport ...

302. Hitting Rock Bottom | When Everything is Falling Apart and You Don't know What to Do

April 01, 2022 21:24 - 14 minutes - 15.1 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/2   In this episode, Leanne shares a message for women who feel at rock bottom with their relat...

301. Why Reactive Abuse is Not Real

March 31, 2022 13:00 - 11 minutes - 12.6 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/   In this episode, Leanne shares why she doesn't like the term 'reactive abuse' and offers a different perspective. Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting   Purchase the Awakening Women Transformation Collection  https://soulworkholis...

300. When People Are Siding with The Abusive Partner

March 24, 2022 13:00 - 8 minutes - 9.27 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/   In this episode, Leanne breaks down what the term 'flying monkeys' really means and what you must do to protect yourself from others who aren't standing with you against the abusive partner.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join t...

300. Flying Monkeys| When People Are Siding with The Abusive Partner

March 24, 2022 13:00 - 8 minutes - 9.27 MB

In this episode, Leanne breaks down what the term 'flying monkeys' really means and what you must do to protect yourself from others who aren't standing with you against the abusive partner.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join my 6-month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve: leanneoaten.com/evolve Join the Awakening Women Podcast Dis...

299. What You Can Expect in an Abusive + Toxic Relationship

March 18, 2022 18:38 - 14 minutes - 15.3 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ There are predictable and consistent things you can expect if you're in a relationship with a partner who exhibits strong narcissistic traits and abusive behaviours. You don't need a label of NPD to know you're experiencing narcissistic abuse!   Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  htt...

299. What You Can Expect in a Narcissistic Relationship

March 18, 2022 18:38 - 14 minutes - 15.3 MB

There are predictable and consistent things you can expect if you're in a relationship with a partner who exhibits strong narcissistic traits and abusive behaviours. You don't need a label of NPD to know you're experiencing narcissistic abuse!   Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join my 6-month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve: lean...

298. They Deliberately Withhold What You Want Them to Do

March 10, 2022 20:29 - 8 minutes - 4.66 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ You're not asking for too much, you're just expecting it from someone who is unable to rise to your level and step up as a real partner.    Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join my 6-month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End...

297. Have No Shame About Not Being Ready to Leave

March 04, 2022 23:20 - 12 minutes - 13 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Many women carry a lot of shame about not being able to leave a covert narcissistic relationship, and today I want to give you permission to let that go. The shame is compounded by outsiders shouting from the rooftops that your only option is to leave and go no contact. That isn't necessarily the best advice for every woman.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Inst...

296. 4 Mental Traps of Narcissistic Abuse

February 03, 2022 14:00 - 22 minutes - 24.1 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ Learn 4 mental traps of narcissistic abuse that every woman experiences that keep her feeling stuck, trapped, and unable to change her situation.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a 50 Minute Private Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join the February 30 Day End The Cycle Intensive https://s...

296. Carrying the Parenting Load On Your Own

January 27, 2022 21:16 - 14 minutes - 7.76 MB

In this episode, we're talking about how women carry the load when it comes to parenting and the children's needs when with an entitled, selfish, narcissistic partner.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a 50 Minute Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join the February 30 Day End The Cycle Intensive https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/51 Join my 6-month in-d...

296. Carrying the Motherload | Feeling Like a Single Parent in Narcissistic Relationship

January 27, 2022 21:16 - 14 minutes - 7.76 MB

Take my free masterclass: How to Know Whether to Stay or Leave Your Toxic Relationship https://www.leanneoaten.com/stayorgo/ In this episode, we're talking about how women carry the load when it comes to parenting and the children's needs when with an entitled, selfish, narcissistic partner.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Book a 50 Minute Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join the February 30 Day...

295. Does my Partner Have Avoidant Attachment or is it Narcissistic Abuse?

January 24, 2022 19:38 - 8 minutes - 9.07 MB

I get questions often from women who are trying to diagnose their partner with avoidant attachment as a way to make sense of the strange behaviour they are experiencing. In this episode, I want to clarify the difference between the two.  _______ New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes (under 10 minutes) I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner. I love piecing together themes and patterns I see with wom...

294. Monday Quickie | Refusing to Accept Your Ideas, Perspectives and Influence

January 17, 2022 14:00 - 6 minutes - 7.12 MB

New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner. I love piecing together themes and patterns I see with women who are in my programs, and in these quick but mighty episodes, I'll be bringing these insights to you so that you can awaken and evolve beyond the cycle! Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Join the February 30 Day End The Cycle Intensi...

293. The Hidden Dangers of Living with a Covert Narcissist Partner

January 13, 2022 21:48 - 14 minutes - 7.61 MB

Covert abusers are not any less dangerous than the more obvious abusers. In fact, they're even more dangerous because the abuse is happening in plain sight while nobody else sees it.    Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook  Book a 50 Minute Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join the February 30 Day End The Cycle Intensive https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/51 Joi...

293. The Hidden Dangers of a Covert Narcissist

January 13, 2022 21:48 - 14 minutes - 7.61 MB

Covert abusers are not any less dangerous than the more obvious abusers. In fact, they're even more dangerous because the abuse is happening in plain sight while nobody else sees it.    Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook  Book a 50 Minute Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/55 Join my 6-month in-depth coaching and mentorship program, End The Cycle Evolve: leanneoaten.com/evolve ...

293. The Hidden Dangers of a Covert Narcissist

January 13, 2022 21:48 - 14 minutes - 7.61 MB

Covert abusers are not any less dangerous than the more obvious abusers. In fact, they're even more dangerous because the abuse is happening in plain sight while nobody else sees it.    Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook  Book a 50 Minute Private Coaching + Consultation Session:  https://leanneoaten.as.me/50-minute-consulting Join the February 30 Day End The Cycle Intensive https://soulworkholisticcounselling.vipmembervault.com/products/courses/view/51 Joi...

292. Monday Quickie| Everything is Fine Until You Confront Them on Their Bullshit

January 10, 2022 14:00 - 8 minutes - 9.25 MB

New Monday quickie episodes! In these quick episodes (under 10 minutes) I'll be shining light on one specific behavior, trait, tactic, or phrase you'll hear from a narcissistic partner. I love piecing together themes and patterns I see with women who are in my programs, and in these quick but mighty episodes, I'll be bringing these insights to you so that you can awaken and evolve beyond the cycle.  Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook    Join the February 30 Day E...

328. Is a 100% Non-Toxic Relationship Possible?

January 06, 2022 14:00 - 16 minutes - 18.3 MB

All transformation starts within. Nothing Changes until YOU change.  Work with Leanne: https://www.leanneoaten.com/services-programs   Follow @awakeningwomensupport on Instagram and Facebook   

291. The Definitive Top 10 List to Know for Sure You're Experiencing Narcissistic Abuse

January 06, 2022 14:00 - 56 minutes - 57.4 MB

This episode is not meant to diagnose your partner, however, if you can check off any of these burning red flags as a consistent, repetitive pattern of behavior over time with your partner, you can be sure he falls somewhere on the spectrum of narcissism and is definitely behaving in toxic ways that are hindering your wellbeing.  The key here is that this is a pervasive and continual and predictable pattern of behavior, not occasional errors or 'narcissistic moments'.  If you're question...

291. The Definitive Top 10 Checklist to Know for Sure if You're Experiencing Narcissistic Abuse

January 06, 2022 14:00 - 56 minutes - 57.4 MB

This episode is not meant to diagnose your partner, however, if you can check off any of these burning red flags as a consistent, repetitive pattern of behavior over time with your partner, you can be sure he falls somewhere on the spectrum of narcissism and is definitely behaving in toxic ways that are hindering your wellbeing.  The key here is that this is a pervasive and continual and predictable pattern of behavior, not occasional errors or 'narcissistic moments'.  If you're question...

290. What Narcissitic Fathers Do When You Pull Away | Disneyland Dads |Love Bombing the Kids

December 30, 2021 14:00 - 27 minutes - 28.5 MB

When you start to see the tactics and pull away from the relationship, begin to leave, or actually leave, get ready for some new tactics toward your children shared with this person to escalate.  Work with me:  End the Cycle Intensive: Join the February 30 Day Intensive: This is for women who want a fast-action BootCamp style program to learn the cycle of narcissistic abuse, the tactics used, and how to disengage from the dynamics, and includes the strategy to develop your exit plan. Jo...

Bonus New Year 2022 Episode | Ditch the Pressure and Make Your Own Rules

December 29, 2021 01:47 - 15 minutes - 16 MB

A special message New Year message from Leanne.  Work with me in 2022: Join the February 30 Day ETC Intensive  Join the 6 Month ETCE Evolve program 

289. Childhood Sexual Trauma + Narcissistic Abuse

December 23, 2021 14:00 - 15 minutes - 16.7 MB

This episode has a trigger warning. We are discussing sensitive topics including childhood sexual abuse.  If you're experiencing sexual coercion in your relationship, and feel pressure, followed by poor treatment if you don't engage sexually with your partner, this episode is for you.   Ways to work with me:  February 2022: End The Cycle 30 Day Intensive. Limited spots are available. (I mentioned January in this episode, however, it has been postponed until February) ETC in 30-day ...

289. Childhood Sexual Abuse + Narcissistic Sexual Coercion

December 23, 2021 14:00 - 15 minutes - 16.7 MB

This episode has a trigger warning. We are discussing sensitive topics including childhood sexual abuse.  If you're experiencing sexual coercion in your relationship, and feel pressure, followed by poor treatment if you don't engage sexually with your partner, this episode is for you.   Ways to work with me:  February 2022: End The Cycle 30 Day Intensive. Limited spots are available. (I mentioned January in this episode, however, it has been postponed until February) ETC in 30-day ...

288. Signs He is NOT Changing + Entitlement to Your Forgiveness

December 16, 2021 14:00 - 13 minutes - 13.9 MB

A common abuse tactic that is very difficult to spot is a partner who is continuing to behave abusively trying to force you to move past it and let it go. His sense of entitlement to unearned forgiveness can leave you feeling extremely frustrated and wondering why you can't just 'forgive'. Learn why this is not possible in this episode.  The episode on why therapy is not recommended in abusive relationships:  Why Therapy Doesn't Work in Abusive Relationship  Considering joining my 6 M...

287. Empathy Burnout + Protecting Your Energy

December 09, 2021 14:00 - 12 minutes - 13 MB

  In this episode learn why too much empathy can keep us stuck in situations that are toxic for us, and how to start balancing empathy with boundaries and logic.    Ways to work with me: February 2022: End The Cycle 30 Day Intensive. Limited spots available. This is the ETC process taught week by week as a guided experience. Includes a Facebook group, community support, and group coaching/ Q & A call at the end of the program. Register to save your spot here.    *January was menti...

286. The Nice/Mean Behavior Patterns + Why You Feel So Confused

December 03, 2021 23:47 - 12 minutes - 13.2 MB

JOIN THE END THE CYCLE 30 DAY INTENSIVE *Note: I have changed the ETC intensive to start on February 6th but mentioned January on the podcast. Most women in a relationship experiencing narcissistic abuse can attest to feeling confused by their partner's sometimes wonderful behavior. Because they can sometimes do nice things and behave with acts of love, women stay in self-doubt about whether the relationship really is abusive, or if it's just something wrong with them.  Tune in to lea...

285. Stop Trying to Get Your Partner to Grow with You

November 25, 2021 14:00 - 12 minutes - 13.6 MB

Are you doing more work to get your partner to change than he's doing to change? This includes emotional work, ruminating, thinking about the relationship, worrying about the relationship, trying to find help and resources, sending your partner links and blogs to read when he is doing nothing to take leadership on his own. It won't work.  In order to truly change we have to want to change who we are and be 100% committed to the process to make those changes happen.  Join the Pain to Po...

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