Latest Queer dating podcast Podcast Episodes

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Break Up Lessons Learnt

Sextras - February 22, 2022 00:00 - 59 minutes
This week we’re talking all about the lessons learnt from breakups. When you’re going through a break up it can seem like it will never end, and you’ll most likely be in a place of thinking this is the most pain you’ve ever been in, but we promise once you get through that stage (and it will end...

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Non- Monogamy, Toxic Relationships & Jealousy with Rachel Krantz

Sextras - February 15, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we’re joined by journalist, and author of the memoir ‘Open,’ Rachel Krantz to talk all about open relationships, toxic relationships, bisexuality and jealousy. We begin the episode by hearing what inspired Rachel’s book— she was dating a non monogamous man, who gave her the freedom to...

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Non- Monogamy, Toxic Relationships & Jealousy with Rachel Krantz

Sextras - February 15, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we’re joined by journalist, and author of the memoir ‘Open,’ Rachel Krantz to talk all about open relationships, toxic relationships, bisexuality and jealousy. We begin the episode by hearing what inspired Rachel’s book— she was dating a non monogamous man, who gave her the freedom to...

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Porn, Masturbation and Wanking

Sextras - February 08, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
What do you think about when you masturbate? This week we’re talking all about watching porn and masturbating, or alternatively, imagining our sexual fantasies when we masturbate, as well as the ethics of watching porn. We begin the episode by asking our followers what they think about or watch...

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Porn, Masturbation and Wanking

Sextras - February 08, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
What do you think about when you masturbate? This week we’re talking all about watching porn and masturbating, or alternatively, imagining our sexual fantasies when we masturbate, as well as the ethics of watching porn. We begin the episode by asking our followers what they think about or watch...

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Porn, Sexual Fantasies and Wanking

Sextras - February 08, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
What do you think about when you masturbate? This week we’re talking all about watching porn and masturbating, or alternatively, imagining our sexual fantasies when we masturbate, as well as the ethics of watching porn. We begin the episode by asking our followers what they think about or watch...

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Porn, Sexual Fantasies and Wanking

Sextras - February 08, 2022 00:00 - 1 hour
What do you think about when you masturbate? This week we’re talking all about watching porn and masturbating, or alternatively, imagining our sexual fantasies when we masturbate, as well as the ethics of watching porn. We begin the episode by asking our followers what they think about or watch...

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Mindful Masturbation + Sexual Meditation

Sextras - February 01, 2022 00:00 - 36 minutes
This week we’re talking to our wonderful guest Sayra Player (Founder of Guided By Glow; actor; and writer) all about sexual meditation. For women, it can be difficult to find erotic content that turns you on, especially if you have a busy mind. Sayra founded Guided By Glow in an attempt to enco...

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Mindful Masturbation + Sexual Meditation (with Sayra Player)

Sextras - February 01, 2022 00:00 - 36 minutes
This week we’re talking to our wonderful guest Sayra Player (Founder of Guided By Glow; actor; and writer) all about sexual meditation. For women, it can be difficult to find erotic content that turns you on, especially if you have a busy mind. Sayra founded Guided By Glow in an attempt to enco...

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Mindful Masturbation + Sexual Meditation (with Sayra Player)

Sextras - February 01, 2022 00:00 - 36 minutes
This week we’re talking to our wonderful guest Sayra Player (Founder of Guided By Glow; actor; and writer) all about sexual meditation. For women, it can be difficult to find erotic content that turns you on, especially if you have a busy mind. Sayra founded Guided By Glow in an attempt to enco...

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Mindful Masturbation + Sexual Meditation

Sextras - February 01, 2022 00:00 - 36 minutes
This week we’re talking to our wonderful guest Sayra Player (Founder of Guided By Glow; actor; and writer) all about sexual meditation. For women, it can be difficult to find erotic content that turns you on, especially if you have a busy mind. Sayra founded Guided By Glow in an attempt to enco...

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To Date or Not To Date in Your 20s

Sextras - January 25, 2022 00:00 - 46 minutes
This week we ask ourselves ‘should you date in your 20s?’ For some, getting deeper into our 20s means getting further into our long term relationships, and for others being single. We discuss whether there’s really a right way to live your twenties: single or dating. We begin the episode with a...

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To Date or Not To Date in Your 20s

Sextras - January 25, 2022 00:00 - 46 minutes
This week we ask ourselves ‘should you date in your 20s?’ For some, getting deeper into our 20s means getting further into our long term relationships, and for others being single. We discuss whether there’s really a right way to live your twenties: single or dating. We begin the episode with a...

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Dressing For The Male Gaze

Sextras - January 18, 2022 00:00 - 50 minutes
Can you escape the male gaze, even if you try? This week we discuss the dynamics of dressing for the male gaze, or attempting not to, and how it’s difficult to not dress for the male gaze, particularly when you’re dating men but also if you want to look or feel attractive at all. We touch on why...

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Dressing For The Male Gaze

Sextras - January 18, 2022 00:00 - 50 minutes
Can you escape the male gaze, even if you try? This week we discuss the dynamics of dressing for the male gaze, or attempting not to, and how it’s difficult to not dress for the male gaze, particularly when you’re dating men but also if you want to look or feel attractive at all. We touch on why...

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Body Confidence and Dating ft. Amelia

Sextras - January 11, 2022 00:00 - 57 minutes
This week we’re joined by our lovely friend Amelia, to discuss body confidence and dating. We begin the episode with a segment where we hear something our listeners like about their body, to get us into the mood of body positivity. Then, Amelia tells us about her experience of dating as a plus ...

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Body Confidence and Dating ft. Amelia

Sextras - January 11, 2022 00:00 - 57 minutes
This week we’re joined by our lovely friend Amelia, to discuss body confidence and dating. We begin the episode with a segment where we hear something our listeners like about their body, to get us into the mood of body positivity. Then, Amelia tells us about her experience of dating as a plus ...

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Reflecting On The New Year

Sextras - January 04, 2022 13:52 - 37 minutes
Happy New Year Sextras babies!!! We hope you had the most wonderful holiday celebrating with all your loved ones and wish you a wonderful 2022! We thought we’d do another New Year’s episode, continuing the tradition from our episode ‘Let’s Keep Trying In 2021’ last year, to reflect on everythin...

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Reflecting On The New Year

Sextras - January 04, 2022 13:52 - 37 minutes
Happy New Year Sextras babies!!! We hope you had the most wonderful holiday celebrating with all your loved ones and wish you a wonderful 2022! We thought we’d do another New Year’s episode, continuing the tradition from our episode ‘Let’s Keep Trying In 2021’ last year, to reflect on everythin...

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How BPD Affects Relationships, Identity and Queerness (ft.Kabir)

Sextras - December 28, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we speak to our wonderful guest Kabir about their experience with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and how BPD affects relationships. We also discuss being queer, how this relates to having BPD and what their experience was like growing up. We begin by hearing how BPD affects Kab...

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How BPD Affects Relationships, Identity and Queerness (ft.Kabir)

Sextras - December 28, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we speak to our wonderful guest Kabir about their experience with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and how BPD affects relationships. We also discuss being queer, how this relates to having BPD and what their experience was like growing up. We begin by hearing how BPD affects Kab...

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How BPD Affects Relationships, Identity and Queerness

Sextras - December 28, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we speak to our wonderful guest Kabir about their experience with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and how BPD affects relationships. We also discuss being queer, how this relates to having BPD and what their experience was like growing up. We begin by hearing how BPD affects Kab...

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How BPD Affects Relationships, Identity and Queerness

Sextras - December 28, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we speak to our wonderful guest Kabir about their experience with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) and how BPD affects relationships. We also discuss being queer, how this relates to having BPD and what their experience was like growing up. We begin by hearing how BPD affects Kab...

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Should I Date Someone Older?

Sextras - December 21, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we discuss everything related to age difference when dating, wondering if it’s ok to date someone older than you and establishing a rule about dating age differences at the end. We begin the episode by hearing how much older and younger our listeners would go when dating, and read out...

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Should I Date Someone Older?

Sextras - December 21, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
This week we discuss everything related to age difference when dating, wondering if it’s ok to date someone older than you and establishing a rule about dating age differences at the end. We begin the episode by hearing how much older and younger our listeners would go when dating, and read out...

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How To Deal With STIs, Removing Stigma & Living With Herpes

Sextras - December 14, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
In this episode we talk all about how to deal with STIs, from what to do if you get an STI, to how to treat them, to how to reduce STI stigma, to living with herpes. We begin the episode by discussing some polls about whether our followers think that STIs are a big deal, and the ways they prote...

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How To Deal With STIs, Removing Stigma & Living With Herpes

Sextras - December 14, 2021 00:00 - 1 hour
In this episode we talk all about how to deal with STIs, from what to do if you get an STI, to how to treat them, to how to reduce STI stigma, to living with herpes. We begin the episode by discussing some polls about whether our followers think that STIs are a big deal, and the ways they prote...

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A Guide To Using Dating Apps

Sextras - December 07, 2021 00:00 - 52 minutes
1:10-18:00 Segment: Your worst dating app stories 18:15 Which apps we've used-- what dating apps are there? Different dating apps explained 38:40 How to use dating apps well, how to improve dating app profile 47:00 Starting conversations on dating apps, good opening lines on dating apps + goo...

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A Guide To Using Dating Apps

Sextras - December 07, 2021 00:00 - 52 minutes
1:10-18:00 Segment: Your worst dating app stories 18:15 Which apps we've used-- what dating apps are there? Different dating apps explained 38:40 How to use dating apps well, how to improve dating app profile 47:00 Starting conversations on dating apps, good opening lines on dating apps + goo...

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Pre Season 2 Catch Up!

Sextras - November 30, 2021 00:00 - 26 minutes
!!! WE WILL BE BACK ON 7TH DECEMBER FOR SEASON 2 !!! But for now, enjoy a little bit of bonus content to catch up with us and what we've been up to in our sex and dating lives over the summer (and autumn!). After hyping up hot girl summer so much at the end of season 1, we had veryyy different...