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Towards A Positive Masculinity (with Ben Hurst)

Sextras - November 21, 2023 00:00 - 53 minutes
Our masculinity miniseries has been a little negative up until now (we’re aware of it at least!). But this week that all changes because we’re joined by Ben Hurst – activist, educator, and Head of Facilitation and Training at Beyond Equality – to discuss how we can rethink masculinity. As someo...

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Towards A Positive Masculinity (with Ben Hurst)

Sextras - November 21, 2023 00:00 - 53 minutes
Our masculinity miniseries has been a little negative up until now (we’re aware of it at least!). But this week that all changes because we’re joined by Ben Hurst – activist, educator, and Head of Facilitation and Training at Beyond Equality – to discuss how we can rethink masculinity. As someo...

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Unboxing Lovehoney's Advent Calendar & Learning How to Use Sex Toys

Sextras - November 17, 2023 10:00 - 44 minutes
Christmas could not have come sooner with this episode as Lovehoney has sent us their 24-Day Advent Calendar to try and we’re opening it with their resident sexual wellness advisor, Sarah Tomchesson!  We start the episode telling Sarah what we’re experimenting with in our sex lives, before divi...

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Unboxing Lovehoney's Advent Calendar & Learning How to Use Sex Toys

Sextras - November 17, 2023 10:00 - 44 minutes
Christmas could not have come sooner with this episode as Lovehoney has sent us their 24-Day Advent Calendar to try and we’re opening it with their resident sexual wellness advisor, Sarah Tomchesson!  We start the episode telling Sarah what we’re experimenting with in our sex lives, before divi...

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A Look Into Male Friendships

Sextras - November 13, 2023 23:00 - 49 minutes
In the second episode of our Masculinity miniseries, we unpack everything to do with male friendships. While it comes as no surprise to some of us, the fact that men don’t have supportive friendships has been in the news a lot of late, with claims that there’s a male friendship recession and tha...

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A Look Into Male Friendships

Sextras - November 13, 2023 23:00 - 49 minutes
In the second episode of our Masculinity miniseries, we unpack everything to do with male friendships. While it comes as no surprise to some of us, the fact that men don’t have supportive friendships has been in the news a lot of late, with claims that there’s a male friendship recession and tha...

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What Is Masculinity in 2023?

Sextras - November 06, 2023 23:00 - 49 minutes
Welcome to the first episode of our Masculinity miniseries!  Masculinity has been under scrutiny the last few years: on one side, there are claims that masculinity is “toxic”, “fragile” or “in crisis”, and on the other there are those who claim “not all men” are responsible for this poor percep...

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What Is Masculinity in 2023?

Sextras - November 06, 2023 23:00 - 49 minutes
Welcome to the first episode of our Masculinity miniseries!  Masculinity has been under scrutiny the last few years: on one side, there are claims that masculinity is “toxic”, “fragile” or “in crisis”, and on the other there are those who claim “not all men” are responsible for this poor percep...

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Using Spirituality To Overcome Sexual Shame (With Kaamna Bhojwani)

Sextras - September 25, 2023 22:00 - 40 minutes
In even the most accepting of households, children pick up on their parents’ beliefs about sex. If that includes restricting sex or teaching that it is inherently bad, that can lead to sexual shame that persists throughout our lives and shows up not just in our sex lives, but also in our entire ...

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Using Spirituality To Overcome Sexual Shame (With Kaamna Bhojwani)

Sextras - September 25, 2023 22:00 - 40 minutes
In even the most accepting of households, children pick up on their parents’ beliefs about sex. If that includes restricting sex or teaching that it is inherently bad, that can lead to sexual shame that persists throughout our lives and shows up not just in our sex lives, but also in our entire ...

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Read Porn! (With Aurore Founder Carly Pifer)

Sextras - September 04, 2023 23:00 - 40 minutes
Have you ever had sex so good you wish you could freeze the memory in time? This week we’re joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Aurore, a curated collection of erotica written by and for women and LGBTQIA+ people, that encourages you to do just that by writing a story based on your real sex experi...

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Read Porn! (With Aurore Founder Carly Pifer)

Sextras - September 04, 2023 23:00 - 40 minutes
Have you ever had sex so good you wish you could freeze the memory in time? This week we’re joined by Carly Pifer, founder of Aurore, a curated collection of erotica written by and for women and LGBTQIA+ people, that encourages you to do just that by writing a story based on your real sex experi...

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Do Gen Z Want To Be Parents?

Sextras - August 14, 2023 23:00 - 58 minutes
There are so many stereotypes about Gen Z it’s hard to keep track of where they’re really at: they’re a sexless generation, they’re the most sensitive because they have a victim mentality. They want to be parents, they don’t want to have babies because they’re worried about the planet; they’ll b...

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Do Gen Z Want To Be Parents?

Sextras - August 14, 2023 23:00 - 58 minutes
There are so many stereotypes about Gen Z it’s hard to keep track of where they’re really at: they’re a sexless generation, they’re the most sensitive because they have a victim mentality. They want to be parents, they don’t want to have babies because they’re worried about the planet; they’ll b...

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How To Talk To Your Kid About Sex (with Dr Tina Schermer Sellers)

Sextras - August 07, 2023 23:00 - 1 hour
Raising kids is hard in a bunch of different ways, but one of the main things parents dread is having the inevitable “talk” with their children. How do you have the talk, when should you have it, what is appropriate to say: these are all questions that nobody really gives parents the answers to....

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How To Talk To Your Kid About Sex (with Dr Tina Schermer Sellers)

Sextras - August 07, 2023 23:00 - 1 hour
Raising kids is hard in a bunch of different ways, but one of the main things parents dread is having the inevitable “talk” with their children. How do you have the talk, when should you have it, what is appropriate to say: these are all questions that nobody really gives parents the answers to....

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Having Sex After Birth (with Smile Makers Collection)

Sextras - August 01, 2023 09:24 - 40 minutes
After having a literal human come out of you, getting little to no sleep and suddenly being entirely responsible for another human being is not exactly conducive to new parents’ sex life. But when you are at a point where you want to start having sex again, what do you do? Cecile Gasnault, bran...

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Having Sex After Birth (with Smile Makers Collection)

Sextras - August 01, 2023 09:24 - 40 minutes
After having a literal human come out of you, getting little to no sleep and suddenly being entirely responsible for another human being is not exactly conducive to new parents’ sex life. But when you are at a point where you want to start having sex again, what do you do? Cecile Gasnault, bran...

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Deciding To Have Kids & Outgrowing Relationships (with Jessica Hendry Nelson)

Sextras - July 25, 2023 00:00 - 58 minutes
TW: substance abuse, anticipatory grief We’ve all been sold the idea that you’re meant to experiment in your 20s, something that our guest this week missed out on. Author and professor Jessica Hendry Nelson joins us to talk about being in a relationship for the whole of her 20s and eventually e...

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Deciding To Have Kids & Outgrowing Relationships (with Jessica Hendry Nelson)

Sextras - July 25, 2023 00:00 - 58 minutes
TW: substance abuse, anticipatory grief We’ve all been sold the idea that you’re meant to experiment in your 20s, something that our guest this week missed out on. Author and professor Jessica Hendry Nelson joins us to talk about being in a relationship for the whole of her 20s and eventually e...

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How Sex Changes With Age (with Beducated)

Sextras - July 17, 2023 23:00 - 43 minutes
In episode one of our Family, Parenting and Sex miniseries were joined by Mariah Freya, who founded pleasure-based sex education website Beducated with her husband, to discuss how our sex lives change throughout our lives. We begin the episode hearing about Mariah’s experience with low libido i...

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How Sex Changes With Age (with Beducated)

Sextras - July 17, 2023 23:00 - 43 minutes
In episode one of our Family, Parenting and Sex miniseries were joined by Mariah Freya, who founded pleasure-based sex education website Beducated with her husband, to discuss how our sex lives change throughout our lives. We begin the episode hearing about Mariah’s experience with low libido i...

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Why Talk About Sex? (Our 100th episode!)

Sextras - July 14, 2023 11:23 - 38 minutes
In the 100th (!) episode of the podcast, we reflect on why we always talk about sex, consent and relationships.  We started the podcast three years ago and what we thought as 20 year olds about how we should talk about sex was very different to now, so we unpack how that's changed. It's obvious...

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Why Talk About Sex? (Our 100th episode!)

Sextras - July 14, 2023 11:23 - 38 minutes
In the 100th (!) episode of the podcast, we reflect on why we always talk about sex, consent and relationships.  We started the podcast three years ago and what we thought as 20 year olds about how we should talk about sex was very different to now, so we unpack how that's changed. It's obvious...

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Ending Celibacy & Making a Sex Bucket List (ft the Curious Girl)

Sextras - July 10, 2023 23:00 - 50 minutes
More and more people are pursuing celibacy eras, but what happens when you want to start having sex again? As Honey is clearly incapable of answering that question herself, we're joined by Layla London, anonymous host of the sex podcast the Curious Girl Diaries, who made a sex bucket list and en...

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Ending Celibacy & Making a Sex Bucket List (ft the Curious Girl)

Sextras - July 10, 2023 23:00 - 50 minutes
More and more people are pursuing celibacy eras, but what happens when you want to start having sex again? As Honey is clearly incapable of answering that question herself, we're joined by Layla London, anonymous host of the sex podcast the Curious Girl Diaries, who made a sex bucket list and en...

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The Ultimatum: Queer Love Debrief

Sextras - June 26, 2023 23:00 - 53 minutes
TW: domestic abuse and toxic relationships  Spoilers ahead!!  We thought we’d celebrate pride month (very last minute, as always) with a discussion of the Ultimatum, Queer Love. In this episode we delve into the drama of the show and unpack why we think each of the couples were doomed to failu...

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The Ultimatum: Queer Love Debrief

Sextras - June 26, 2023 23:00 - 53 minutes
TW: domestic abuse and toxic relationships  Spoilers ahead!!  We thought we’d celebrate pride month (very last minute, as always) with a discussion of the Ultimatum, Queer Love. In this episode we delve into the drama of the show and unpack why we think each of the couples were doomed to failu...

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Am I A Lesbian? & Compulsory Heterosexuality

Sextras - April 25, 2023 07:30 - 1 hour
Happy Lesbian Visibility Week! We’re so happy to be back talking all things compulsory heterosexuality and realising you’re a lesbian and we’re joined by the most (!) guests we’ve ever had to hear about their experiences. We start the episode discussing Adrienne Rich’s theory of compulsory hete...

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Am I A Lesbian? & Compulsory Heterosexuality

Sextras - April 25, 2023 07:30 - 1 hour
Happy Lesbian Visibility Week! We’re so happy to be back talking all things compulsory heterosexuality and realising you’re a lesbian and we’re joined by the most (!) guests we’ve ever had to hear about their experiences. We start the episode discussing Adrienne Rich’s theory of compulsory hete...