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FEAR NOT
Divorce University Online - February 22, 2022 17:47 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsFEAR NOT – Episode 179 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. So many divorcing people are driven by fear. They are often worried, “what if” this happens or “what if” that happens. It can overtake you and cause you to behave in ways the end up creating the very outcome you were trying to avoid...
Do Your Actions Match Your Word?
Divorce University Online - February 15, 2022 10:07 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDo Your Actions Match Your Word? – Episode 178 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In Court, credibility is everything. If your actions do not match what your telling the Court, then you are hurting your credibility. This can have a negative impact on your case even when the “presentation”...
Why Isn’t My Judge Listening?
Divorce University Online - February 09, 2022 02:02 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhy Isn’t My Judge Listening? – Episode 177 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Going to Court is almost always a difficult experience emotionally. But, if you also leave feeling like the Judge didn’t listen to you, you are not alone. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to get inside the...
How Can I Protect Myself?
Divorce University Online - February 01, 2022 17:11 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHow Can I Protect Myself? – Episode 176 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When clients ask how they can protect themselves, they are usually referring to the other parent. We often feel stress and anxiety in dealing with our ex. It’s common to feel like they are playing “gotcha” and even ...
When to Stop Fighting
Divorce University Online - January 25, 2022 20:33 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen to Stop Fighting – Episode 175 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorcing people tend to have conversations where each person is advocating their “position”. Much of the communication we see involves multiple paragraphs back and forth between the parties. The emotional exhaustion t...
No Means No
Divorce University Online - January 18, 2022 10:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNo Means No – Episode 174 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Much of the conflict between co-parents comes from “beating a dead horse” so to speak. We often see people argue back and forth endlessly, whether by email, through a messaging app, or text messages, and repeating their disagree...
Jack of All Trades, Master of None
Divorce University Online - January 11, 2022 22:52 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsJack of All Trades, Master of None – Episode 173 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. It seems daily life is a constant go, go, go and it can be difficult to manage everything that’s coming at us. And yet many of us have a hard time saying no and end up overcommitting ourselves. When we add...
Starting Small
Divorce University Online - January 04, 2022 22:05 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsStarting Small – Episode 172 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce, like many challenging life events, is overwhelming for most people, especially in the beginning. It changes so many aspects of your life that you don’t know where to start putting out all the fires. In this episode, ...
Don’t Get Too Close to the Edge
Divorce University Online - December 22, 2021 02:57 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDon’t Get Too Close to the Edge – Episode 171 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many couples have parenting differences during their relationship that become more magnified through a divorce or separation. Sometimes parents find themselves worried about their children when the children a...
What Is a Through Line?
Divorce University Online - December 07, 2021 23:37 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Is a Through Line? – Episode 170 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Through Line is a term you’ll be familiar with if you have acting experience. When someone portrays a character they develop a through-line for the character that helps guide them in predicting how a character will ...
New Beginnings
Divorce University Online - November 30, 2021 18:02 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNew Beginnings – Episode 169 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most people that go through a divorce or breakup feel like everything is falling apart. We tend to focus on the loss, the loss of family, the loss of finances, the loss of who we were in that relationship. But life becomes ho...
What Is A Forensic Expert?
Divorce University Online - November 23, 2021 18:16 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Is A Forensic Expert? – Episode 168 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce comes with all kinds of jargon and terms that most people have never heard of, including “forensic expert”. We tend to think of a crime scene when we think of the word forensic but in the Court system, a f...
What Is It Worth?
Divorce University Online - November 16, 2021 17:34 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Is It Worth? – Episode 167 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The value of something extends far beyond its financial value. Things often have intangible value to us such as emotional value. A “get all you can” mentality is common in divorce. But sometimes we overlook the cost. If wh...
Biggest Divorce Mistakes
Divorce University Online - November 10, 2021 01:51 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBiggest Divorce Mistakes – Episode 166 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We often hear from people, wow, I wish I had found you years ago when I was going through my divorce! That comment is usually followed by a story about some big mistake they made that could have been avoided if they...
Top Ten Divorce Questions
Divorce University Online - November 03, 2021 00:19 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTop Ten Divorce Questions – Episode 165 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Got questions? Today, we have answers. We answer the top ten questions we get about divorce including where to file, who should file first and questions about cost, property division, custody, and support. We’ll gi...
One More Thing…………
Divorce University Online - October 26, 2021 16:56 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOne More Thing…………. – Episode 164 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We see this problem in many, many cases. Parties will work very hard to reach an agreement on issues and then one party wants to ask for changes. Asking for a change isn’t always a problem but if one change leads to anot...
Affairs – From Each Perspective
Divorce University Online - October 19, 2021 09:00 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAffairs – From Each Perspective – Episode 163 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many relationships break down due to one party having an affair. This issue is very emotional and can cause blockages that keep you from being able to discuss or settle your divorce case. And while the emotio...
Are You Giving Away Your Power?
Divorce University Online - October 12, 2021 09:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Giving Away Your Power? – Episode 162 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Divorce has a way of making anyone feel powerless. Powerless to control your situation, the other person, your kids, etc. We often see people after the divorce or breakup who are unknowingly continuing to giv...
Be A Drama Destroyer
Divorce University Online - October 05, 2021 09:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBe A Drama Destroyer – Episode 161 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Let’s face it, divorce or a breakup often includes ongoing, relentless, crazy-making drama. Conversations that you replay in your head about what you could have said or should have said. You may walk around seething wit...
One is the Loneliest Number
Divorce University Online - September 28, 2021 09:00 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOne is the Loneliest Number – Episode 160 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Does it feel like everyone around you is happily married or in a happy relationship? Are you managing the burden of the kids, the finances, the pets, and every other aspect of daily life by yourself? It can be qu...
Raising Self-Reliant Children After Divorce
Divorce University Online - September 21, 2021 09:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsRaising Self-Reliant Children After Divorce – Episode 159 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most parents have concerns about how divorce will negatively impact their children. We want to do all we can to set them up for future success. Post-Divorce Parenting plans are a great tool to cr...
Are You Seeking Closure?
Divorce University Online - September 14, 2021 09:00 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Seeking Closure? – Episode 158 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Closure is something many people struggle with after the divorce. We want our pound of flesh. We want the other person to understand what they’ve done. Divorcing parties are often seeking closure through the Court p...
Two Strategies for Winning
Divorce University Online - September 07, 2021 16:43 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTwo Strategies for Winning – Episode 157 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost all high-conflict (and expensive!) divorces involve at least one party, and sometimes both, using a “negative strategy”. A negative strategy involves tearing the other person down, telling the Court what a ...
Understanding the Psychology of Divorce
Divorce University Online - August 31, 2021 15:50 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsUnderstanding the Psychology of Divorce – Episode 156 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Why is there so much conflict in divorce? If the marriage is over, why can’t we just walk away peacefully and leave each other to live our lives? Having conflict is the flip side of the intimacy and ...
How to Embrace Your Inner Awesomeness!
Divorce University Online - August 24, 2021 18:38 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHow to Embrace Your Inner Awesomeness! – Episode 155 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you are in a co-dependent relationship or perpetually have a victim mentality, then you are not embracing your inner awesomeness. Embracing your inner awesomeness is feeling confident, worthy, and ...
I’ve Been Served with a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Now What?
Divorce University Online - August 17, 2021 09:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsI’ve Been Served with a Domestic Violence Restraining Order. Now What? – Episode 154 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Domestic Violence Orders are, unfortunately, a very necessary part of the judicial system. But when you’re the one being accused, it can be very stressful, particularly...
I’m Self-Represented. How Do I Prepare for a Court Hearing?
Divorce University Online - August 10, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsI’m Self-Represented. How Do I Prepare for a Court Hearing? – Episode 153 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most people get nervous before Court (Here’s a secret: Even attorney’s get nervous!) Attorney’s often appear very smooth and well-spoken but what we don’t see is the hours of prep...
Are You Flexing Your Emotional Muscles?
Divorce University Online - August 03, 2021 18:01 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Flexing Your Emotional Muscles? – Episode 152 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Let’s face it, when divorce first hits you, you often feeling like crawling in a hole and not coming out. We want to withdraw and shut down. When that happens, we become emotionally weaker and the di...
How to Win in Mediation
Divorce University Online - July 27, 2021 17:21 - 40 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHow to Win in Mediation – Episode 151 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In our experience, no one truly wins in divorce. Everyone usually walks away from the process feeling like things were unfair or like they just didn’t get the outcome they were wanting. But the beauty of divorce me...
Presenting Documents to Win in Child Custody Court
Divorce University Online - July 20, 2021 16:36 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsPresenting Documents to Win in Child Custody Court – Episode 150 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding how to present evidence to the Court is where we see many self-represented people struggle. There are rules for what can present when you can present it, and how you must pre...
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