Latest Californiadivorce Podcast Episodes
Appeals
Divorce University Online - April 26, 2023 17:48 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAppeals – Episode 238 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. People are commonly unhappy with their court results, and we get asked lots of questions about appeals. Appeals are extremely complex, very time consuming, and if you have an attorney, very expensive. If you don’t have an attorney, ...
On a Scale of 1-10, How Jerky Is Your Ex?
Divorce University Online - April 19, 2023 22:13 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOn a Scale of 1-10, How Jerky Is Your Ex? – Episode 237 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We all feel like our ex is the worst but when you start hearing the stories of what other people deal with, you often find yourself grateful that your ex isn’t worse. We get asked “How bad is my ex ...
Matching Your Attorney with Your Goals
Divorce University Online - April 12, 2023 04:16 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsMatching Your Attorney with Your Goals – Episode 236 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When someone is searching for an attorney to handle their divorce and/or child custody case, it is common for that person to be in somewhat of an emotional crisis given the breakdown of their family. O...
Ex Parte/Emergency Child Custody Hearings: To File or Not to File
Divorce University Online - April 04, 2023 18:51 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsEx Parte/Emergency Child Custody Hearings: To File or Not to File – Episode 235 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The decision on when and if to file for an emergency hearings in child custody cases is a difficult decision not only for parents, but for attorneys as well. In this episode,...
Mediation with a High Conflict Ex
Divorce University Online - March 28, 2023 17:04 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsMediation with a High Conflict Ex – Episode 234 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We frequently get asked if mediation will work with a high-conflict personality such as a narcissist or borderline. In fact, most of the time, it works better than the Court process. In this episode, we’ll ...
Move Away and Relocation Requests in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 22, 2023 17:11 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsMove Away and Relocation Requests in Child Custody – Episode 233 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Move away (also called Relocation in some states) requests are complicated. In this episode we’ll discuss the factors the court considers and what you can do to strengthen your case, whethe...
Killer Strategies for Custody Motions
Divorce University Online - March 15, 2023 06:52 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsKiller Strategies for Custody Motions – Episode 232 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we think of child custody motions we tend to think of preparing our documents and declaration as well as presenting in Court or communicating with our attorney on what to expect. But crafting a win...
Child Custody: Bonding vs. Discipline
Divorce University Online - March 08, 2023 04:45 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChild Custody: Bonding vs. Discipline – Episode 231 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Co-parenting situations often make parents feel as if they are in a competition with the other parent for their child’s affection. We see parents try to deal with this in a number of ways, some over dis...
Happiness: Your Moral Obligation to Your Children
Divorce University Online - February 28, 2023 18:43 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHappiness: Your Moral Obligation to Your Children – Episode 230 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. During divorce and child custody issues, many parents worry about their children’s happiness. But we often forget about our own happiness. Your happiness, or lack thereof, is a continuous da...
Co-Parent Communication: Mom vs. Dad
Divorce University Online - February 22, 2023 05:35 - 37 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCo-Parent Communication: Mom vs. Dad – Episode 229 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Communication with your co-parent is a struggle for many people after a divorce or break up. Not only do we come at things differently as a mother or father, but we also must consider how the Court views...
Are You Addicted to Drama?
Divorce University Online - February 14, 2023 10:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Addicted to Drama? – Episode 228 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The patterns that occur during relationships often continue long after the break up. Most people tend to focus on the other person and what the other person is “doing to them”. But the other person and their behav...
Are You Relying on Your Children for Your Happiness?
Divorce University Online - February 07, 2023 16:58 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Relying on Your Children for Your Happiness? – Episode 227 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you experience a divorce or breakup and have to start sharing your children between two households, it can be devastating. Suddenly, yourself home alone with no idea what to do. Don’...
Make a Clean Break
Divorce University Online - February 01, 2023 23:10 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsMake a Clean Break – Episode 226 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We’ve all heard the cliché, “Make a Clean Break”. But this can prove to be sage advice especially in romantic relationships. It can prove hard to do especially when you’re trying to co-parent with the person that you’re t...
Parallel Parenting with a High Conflict Ex
Divorce University Online - January 25, 2023 01:08 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsParallel Parenting with a High Conflict Ex – Episode 225 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The concept of Parallel Parenting was based on observing young children at play. Young children do not tend to have interactive play, they tend to play the same game or toy side by side. When you a...
What to Say in Court
Divorce University Online - January 17, 2023 19:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat to Say in Court – Episode 224 of Divorce University Online Podcast. Public speaking is a fear that people often rank higher than death itself. When you have to do it in Court, in front of a Judge, your ex, their attorney, and the subject is your life, well, fear almost doesn’t come close to...
Creating Your Game Plan
Divorce University Online - January 10, 2023 10:15 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCreating Your Game Plan - Episode 223 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Any time you’re dealing with complex situations, you need a game plan to be successful. It’s always good to be flexible and to be able to adapt to changing situations but if you don’t know what the end goal is or how...
Are You Waiting for Permission?
Divorce University Online - January 03, 2023 21:40 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You Waiting for Permission? - Episode 222 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Often, when you’ve been in a controlling and manipulative relationship, you develop a pattern of feeling like you need permission for everything you do. You can learn to tap into your authentic self and live ...
REPLAY: Out of the Mouth of Babes
Divorce University Online - December 22, 2022 05:40 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOut of the Mouth of Babes - In this BONUS Episode, we decided to give you a more personal look at divorce from the viewpoint of children, specifically our own. We have invited our four boys to join us in studio this week to share their experiences of our divorces. Tammy’s two sons, Dalton, age 2...
Is Your Ex Stealing Your Happiness?
Divorce University Online - December 13, 2022 17:23 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIs Your Ex Stealing Your Happiness? - Episode 221 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. During divorce, it’s easy to blame your ex for everything that is happening. And, while many things may be their fault, focusing on those things only makes you more unhappy. Why is that? And more importan...
Is It Time to Change Course in Your Custody Case?
Divorce University Online - December 06, 2022 17:45 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIs It Time to Change Course in Your Custody Case? - Episode 220 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. Yet, we often see people make this mistake in their Court case. If you aren’t getting the result...
Understanding the Motion/Request for Order Process
Divorce University Online - November 30, 2022 00:11 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsUnderstanding the Motion/Request for Order Process - Episode 219 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this episode, we talk through the court process for motions, also known as a Request for Order (RFO). We’ll cover the logistical aspect of filing the motion, how to determine your argume...
Are You a Perfectionist in Your Child Custody Case?
Divorce University Online - November 22, 2022 01:20 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAre You a Perfectionist in Your Child Custody Case? – Episode 218 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Most parents want what is best for their children, although we have different ideas about what is best. Many times in our quest for the perfect outcome for our children, we lose sight of t...
Knowledge vs. Wisdom in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - November 15, 2022 18:50 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsKnowledge vs. Wisdom in Child Custody – Episode 217 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Attorneys obviously have lots of knowledge of the law, however, that doesn’t necessarily mean they have wisdom. And most people going through a divorce, don’t have the wisdom they would normally have ab...
Disciplining Your Child Won’t Hurt Your Custody Case
Divorce University Online - November 08, 2022 22:13 - 36 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDisciplining Your Child Won’t Hurt Your Custody Case – Episode 216 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Parents frequently ask us about discipline techniques and how they should or should not discipline their children during custody cases. We all secretly want our children to like us better...
Standing Your Ground in Child Custody Cases
Divorce University Online - November 02, 2022 01:43 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsStanding Your Ground in Child Custody Cases – Episode 215 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Often in child custody cases, we see one parent who is sick and tired of the other parent’s crap! Can you relate? But being overly inflexible can also increase conflict and cause you to look uncoo...
Start Creating
Divorce University Online - October 25, 2022 22:05 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsStart Creating – Episode 214 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Last week, we focused on how to stop negative thoughts. However, once you’ve accomplished stopping the negative thoughts, how do you move forward into creating the life you want? How do you make a permanent shift in your mind...
Stop Imagining
Divorce University Online - October 18, 2022 09:30 - 34 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsStop Imagining – Episode 213 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Are you constantly worried about “what if”? What if I lose custody? What if the Court gets it wrong? What if I don’t have enough money to cover my bills? Many divorcing people are plagued by “what if” simply because divorce i...
Everybody Hates Me
Divorce University Online - October 11, 2022 16:57 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsEverybody Hates Me – Episode 212 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many times people are in a terrible state of mind in the beginning of their divorce or child custody case. That can lead to some equally terrible behavior. If you make this mistake, it can start to feel like everybody hat...
Every Problem Has a Solution
Divorce University Online - October 04, 2022 20:55 - 38 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsEvery Problem Has a Solution – Episode 211 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In divorce or child custody issues, much of the discussion centers on who is to blame for various problems. To solve problems, we need solutions, not blame. In this episode we talk about how to reframe your thin...
Marital Hatred
Divorce University Online - September 27, 2022 21:03 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsMarital Hatred – Episode 210 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In this episode, we discuss the concept of “Marital Hatred”, a term coined by a therapist named Terrence Real. According to Real, there is a certain amount of hatred for your spouse that is normal in a marriage. But as many o...
Related Californiadivorce Topics