Latest Californiachildcustody Podcast Episodes
Narcissists Never Change
Divorce University Online - November 22, 2023 00:05 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNarcissists Never Change – Episode 267 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we deal with high-conflict personalities, we frequently think that if we choose the right words or the right logic to deal with them that it will change their behavior. Or, we hope that as they mature and learn...
Reducing Conflict With A Narcissist
Divorce University Online - November 15, 2023 01:05 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsReducing Conflict With A Narcissist – Episode 266 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Reducing conflict is difficult to do with a co-parent but it becomes even more difficult when you are dealing with someone who has a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. In this episode, I’m going...
Why Did You Choose A Narcissist?
Divorce University Online - November 08, 2023 23:27 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhy Did You Choose A Narcissist? – Episode 265 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding why you chose a narcissistic partner is the key to not repeating the mistake! We are often looking to the other person to validate us, to shore up our insecurities or to make us feel better abo...
When Your Narcissistic Ex Lies In Court
Divorce University Online - November 01, 2023 15:23 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen Your Narcissistic Ex Lies In Court – Episode 264 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Lies from the ex is without a doubt the most common complaint we hear from clients during the court process. Why does this happen and is there anything you can do about it? The solutions are often cou...
Understanding Discovery – Interrogatories, Subpoenas, Documents
Divorce University Online - October 24, 2023 09:30 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsUnderstanding Discovery – Interrogatories, Subpoenas, Documents – Episode 263 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Discovery is one of the most complex issues to understand in any divorce or child custody case. What is it? How do you respond to it? I’ll help shed some light on this topic so...
An Attorney for the Child in Custody Cases
Divorce University Online - October 18, 2023 00:33 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAn Attorney for the Child in Custody Cases – Episode 262 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. In child custody cases, the child will sometimes be assigned their own attorney. The attorney is called different things in different states but your biggest questions have less to do with the name...
Defending Yourself Against Your Co-Parent
Divorce University Online - October 10, 2023 22:11 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDefending Yourself Against Your Co-Parent – Episode 261 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you live in defense mode and constantly wonder what you’re co-parent is trying to pull next? Or maybe you have constant stress and anxiety from dealing with them. Or you get that knot in the pit ...
4 Tips for Negotiating With A Narcissist
Divorce University Online - October 03, 2023 17:36 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings4 Tips for Negotiating With A Narcissist – Episode 260 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Negotiating with your ex is always tough but all the more when you are dealing with a high-conflict personality like a narcissist. There are always extra rules of “dos” and “don’ts” in these high con...
Child Custody Trials
Divorce University Online - September 26, 2023 19:25 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChild Custody Trials – Episode 259 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Having a court trial on any aspect of your case is stressful but child custody tends to produce lots of anxiety because it impacts your children. This episode is going to give you a big picture view of what to expect fr...
3 Ways to Get More Parenting Time
Divorce University Online - September 20, 2023 01:17 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Ways to Get More Parenting Time – Episode 258 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you want to get more parenting time with your kids, you have to start by understanding what the Court wants from you. If you aren’t doing your part, you most likely won’t succeed in getting more time. In...
Your Co-Parenting Campaign Strategy
Divorce University Online - September 13, 2023 04:54 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYour Co-Parenting Campaign Strategy – Episode 257 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. So often we are looking for the one trick or shortcut that will solve our problem. But if life was as easy as one trick or one shortcut, everyone would have success in every aspect of their lives. Each ar...
When You Resent Your Co-Parent
Divorce University Online - September 06, 2023 04:56 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen You Resent Your Co-Parent – Episode 256 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you feel like you are doing everything to try and help your co-parent in order to make things better for your child? If so, I’m guessing your co-parent isn’t exactly grateful for your help. These types of s...
Co-Parenting with a Narcissist is Exhausting
Divorce University Online - August 30, 2023 09:30 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCo-Parenting with a Narcissist is Exhausting – Episode 255 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Is your narcissistic co-parent controlling your life? Do you feel constantly exhausted and emotionally drained? Many parents feel this way when they are dealing with a narcissistic co-parent. It ...
9 Rules of the Child Custody Game
Divorce University Online - August 23, 2023 03:13 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings9 Rules of the Child Custody Game – Episode 254 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Could you win a game if you didn’t know the rules? Probably not unless it was sheer luck. Yet, people frequently head into child custody court without being educated on how the process works. And while cust...
You Can’t Afford to Screw It Up
Divorce University Online - August 16, 2023 01:06 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYou Can’t Afford to Screw It Up – Episode 253 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When is the best time to have a map? Before you enter the woods. And yet, I am contacted by people every day that have gotten a outcome in Court that they are unhappy with and now want to know how to fix it. ...
Is Your Co-Parenting Causing Stress For Your Child?
Divorce University Online - August 09, 2023 01:18 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIs Your Co-Parenting Causing Stress For Your Child? – Episode 252 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many times parents unintentionally put their children in the middle in their co-parenting relationship. It’s easy to consider things from your own viewpoint and make parenting decisions th...
5 Secrets to Influence Your Judge
Divorce University Online - August 01, 2023 09:30 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings5 Secrets to Influence Your Judge – Episode 251 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Influencing your Judge is one of the most important skills you can learn for your court case. In order to have the strongest influence possible you have to understand how your Judge views the case, what inf...
The Struggle is Real in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - July 25, 2023 19:43 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Struggle is Real in Child Custody – Episode 250 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you are struggle with child custody and co-parenting issues, it can be exhausting. When your children are young and living at home, parenting them is central to your life. So, when this core piece ...
Trapping the Narcissist in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - July 18, 2023 19:09 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTrapping the Narcissist in Child Custody – Episode 249 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The first thing most clients say once they see a court document from their ex is “this is full of lies”. How can you expose the lies without looking like you are crazy or being in attack mode against...
5 Mistakes that Will Hurt Your Child Custody Case
Divorce University Online - July 11, 2023 23:28 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings5 Mistakes that Will Hurt Your Child Custody Case – Episode 248 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you make mistakes that hurt your court case, you end up with an uphill battle in trying to recover. The best time to have a map is before you enter the forest. Likewise, the best time t...
Anxiety and Stress in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - July 04, 2023 20:48 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsAnxiety and Stress in Child Custody – Episode 247 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Anxiety and stress are two of the most common complaints I hear from co-parents dealing with a high-conflict ex. The day-to-day interaction with a difficult co-parent can leave you feeling exhausted and d...
Getting the Upper Hand in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - June 27, 2023 16:28 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsGetting the Upper Hand in Child Custody – Episode 246 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Do you feel like your co-parent has had the “emotional upper hand” through your entire relationship? And now that dynamic has continued throughout your co-parenting even though you are no longer in a ...
What is a Child Custody Evaluation
Divorce University Online - June 21, 2023 01:39 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat is a Child Custody Evaluation – Episode 245 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. What is child custody evaluation? A custody evaluation can be one of the most nerve wracking experiences of any child custody case. Many parents have no idea what to expect or how to succeed in this arena....
Child Custody is a Mental Game
Divorce University Online - June 13, 2023 09:15 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChild Custody is a Mental Game – Episode 244 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. What is an attorney’s biggest fear? And when they handle a case, what weapons do they use to help them prepare for the mental warfare of Court? As the client or a self-represented party, what are the strongest...
Perspective with Thomas’ Ex Wife
Divorce University Online - June 06, 2023 16:04 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsPerspective with Thomas’ Ex Wife – Episode 243 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m joined by Special Guest, Emillie, who is Thomas’ Ex Wife. We discussed the history of her divorce and subsequent co-parenting with Thomas and me over the past 17 years. Sometimes, when you’re h...
Pulling Your Fat Out of the Fire
Divorce University Online - May 31, 2023 18:08 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsPulling Your Fat Out of the Fire – Episode 242 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you hit a peak of frustration in your divorce or child custody case, you may decide it’s time to retain an attorney or file a motion with the Court to help you resolve the issues. But, what if there wer...
Grief Is A Process
Divorce University Online - May 24, 2023 22:27 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTammy (Child Custody Coach) shares her experience and insights gained from her own divorce and subsequent step family. She also worked alongside her late husband, Attorney Thomas D. Ferreira, for over 15 years as a paralegal and mediator before beginning her child custody coaching practice in 201...
A Love Story
Divorce University Online - May 17, 2023 01:20 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsA Love Story – Episode 240 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. This week I’m sharing a bit about mine and Thomas’ personal life. I’ll share a couple of funny stories from our early days and talk about he progression of our life and our business. Even when life seems hard and unfair, there ...
The Tragic Ending
Divorce University Online - May 09, 2023 23:20 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Tragic Ending – Episode 239 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Life is nothing if not constant change. This episode is our most personal yet. On May 1, 2023 the world lost the most beautiful soul known as Thomas D. Ferreira. Join me (Tammy) for my first solo episode. The pain is raw a...
REPLAY: Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation?
Divorce University Online - May 02, 2023 19:22 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsREPLAY: Are You Ready For Your Court-Sponsored Child Custody Mediation? - In Episode 91, of the Divorce University Online Podcast, we talk about child custody mediation that is conducted by the Court, not a private mediator. Whether your Court system keeps the mediation private or has the med...
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