Latest Californiachildcustody Podcast Episodes
Trust the Process
Divorce University Online - July 03, 2024 23:54 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsTrust the Process – Episode 297 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Trusting the process can be very difficult, especially when you have a negative outcome in your first interaction with the Court. Many times, our own emotional patterns work against us in trusting the process. There are re...
Expectations vs Reality in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - June 27, 2024 20:15 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsExpectations vs Reality in Child Custody – Episode 296 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are dealing with child custody issues, we have expectations of our children, our co-parent and most of all the Court. But when our expectations don’t match reality, we end up feeling all kind...
Finding a Narcissist’s Kryptonite
Divorce University Online - June 18, 2024 22:50 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsFinding a Narcissist’s Kryptonite – Episode 295 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Dealing with a narcissist is all about regaining the emotional power. There are ways that you can do this, even if it feels impossible. In this episode, I’ll give you my top three tips to accomplish this an...
What You Say vs What You Do
Divorce University Online - June 11, 2024 16:38 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat You Say vs What You Do – Episode 294 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Are you consistent? Consistency creates credibility with the Court. Often, we recognize inconsistency in our ex, the Courts, or other professionals but it’s easy to miss your own inconsistent behavior. When the C...
The Power of Doing Nothing
Divorce University Online - June 04, 2024 16:42 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Power of Doing Nothing – Episode 293 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Have you ever heard the analogy of how turning the nose on an airplane, even as little as one degree, before takeoff can land the plan in a completely different destination hundreds of miles away? Well, the same i...
Early Decisions Are the Most Impactful
Divorce University Online - May 30, 2024 16:13 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsEarly Decisions Are the Most Impactful – Episode 292 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Have you ever heard the analogy of how turning the nose on an airplane, even as little as one degree, before takeoff can land the plan in a completely different destination hundreds of miles away? Well...
Your Life is a Story
Divorce University Online - May 23, 2024 01:34 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsYour Life is a Story – Episode 291 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We don’t realize on a daily basis that we are writing the words, paragraphs, pages, and chapters of our life story. The struggles and trials become so consuming that we lose sight of the big picture. What lessons are yo...
When Child Custody Feels Overwhelming
Divorce University Online - May 14, 2024 16:53 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhen Child Custody Feels Overwhelming – Episode 290 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. The issues in child custody are not great in number, but great in detail. Many small decisions are needed to resolve the overall problems. It’s like being pecked to death by chickens! So, what do you ne...
Creating Child Custody Magnets
Divorce University Online - May 08, 2024 04:33 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsCreating Child Custody Magnets – Episode 289 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the challenges separating parents face is creating two worlds for their children. Many times, parents feel it’s best to leave the children in the family home and not force them to transition between hom...
It Won’t Always Be This Way
Divorce University Online - April 23, 2024 23:12 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsIt Won’t Always Be This Way – Episode 288 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We tend to feel like our day-to-day life is static and that whatever we are going through will last forever. However, life is contact change. So, if you’re in a rough season or trial, the good news is that it won...
Exchanging the Children
Divorce University Online - April 18, 2024 03:00 - 30 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsExchanging the Children – Episode 287 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Even though exchanges of children generally happen one to three times per week depending on your parenting schedule, we rarely seem to talk about how to have them go smoothly. These exchanges are obviously stressful ...
The Nature of the Narcissist
Divorce University Online - April 10, 2024 02:38 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Nature of the Narcissist – Episode 286 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Understanding the nature of the narcissist is one of the keys to managing them effectively. Narcissists do not see the world the same way a non-narcissist sees the world. Our values and morals don’t typically ma...
3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case
Divorce University Online - April 05, 2024 20:45 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Tips for Testifying in Your Child Custody Case – Episode 285 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Giving testimony on the witness stand is one of the most stressful parts of a divorce or child custody case. But there are strategies you can use to help you stay calm and make a good impress...
Change of Circumstances in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 27, 2024 04:14 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsChange of Circumstances in Child Custody – Episode 284 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. How do you know if your child custody situation has a material or substantial change of circumstances? What are Judges looking for? In this episode, I’ll share some stories on past cases and talk abo...
Do Judges Understand Narcissism?
Divorce University Online - March 20, 2024 00:16 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDo Judges Understand Narcissism? – Episode 283 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When you are dealing with a narcissistic or high conflict ex, it can be frustrating to try and get the Court to understand that your ex is a narcissist. If we could just get the Judge to understand what we’r...
False Allegations In Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 13, 2024 03:58 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsFalse Allegations In Child Custody – Episode 282 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many parents deal with false allegations from the other parent. This can come in many forms. Sometimes, it comes through the child, sometimes we are dealing with it in our communication with the other pare...
Overthinking In Child Custody
Divorce University Online - March 05, 2024 17:22 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsOverthinking In Child Custody - Episode 281 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. If you are an overthinker like me, then you probably analyze everything your co-parent does or says. And you’re always trying to figure out their agenda. Overthinking would seem to give you a logical advantage ...
Narcissists vs. Empaths
Divorce University Online - February 28, 2024 23:41 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNarcissists vs. Empaths - Episode 280 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. It is very common for a person that is an empath to end up in a relationship with someone with narcissistic qualities. The two people have often experienced similar childhood traumas but the effects of the trauma man...
Nesting in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - February 22, 2024 00:05 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsNesting in Child Custody - Episode 279 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Nesting is a parenting arrangement where the children remain in the home and the parents rotate in and out. This is an uncommon arrangement and is rarely used by the Court. However, it can be necessary for financial...
What Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common
Divorce University Online - February 14, 2024 00:39 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Toddlers and Narcissists Have In Common - Episode 278 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Many of the behaviors we experience with our toddlers are reflected in similar behaviors from narcissists. And while we expect bad behavior from our toddler, it’s not so cute once a person reache...
Why Narcissists Win In Court
Divorce University Online - February 07, 2024 17:09 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhy Narcissists Win In Court - Episode 277 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Court can be a scary process when we are afraid that our ex will be able to charm and manipulate to get their way. And the Court does have limited time and resources to try and figure out what is going on in you...
Have I Screwed Up My Case
Divorce University Online - January 30, 2024 23:42 - 25 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsHave I Screwed Up My Case - Episode 276 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We are all human. And when you’re going through a divorce or child custody case, you are a human under immense amount of stress. Unfortunately, we sometimes make mistakes that us feel like we’ve screwed up the enti...
The Calm Before the Child Custody Storm
Divorce University Online - January 24, 2024 02:29 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsThe Calm Before the Child Custody Storm - Episode 275 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When dealing with a high-conflict co-parent, we often see cyclical patterns of behavior and emotions. So, when things are really calm or quiet, we are sometimes waiting for the other shoe to drop, so ...
Breaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody
Divorce University Online - January 17, 2024 01:07 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBreaking Toxic Patterns in Child Custody - Episode 274 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. We usually think of toxic patterns in the context of romantic relationships. When a relationship ends and there are children involved, we often see the toxic patterns of behavior continue through the...
Weathering the Seasons of Child Custody
Divorce University Online - January 10, 2024 00:12 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWeathering the Seasons of Child Custody - Episode 273 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are struggling in our child custody and co-parenting situation, it often feels like the struggle will go on forever. But the only thing in life that is constant is change. And, like everything...
Breaking Up With Narcissism
Divorce University Online - January 04, 2024 17:16 - 29 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsBreaking Up With Narcissism - Episode 272 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. When we are in a relationship with a Narcissist, we actually become addicted to this type of toxic relationship. Our body goes through chemical changes that are similar to addicts. In this episode, I’ll talk abou...
Does Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work?
Divorce University Online - December 20, 2023 05:32 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsDoes Grey Rocking a Narcissist Really Work? - Episode 271 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. “Grey Rock” is a common technique for handling a narcissist. This technique has a lot of useful points such as disengaging, minimizing contact, and not reacting. However, the Court wants you to co...
Presenting Evidence in Child Custody Court
Divorce University Online - December 14, 2023 22:58 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsPresenting Evidence in Child Custody Court - Episode 270 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. One of the most effective ways to present your evidence in Court is by telling the “story” of your case. Most people mistake this for lots of details and background but as they say, less is more. Y...
3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court
Divorce University Online - December 05, 2023 21:29 - 31 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratings3 Tips for Success in Child Custody Court - Episode 269 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Almost everyone is nervous when speaking in Court, even attorneys. Whether you’re representing yourself or you have an attorney, it’s important to take steps to help you feel comfortable in the cour...
What Is Your Biggest Failure?
Divorce University Online - November 28, 2023 22:58 - 26 minutes ★★★★★ - 31 ratingsWhat Is Your Biggest Failure? - Episode 268 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Failures in life happen to everyone and they can teach us some of our greatest life lessons. If you feel like you failed in your relationship, in your co-parenting, or even in your parenting, this episode is fo...
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