Latest Betrayaltrauma Podcast Episodes

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Ep. 36- Q&A #4- Check-ins

Rise Up Restored - July 16, 2021 20:56 - 36 minutes
Members of the podcast team, Becky, Autumn, and Tiffany sit down together to talk about Check-ins and answer anonymous questions.  They share their insights on what check-ins are, ways to check-in, learning to speak up for yourself, & trusting your gut.  They discuss the importance of vulnerabil...

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Ep. 35- Dating with Betrayal Trauma

Rise Up Restored - June 29, 2021 23:16 - 1 hour
Becky and Tiffany sit down with special guests, Ali and Anarie, to share their thoughts on dating with betrayal trauma. They discuss how to prepare to date, and agree that it’s helpful to learn to be okay with being alone and not using dating in an attempt to fill a void. Although it can be diff...

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Ep. 34- Hunter's Story

Rise Up Restored - June 14, 2021 17:12 - 33 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Tiffany’s son, Hunter. Hunter shares how engaging in therapy and extracurricular activities has helped him move through his experiences with his father living in addiction and mother in betrayal trauma. Realizing he’s being greatly affected by things that aren’t h...

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Ep. 34- Hunter's Story- Son

Rise Up Restored - June 14, 2021 17:12 - 33 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Tiffany’s son, Hunter. Hunter shares how engaging in therapy and extracurricular activities has helped him move through his experiences with his father living in addiction and mother in betrayal trauma. Realizing he’s being greatly affected by things that aren’t h...

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Ep. 33- Disclosure and Polygraphs with Dan Drake, LMFT, LPCC, CSAT-S, CCPS-S

Rise Up Restored - June 01, 2021 03:50 - 1 hour
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Dan Drake, licensed clinician, CSAT-S, and CCPS-S, to talk about Disclosure and Polygraphs.  Dan believes that empowerment of the partner, honesty, and trust are foundational for the healing and recovery of both partner and addict.  Through the use of full therape...

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Ep. 32- TC's Story

Rise Up Restored - May 14, 2021 23:47 - 59 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with TC to share her story. Married for twenty years, with 3 teens, TC and her husband are currently serving as coordinators for their area for the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints Addiction Recovery Program.  Her struggle with an eating disorder and her hus...

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Ep. 31- Sexuality and Pleasure with Jessica Holfeltz, LCMHC & Sex Therapist

Rise Up Restored - May 01, 2021 03:02 - 40 minutes
Becky, Autumn and Tiffany welcome back Jessica Holfeltz, LCMHC and Sex Therapist, to talk about pleasure and sexuality. Jessica shares that each of us has the right to feel pleasure, experience it, express it, ask for it. In order to address the stigma surrounding pleasure, we need to talk about...

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Ep. 30- Intro to Healthy Sexuality with Jessica Holfeltz, LCMHC & Sex Therapist

Rise Up Restored - April 16, 2021 18:19 - 50 minutes
Becky, Autumn and Tiffany sit down with Jessica Holfeltz, LCMHC and Sex Therapist, to talk about Healthy Sexuality.  Jessica says that one of her career passions is teaching the importance of sexual health, sexuality, and connection.  She shares and discusses the 6 foundational principles of hea...

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Ep. 29- Heidi's Story

Rise Up Restored - March 31, 2021 18:32 - 47 minutes
Becky and Autumn sit down with Heidi to share her story.  Heidi shares how she has experienced restoration and healing through Christ amidst betrayal trauma. She is a divorced mom of three and discusses how isolated and alone she felt due to her now-ex-husband’s behaviors surrounding pornography...

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Ep. 28- The Power of Music with Megan Ronnow, Music Therapist

Rise Up Restored - March 10, 2021 21:18 - 43 minutes
Becky and Autumn sit down with music therapist, Megan Ronnow. Megan shares how music therapy can help us change our behaviors as well as heal the body and mind. Megan describes how music therapy is helpful in easing anxiety, managing pain, and increasing mindfulness. It enhances quality of life ...

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Ep. 27- Ali's Story

Rise Up Restored - February 25, 2021 23:17 - 48 minutes
Becky and Autumn sit down with Ali to share her story. A lover of going to concerts and doing yardwork, Ali shares how her relationship with the Lord has been strengthened during her journey through betrayal trauma and her divorce. She talks about how, after learning of her husband’s sex addicti...

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Ep.26- Anonymous Q&A #3- Surrender and Love

Rise Up Restored - February 13, 2021 21:59 - 31 minutes
Members of the podcast team, Becky, Tiffany, and Autumn sit down together to answer anonymous questions from listeners. They share their insights on the difference between surrender and “giving up” and their thoughts when the loved one is working recovery, but you no longer feel love.  They fini...

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Ep. 25- Karen's Story

Rise Up Restored - January 31, 2021 03:05 - 50 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Karen to share her story.  Karen helped in the development of the Healing Through Christ 12-Step program, is a mom of five and grandmother of seventeen.  She shares how her relationship with the Savior has been strengthened during her journey through betrayal trau...

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Ep. 24- Anarie's Story

Rise Up Restored - January 15, 2021 23:29 - 55 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Anarie to share her story.  Anarie shares how her relationship with God has been strengthened during her journey through betrayal trauma and divorce. She talks about how she internalized the shame and damaging beliefs that are common with women who have been betra...

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Ep. 23- New Year's Toolkit

Rise Up Restored - December 30, 2020 19:56 - 25 minutes
Becky, Tiffany, and Autumn come together to share their toolkits for transitioning into the new year.  Tiffany shares how she actively recognizes, shows gratitude for, and closes the previous year and how she welcomes in the new year.  Autumn shares a form her family fills out individually each ...

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Ep. 22- Meditation and Betrayal Trauma, Ryan Raleigh LCMHC

Rise Up Restored - December 16, 2020 00:05 - 48 minutes
Becky and Autumn sit down with Ryan Raleigh, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor. Ryan shares his personal and professional journey and insights about meditation.  He describes meditation as the process of “looking inward” at your body sensations, thoughts, images floating by, and what is ...

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Ep. 21- Holiday Q&A

Rise Up Restored - November 24, 2020 00:01 - 35 minutes
It’s our Holiday Questions and Answers 2020 podcast!  Members of the podcast team, Becky, Tiffany, and Autumn gather together virtually to answer anonymous questions from listeners. They share their individual thoughts and insights on navigating common holiday triggers, providing good holidays f...

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Ep. 20- Becky's Story Revisited

Rise Up Restored - November 17, 2020 20:33 - 52 minutes
Co-host Tiffany and special guest co-host, Beckie Hennessy, sit down with Becky, host of the Rise up Restored podcast, to revisit her story. Becky grew up in a very religious home where she tried hard to check all the boxes. She began dating her husband in high school, and he was upfront about h...

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Ep. 19- Kristi's Story

Rise Up Restored - October 30, 2020 23:28 - 51 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with mother of three, Kristi. After growing in her faith in her teens, she was assaulted in college. Due to this tragedy, she felt her subsequent marriage problems were her fault. After fifteen years of marriage, they divorced, and that’s when Kristi finally learned of...

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Ep. 18- Q&A with Beckie Hennessy- Therapists and coaches, Full therapeutic disclosure, and Working with clergy

Rise Up Restored - October 17, 2020 00:47 - 52 minutes
Hosts Becky and Tiffany sit down with Beckie Hennessy, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, for a Q&A session. They share their individual thoughts and insights on understanding the differences between a therapist and a coach, as well as information on full therapeutic disclosures. They finish by sh...

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Ep. 17- Amy P's Story

Rise Up Restored - October 02, 2020 23:52 - 59 minutes
Becky and Autumn sit down with Amy P. to share her story. A wife, mother, and grandmother, Amy shares she had a close connection to God growing up. She feels blessed to be able to love others and feels this gift has helped her through the hardships she has experienced. Amy shares that for over t...

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Ep. 16- Anonymous Q&A #2- Reasons vs Excuses, How to "Be There" for Loved One, & Favorite "Out-of-the-box" Resources

Rise Up Restored - September 14, 2020 21:01 - 40 minutes
Members of the podcast team, Becky, Tiffany, and Autumn, sit down together to answer anonymous questions from listeners. They share their individual thoughts and insights on how to make peace with the addict’s feelings of abandonment and the common use of excuses in recovery.  They continue by t...

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Ep. #15- Amy R's Story

Rise Up Restored - August 29, 2020 20:07 - 50 minutes
Becky and Kristy sit down with Amy R. who discusses how she discovered two-and-a-half years ago that her husband of eighteen years was struggling with pornography use. She describes her state of shock and the symptoms of betrayal trauma she experienced. Although her husband confessed everything ...

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Ep. 14- Yoga and Healing with Sariah Hoffman, Yoga Therapist

Rise Up Restored - August 08, 2020 22:23 - 59 minutes
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Sariah Hoffman, a yoga therapist in Lehi, Utah. Sariah shares how her work in helping those suffering from betrayal trauma has changed her life. As someone who suffered from betrayal trauma, she learned years ago that the definition of yoga is the cessation of the...

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Ep. #13- Abby's Story

Rise Up Restored - July 23, 2020 21:53 - 1 hour
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Abby to share her story. A mom of three, Abby discusses how even though her husband was upfront about his problem with pornography before they got married, she was unprepared for the difficulties that would come. During the first several years of their marriage, s...

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Ep. 12- Katy's Story

Rise Up Restored - July 07, 2020 05:19 - 1 hour
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Katy as she shares her journey of healing.  Katy talks about having a solid foundation of faith from her parents.  She talks about learning of her fiancé’s pornography problem during their engagement but thinking it was in the past.  As the stress of finances and ...

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Ep. 11- Jeni's Story

Rise Up Restored - June 18, 2020 00:49 - 1 hour
Becky and Autumn sit down with Jeni to share her story. A mom of six children, Jeni discusses her twenty year marriage to a sex addict. As a newlywed, when she initially discovered her husband’s issues, she thought it would be a quick fix—that he just needed to go to the bishop and not do those ...

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Ep. 10- Roxanne's Story

Rise Up Restored - June 04, 2020 01:36 - 1 hour
Becky and Tiffany sit down with Roxanne to share her story. Roxanne discusses her twenty-one year marriage to a sex addict. She shares how in the beginning, she believed she and her husband had “the best marriage.” But when she found porn on his computer for the first time just six months into t...

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Ep. 9- Anonymous Q&A #1

Rise Up Restored - May 14, 2020 04:34 - 54 minutes
Team members Tiffany, Autumn, and Becky sit down to answer anonymous questions from listeners.  They share their individual insights into: “Where do I start in all of this?  How do I start finding healing and peace?”, “What is self-care and why do I need it?”, and end with an important discussio...

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Ep. 8- Rhyll's Story

Rise Up Restored - April 30, 2020 02:01 - 1 hour
Becky and Autumn visit with Rhyll Croshaw, co-founder of SA Lifeline and SAL 12 Step, and author of What Can I Do About Him Me?  Healing from the Trauma of My Husband’s Pornography and Sexual Addiction. She is a popular speaker on the subject of recovery and healing from the effects of pornograp...

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