It might come as a surprise to wonder about what our relationship is dedicated to, but this important step makes all the difference in how things will proceed. For many a relationship is a shelter to hide from the world in. For others it is a delicious meal, there to fill them up and make them happy.  When they become tired of the food, or can no longer digest it, the relationship ends. There are those who seek relationships in order to feel valuable, for status, position, or a role to play in life. Inherent in the way you see your relationships is the difficulty you will encounter, and the road it will take.  However, there is another way to view and dedicate a relationship. We can dedicate it to growth,  aliveness, kindness, the ability to let go of our defensiveness, to give and receive  connection and ultimately experience the exquisite  taste of the true love and Oneness we all are.